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#feelings are hard
abbeyofcyn · 8 months
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lucasoliko · 6 months
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Do you think we'll ever dance like we're supposed to
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nidmightcookies · 4 months
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I just hope that the cast and the crew all know that we love them. I hope Taika isn't taking the shit talk to heart. I hope Rhys is feeling as loved by us as Stede felt when his crew stood up for him at the firing squad. I hope Con is still enjoying the fan art. I hope David is aware of each and every one of us who has been touched and changed by the amazing, beautiful thing that he created. I want success for every single person involved in this production, in their next projects. And I want the fans to never stop creating tributes to this universe. I'm going to fucking miss the hell out of our pirates, and I will never stop loving them.
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positivelypositive · 9 months
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it's okay to feel...
...anyway you do.
let yourself feel emotions, whether negative or positive. feelings are natural and human. they are mostly not under our control.
what we can control are the actions we take as consequences of those feelings. those actions show who we truly are ✨
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creatingnikki · 4 months
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I wanted to tell you I love you. But no words came out. I wanted to write about everything I had been through this year. But the truth didn't spill. I'm containing it all for now. Why? Is it weakness? Self preservation? Confusion? Fear? Anger? I honestly do not know. When it comes to you and when it comes to this year, there is not much I know with objectivity. And I'm trying to not think with my feelings. Feelings are beautiful when felt but disastrous when followed as the north star. Maybe that, that is perhaps the biggest lesson of 2023. My feelings for you led me to abandon my values. Your feelings for me made me be okay with that. Feelings feelings feelings. Most times fickle, many times foul. But that's not even the issue with feelings. Feelings are fleeting. And I want to rely on more fundamental and foundational things. Let my feelings exist to be felt fully. Let my feelings exist to be written about beautifully and truly. Let my feelings exist to remind me I am human, to remind me I am alive. And yet let my lessons, my values, my strategic mind guide my decisions from here on out. Because if it were left up to my feelings? I'd be in your house smoking my third cigarette in between kisses telling each other how much we've missed this. And that is not something I am going to allow anymore. That's my mind looking out for me. That is my soul whispering the path forward. This time I will listen. Let my feelings only feel.
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I was just freaking out over having a conversation with a guy i like (the first person I've ever been romantically attracted to as a demiromantic asexual person) and tbh it gives me valgrace vibes 🤭
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magpiethepunkfairy · 7 months
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Attraction is so weird and confusing to me
I'm gonna rant about it and vent(?) About how confusing it is
Like, I don't really understand the difference between platonic and romantic attraction and when I tried to research it (which is the most aspec autistic sentence every) all of the examples and definitions and shit felt so very hetero normative and also like, very centered around monogamy and "normal" brain having people
"If you think about them all the time it's romantic "
I have adhd and I'm definitely capable of hyperfocusing on a person, and that also doesn't feel like a healthy thing to base attraction or a relationship on
"If you wanna be physically close/hold hands/kiss/ect it's romantic "
That just isn't true! And if it is I feel romantic attraction probably more then platonic
"If you wanna spend all your time with them or see a future with them"
Again, adhd, also, I have fuckin strange attachment issues. Also Again I can imagine a future with almost anyone, daydream is fun
I also just wanna live on a lot of land with all my friends and spend all my time with all of them, and I don't think that's a romantic attraction based feeling
It's frustrating honestly
But I feel like I can and have maybe felt romantic attraction, and maybe I'm just thinking about it to much or something so I don't even feel like I should identify as aspec
Idk feelings are weird and don't make any sense to me
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347-emeraldbitch · 1 year
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Percy: Even though we bicker, never agree on anything, and get on each other’s nerves I want you to know that I love you. Your happiness brings me joy. I wish you nothing but success and peace. I’m grateful we’re siblings and get to go through life together.
Fred, George, Ron, & Ginny: What the bloody fucking hell is going on!!!!
Bill & Charlie: We love you too little brother.
Harry & Hermione: *crying* I love this family.
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blitzofucko · 4 months
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I totally don't miss this
I definitely don't miss Stolas and his stupid flirting
I 100% do not miss anything abt our relationship
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Orihara Izaya's Guide To Dealing With Feelings Evoked By Unexpectedly Seeing Your Crush With His Natural Hair Colour:
Step one: Run away
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pollyna · 1 year
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Tom doesn't resent Pete for flying because it's exactly what he was born for. Fly as fast as he can, taking decisions nobody else would ever consider and succeeding. Tom is so proud that sometimes he feels like screaming from the top of a mountain about how he feels about Mav, his work, and all his accomplishments. But Tom isn't thirty anymore, and his voice is no more than a whisper now, barely there to say hello and goodbye. The feelings are there too, all of them, and he doesn't know what to do because he can't speak them up, words aren't enough, and Mav is far fucking away, flying away hours of a day like they are nothing. All Ice wants, from the moment that he was promoted to now, is the chance to fly again. And maybe now he never will again, and it makes him want to resent Maverick, so so much because at least he would know what to do with all those feelings. But every time he receives a mail, Mav leaves a voicemail, or sends a message, or anything really, Ice can't help but smile and be proud. There's no space for resentment or any negative feelings, even if they are still there, settled between his bones, making home in the same way the cancer did in his throat, and he knows they are going to get out, sooner or later, and it's going to be ugly. But for now, he lets Mav's last voicemail fill the space around him and listens to his last hop.
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achilleanauthor · 1 year
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I was fully ready to loop my arms around his waist and kiss his jaw. I need to tell him I like him, this is agony.
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beekindac · 2 months
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☁️🦦 Working through grief is a weird and complicated thing. I have only been painting what I had to and little else. Needing some downtime inspiration, I keep thinking of my sweet husband's advice to look toward things I love for inspiration and trying to keep my chin up. I love animals, but otters being happy in the gloomy and rainy weather seem appropriate for the mood. I shall try to channel my inner otter and find happiness in the grey and dreary times. I hope this little otter brings some joy, especially if you're feeling gloomy.
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((The last time I went to therapy, months ago, i was like 'so how can i stop being anxious' and she was like 'you can't'
and that shit rlly stuck with me lmao))
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maybe-horny · 3 months
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Things I learned about myself. I may be demisexual, but I'm not sure because I had a bunch of crushes when I was in highschool of random people and now I have the hardest time to like anyone.
I like the idea of having sex, hate the idea of someone else seeing me naked. The love part is so interesting but looks so fucking hard and complicated. I never dated or anything so 0 experience.
In conclusion, I have no fucking idea what I'm doing.
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