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Aro culture is wanting a platonic version of tinder so fricking bad

#aro culture is #aro #actually aro #aromantic #actually aromantic #submission #alloplatonic aro culture

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aroace culture is doubting your aro identity bc these feelings you have for your zucchini could be what asexuals experience as romantic and you will never know for sure if you’re actually aro.

(meanwhile, scared that if these feelings are romantic, my aro zucchini might be able to tell and not want to be with me anymore)

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #aroace culture #self doubt #internalized arophobia #imho: aspec people specifically tend to be way more chill about 'idk what these feelings are' #ESPECIALLY when there's a 'i'm scared you'll be upset with me for those feelings' component

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aro culture is hesitating to be active in pretty small part of fandom that means a lot to you, because most people are only interested in shipping within it, so with each "I'm happy that there's no homophobes who'd say they're friends!" i lose confidence in posting anything that is not romantic with the characters

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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aro culture is thinking that you want a relationship with your friend but you just want assurance that they won't leave you for a romantic partner

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#confused-aesthete #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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aro culture is being a multishiper because you don't understand the difference between romance and friendship so when you see friends in media you're like "oh! i like them together so i guess i ship them! :)"

like i want these characters to be in eachothers lives forever but they don't have to kiss or anything,,,

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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Aro culture is finding the "Oh, I was in love with love, I wanted so badly to fall in love, I was obsessed with romance, but I couldn't :(((( " trope even more alien and unrelatable than allo characters outside of romantic comedies. I guess that's someone's experience, but as someone whose experience with romance was 1. boredom with fictional love stories 2. panic with real life relationships..... sorry, can't relate.

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#is-it-mungojerry-or-rumpelteazer #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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partnering aro culture is telling other people about your plans with your partner and getting the sarcastic comment "so romantic"

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #partnering aro culture

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aro culture is mistaking aesthetic, sensual and/or emotional attraction for romantic attraction

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#iampancakeee #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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Aro culture is looking back at the time you roasted a song lyric by lyric and realising just how much you didn't understand how romance worked (still don't, not really)

#aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #submission

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Aro culture is being just... utterly confused at the concept of romance outside of fiction

like. yeah of course my friend got a boyfriend there's nothing unbelievable about that. but like. How Does That Work

#aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #submission

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aro culture is liking breakup songs more than love songs (despite never having actually felt the feelings either describe) because you relate more to the concept of "fuck you and your love" than "i'm so in love with you"

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#crystallinewalker #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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aro culture is a fascination with single adults (esp those who are 35+ & seem very happy/fulfilled with their life)

#aro culture is #aromantic #aro #actually aro #actually aromantic #submission #mod tag: hey not just referring to this post but please don't add tags to these that don't specifically relate to the words of the post :)

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Aro culture is being annoyed at the fact that since two close friends of mine started dating, every single plan made with them, I get forced out of it because they suddenly decided to make it a "date". Why make plans with me in the first place if you're going to cut me out the day before?? Heh???

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #ugh #vent submission

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Aro culture is flirting with your friends and them flirting back cuz fake dramatic flirting is so funny

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #i never did lose 'gay chicken' which was absolutely still a game when i was in school #of course that could. could be the gay and the 'ace til very late teens' #and the 'too autistic to really get why this is so hard for everyone else'

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aro culture is receiving support from the person you trusted most only to see her retiring that support and ghosting you after you told her you were aroallo

:( I'm so sorry

#aroallo-y-la-concha-de-tu-madre #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #alloarophobia

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aro culture is loving shipping, loving the idea of being in a relationship, loving romance, but just. not experiencing attraction to anyone in particular (most of the time <greyro). I want a PARTNER but NONE OF YOU QUALIFY,

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask

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aro culture is not understanding the difference between "like" and "like like"

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask