#anonrose

[entropy-sea-system]

ppl who actually include atertiary, aplatonic, afamilial, etc. when you say 'aspec' please reblog this if you are ok with reblogging

#rb bait #reblog bait #aspec #atertiary #sincerely an apothitertiary person who unfortunately has to witness ppl use aspec to only mean ace and aro spectrums all the damn time #aplatonic #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #a #a spectrum #anonrose #afamilial #analterous

[plato-repulsed-culture-is]

Intro Post

This blog is for plato repulsed people of any platonic orientation to talk about our plato repulsion !!

main @entropy-sea-system

Bodily 21

We support all system types (including endo, tulpa, etc.) if you don't, this blog is probably not one you would like anyway, because we don't agree with sysmed/anti endo views.

The flags in the icon and header are plato repulsed flags made by Rift from our system

This is not an advice blog, don't ask us for advice.

Any platonic orientation / unlabeled /etc. ppl who are plato repulsed may send in asks (apl, allopl, aplspec, unlabeled platonic orientation, etc.) (You're also included if you experience plato repulsion only sometimes or to varying levels !) . Also remember that not all plato repulsed and/or apl ppl are aspec in other ways or repulsed by other relationship types.

Plato repulsion is repulsion to friendship and/or other platonicism /platonic coded actions and encompasses a range of experiences. This blog does not tolerate any negativity towards any attraction or relationship type (i.e. please don't act like any relationship or attraction, including platonic is inherently harmful/bad).

Edit: Im too tertiary repulsed to answer asks that mention tertiary attraction and/or desire for tertiary relationships in detail, so I probably won't answer asks that have this and would prefer to not recieve asks of this kind. Note that this also applies to mentioning being in those relationships sorry if it was unclear before.

#aplatonic #apl #aplspec #nonfriending apl #plato repulsed #plato repulsion #friendship repulsion #friendship repulsed #aspec #actually plato repulsed #actually aplatonic #queer #Oh and apl exclus Im blocking you on sight lol #atertiary #aterspec #anonrose #atertiary spectrum #endogenic safe #sysmeds dni

[atertiary-culture-is]

Intro

This is a blog for people on the atertiary spectrum to talk about our experiences with being atertiary/ otherwise on the atertiary spectrum.

Atertiary refers to a disconnect from tertiary attraction and/or tertiary relationships, or little to no tertiary attraction. Tertiary attraction is any attraction thats not romantic or sexual, it is also called nonrose or eriattraction. Atertiary spec (aterspec) ppl may nor not be on the aro and/or ace spectrums, and may or may not be favorable to tertiary/nonrose relationships.

Some atertiary spectrum identities include aplatonic, asensual, analterous, etc.

Main @entropy-sea-system

Bodily 21

We support all system types, if you don't, this blog is not for you and we will block you. Same goes if you're against atertiary orientations and/or an exclusionist.

#atertiary #apl #aspec #aterspec #aplatonic #atertiary spectrum #asensual #afamilial #analterous #a spectrum #a spec #anonrose #aneriattractional #wow that words a mouthful... its why we prefer to just say atertiary lol #atertiary culture is #atertiary-culture-is #aqueerplatonic #mogai #liom #sysmeds dni #endogenic safe #actually aplatonic #actually atertiary

[demiro-allosexual-culture-is]

atertiary demiromantic allosexual culture is just KNOWING that allotertiary aros and aces will see you as "basically allo" because they think aspec just means aro and ace and they think whats basically similar to being atertiary (not caring much about family or friends etc.) is an "unfortunate allo trait", even if you're literally aspec in more ways than them due to being completely atertiary lol

#vent #atertiary #if youre one of the aros or aces who do this do better btw #aspec #demiromantic #demiromantic allosexual experiences #demiromantic allosexual #demiromantic culture is #demiromantic allosexual culture is #aphobia #aterphobia #anonrose #atertiary demiromantic allosexual culture is #aromantic #arospec

[darkatsumu]

Would Osamu ever let the girls and clients have like a week period where they could do shit and not have any consequences? Like, as long as they don't explicitly state anything to him, he can't do anything. If so please let me write something for this. -anonrose

If you’re referring to anything sexual or meeting outside or exchange of information, then no. Osamu is strict. He wants, no, needs to know everything and even if you don’t tell him something; he probably already knows it. Osamu doesn’t play around, it’s the reason fear flows through the bar girl’s blood when they spot a volleyball player in the real world. It’s the reason his customers fear to not accidentally touch the bar girls. Osamu will fire you on the spot and kick out customers with threats. 

#onigiri after hours #boss samu is so strict that it’s hot isn’t it

[entropy-sea-system]

If you're alloace you need to understand that you enjoy more rep than aros. If you're aroace you need to understand that you enjoy more rep than non-ace aros including alloaros! If you're alloaro, you need to understand that rep for non sam aros, neu aros, etc. Is practically nonexistent. And so on.

If you're aro and/or ace and allotertiary you need to fucking understand that atertiaryspec ppl like aplatonics are also not represented at all despite being part of the aspec!! Yes we all need rep. Yes aspec rep as a whole is needed more regardless of the identity! But please don't erase the fact that some of us literally have way less rep than some other aspec identities and respect that we are allowed to be upset about how we are ignored in favor of another aspec identity all the fucking time.

#aspec #asexual #ace #alloace #aromantic #aro #alloaro #non ace aro #atertiary #anonrose #aspec rep #a spectrum #a spec #aroace #aromantic asexual #aromantic allosexual #alloromantic asexual #arospec #aromanticism #acespec #aterspec

[entropy-sea-system]

Heartless Apl Flag I Made+ Definition/Coining Post

(I made this months ago only posting now in case someone else posts another similar looking one before I can, any resemblence to any other flags of this identity other ppl made is incidental and not on purpose)

Heartless Apl: An aplatonic label involving reclaiming the term 'heartless' in an aplatonic way or feeling that this influences ones' aplatonicism due to any reason

(This flag was made to fit more closely with the pattern of the heartless aro flag)

I also made some alts last night:

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#heartless apl #apl #aplatonic #aspec #aplatonic spectrum #heartless #aplspec #queer #entropy flags #entropy coins #aterspec #atertiary #atertiary spectrum #anonrose #entropy terms

[entropy-sea-system]

I feel like I hardly see ppl talk about being atertiary... I wish ppl talked about being atertiary more !!! I feel like apl is the only atertiary spectrum identity ppl even mention most of the time,, and I wish more ppl even talked abt anaesthetic, asensual, afamilial, aqueerplatonic, etc., as someone who's apothitertiary and atertiary in literally every way.

(-Rift)

#atertiary #atertiary spectrum #aterspec #aspec #anaesthetic #aqueerplatonic #aplatonic #apl #aquaplatonic #asen #asensual #afamilial #anonrose #apothitertiary #apothiplatonic #analterous #anamical #-Rift

[entropy-sea-system]

As an atertiary aspec I'm kinda sick of when aros and aces complain their ass off about "the allos" not giving a shit about family or friends or whatnot bc hello !! That's me!! I don't give a shit about family and friends and qprs and am arospec !! You're complaining about who I am when you think you're like owning the "allos" or some shit by complaining about shit thats normal !!! You don't get to act like only sex and romance are optional then turn around and act like ppl are scum on earth if they don't care about friendship or family lol

(allotertiary aspecs and honestly any allotertiary ppl you are on thin ice if you interact don't clown on this post)

#atertiary #vent #aterspec #aphobia #If you think being aro or ace makes you unable to be aphobic THINK AGAIN #Maybe think about why you think the only aspecs who matter are aros and aces lmao #aterphobia #anonrose #aspec

[atertiary-culture-is]

Atertiary culture is not feeling represented in the aspec community, despite atertiary literally being an aspec label

#aspec #atertiary #atertiary-culture-is #aterspec #anonrose #atertiary spectrum #aplatonic #asensual #anaesthetic #nonaesthetic #analterous #aquaplatonic #queer #a spectrum #aneriattractional #the aros and aces are often very allotertiary eugh #Im aro and not ace but Im very atertiary

[atertiary-culture-is]

Atertiary culture is being glad atertiary spectrum labels exist because you finally have words to describe some of your experiences !!

#atertiary-culture-is #aplatonic #atertiary culture is #atertiary #aterspec #atertiary spectrum #aspec #queer #asensual #analterous #afamilial #anaesthetic #nonaeasthetic #aquaplatonic #anonrose #aneriattractional #atertiary positivity #apl #asen #analt #anaes #aqp #aqpspec #a spectrum #aspec positivity

[entropy-sea-system]

Redesign of the Anaesthetic/Nonaesthetic/A-aesthetic flag

(Again its mainly because I think we deserve atertiaryspec flags that are not just like a attraction color recolor of the ace flag !!)

(As pink in the old flag represents aesthetic attraction)

I chose the color mint to not resemble other commonly used aspec flags too closely !! The color progression is also meant to look distinct from existing aspec flags.

version with more muted colors + more contrast is below ! (This one is the original redesign I made !!)

Reminder that this flag is inclusive of anaesthetic ppl who are not aspec in other ways, and anaesthetic spectrum people who experience some aesthetic attraction and/or favorability!!

(-Rift)

#atertiary spectrum #aspec #aterspec #anaesthetic #nonaesthetic #aaesthetic #a-aesthetic #aspec terms #entropy flags #aspec flags #queer #anonrose #mogai #liom #mogai flags #-Rift #anaesthetic flag #nonaesthetic flag #aterspec flags #atertiary flags #flag redesign #flag redesigns #entropy flag redesigns

[entropy-sea-system]

I thought I'd talk a bit about being analterous as I don't often talk about My atertiary identities separately other than apl and afamilial.

Anyways, I should probably start by saying I don't actively crave an emotional connection just for the sake of it. It often involves friendship for a lot of people which already repulses Me. I happen to have emotional connections to My partners but its not about friendship, its about sex and in a few cases also romance bc Im demiromantic and allosexual.

A big reason I realised Im analterous is because people often said thats the attraction type behind qprs, and eventually I realised I didn't want a qpr but just thought I did bc a lot of other aros seemed to, and I felt like I'd be seen as 'aphobic' if I refused to want a relationship that aros and aces came up with. I also was unfortunately feeling like I had to have nonrose attraction to seem 'normal' and 'not sex obsessed' as an alloaro.

When I first heard of alterous attraction, it was kind of defined in a very vague way like 'not being sure if you have a (romantic) crush or just want to be friends', and that didn't make sense to my brain, as I would later realise, its bc Im arospec and apothiplatonic and those are simply not emotions I can feel like to a stranger. And friendship? I literally can't feel that towards anyone.

I define alterous attraction as being an attraction connected to wanting an emotional connection with someone (though of course, one can also have the attraction without being favorable to alterous relationships). My brain often lumps all the nonrose attractions as being something that has no relevance to me, and especially with terms that arent as used in larger society like alterous, I struggle to explain why I am like this.

Additionally, when people talk about feeling alterous attraction or a qpr (though that tends to be more associated w queerplatonic attraction these days) (I am also aqueerplatonic and qp repulsed though) I feel grossed out by it. I don't personally want to hear about it due to my repulsion.

In the past when I questioned if I had a nonrose crush it always ended up either being intrusive thoughts or Me repressing a sexual crush. I learned of things like squishes long before I knew I was aro because I formerly identified as demirose and even after I stopped using that label at one point, I still looked obsessively through AVEN forums where a lot of aces talked about having squishes.

I will admit that with acespec I have some sort of sexual orientation OCD where I have intrusive thoughts that Im 'really' ace when I don't identify that way, but thats a whole other topic. Its kind of distressing for Me to feel that but anyways. Explanation for why I was rather often looking at those forums.

I assumed I had the capacity to have squishes. I felt kind of creepy and genuinely kind of distressed that I was incapable of caring for people as a friend when multiple times, I thought I was having friendship emotions but it turned out to just be sexual attraction. Of course, people can have both emotions at once but I could kind of tell tht I had never even had the platonic attraction emotions, but didn't label it until i realised I could be apl.

I felt like I was obligated to like people in nonrose ways, because it made Me feel arophobic and acephobic, and anti-relationship anarchy, and selfish if I were to say no. But I'm glad I realised Im atertiary, because I'm a lot happier when Im not forcing Myself to have and like nonrose relationships. I'm content with my sexual and romantic-sexual relationships, and also content with the idea of not having any relationships, if at some point that becomes the case for me.

Also, I never ship alterous ships for example, I used to think I did but it was just me shipping characters romantically and/or sexually but thinking I needed to label the emotional care as alterous? And also its worth noting that I'm pretty much an analterous person with no alterous attraction who is alterous repulsed. This will not be the experience of every single person with these identities.

Also, seeing as how people often position alterous and qprs on a created romantic-platonic binary it just irks me that some people act like romantic and platonic are the only attractions ever. Especially when they ignore SEXUAL attraction, like its not romantic OR platonic but ppl act like it doesnt exist when they force the platonic-romantic binary on labels such as alterous and queerplatonic.

Also, I happen to have sexual intrusive thoughts about people, due to hypersexuality and OCD, that I don't like having. Sometimes, I tried to use tertiary/nonrose attractions as a coping mechanism for this by trying to say 'No, I only feel platonic/alterous/sensual/etc. for this person' even though I didn't, and was mistaking emotions like happiness or literally the rush from getting narc supply (NPD) or attention, and being touch starved, sometimes even just being triggered by people acting overfamiliar with Me, for nonrose attractions.

This is not so say nonrose attractions are unhealthy, but the way I conceptualised of them back then was. It's astounding to me that people think my atertiary identity is what's unhealthy when forcing myself to seem allotertiary was what was unhealthy for me.

At one point, when I was initially with a few of My current partners, I kind of felt the need to split every emotion I had about My partners into being a nonplatonic nonrose attraction, even when I knew I was apl. That was kind of unnatural to Me personally as a way to label My emotions. Because it wasn't any attraction other than sexual.

The way people talk about sexual attraction as fleeting and meaningless influenced this as well. I feel a lot of emotional care and enthusiasm towards people I am sexually attracted to, and I only like sexual relationships that are long term and involve affection. This made Me feel like it couldn't JUST be sexual attraction because people around me, even in aro spaces that included alloaros, acted like sexual attraction can never include these things.

Maybe thats just how people who either are alloromantic and/or are allotertiary feel because they label anything thats not 'I want to have genital sex' as some attraction other than sexual. But thats not how my sexual attraction works. I support people whose sexual attraction is not that deep/is fleeting or does not involve much emotion or desire for long-term involvement, and those who engage in casual sex. I just want people to acknowledge that thats not the only way sexual attraction and sexual relationships, especially nonromantic ones, can be.

Actually, anaesthetic was the third atertiary label I found myself realising I am, but I though I was aestheticflux. However it turned out that I am just completely atertiary. Also I think at one point that. It got kind of too much of a cognitive effort for me to want to classify my attraction into so many nonrose types. It made me feel kind of split apart and dissociated from my identity personally.

Anyways, this was a lot and I meant to just talk about My analterous experience, but all My atertiary identities seem to be tangled together in ways that mean they aren't very separable. I think I did only realise Im analterous around the time I realised Im completely atertiary, but it was also very linked to Me realising I'm aqueerplatonic.

Anyways, I'm also realising that maybe I feel My atertiary identities are all interconnected in a way that means I see a lot of them as lumped together for Myself, and how much I talk about them tends to depend on the percieved way I find societal norms regarding relationship types to be antithetical to My way of existing.

(-Rift)

#atertiary #analterous #aspec #aromantic #aro #demiromantic #alloaro #aroallo #allox #allosexual #alloapl #aplatonic #afamilial #aquaplatonic #aqueerplatonic #anonrose #aterspec #arospec #anaesthetic #nonaesthetic #aaesthetic #-Rift #long post #atertiary experiences #actually atertiary #tertiary attraction #nonrose attraction #alterous attraction #queerplatonic #alterous

[atertiary-culture-is]

Atertiary culture is being happy that there are other people like you when you interact with or know about other people on the atertiary spectrum!!

#aplatonic #atertiary #atertiary culture is #anonrose #aneriattractional #aterspec #atertiary spectrum #aspec #atertiary positivity #aspec positivity #apl #asen #asensual #analt #analterous #anaesthetic #nonaesthetic #anaes #aqp #aqueerplatonic #aqpspec #aplspec #queer #a spectrum #afam #afamilial #afamspec

[entropy-sea-system]

It's so cute how aqueerplatonic is called aquaplatonic !!

#aspec #aqp #aqpspec #aquaplatonic #aqueerplatonic #atertiary #aterspec #anonrose

[entropy-sea-system]

I am once again reminded that I am very atertiary

#I see accounts of nonrose attraction and Im like WTF????????????????? #atertiary #anonrose #tertiary repulsed