#end of a relationship

[pollyna]

After Nick dies and they fall apart, Ron gets a their names tattoed on his hip. He knows it's dumb and things between him and Carole aren't great but once their little thing will end, and Ron knows it's gonna happen soon, he wants to remember them. Tom let's him almost crush his hands and cry against his shirt while the artist is ending the last details. Ice pats his head and whisper sweet nothings just like Ron did when Tom was having nightmares not long ago. It's more painful that he would have thought but it's beautiful and it's the only thing that matters.

#ron slider kerner #tom iceman kazansky #nick goose bradshaw #carole bradshaw #dead nick goose bradshaw #breaking up #grief #tattoos #end of a relationship #slooserole #iceman & slider friendship #angst #mcd #top gun(1986)

[the-golden-witch-of-wanderers]

Unpopular opinion: there is a pretty big difference between:

Leaving because you've changed;

Leaving because you've learned how to stand up for yourself;

Leaving because you've outgrew the relationship (there is a difference between changing VS self growth).

So when people are telling you that you've changed, always ask yourself:

Did I really change? Depending on how, do I need introspection to be a better person?

Did they leave/dislike me because I'm now able to speak up/set boundaries for myself?

Do they think I've changed when in reality, they never perceived me for who I truly am?

Just a thing I thought I'd share after being diagnosed with C-PTSD and having a better grasp on gaslight.

#c ptsd #ptsd #trauma #gaslight #gaslighting #neglect #self healing #growing #abuse #child abuse #leaving #thoughts #myself #my life #personal #end of a relationship #end of a friendship #letting go

[folk-ever-lore]

Harley Quinn - Fool by margø

#harley quinn #harleen quinzel #dc #dceu #fool margø #song edit #harley quinn animated series #suicide squad #the suicide squad #joker #end of a relationship #birds of prey #poison ivy #pamela isley

[polypocketdiary]

I feel hurt

(but hurt is so generic)

I feel angry

(so new and nearly special after years of effortless transmutation)

I feel let down

(expectations are the killer)

I feel disrespected

(but like oxygen they keep the roots from festering)

I feel taken for granted

(overlooked or undercaredfor? overused and underseen)

I feel neglected

(now there's an oofowthunk)

I feel donethroughdefeated

(the years-long delay of the samurai sword)

I feel ashamed

(can I drink of your sympathy without letting you know where it came from)

I feel relieved

(it's over

it's over

the willit wontit whatamidoingwrong

)

It's over

#poetry #end of a relationship #the incompleteness of emotion wheels

[lovesick02]

You told me people leave all the time

Then shut the door behind you

#lovesick #obsessive love #lovecore #yancore #yanderecore #traumacore #yandere #yandere girl #trauma vent #possessive love #divorce #relationship #love #i love them #i love him #end of a relationship #sadgirl #im obssesed #im sad tonight #i'm sad

[startheskelaton]

You know that feeling of when you break up with someone and in turn your oc’s that you paired together have to break up as well… and you’re looking through all the art you made of those characters and delete it. And it’s like… not only are you sad but the character that you promised love is now having that love ripped away from them….. is that just me?

#digital art #drawing #illustration #oc #original story #original character #roll play #Rp #dnd campaign #dnd oc #relationship #split up #end of a relationship #vent post

[ash-and-starlight]

humble contribution

#basic: interpreting mizu’s gender based on what u think fits best #based wired inspired: interpreting mizu’s gender based on the ship so that it’s always a gay relationship #also whoever drew taigen’s nose Like That.. #i am forever thankful i need to kiss them with tongue #ode to taigen’s nose: page 1 of 204737835737493 #did i spend too long on this instead of just simply grabbing screenshots? look away #blue eye samurai #mizu #akemi #taigen #taigen’s top knot before it met its early end teach the angels how to sing baby 😔🙏 #ringo #my art #yuri is when there’s blood and themes yaoi is two blokes who do fuck all

[theoldkyokodied]

The Allegiance of the Ascended Vampire and the New God of Magic

#bloodweave #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #gale x astarion #astarion x gale #gale dekarios #astarion ancunin #yes this is about astarion helping gale defeat mystra and take her place with the crown in exchange for gale helping him with the ritual #the ‘they can make each other worse’ part of their relationship turned to the max #I enjoy them being reluctantly soft for each other more but from time to time I just think about how powerful they could get together #toxic evil boyfriends. take love and twist it up until it’s unrecognisable #I like to think that astarion approached gale with that offer after realising no one else in camp is gonna help him #and that he can use gales own hunger for power which backfired when astarion actually became emotionally invested in gale #and after gale kept his word despite everyone’s concerns astarion changed his plan from not fullfilling his end of the bargain to actually #helping gale kill mystra (mostly so that gale could belong to him and him alone. and letting him take the place as a god bc having a god #at you beck and call is definitely appealing. especially one as eager to please as gale) #anyway what I want to say with this is please please please let me kill mystra i don’t even care if the weave gets destroyed again

[failtosucceedlife-blog]

How to Cope with a Breakup You Don't Want: Dumpees Guide (2023)

How to Cope with a Breakup You Don’t Want: Navigating Pain and Healing How to cope with a breakup you don’t want is a dilemma plaguing many. Heartbreak, after all, isn’t just a buzzword. I know how it feels to be shocked like when she actually said the words “I’m breaking up with you”. I felt ignored, undervalued, rejected, dismissed, and not appreciated in the area of my presence. She had the…

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#Breakup #breakup recovery guide #Emotional resilience #emotional scar #end of a relationship #getting your ex back after a breakup #Healing after breakup #letting go #love lost #Moving On #Post-breakup self-discovery #rekindling the relationship

[thesoftboiledegg]

#tweets #extremely relevant to my fandom #'WAH WAAAH WHY CANT BIRDRICK BE PLATONIC WAHH WAAHHH NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE GAY' #lmao 99% of protagonists end up in a straight relationship even if the characters have no chemistry #we can't have ONE same-gender relationship? #this happens in other fandoms too #I saw a wednesday/enid ship post on facebook and the comments were an endless spew of 'wah wah why can't they be FRIENDS' #who the fuck said they can't?? #you just don't like it because it's a WLW ship

[juicedaloe]

original by @ crawfishcomic below cut

#i don't know the tumblr of the person who posted this in the dunmesh discord. but thank you for the idea #dungeon meshi #labru #kabru starting to openly express his frustration in increasingly convoluted ways because laios will still see him as a friend at the end of #the day is the only way i can see their relationship developing

[the-golden-witch-of-wanderers]

I am part of a group of people who believe that despite the years and the improvements, the fundamental foundations of a person will always remain the same.

If you showed me multiple times that you enjoy other people's suffering and/or like to despise and belittle people, and only show remorse when confronted multiple times, even if you apologize, go to therapy, or tell me that you changed while repeating these behaviors, it only proves to me that a new cycle will come.

That doesn’t mean I don’t know your progress, that I don’t care about your goodwill, or that I believe your therapy is useless. This means that unless there is an extraordinary change, someone who fundamentally hates or despises others will, in my opinion, continue to turn to these behaviors as soon as they feel stressed or threatened to reassure themselves.

That does not mean that this hatred is pleasant for these people - on the contrary, they often turn to self-loathing after the damage is done. But I no longer have the energy to wait for one of these people to suddenly show me a sudden change of personality after sticking multiple knives in my back.

In any case, regardless of their progress or growth as a person, these people should always change for themselves, not for others. It also means to accept them as they are. That means that if they seem toxic to you, but they don't see (or repeat) the issue with their behavior, you should leave them, since they are comfortable acting that way.

It is kinda sad. But it is how it is. You cannot change people unless they want to, and sometimes, you can also become the toxic one by trying to change someone so they'd fit your perception of them.

I don't know man, I've seen so many things on Tumblr about not giving chances, or changing someone, or toxic people, but to me, this is the middle ground. To give a couple of chances, but to accept that sometimes, the chemistry is not there - or that when it's an abusive situation, you can't always be the hero. Sometimes, there's nothing you can fix - or nothing to fix at all - and I think some people needs to hear it.

Be empathetic. Be kind. Treat people the way you'd like to be treated. But also, stand your ground and, if no compromise can be achieved, and no boundaries are respected, learn to walk away while you still have good memories left of them.

#letting go #trauma #abuse #ptsd #c ptsd #ptsd recovery #complex ptsd #end of a relationship #spilled thoughts #thought #self care #self love #outgrowth #outgrowing people #growing up #human kind #be kind

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

sometimes i stalk fancy bakery instagram and

#actually we SHOULD normalize celebrating the end of a bad or mediocre relationship #congratulations on getting your life back! #congratulations on no more wasted time and heartache! congrats on no more throwing away effort on someone who is not worth it! #that is PROGRESS bitch

[catsharky]

Yeah I was right and there was no way I was getting the rest of this done without making you all wait another month or two, so I just went to the next good break point. We're officially past the halfway point with Astarion though, so not too much longer before you actually get to see Rolan again!

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#baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #bg3 comic #I just really love Ember and Astarion's dynamic as well ok #He's who she canonly ends up with but the Rolan timeline is if Astarion had decided he wasn't ready for a physical relationship after all #in which case his relationship with Ember doesn't really change they just end up platonic life partners instead of romantic ones #that duo who everyone assumes are a couple because they might as well be but nah #hopefully gonna get to show off how Ember and Rolan work together once I get back to him cause I love their chemistry just as much #rolan x tav #tav x rolan #rolan x ember #bg3 astarion #astarion #my tav #sharky's tav #tav: ember #oc: ember #sharky art

[nerdpoe]

When Danny decides to reincarnate, centuries after his adventures, he chooses a random Dimension of Heroes and Villains.

He's expecting adventure! Heroics! A life worth bragging about in the Afterlife!

He wakes up in a tube, staring down at surprised teen heroes as they release him and another person.

Later, he finds out that he's a clone of Batman and Superman, and the other clone is of Superman and Lex Luthor.

He came into this world expecting adventures, not a weird custody battle about him and his brother (because that's what Conner is) between two A-List superheroes.

#dpxdc #dcxdp #dp x dc #story prompt #dc x dp #phanfic #superman wants nothing to do with both of them #batman wins custody no problem #bruce now give clark a deathglare if the super even mentions one of the boys #constant sniping between superman and batman #until it eventually degrades their relationship so much they can't work together #culminates in one big verbal fight after another attempted planetary invasion #that ends with batman just losing it and #in a very calm voice that's totally out of place from his earlier growling #“if i'd known my best friend was the type of man who would target a child for the sins of their parents i might have chosen to be alone.” #verbally slaps clark #and that's how clark agrees to go to therapy

[pinkiepig]

No one will ever see us like this. This embrace is only for you to experience 💖

#narilamb #my art #procreate #myart #artwork #illustration #cult of the lamb #they make me happy #their relationship is on a spectrum to me and I dance at both ends jsjjsjs