#actually aroace

[acewhowantsspace]

Y'know what screw it

300 notes and I'll come out as aroace to my parents

#asexual #aromantic #ace #aroace #asexuality #actually aroace #arospec #lgbt

[arofulboyfriend]

obviously you should respect the original tags on any post you reblog, like if you reblog an aroallo's post don't tag it as asexual because that's rude and erasing OPs identity (unless they say it's okay of course), but if someone makes their own post and tags it as aromantic but it's talking about sex instead of romance, that's not mistagging, and you should believe them when they say that their relationship with sex is a part of their romantic orientation, because it probably is.

not all aspecs use the SAM nor are they required to pretend to do so for your comfort. believe aspecs when they say their experiences are tied to their identity, even if it isn't the same identity you would use, I'm begging you.

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #actually aroace #non sam aro #non sam ace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #arospec #aspec #acespec #aroacespec #seren yaps #decided fuck it to make my own post #getting really tired of people telling other aspecs theyre wrong about their identities #yes obviously sex and romance arent INHERENTLY tied #but for many people they are #just trust people to know how they want to tag their own posts maybe??

[alastorsbroadcast]

It seems that the only way the majority of people can engage with a media is through shipping characters. Can’t you engage with the media for the plot itself? The plot is far more interesting.

#aspec #aroace #aromantic #asexual #actually aroace #actually aromantic #actually asexual

[iceeericeee]

"aros and aces can still love and have sex!" yeah but do you really mean that? can you accept the fact that some aroaces don’t want sex and dont do romance? or do you just want to use that as an excuse when you want two people to date despite one or both of them being actively repulsed by romance, or when you want two people to have sex despite one or both of them being actively sex repulsed? are you only saying that for your own benefit?

#in a mood rn #aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #actually aroace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+

[dam-bluecookies]

"that's not very aromantic of you" "that's not very asexual of you" WELL that's not very minding your own business of you

#MY LIFE IS FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND APHOBES #tw aphobia #ace #aro #aromantic #asexual #aro ace #aspec #arospec #queer #actually arospec #actually aroace #actually aromantic #actually ace #1k #2k #3k

[day-heron]

Aroace in a way that’s inseparable from relationship anarchy. Aroace in a “getting rid of the legal institution of marriage” way. Aroace in a “romantic/sexual attraction is irrelevant to me in the first place because I actively choose to deprioritize the romantic/sexual/nuclear family ideal of relationships in my life” way.

#our post #aro tag #aromantic #asexual #aroace #relationship anarchy #aro #ace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #actually aroace #anemone’s post

[cowboylikeghost]

"i support aroace people!" "aroace people are queer!" How would you react if i told you that i'm aroace but non-partnering, even qpr are a big no, answer quickly.

#WHAT IF I TOLD YOU I'M LOVELESS #AND SEX REPULSED #HOW WOULD YOU REACT #HU? #ANSWER 🫵🏻 #asexual #aroace #aromantic #ace #aro #asexuality #aromantism #queer #lgbt #lgbtqia #actually aro #actually ace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #actually aroace #non partnering #romance repulsed #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #sex repulsed

[librathefangirl]

Friendly reminder: even if to you the idea of living without a partner seems sad and lonely, if someone tells you they don't want a romantic or sexual partner, it's not a sad thing. It's a beautiful thing - it means they're living the life that will make them happy rather than abiding by societal expectations.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #actually aroace #actually aromantic #just had to get this off my chest after a convo with my sister yesterday

[ambriel-angstwitch]

Ok does anyone else constantly hear that “A girl and a guy can’t just be friends one of them is going to catch feelings at some point.” Because I hear it all the time and that can’t possibly be true because that would mean that every single one of my guy friends has had a crush on me. Because I can tell you I did not have a crush on them, I’ve never had a crush on anyone I’m aroace

#aroace #actually aroace #aromantic #asexual #asexuality #aspec #aroace spectrum #aro stuff #aro #ace #arospec #girl and guy friendship

[skeletalroses]

My (recently married, alloro ace) friend sent me this article tonight. I highly encourage everyone to read it, especially aspecs and people who are otherwise nonpartnering or sexual minorities. The women featured in this piece are awesome and so is their community-organizing game (which is why anarchists and people interested in mutual aid should read this too).

I reiterate: aromantic+asexual liberation and women's liberation are inescapably intertwined.

I hope everything these Korean women are doing takes off and expands to other communities and continents, because I cannot WAIT to join a No-Marriage Women's club.

Me and the girls destroying marriage and the nuclear family: 🎉🍾🪓🔥🎆🔪🎊🎇🪓🥂🔪🔥🎉

#aromantic #actually aromantic #actually aroace #anarchism #activism #arophobia #asexual #acephobia #women #Korea #links

[quadruple-a-battery]

Just realized something:

The only reason I‘ve been wanting a romantic relationship (without having a romantic relationship), is because I just want to be someones most important person.

As an autistic aro, it can be very alienating when all of my friends are in romantic relationships. I don‘t understand why they want to cancel seeing me (after a few months of no contact) because they want to meet their partner (that they‘ve been with for a week straight)

No matter how tight I feel like my relationship is with someone, as soon as they fall in love, I feel like air.

I want someone to feel that way for me, without actually having to see each other all the time, without kissing and hand holding and all that jazz.

I think what I need is a dog.

Thanks for listening to my ramble

#actually aromantic #allonormativity #actually autistic #asexual #autism #autistic #actually aroace #aroace #aromantic #actuallyautistic #ace #lgbtq #dog

[acewhowantsspace]

I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT

Coming out update!

Told them! It went well! I'm shaking and my hearts going nuts still and I'm so fucking happy omg I was sweating bullets all day

HOLY SHIT

Hit them with a double whammy, came out as nonbinary at the same time (only said they/them for my pronouns)

HOLY SHIT

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😁😁😁😁🥰🥰🥰🥰

#asexual #nonbinary #aromantic #ace #aroace #asexuality #actually aroace #arospec #lgbt #lgtbtq

[arofulboyfriend]

"if you tell all your friends you love them all the time, then the word love becomes meaningless" well for one yeah i sure hope it does, and for two, if hearing me tell you i love you every day becomes meaningless to you because i say it too often, then you don't believe my love is valuable and also skill issue

#aroace #actually aroace #actually aromantic #aromantic #aromantic pride #aromantic positivity #lovequeer #my love is not a finite resource nor is it devalued by the number of times i say it #seren yaps

[bizarreaizen]

one of my biggest fears is being forgotten when your friends get romantic partners.

#aromantic pride #aromantic spectrum #asexual aromantic #aromanticism #aromantic #actually aromantic #aromance #aromantic asexual #aromantic stuff #aroace #arospec #actually aroace #aro ace #aro pride #aro spec #aro stuff #aroace community #aroace pride #aroace tag #aroacespec #oriented aroace #aro #queer #pride #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ community #lgbt community #lgbtqiap #lgbt pride

[midnight-soulless-system]

Just told my friend we had a squish on her, but it wasn't a crush because we're aroace and she was like. "Cool, and same on both fronts"

I'm so fucking happy y'all, is this what the allos feel when someone else reciprocates a crush? Cause this is fucking awesome.

#aroace #squishes #aromantic crush #aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #actually aroace #also i am now in a t4t relationship because she's a demigirl and we're transmasc #and crip4crip #so fuck yeah #soulless speaks #soulless lore

[aro-oats]

I feel a lot more connected with my aromantic label than I do my asexual label

not sure if it's cause I like the aro flag more (I love green so much) or if it's because I feel the romance aspect comes up a lot more than the sex

just wondering if anyone else feels this way with their labels

#like i look at aroace memes #and i look at aromantic memes #but rarely do i look at asexual memes #and also i barely associate myself with the trans label #i mean yeah i guess i am #but i dont go around telling people im trans #i do tell people im enby though #(people i want to tell not just randos) #also yellows my favourite colour so i absolutely love the non binary flag #aromantic #actually aromantic #aroace #actually aroace #asexual #actually asexual