#queer ramblings

[magpiethepunkfairy]

I love you "weird" queer people

multigender people, trans people who are sometimes cis, queer people who are sometimes straight, trans people who don't want and will not transition, trans and nonbinary people who don't want binary bodys, queer platonic relationship havers, rabies flag people, people who's queer identity is influenced or directly tied to their mental health, queer people with different dissociative disorders, people whos identity is tied to their nerodiversity, identitys that are fluid and constantly changing, queer people who don't feel human, poly aroaces, people who's identitys can't and don't need to be labeled, I love you I love you I love you

Do what ever you want forever

Queer as in fuck you

Queer as in I love you

Queer as in weird!!!

#queer ramblings #queer #queer positivity #queer pride #trans rights #trans pride #transmasc #transfem #queer love #trans love #trans #multigender #nonbinary #gender noncomformity #aroace #queer as in fuck you #queer as in i love you

[longlostlesbian]

accepting that love isn’t purely romantic is so difficult. but it’s true. love is everything and everywhere. its your friends. its the soft embrace of a warm spring breeze. it’s picking up a new hobby. it’s the sea spray during summer. it’s the small corner store you went to as a child. it’s everything. the world is built on love.

#lesbian #queer #ramblings #poetry #lgbtq #aromantic #aromantic poetry #aromantism #love is everything #love is kind #writing by me #queer writers #queer writing #queer ramblings

[silliestcreature196]

My three moods:

I want to be the most angelically chunky woman ever (like some Renaissance painting level stuff)

I want to be a fucked up dragon creature (please please please HRT = HORNS RAWRS TEEFIES)

I want to be a scrawny androgynous goober (people should roll a 20 sided die and do pony division to figure me out)

Help me

#rambling #queer ramblings #lgbt #trans #transgender #dragonkin #genderfluid #nonbinary

[cherrytea556]

Something I recently keep seeing is Christians who experienced any form of queerness reject it in the favour of god, or as they put it, save them from 'sin.' This could be an asshole or cynical viewpoint but idk, something about it seems very...off to me. Like I don't want to be suspicious over their happiness in religion helping them though with the way they make it seem like god 'curing' them to be in what churches typically want all people to be (cis allo heteros) and then call what they experienced a 'sin' or make generalisations repeated by the same Christians that are bigoted (e.g women married to a husband and having kids) It just always gives me a bad feeling around them.

Then again, I stray further and further from god due to my own beliefs (still catholic but mostly for family purposes even though their not really religious) so idk. All I know is that queerness isn't a 'sin' and not everyone will want the same things as you or 'god.' That is all.

#aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #queer #lgbt #aroace #aromantic asexual #rant #queer ramblings #christianity

[goth-brushbug]

Ramblings about fem/masc alignments and labels

So, to my understanding fem aligned reffers to female aligned genders and masc aligned refers to male aligned genders. (Personally, I really prefer to say men/women aligned). And I'm very confused when people, for some reason, use those labels to describe gender presentation? Gender identity and presentation are not the same

Another thing I'm seeing among the community is forcefully assigning those labels on people. Not all sapphics/lesbians are women aligned! I don't consider myself women aligned, and I would like to use the sapphic label without the feeling that I'm being misgendered. I'm not aligned to any binary gender. I know there is also trixic label that specifically describes nblw attraction, but that's not the point... This experience feels a bit lonely? There are nonbinary lesbians who also do not consider themselves women aligned

Sapphic label brought me comfort, and I don't wanna drop it tbh. But I'm feeling kinda forced to with the alignment thing that lots of people in the community are applying...

Also, side note that I feel pretty unwelcomed by the cis lesbians as a nonbinary individual-they are clinging to the whole female alignment way more trans ppl

#queer ramblings #enby #nonbinary #trans #transgender #agender #maverique #transneutral #sapphic #trixic #lesbian #nblw

[roach-in-the-kitchen]

It isn't lost on me that by being aromantic, I'm at a huge disadvantage. Our society is geared towards couples in most ways. You can take more out on a loan, mortgages are easier, everything is less expensive with two (or more) people, things like marriage tax allowance. Even the way we market products and gifts and restaurants and activities as romantic. Lots of these can probably also be utilised by aros in a QPR (even if they don't get married), or aros who will permanently live with another person or multiple people.

I will never have that. I know that I could have any form of companionship I wanted, that I could live with another aro friend, that I could enter a QPR and to a stranger look like I'm in a happy relationship, that I could even have a merry band of roommates. But I don't. Discovering aromanticism gave me freedom. It gave me the choice to live however I wanted to live. I finally understood that I didn't have to follow the same path that most people take, that I can find meaning and worth and happiness in a life devoid of a "life partner". It was liberating and isolating to realise I would never live a life that even vaguely resembled "normal" in a allonormative world.

I don't want a QPR, I don't want to share a bed with someone, I don't want to live with other people forever, I don't want to enter a relationship (even though aromantic people can do that without feeling any romantic feelings). I want a life that I consider peaceful. I want to live alone with animal companions, to have friends over whenever I feel like, to host parties and sleepovers and not have to worry about it inconveniencing someone else. I want to decorate the space however I want, to go out to eat at my favourite place every week, to go hiking and swimming and go on holiday to explore on my own and have it be an amazing experience.

So when I say that I feel lonely, I don't mean that I want the kind of life allo people have. I feel lonely in my own community because we focus too much on couples and relationships when we should be focusing on what brings us together. Our relationship (or lack thereof) with romantic attraction. Because surrounded by coupling aros I've never felt more alone

#aromantic #aro #sorry im just having a moment #queer ramblings

[sadrockandwaltzes]

CITR LGBT

I was just trying to find some art for catcher cause I was bored, but I saw the first frequently asked question was about him being ace. I didn't really think they had any good evidence, but I remembered running into some gay catcher questions in past years and was curious what other bits of the acronym people were able to assign him to.

Just that apparently! I mean I only checked the first page of results cause there were seriously too many pages on this, but yeah.

There was one listing evidence of his straight or gayness, but the evidence for both was shockingly bad, and despite their conclusion being straight, I thought they should've collabed with the original Ace headcanon person. Their reasoning for gay was basically 'doesn't like girls' (no evidence given) and their evidence for straight was homophobic (surely you jest) and 'doesn't like guys'.

Anyway, where I'm getting with this is: where are the people who think he's bi? I saw more than 30 on the first page alone for gay and two for ace (after digging), but only one person who was in the ace forum said that he was probably gay/bi. Looking it up didn't even give me results.

I'm just curious cause most of his feelings about relationships are the same as the ones I have (although his are slightly more extreme), and I'm not really into guys. I also don't really think it's strange for a teenager to not have/want to have sex. He seemed open to the possibility in the future, assuming it's with simeone whom he loves and trusts, and who feels the same way about him, so I wasn't really seeing the ace argument.

So I guess to wrap this up, does anyone else think he is? If so, why do you suppose there aren't many people suggesting it? If not, why don't you think he is?

#catcher in the rye #Citr #books #queer headcanons #queer ramblings #sorry if anything I said sounded rude to the people who do think he's that #I actually did find one near the end that had an interesting explanation for why they believe he's gay (and comparing the book to Rage-S.K. #and I can see relating to a character's feelings as evidence (I even did that above😅) I'm just surprised I didn't find any for the B #bi erasure

[scatteredraysofhope]

The way I have this deep overwhelming desire to be a cool, deadass, hot-as-fuck, gorgeous, charismatic lesbian but in reality im just a sapphic nerdy little eldritch weirdo

#allie's diary #sapphic #lesbian #queer ramblings #its not fair :c

[nonbinarypanguy]

To go or not go on HRT

I'm transmasc nonbinary and not a minor. I live in a country at the moment where non-binary genders aren't considered real and I don't want to straightup lie to my therapist if i ever get to go to one who could give me a gender dysphoria diagnosis. The waiting list for any treatment after that is so long anyway and I'd basically have to be castrated for my gender to be legally recognized. And that's if i wanted to be a man on paper which again I'm not binary trans so what would be the point. I don't want to get any type of surgery because I've learned to like my body fortunately and the dysphoria that it does give me is low. I would absolutely love to go on T at some later point in my life though. I'm already in the process of legally changing my name but that really won't be enough. I want to move away and live in Canada or some other English speaking country because that's where i grew up. I don't know if it's easier or harder to transition there but I'll have to try. Maybe I'll never get my hands on T, i don't know. I just know that if I don't, the misgendering will never stop and I'll never fully like myself without makeup. And that any partner i may have will always have in their mind that I'm a woman-lite. It's tiring now and I expect it'll be tiring in twenty years too. The process of trying to get T will be too. To go on T or not. That is the question. My body reacts terribly to any injection or breakage of skin. I faint every time i get a shot of anything. I wouldn't be able to get T shots without that happening. I've heard that gel is more expensive and I don't know if I'll be able to afford it. At this point I'm just rambling and pitying myself i guess. If anyone read this to the end, thanks, i don't even know what this post started off as

#transgender #transmasc #queer ramblings #rambles #transition #nonbinary

[magpiethepunkfairy]

Attraction is so weird and confusing to me

I'm gonna rant about it and vent(?) About how confusing it is

Like, I don't really understand the difference between platonic and romantic attraction and when I tried to research it (which is the most aspec autistic sentence every) all of the examples and definitions and shit felt so very hetero normative and also like, very centered around monogamy and "normal" brain having people

"If you think about them all the time it's romantic "

I have adhd and I'm definitely capable of hyperfocusing on a person, and that also doesn't feel like a healthy thing to base attraction or a relationship on

"If you wanna be physically close/hold hands/kiss/ect it's romantic "

That just isn't true! And if it is I feel romantic attraction probably more then platonic

"If you wanna spend all your time with them or see a future with them"

Again, adhd, also, I have fuckin strange attachment issues. Also Again I can imagine a future with almost anyone, daydream is fun

I also just wanna live on a lot of land with all my friends and spend all my time with all of them, and I don't think that's a romantic attraction based feeling

It's frustrating honestly

But I feel like I can and have maybe felt romantic attraction, and maybe I'm just thinking about it to much or something so I don't even feel like I should identify as aspec

Idk feelings are weird and don't make any sense to me

#queer #ramblings #queer ramblings #actually autistic #actually adhd #ace spectrum #aroace #aro spec #acespec #arospec #aromantic #asexual #nonbinary #trans #they/them #it/its #polyamory #polyamourous #feelings are hard #feelings are confusing #feelings are complicated #long post

[longlostlesbian]

no matter what anyone says. im still trans. i could stay in the closet forever and i’d still be trans. you could misgender me on my headstone and i’d still be trans.

even if the world “eradicates” trans people, i’d still be trans. if there wasn’t a word for transgender i would still be trans. if transgender people were erased from history we would still be trans, because we existed and we were trans.

i am and will always be transgender. no matter what people say about us. we have always been here and we still always stay here, even if you dont like it.

#transgender #lgbtq #queer writers #queer writing #trans rights #trans writers #trans history #queer #trans neutral #genderqueer #gnc #poetry #writing #ramblings #queer ramblings

[silliestcreature196]

The allyship leaving someone's body the second a queer person is visibly disabled, mentally ill, or even slightly aggressive

#rambling #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer community #queer ramblings #mental health #disabled

[reginas-toy]

I'm sorry y'all, going through a writing slump hopefully more stuff soon ISH!!!!

Also have my two loves cause they're neat hehe

#mean girls 2024 #madame web #current wip #writers on tumblr #writers block #queer ramblings

[sweetluvletter]

anyone else's romantic orientation change depending on who they feel compelled to talk to in the moment

#like im aroflux demiromantic. but the actual like.. Gender wise is dumb to me and just doesnt ever stay the same #demiro bisexual is like the easiest way to explain but it still is Weird #i feel like a queer anomaly and it makes me sad sometimes #im not like other girls etc etc #queer ramblings

[lost-queer-stuff]

it's funny because I thought after a certain time leaving the Mormon church would me feel indifferent. but I can't help feeling bad for the amount of bullshit they do and how my family is still trapped with them

#ex mormon #queer ramblings

[restarting-over]

being genderfluid is really fun like yes i'm a ms and not a mr but yes i'm going on Testosterone and yes i'm not getting top surgery and yes i would be an auntie but also a brother ... don't ask questions

#original #genderfluid #happy pride btw! #queer ramblings