#A spectrum

[lovelyshadesofharmony]

Sorry for making your blorbos aspec instead of what's fanon approved.

Trust me, it'll happen again ヽ(*・ω・)ﾉ

#aroace #ace #aro #aromantic #asexual #agender #aplatonic #aspec #ace spectrum #aro spectrum #actually aroace #blorbo #fandom #queer fandom #aspec headcanons #headcanon #actually asexual #actually aromantic #demi #demigender #a spectrum #queer #lgbt #lgbtiqa #diskhorse #exclusionists dni #fanon #aspec representation #I'll make everyone aspec and y'all can't stop me! #٩(◕‿◕)۶

[isobug]

Alternative Mesi Ace and Mesi Aro flags

These take the format of the original Mesi Ace and Mesi Aro flags but uses colors from this Acespec / Asexual Spectrum flag and this Arospec / Aromantic Spectrum flag!

Made as a fun warmup and because I really like the colors of those flags. Free for anyone to use anywhere!

Taglist - @radiomogai, @revenant-coining

#mesi ace #mesi aro #ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aspec #acespec #arospec #asexual spectrum #aromantic spectrum #a spectrum #mogai pride #liom pride #mogai flag #liom flag #mogaisafe #liomsafe #mogai #liom #mogai friendly #liom friendly

[batri-jopa]

I love my life highly satisfied just being myself

(Check the OTHER VERSION too✌️)

#okey so as my 'I love myself' post is the most popular thing on my blog (500 notes already yet still growing and it's wild😆) #I decided to make a male version just in case anybody needed it😉 #anyone having more idea - pls go ahead and tell me I'd love to make it a happy queer series! it doesn't need to be aspec only😉 #aroace #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aromantism #asexuality #aspec #a spec #a spectrum #aroace positivity #aro ace #queer #queer positivity #(I'm most probably only shooting myself in the foot giving two similar pictures but who knows where it may lead) #2K

[snakeskinass]

#asexual #asexuality #aspec community #aspec #aspec stuff #a spec #a spectrum #aroace #aromantic #arospec #aromantism #lgbtq #lgbtqa #lgbtqia #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #lgbtqplus #cupiosexual #demisexual #orchidsexual #garlic bread

[a-confused-teen-venting]

i swear only confused ace or aro people will be analyzing relationships and their attraction to people like its a science investigation.

be aware soon folks cause ill be onces again sharing my sexuality dilemma and will want your opinions soon!

#aromantic #aro #aromantism #aroace #aromanticism #asexual #ace #aspec #a spectrum

[aroacearchangel]

hey who wants to hold hands and play with my hair and be so gentle with me i might shatter into a million pieces

#might delete tomorrow #i am so touch starved #yearning #aro #aroace #aromantic #aromance #aspec #aspec community #aspec stuff #aromanticism #ace #a spectrum #aspec culture #queer yearning #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #aro pride #grey aroace #aro spectrum #arospec #grey aromantic #cupioromantic #touch starved #alterous #alterous attraction #alterous yearning #alterous relationship #queer platonic yearning #queerplatonic

[entropy-sea-system]

ppl who actually include atertiary, aplatonic, afamilial, etc. when you say 'aspec' please reblog this if you are ok with reblogging

#rb bait #reblog bait #aspec #atertiary #sincerely an apothitertiary person who unfortunately has to witness ppl use aspec to only mean ace and aro spectrums all the damn time #aplatonic #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #a #a spectrum #anonrose #afamilial #analterous

[solidwater05]

I'm greyplatonic. I've been greyromantic, too. And I realized that being a grey aspec is lonely

I don't fit in with allos, so I go to aspec spaces, but I don't fit in with aspecs either. When the aro community in general talked about not having crushes, I felt left out as a greyro who had crushes. When the apl community in general talks about not loving their friends, I feel left out as a greyro who, very rarely, loves some of their friends.

So, I'm making this post for all aspecs who feel too aspec for the allos, and too allo for the aspecs. For aspecs who love too much for aspec communities, but not enough for allos.

For all aspecs who feel attraction. For aspecs whose attraction is abundant but weak, rare but very strong, and everything in between.

For all acespecs who have sex and arospecs who date and all other aspecs who engage in activities without attraction.

For all aspecs who worry that their attraction and existence inherently support oppressive social structures.

For all aspecs who have never seen someone else like them. For aspecs who feel invisible.

For aspecs who feel like they don't belong.

I'm making this post for all shades of grey aspecs, no matter how light or dark, to let them know that we belong.

#aspec #a spectrum #aspec positivity #greyplatonic #greysexual #greyromantic #and everything else but idk other tags :( #ice speaks #repetition #positivity #i have few friends. i don't seek out friendships. I'm happy with this #i use 'friend' as a label to describe a relationship (friendship); not to imply any specific feelings #I'm not alloplatonic #but i also love my best friend dearly #I'm not 'completely' aplatonic either

[archivomeow]

POLL FOR ASPECS!!!

** i personally as an asexual don’t, but I feel like my biromantic identity brings me closer to the lgbtqia, the aspec community to me feels like a whole separate community, even though it is not. **

#aromantic #asexual #aplatonic #afamilial #aspec #aspectrum #a spectrum #a spec #aro #ace #aro spec #ace spec #tumblr polls #my polls #lgbtqia #lgbtq

[shk0lstun-flagz]

AlloAce

An Alloromantic Asexual

AroAllo

An Aromantic Allosexual

Symbols

Left AlloAce and Right AroAllo

#alternative flag #pride flag #queer flag #lgbt flags #a spectrum #a spec #aromantic #asexual #aroallo #alloaro #alloace #aceallo #allo allo #alloromantic #allosexual

[lovelyshadesofharmony]

Is amazing how one can make a point about the treatment of certain characters and how that is promoting problematic aspects of fandom like fandom misogyny and erasure of representation and end up ignored, silenced or insulted, yet another person makes that same point, who coincidentally happens to be alloromo, and suddenly everyone is like "yassss. spitting facts. say it louder!" etc etc etc.

I was going to make the joke of "this is because I'm X right?!", but... it isn't really a joke anymore, is it?

This was just another crude awakening of how aspec people are treated and silenced in fandom and how fandom, as a concept, is not really welcoming of us unless you comply to what's accepted/"normalized", and those who can dissent can only be alloromo/allo/romo.

Lesson learned, I guess (눈_눈)

#aro #aroace #aromantic #actually aroace #fandom diskhorse #ace #asexual #aspec #diskhorse #fandom #fanon #fandom discourse #fandom wank #aplatonic #agender #a spectrum #ace spectrum #aro spectrum #aspec experiences #aspec representation #fandom representation #aroace representation #demigender #vent #rant #another rude awakening of how fandom is really hypocrite #hypocrisy #queer #exclusionists dni #(●´^｀●)

[a-very-confused-gremlin]

BODIES are not inherently sexual. you can be naked and have nothing at all to do with sex. this is a lesson i think most media and people need to learn

#aroace #asexual #ace #aspec #a-spec #a spec #a spectrum #aromantic asexual #asexuel

[batri-jopa]

Growing up as aromantic / asexual:

In my childhood and adolescence

After 10 years of desensitization by watching popular media...

...and after few months on Tumblr

I did not even realize how much fed up I already was with all the cisheteronormative couples struggling with stereotypical "gender roles" dilemmas, "traditional family" conflicts and "social expectations" of patriarchal world...

I mean how many times can you watch the same issues over and over again when none of it ever was part of your own not-partnering single life in the first place?

#I needed disgusted-Miguel-reaction-meme but it turns out nobody did a meme out of this scene before??? so I did it myself #asexual #aromantic #arospec #acespec #aro ace #aroace #aspec #a spectrum #a spec #sex repulsed #sex positive #romance repulsed #romance positive #miguel coco #coco miguel #miguel reaction meme #reaction meme

[leonardoeatscarrots]

Whether or not "a spec" refers to the aro/ace spectrum, or the autism spectrum may be confusing to YOU.

But to me, who is part of both, it's perfect.

Idk. Maybe I'm just built different.

#a spec #a spectrum #autism spectrum disorder #autism spectrum #asd #actually autistic #autism #got the tism #aroace #aroace spectrum #aromantic #aromantic spectrum #asexual #asexual spectrum #queer #lgbt #neurodivergent #idk

[a-confused-teen-venting]

you know when it comes to people i suspect i had an attraction to ive never gotten the idea to date them. like the idea to actually settle down and date someone never crossed my mind. anyone can relate, or is this again just another type of attraction?

#aromantic #aro #aromantism #aroace #asexual #aromanticism #aspec #ace #a spectrum

[the-siren-in-your-fridge]

The idea that nothing is inherently/objectively romantic or sexual and that the intent of the action is what makes anything romantic or sexual (aside from like. straight up having sex with someone. that’s sexual lol) is actually kind of easy to grasp but a lot of people won’t get it. Let me put it as simply as possible:

If you can do it with a friend/acquaintance/family member and have it not be sexual and/or romantic, the action is not inherently sexual and/or romantic

(With the exception of straight-up sex ofc)

Romance is harder to dissect because it’s societal, but overall, same thing. Even things that entire societies agree are inherently romantic (like giving someone an item to court them or giving them a kiss) aren’t universally agreed upon to be romantic. They are romantic because the people involved in them are deciding/agreeing they are. Someone from a country across the world could try and romance me up by giving me idk a bracelet or something. Their entire community could watch, agree it was the most romancey thing ever, but if I didn’t know that was the intent, it wouldn’t be romantic to me. I’d be like “oh cool bracelet, thanks broski!!”

And thus subjectivity!

#a-spec #aspec tings #a spec #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aroace #asexual aromantic #aromantic asexual #basic a-spec lessons #a spectrum