#aphobes fuck off

[literalcyborg]

Everyone is all for sex positivity until aroallos want equality, huh?

Everyone is all for stopping the sexualization of women until they’re ace, hm?

Everyone is all for community and openness until cishet aces or aros want to be rightfully recognized as queer, right?

Stop the aphobic bullshit and take a step back. Look at your biases. Look at the language you use and realize how mean you’re being. Learn from your mistakes and become a kinder person.

I used to be aphobic. I didn’t understand how someone could feel little to no romantic attraction especially, and it was because I am very alloromantic. But that is exactly how homophobes look at the rest of the queer community. Since they don’t experience the attraction we do, the choose to believe it’s not real.

Just because you don’t fully understand what it’s like to be aspec doesn’t mean you should be hating aspec people. They are queer too. Fucking treat them as such.

#like come on #‘sex and romance are what makes us human!’ #*chucks a penguin at you* BEHOLD! A MAN!!! #aspec #aromantic #asexual #aphobes fuck off #aphobia #I’m not aspec myself but fuck you if you think I’m not gonna stand up for the aspec people I love

[currantlee]

The A in LGBTQAI+ does not stand for ally. Yeah, allies are cool and all, but the A isn’t for them. The A is for all lovely aros and aces who are just as queer as I am.

#Aphobes fuck off #Exclusionists fuck off #Aros welcome! #Aces welcome! #Aromantics and asexuals are queer #Yes; the cishet aros as well #LGBTQAI+ #Queer #Aromantic #Asexual #Aro #Ace #Aphobia #Exclusionism #Lesbian Lady here #Currantlee here

[your-stranger-halfblood-things]

High five to all the aros, aces, aroace, and anyone on those spectrums

#us aroace spectrum people deserve everything #give us garlic bread and dragons #let us love only dinosaurs #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aro #ace #graysexual #grayromantic #demisexual #demiromantic #cupioromantic #cupiosexual #reblog to share love to the whole community and the people out of it #aphobes fuck off

[beeziewe033]

Whenever i see a alastor ship the comments are always like

"isnt he aroace tho?" and the replies are

"Im pretty sure he's just ace"

"He was confirmed Aromantic too"

"No??? He's just ace"

"his VA said he's canonically aroace"

"aroace people can still date"

"thats not gonna stop me from shipping"

Like thats EREASING Aromantic rep and aroace in general, people are so obsessed with ereasing aromantic character

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #ace #aro #aphobia #aphobes dni #aphobes fuck off #arophobia #Hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #alastor #beez thoughts #bee yaps #bees risky posts

[angelic-transsexual]

i'm not very vocal about being asexual, however all of the misinformation surrounding asexuality just frustrates me. i'm not broken or wrong. it's not a medical issue. i DO NOT have a "low sex drive." it's not a choice either, i am not "celibate" or "pure." it's not just cis-het people who have said these things and have made these assumptions about asexuals and asexuality. it's also a lot of queer allosexual folk. I'M STILL A GAY MAN STILL BEING ASEXUAL.

#ftm #gay #trans #transgender #queer #transsexual #trans man #lgbt #trans male #ftm mlm #asexual #ace #acespec #asexual is a spectrum #ace spectrum #asexuality #ace pride #aphobia #aphobes fuck off

[theaceofarrows]

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aro #ace #aro memes #ace memes #aphobia #aphobes fuck off #memes

[tinywafflerat]

pov when you see your favorite aro/ace character in a ship

you read through all the tags…

AND YOU REALIZE ITS NOT PLATONIC 😱😱😱😱😱😵😵😵😵😵😵😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😫😫😫😫

btw reaction images created by me (I’m that cool)

#aromanitc #aromance #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #aromantic #aro #aro pride #aromantism #aro awareness week #aroallo #aromantic spectrum #asexual aromantic #aro week #acespec #ace pride #ace #asexuel #asexuality #asexual #aromaticism #aroace slays #tinywaffledrawing #tinywafflerandom #aphobes fuck off

[stories-and-chaos]

Shrike: Drinks with Mimzy

[Hazbin Hotel reader insert as Alastor’s “darling life and death partner” Ace x ace relationship, both parties are moderately sex favorable.]

[One shot, word count 1587. Cw: aphobia, alcoholism, cursing]

——————

The day after Lucifer’s visit, you went hunting. Not for souls or deals. Or…well one soul and in particular. And you didn’t intend to make a deal with this one. It took some time, checking various bars and clubs. You didn’t know which ones she was likely to frequent nowadays; being an Overlord didn’t give you much chance to go bar hopping with girlfriends.

So it wasn’t until early evening that you found her. Sitting at the bar, clearly tipsy, nursing another glass of whiskey, and bitching to the clearly annoyed bartender was Mimzy. You watched her finish her latest glass. “Gimme another one a these sugar.”

“Make that two, cher.” You came up next to Mimzy and slid a bill to the bartender. He looked even more annoyed at the idea of there being two whiny bitches at his bar but he got your drinks. “Thanks cher,” you said with a smile.

Mimzy glared at you. “Ugh, the fuck do you want?” It didn’t stop her from grabbing the drink you paid for.

“What, I can’t buy my friend a drink or five?” You expected hostility but damn. This seemed excessive. Fortunately you knew the way into her good graces: free drinks.

“Friends?!” she growled. “You come here saying we’re ‘friends’ after what your husband just pulled on me?!”

You sipped your whiskey, doing your best to let her fury wash over you. “From what I saw, Alastor pulled you out of yet another situation, and told you to take off because your problem trashed the place.”

“Like those sharks made much of a difference to that tacky joint. If anything I did you bastards a favor, free demolition.” She laughed nastily and finished her drink. You caught the bartender’s attention and nodded to Mimzy. You slid him another bill as he supplied her with another glass; it was high enough denomination to cover whatever she’d had already.

“Maybe you have a point, cher.” Not really, but you didn’t want her to close you out yet. You needed her less hostile, at least for now. “Here, let me treat you today Mimzy. Make it up to you.”

“Oh you know just how to butter me up doll.” The curvaceous blonde gladly accepted. If she owed 50 grand to loan sharks, doubtless she had tabs at every place in the city that sold alcohol. Which made up the majority of businesses in Hell.

You drank sparingly, just enough so she felt you were having a grand time together. You had the bartender keep supplying her refills; he seemed in a better mood now that someone else was dealing with the sloshed demon.

You let her bitch about everything in her afterlife and responded with soothing noises. In the end, you wanted to know how much shit she was in. This was the first time Alastor had sent her packing; you weren’t sure how she would react. You hadn’t missed the pink mark on her back on her shoulder blade. It hadn’t been there the last time you’d seen your old colleague.

Once she paused in her rambling, you asked about the mark. “I never expected you to get a tattoo, cher. What convinced you?”

The drinks and your apparent sympathy were enough to keep her talking, especially if it was something else to bitch about. “Ugh, that. Had to get it for work. One of the club owners works for someone that works for someone that works for one a’ the Sins. Greed’s head honcho.” She sipped her drink, starting to slow down as she got drunker. “The Sin bastard likes to mark any Sinners working for him, like some horny creep.” She downed the rest of her current whiskey.

“‘Course if you and your beau were properly grateful. I wouldn’t be dealing with this shit.” She pointed at you, empty glass in hand, her eyes looking unfocused and angry. The bartender moved to give her another drink but you made a cutting motion. This was the first time you heard anything of this.

“Grateful for what?” You asked, unable to help yourself. You honestly couldn’t remember what she could be talking about.

She looked at you, black and pink eyes wavering. “Fucking, of course!” You could only tilt your head. “Jesus Christ, it’s been a century and you’re still clueless? It ain’t cute anymore dollface.” Mimzy set her glass down harshly. “Sex, Y/N. S. E. X. If me and the gals hadn’t said anything, you and Alastor woulda never figured it out. You’d probably still be frigid little virgins in Hell.”

Your jaw dropped as you felt a cold spike in your core. You actually had to look down to make sure you hadn’t been stabbed. No, it was just words from someone you’d still thought of fondly. The alcohol didn’t excuse Mimzy; if anything it made her more honest.

Has she always felt like that? No… you remembered her saying she thought you and Alastor were good together. That she wanted you both to be happy. Somewhere in all those decades between then and now, things changed.

She was smirking as you processed all this, glad that she managed to hit you where it hurt evidently. In the way only people who are hurting can do, she kept pushing. But she didn’t realize what exactly hurt you. “You’re probably both terrible in bed too. Lemme guess, you just lay there while he tries to remember where to stick it?” Mimzy kept going as you stayed silent.

As her insults grew, the betrayal of a friend gave way to comedic disbelief. You started chuckling, then you were outright laughing, pounding your taloned fist on the counter. It was a good thing you had finished your drink because all the glasses around you jumped.

“What the fuck is so funny?” Your laughter finally got her stream of rudeness to stop. The indignant look on Mimzy's face just made you laugh harder, your feet kicking in glee.

“Oh, damn, I’m gonna pee myself. Fucking Hell Mimzy! Oh fuck, I needed that laugh.” You wheezed and took deep breaths until you could look at her reddened face without laughing. “Cher, you got one thing right; I still don’t understand all this nonsense about sex. Alastor still doesn’t either.

But that’s never mattered. I’ll never understand why you people think that’s so important to us. Maybe we wouldn’t have ever done it. I doubt that but we also would never have cared. You and so many others are so obsessed with sex that you can’t even imagine a relationship without it! It would be sad if it wasn’t so hilarious.”

Mimzy blinked at you, confusion, anger, and drunkenness warring in her expression. “Even now, you don’t get it! Cher, you insulting us about sex didn’t hurt. You’re a friend and my friend thinking I was stupid hurt.”

You ran your hand down your face. “Mimzy, cher, I’m just going to back up my darling here. If you want to redeem yourself, you’re welcome at the hotel. But don’t come calling otherwise. Especially if what’s his name, Mammon? The Greed Sin, comes after you. We’ll gift wrap you for him before we tussle with a Deadly Sin.”

Pulling the bartender aside, you paid for her outstanding tab, along with tonight’s drinks and a generous tip. “I paid your tab here, so you can call that payment for that talk years ago. Find me when you decide to not be a bitch.” You tucked one of your feathers into her headband. “Au revoir cher.”

Mimzy snatched the feather out and crushed it in her hands. “I don’t need you or him. I don’t need your hotel! I hope those angels kill all of you next Extermination Day, bitch!”

Back at the hotel, Alastor was in the parlor, listening to Charlie’s plans for her visit to Heaven. “Soooooo, how did it go?” he asked in a sing-song tone once he spotted you. You’d told him your plan to find Mimzy before leaving.

“As well as could be expected. I don’t think she’ll bother us anymore. I told her we’d gift wrap her for whoever came looking if she tried something like yesterday again.”

“Hmm, but that would be such a waste of good gift wrap.”

Later that night, in your suite, you went into more detail about your conversation. You were on Alastor’s lap, venting your hurt and tears. “I know she’s gotten worse in Hell, that she’s been using you, but I thought she was still our friend.” He let you get it all out, handkerchief at the ready when you were.

“I thought so as well, cher,” he said quietly. “I hate to admit it but Husk pointed it out to me. We can’t have her interfering though.”

“No,” you said simply, drying your eyes.

Alastor looked down at you, that sharp edged smile just a bit softer than usual. “I think I know what can help you for now, my dear.” With that he stood you both up and started humming, a question in his eyes. Your voice felt a bit hoarse from crying but you hummed along, practice making you harmonize. Then he swept you into a dance.

After a few numbers, you felt up to singing. The two of you danced until you were tired (Alastor probably could have kept going but he didn’t have an emotionally stressful day). That night you fell asleep in his arms, glad you’d married someone that understood you like he did.

——————

A/N: this is more than a little self indulgent on my part. My frustrations with aphobes knows no bounds. Kinda prompted after discussion with a therapist concerning aphobia and the nonsense acespec people deal with. Never forget how valid you are. 💜🤍🩶🖤 💚🤍🩶🖤 Cheers darlings!

@whitewolfsoldat @edgyboi10000 @ch3sire-blu3 @clearly-awkward @badatpunz @bengewatch @chewbrry

#hazbin hotel #hazbin fanfic #hazbin alastor #hazbin mimzy #alastor #alastor x reader #asexual alastor #asexual reader #asexual #acespec #ace representation #aphobia #aphobes fuck off #aroace

[cryptic-corvids-blog]

just some forceful reminders :)

- aro people are queer !!!

- alloaro people are queer and are not bad people !!!

- you can be aromantic no matter what your sexuality is !!!

- being asexual and aromantic are not the same thing !!!

- being aromantic is actually so cool and fun !!!

- being aphobic is actually really lame

#arospec #aro pride #aromantic #aromantism #queer #queer community #aphobes fuck off

[weirdly-specific-but-ok]

new and improved aro/ace poll

#aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #fuck aphobes #aphobes fuck off #tumblr polls #asexual poll #aroace poll #arospec #aspec #lgbtqia #alloace #alloaro #the a is not for ally #the a doesn’t stand for ally #love to the aroace community #CAN I HEAR AN A-MEN #ahaha im so funny #cmon guys vote glitter and confetti or t-shirt cannon

[aroace-cat-lady]

Yes, im aroace. Yes, its contagious. Yes, you better stay the fuck away from me if you think that being aroace is so terrible.

#actually aroace #aroacespec #aroace pride #aroace #aro ace #aroace memes #aroace positivity #oriented aroace #aromantic memes #asexual memes #asexual spectrum #aromantic spectrum #aroace things #aroace thoughts #aroace tag #aroace stuff #tw aphobia #aphobes fuck off #aromantic pride #asexual aromantic #aromantic asexual #asexual pride

[thermodynamic-comedian]

reblog if you're aromantic and not soft or cute or fluffy. i feel like so many aromantic people feel like they need to make themself 'more human' by forcing these qualities onto themselves, and that's fucking sad. you are human. your aromanticism does not make you less human. you do not have to fucking 'redeem' yourself over being aromantic. your anger and your rage and your unapologetic lovelessness and heartlessness are also human. don't hide them in order to appeal to aphobes.

so yeah, reblog if you're aromantic and angry and intense and sharp around the edges and refuse to play the 'acceptable aro' game. i adore you.

#im aromantic and i wanna fucking punch someone about it. thats the mood for today <2 #aro #aromantic positivity #actually aro #actually aromantic #aromantic #aro spec #aro spec positivity #loveless aro #heartless aro #aro post #aro positivity #aro pride #aromantic pride #romance neutral #romance negative #romance indifferent #romance repulsed #frayromantic #aphobes fuck off #aroallo #aromantic allosexual #frayro hours

[interstella-eyes]

Happy international asexuality day!

Doodle featuring my fursona since I’m asexual myself :3

ACE PEOPLE RISE UP!!!!

#international asexuality day #asexual #asexuality #ace #art #oc #my ocs #oc art #illustration #oc artist #oc artwork #fursona #furry #cat furry #Pride #queer #doodle #drawing #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #queer community #the a in lgbtqia stands for ace #sona #fursona drawing #sona art #queer rights #aphobes fuck off #aphobes dni #aspec #queerness

[aceoffangirls]

So just found out about all this shitty aro discourse and it’s horrible. People say aro people aren’t queer enough or oppressed enough. Is that what it means to be LGBTQIA+.

For a community that talks about being so accepting we need to have a good look in the mirror. The community is also filled with Racism, Misogyny, Transphobia, Biphobia and hell even Lesbians get shit on.

Many ace and aro people are told similar things to other queer people that “we haven’t met the right person yet”, “you are to young to know”, “that’s a medical condition”, or even the fact that we feel isolated by our own community.

There are also many struggles that ace and aro people face including worried that if you talk to a doctor about it they are going to blame it on hormones. In a lot of countries where conversion therapy is illegal for queer people or where queer people have their rights protected, asexual and aromatic people are often left out with conversion therapy and corrective rape being a big thing some aces have to face.

They are also one of the most misunderstood queer orientations with countless media, books and queer people misunderstanding, the complexity and fluidity of asexuality and aromamtism.

Many ace and aro people even doubt there sexuality for so long because how can you tell what you are supposed to be feeling if you have nothing to compare it to.

Being queer or lgbtqia+ has nothing to do with meeting a certain standard of what you deem "queer enough" or being "oppressed enough". It is falling out of the social norm and not experiencing the status quo that everyone is cisgender and straight , that everyone experiences sexual and romantic attraction. Its being one or some or multiple of others and loving yourself anyways.

#asexual #aroace #aromantic #lgbtqia #ace #asexuality #aro #aspec #queer #queer community #discourse #tw: aphobia #aphobes fuck off #aphobia #sorry for my mini rant

[chaos-in-one]

From your local ace and arospec gay + trans person: ily cis & straight aspecs and I hope y’all have a wonderful day, you get used as a scapegoat and get caught up in so much lgbtq+ discourse and just know you’re always welcome here <3

#ace #asexual #ace positivity #aspec #aspec positivity #aro #arospec #aromantic #aro positivity #aromantic positivity #asexual positivity #acespec #acespec positivity #exclusionists dni #aphobes fuck off

[thetypingbeast]

Asexuality was compared to pedophilia in reddit thread

Edit: TW aphobia I saw a reddit thread recently where people were being aphobic so somebody said, "asexuality is not a choice" and someone said "neither is pedophilia, that's why it's a mental disorder." Absolutely disgusting. In order to act on pedophilia, a minor is abused. In order to act on asexuality, nobody is. It is NOT the same. If anyone saw this who is aphobic, I hope your eyes have been opened. We don't feel sexually attracted to others. It's not a crime.

EDIT: Omg this blew up! Thanks for the support guys, and for reblogging this to every corner of tumblr! Y'all are awesome!

#asexual #aphobes fuck off #aphobia #lgbtqia #a is for asexual #valid #asexual is valid #community #asexual community #pride #asexual pride #asexual awareness week