“Separate the art from the artist” is what you say when you still find joy in art that was created by a person who has done something harmful, but their art isn’t directly tied to their actions as a person, so you find ways to privately enjoy it without directly supporting them. It is not something you say to make yourself feel better about directly financially supporting a person who admitted to physical domestic abuse (which is an actual literal crime that people go to jail for, not some kind of petty internet discourse that a notes app apology can fix) just because you can’t stand to let go of your favorite mediocre white boy.
A streamer is not the kind of artist you can separate from the art. Music is another thing but if you’re able to listen to a man sing about being a toxic partner while knowing what he’s done you may need to spend some time unpacking that. And if you’re one of the people who found comfort in using his content as a form of escapism before you knew about all of this, I’m sorry and I know this must be hard to come to terms with but that’s something you need to deal with in private and it’s not an excuse to continue giving a platform to an abuser.
Always believe victims and go support Shelby! She’s been my favorite Minecraft content creator for years and she’s amazing at what she does! Her YouTube and streaming content is great and I’m also a big fan of her work on Kollok 1991 and The Unleashed, which are TTRPG shows if that’s something you’re into! Kollok is a lot more gritty and definitely not PG (think Stranger Things but with more of a horror element) and the Unleashed is like a comic-book super heroes series that’s a little more similar vibes to her usual content. (Featuring an all LGBTQ+ cast and GMed by Aabria Iyengar!) The Unleashed is pretty short for a TTRPG series and a great place to start if you’ve never seen that kind of thing before!
i was talking to my therapist last week about how i'm kinda excited but also equally apprehensive about starting grad school this fall because yes, i so so desperately needed a gap year otherwise i think i literally would have killed myself and/or had a breakdown big enough to land me in the hospital, and even beyond that i just needed to figure out a more concrete plan of what i'm going to do with my life in general -- while all of that is true, and i'm glad i took the gap year for it, i'm also apprehensive because i genuinely feel like an entirely different person than i was even at this exact point in time last year, nevermind anything earlier than that. it's only been a single year of me being out of school but my life has changed so dramatically, mostly for the better, and my whole personality has flipped on its head, it's just going to be so fucking weird going back to the same school, the same campus, potentially seeing my old friends around. augh
Someone has leukemia (blood cancer) and is struggling w/ family from financial problems and would like you to support their Kofi to help
Please I am just spreading the word they need your help!! If you can't support their ko-fi spread the word‼️‼️ Copy link to the kofi please‼️ It doesn't take long
So I had a small mental breakdown while listening to this in the car. I wasn't sure why I started cry-laughing the lyrics (in my false vocal-cord voice), but I did. I think it's cause if you listen to the words, it describes (at least for me) the life you live and the exhaustion of having a chronic illnesses and disabilities, with the whole happy toon going in the background, while also having nothing to do with anything medical. The song doesn't single out any medical issues, it's just a song, and I like that.
Anyway, I just wanted to recommend it for my fellow POTS, EDS, VCD, migraine, chronicly ill, disabled people.
Tear up some paper (remember to recycle it later).
Have an imaginary conversation (you can do it in front of a mirror if you prefer) where you say ALL of the angry things you desire to say, no matter how bad you think they are.
(non verbal version of the point 2) Write a letter with all those angry things you wanna say/scream etc...and then destroy it (back to point 1 lol).
Scribble on some paper and stab that motherfucker piece of paper.
If you can't do this at home, and you have a car...park somewhere with no people around (lock the doors - safety first), turn up the volume and sing LOUD to your favorite angry song.
...Or just scream at the top of your lungs.
Blast some angry music in your room and trash around, no need to dance or make it look nice. Just move as you feel like it.
(I LOVE THIS ONE) So: take a pillow, choose a corner or a room entrance in your house, and now think of your pillow as an axe and the corner as a tree...(or capitalism/patriarchy...) and now chop chop chop!!!
Beat up your bed with...something that won't break, even the pillow is ok (stay safe please)
(Also...I need to update my angry playlist so if you have some tips, I'm a ...rock/metal type of...pokémon lol)
it's kind of like amazing what being properly medicated and like leaving ur house and doing things with other people and like being a part of ur community can do for ur mental health.....
This is my final part of the post from earlier. It’ll be pinned to my account b/c I want people to realize just how many BEAUTIFUL SOULS have been taken too soon due to Mental Illnesses.
Coming from someone who almost was on a list like this, all I could do was cry when I seen this. In every photo you see: there’s a family’s loved one, a brother, a sister, a mother, a grandchild, but more importantly: someone who struggled w/ their Mental Health. I don’t know the stories behind each of these individuals, but I know for certain that w/ every life that is taken a family wishes they could have done something different or tried sooner to help out their loved one.
I was at my limits in 2018, I genuinely thought I didn’t have a reason for being on this Earth, I felt like my whole life was a joke. My own dad had walked out on his children, wife, and we were left to rot in the home that held all the trauma and abuse from my childhood. At the time I didn’t see a light at the end of my tunnel, and I just wanted to stop hurting and be at peace.
But something pulled me out of that abyss I was in, and told me that ending things early wasn’t the right route; this wasn’t part of my story. That there’s more to my life than this obstacle that was present at the time. I found the inner strength to go to therapy, and now I am a year / year and a half away from graduating with my RN. Nursing School has been the biggest blessing life & God could have ever bestowed upon me, because now I get the opportunity to help those who are in need. I get to do what I felt has been my reason for existing on this planet.
As long as I am alive, breathing, and existing in this world - I refuse to sit back and watch anyone hurt or feel alone. I may not reach everyone in this population ALL AT ONCE, but I will devote my time to anyone that is willing to give me a chance to speak w/ them and tell my story.
If you read all of this, seen the final video, and understood the message: thank you for taking your time to listen/read.
Always Keep Fighting.
Never Give Up.
Mental Health Matters.
Tell someone you care for that you love them today. 🖤
Living with imposter syndrome is like constantly feeling like a fraud in your own skin. It's a constant nagging voice that tells you that you're not good enough, that you don't belong and that you will be exposed as a fraud.
I remember the first time I shared my work online, I felt like I didn't belong and that my art wasn't good enough. But that feeling never really went away. It's been with me through every new project, every performance, and every time someone compliments my work.
It's not just my art, it's everything. I doubt my abilities in every aspect of my life. It's been hard, it's affected my relationships, my work, everything. I've been afraid to share my work, to take on new projects, because I was convinced I would fail.
But you know what? I've come to realize that I'm not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people struggle with imposter syndrome. It's not something that can be cured, but it can be managed. I'm learning to be kinder to myself. I remind myself that mistakes are a part of the creative process, and that I'm not alone in feeling this way.
I've also learned to surround myself with people who support me and believe in me. And I try to focus on my accomplishments, rather than my shortcomings. I remind myself of the times when my art has been positively received, and the times when I've overcome obstacles. It's not easy, but it's worth it.
So, if you're reading this and you feel like a fraud, just know that you're not alone. We all feel like that sometimes. But we can learn to manage it, and that's what really matters.
While you wait for the premiere tonight, check out my re-score of the most wildy fucked up and supportive monologue from Jawbone O'Shaughnessey during the finale of season one.
🤗 Reblog this to remind someone to take their meds 🤗
If I could get enough from people I would love you so so so much! I have auditory sensory issues and these would help me so much at home and out in public (I struggle to be in public because too many sounds)
For pride month help this Trans girl get these amazing headphones