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musingsofamouse · 10 months

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𝚖𝚢 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎 𝚏𝚊𝚕𝚜𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎

i love being loved; i'd love to love too

just as roses are red and violets blue

but deep down you know that part just isn't true

and "i love you" to me's not "i love you" to you

listen, that isn't to say

"i don't care for your thoughts"

"i don't care for your day"

i love you, yet not. not in the right way

and don't get me wrong, i care for you still

but our love's not the same, so what can i do?

i'm surely a conman, poor victim of mine

but a sorry's so hollow, so i sit here and whine

"i love you" i scream, with all of my heart

i think i'm a liar; i know i am not

greed is a sin- this must be divine

is my love to be punished? are my feelings some crime?

i love being loved; i'd love to love too

spoke honeyed words

sweet falsehoods for you

and, i suppose, if i'm honest

i prayed for the day

i'd say "i love you too", but in the right way

[by me lol]

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redtail-lol · 1 year

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Cupiorose Flag

I never found a solid cupio aroace (cupiorose) flag that I liked, only a few ideas tossed around. So I made one based on the cupiosexual and cupioromantic flags.

#cupio #cupioace #cupiosexual #flag design #flag #flag coining #cupioromantic #cupiorose #cupioaroace #cupioro #cupioaro

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arovaricious · 2 years

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Romo aros, romance favorable aros, aros who sometimes experience romantic attraction: sending you all so much affection and care!!!

#aro #aromantic #queer #aro spec #romo aro #romance favorable aro #greyro #cupioro #bellusro #lithro #frayro #etc etc #👑 anyways im a romo aro ^^

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palatteflags · 11 months

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Softcore by the Neighbourhood based songboards! One with Cupioromantic flag/colors, one without! For an anon~ Hope you like these~

Want one? Send an ask~ -mod Jay

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respirgender · 4 months

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brighter cupiosexual, cupioromantic, and cupiorose flags

because im cupioromantic and pastel colours can be hard on my and others eyes. these arent made with the intention of replacing the already made flags, i just made these brighter for those who want to use these instead!

#cupiosexual #cupioromantic #cupiorose #cupiospec #cupio #cupioaroace #cupioace #cupioro #gender flag #alt flag

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aro-culture-is · 6 months

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Hi hii not a aro culture is post—

I was just wondering if there's a cupioromantic culture is blog ? Ive looked and haven't found any but tumblr is being superr weird right now so i thought id ask you just in case because i was thinking of making a blog if there wasn't one :>

I don't really keep up with other culture-is blogs a whole lot, particularly for identities I don't have. @cupio-culture-is pops up when i looked, but given how long it's been that could be you lol

#Anonymous #not aro culture #cupioromantic #cupioro

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flip-flopping-frede · 1 year

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My attempt at Lithromantic Positivity

I want to preface this by saying I am ~in general~ not a fan of positivity. Trying to “force positivity” is quickly a slippery slope to toxic positivity and superficially. Nonetheless, I feel like I could have realized some lithromantic positivity, and thought it was necessary to share rather than keep it to myself.

It is ok that there’s nothing good about being lithro. It is ok if there are no benefits that we can exploit from ourselves and take advantage of ourselves (or our relationships) with. Lithromantics not necessarily having *any* positives to being lithro (besides our dope flag) means that those of us that have accepted ourselves, are some of the most compassionate, kind, strong, and resilient souls. The amount of self-compassion one has to develop before they can radically accept themselves as lithromantic, is so much higher than essentially any other queer identity.

In a world that has yet to be educated on aromanticsm, aromantics and cupioromantics are scared to date alloromantics, due to alloromantics behaving like it is a “dealbreaker” or “end of the world” if their [romantic] partner is not “in love” [essentially experiencing romo attrac] towards them. It’s valid for both aros and cupioros to be scared to date alloros because of this arophobic mindset they have, tho.

Anyways, a lithromantic might “seem” more appealing to an uneducated alloromantic, since we do experience the romo attrac, or what alloros mistake for “love”. At the same time, once an alloro experiences and returns that romo attrac towards the lithro, the lithro’s romo attrac fades. Not necessarily fades, but flees and turns into romance repulsion (for most lithros). Uneducated, insecure, and/or unaccepting alloros might feel very hurt for the lithros sudden change. Simultaneously, the lithro may also be hurting for not being able to “keep” or “hold on” to the romo attrac. It feels like, being lithro leaves everyone worse off (and is potentially traumatizing for the lithro). This is why lithros who have accepted themselves have learned how to be compassionate and kind to themselves to an extent that most other queer identities never have to go to before they can accept their queer identity, due to there being more external support, education, and acceptance for their queer identities (including for aros).

It is so easy for lithromantics, especially lithros that have chosen to remain closeted, to drown in a sea of their own self-hatred and shame of being an arospec identity that leaves the alloromantics that reciprocated the romo attrac angry and confused. In a world where alloromantics have all the privilege and amatonormativity is everywhere, lithros are so strong, brave, and resilient for existing as our lithromantic identity in a world that refuses to see us, acknowledge us, validate us, support us, accept us, or understand us.

This is where the lithromantic positivity comes in: lithromantics can relate to everyone. Lithromantics know what it feels like to experience romantic attraction; and we know what it feels like to have a romantic relationship look you dead in the face and not want it. We are also romance ambivalent! We understand what it means to have more than one attitude towards romance. We can understand both apothiros and cupioros. We can relate to another largely unknown arospec identity—frayromantism, since frayros also experience involuntary, primary romantic attraction, just like lithros do. We can even relate to alloros in terms of experiencing romantic attraction involuntarily and getting crushes. And finally, we can relate to aros with struggling to desire romantic relationships in the same way an alloromantic does.

There are so many other identities lithromantic is similar to, like aegoromantic, bellusromantic, and frayromantic. Lithros belong in arospec spaces, and lithros’ voices are so valuable to the arospec community. Lithros are essential in terms of helping to bridge the distance and alienation that is only growing between aromantics and alloromantics.

At the same time, lithros need support. Unfortunately, a lot of lithos hate their identity, and feel no pride for it. We don’t feel seen or validated, and a lot of us feel a lot of shame for being lithromantic. I personally didn’t really see any actual lithros celebrating their lithromanticsm during this year’s arospec awareness week, which is sad. We need the arospec community to affirm that are voices are valuable and that our experiences are valid, especially as we are struggling to accept ourselves.

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pokemoncharacterflags · 2 years

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cupioromantic flag palette picked from Trial Captain Ilima

(requested by: @gaylords-posts-2)

#pokemon #ilima #pokemon ilima #pokemon sun #pokemon moon #pokemon sun and moon #pokemon sumo #pokemon ultra sun #pokemon ultra moon #pokemon usum #alola #cupioromantic #cupioro #cupioromantic flag #cupioro flag #pokemon pride flags #pokemon pride icons

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transmasculinearomanticism · 1 year

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since your blog has the cupioromantic flag header, could you tell me more about running your blog in the aro community? are you considered "allowed" to have multiple arospec orientations while also identifying as fully "default" aromantic (like grayro due to past experiences with crushes, for example)? i'm thinking about running my own aroblr blog as a cupio + gray romantic, but i don't want to be told my desires are just fake because of amatonormativity (because they're not), and i don't want to be unwelcome. or should i just hang out in more openly arospec spaces instead of ones for the non-SAM version of the label? i believe my experiences align better with the latter despite a lot of people on here being loveless and/or non-favorable, which is why i ask.

To preface, it doesn’t matter whether other people believe I’m “allowed” to use multiple labels. I’m a non-SAM aro, cupioro, bellusro, lovequeer - no one has the right to decide which or how many labels I use to describe my aromanticism apart from me.

For your own blog, it's really all about what makes you most comfortable. If that would be mainly following aro-spec blogs instead of ones for more specific labels, then go for it! If anyone does give you a hard time for your labels, do not engage - block the user and move on. From a sideblog, you can only block users on desktop by going to Edit Appearance > Blocked Tumblrs and adding the user’s URL to the list. For anonymous asks, you can block the user by clicking the ••• menu on the ask. Follow users you know are inclusive and supportive and liberally block ones who aren’t.

I hope this helps! if you do make an aroblr sideblog feel free to send me a follow up ask so that I can boost it :)

#anonymous #ask #aromantic #aro #cupioromantic #cupioro

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lgbtquiap-moodboards · 2 years

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Hello! Please could you do a genderfluid and cupioromantic flag with a nature or space aesthetic? (PS: the cupioromantic flag is different to the cupiosexual one, it has two stripes of pink and then a stripe of white, purple and grey)

Hope you have a nice day/evening/night!

I had fun with this, I hope you like it!

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iconsynth · 11 months

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Anonymous asked: "can I have nonbinary miku in style 3 pls? and then nonbinary+cupioro (style 3 and 7)"

Style 3 and 7 nonbinary/cupioro Miku icons for anon! LMK if you'd like any changes!

Free to use; reblogs appreciated!

#vocaloid icons #pride icons #nonbinary icons #hatsune miku icons #nonbinary cupioro icons #nonbinary cupioromantic icons #hatsune miku #miku hatsune #miku hatsune icons #miku #miku icons #pride #vocaloid #icons #icon edits #nb icons #non binary icons #requested

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entropy-sea-system · 1 year

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Bellusromantics are amazing!!

#bellusromantic #actually bellusromantic #Tho I may learn towards greyaro and maybe cupioro?? idk tbh #romo aro #dia aro #aro #aromantic #arospec #aspec #aromantic spectrum #bellusromantic positivity #aro positivity

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palatteflags · 1 year

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Cupiorose Softie moodboard along with my take on a cupiorose flag. For an anon - Hope you like how it looks!

Want one? Send in an ask!

-Mod Sammie 💖

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aro-culture-is · 2 years

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Hi!! Sorry for this, but I have a question: is it aro-culture, wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone and not wanting that at the same time? Because i feel conflicted. Mostly I don’t want a romantic relationship, but sometimes i feel the pull of it, and i get so sad…

i just wanted your opinion on this, hope you dont mind me asking

hi,

this is from a while ago, but there's absolutely microlabels in the aro community for this experience! i'd recommend looking into cupioromantic, bellusromantic, romo aro, and romance favorable aromantic labels.

#freenklin-labby #not aro culture #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod alexander #am i aro #cupioromantic #cupioro #bellusromantic #bellusro #romo aro #romance favorable aro

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flip-flopping-frede · 1 year

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What about a frayromantic and a cupioromantic story. The cupioromantic would be fine dating or getting into some sort of QPR or QPP with any of their friends, however at the same time the cupioro feels insecure about getting into a relationship, partnership, wavership, or any kind of QPR/QPP without experiencing any kind of romo attrac at all to their potential partner.

The frayromantic and the cupioromantic both come into eachother’s lives. The frayromantic initally experiences the involuntary primary romo attrac to the cupioro. However, as the frayro and cupioro form a bond (emotional and friendship) the frayro’s romo feelings for the cupioro fade. Frayro knows how Cupioro feels about a potential relationship, however Frayro is struggling to accept themself and their fading romantic attraction. Frayro is struggling to accept their frayromanticsm and how they cannot keep their romantic attraction.

Cupioro and Frayro connect over how it’s ok to want a romantic relationship without experiencing romantic attraction, and how both of them accepted that *if* they were in a QPP of some sort, neither of them would require their partner experience romo attrac towards them, which is an amatonormative and arophobic standard anyway.

I see so much stuff about “cupioros and lithros” but what about frayros. Lithros and frayros both experience involuntary, primary romantic attraction, and then it goes away. Frayros don’t deserve to be left out of the conversation.

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surohsopsisofclouds · 3 months

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going to bed now but also what's the word for like. it's not cupioromantic and it's not lithromantic but something in between.

Stars. Ok, the romantic stuff is cute to see and I actively seek out fanworks of my favorite characters (especially the ones I relate to/project onto) being romantic and reading it as them being cupioro or something like it. But. I don't want that for myself? I think? I'm pretty sure. Sure it sounds kind of nice but it also sounds. Idk draining?? Idk if anyone knows a word for it I'd love to hear it.

Might just call myself cupioro for now just for the sake of. You know, having some kind of word for it.

#sun chats #Been thinking on this for a while #cupioro and lithro are closest words I can find for it but they don't quite work?#and I know I don't Need to have a word for it. But. I/We like having words that we can say with our tongue to express concepts out loud #the Joy of communication and all that #...we don't really think in words most of the time unless we're thinking out loud. It's nice to have a word to think out loud.#stars but y'all are getting so much Suroh Lore today huh abadhsba #ok Going To Sleep now

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