#aphobes dni

[eroswmorals]

if A is for Ally, I suppose G can be for Glock, L can be for Lizard, B can be for Batman, T can be for Teehee, etc. etc.

you know, since we're making shit up

#a is for aspec #asexual #aromantic #aroace #lgbtq #lgbtqia #aromantic pride #asexual pride #aspec #queer #aphobes dni

[beeziewe033]

Whenever i see a alastor ship the comments are always like

"isnt he aroace tho?" and the replies are

"Im pretty sure he's just ace"

"He was confirmed Aromantic too"

"No??? He's just ace"

"his VA said he's canonically aroace"

"aroace people can still date"

"thats not gonna stop me from shipping"

Like thats EREASING Aromantic rep and aroace in general, people are so obsessed with ereasing aromantic character

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #ace #aro #aphobia #aphobes dni #aphobes fuck off #arophobia #Hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #alastor #beez thoughts #bee yaps #bees risky posts

[origami-butterfly]

🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

🩶🩶🩶🩶🩶🩶🩶🩶🩶

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

Happy international ace day :3

#asexual #ace #aphobes dni

[soulless-bex]

it’s so painfully hard to get actually good aroace representation in media, because those characters, whether it be by the writers or the fandom, always get their identity erased.

jughead is a prime example of that. we could have had such an important character to represent us, but noooo

wednesday could have been perfect as aroace (especially with how she said she’d pity any man who fell in love with her in the old movies), but that would be too much too ask for

and i’ve seen too many fans asking for yelena belova and kate bishop to be made into a couple for my taste. THATS LITERALLY HER CANON SEXUALITY IN THE COMICS

#i have a lot of feels for aroace rep in medias #being aroace myself and all that #but fuck #is it really that hard to give us representation? #one that is actually IMPORTANT to the plot? #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aroace representation #aroace jughead #aroace wednesday #aroace yelena belova #jughead #wednesday #yelena boleva #queer representation #aphobia #aphobes dni

[interstella-eyes]

Happy international asexuality day!

Doodle featuring my fursona since I’m asexual myself :3

ACE PEOPLE RISE UP!!!!

#international asexuality day #asexual #asexuality #ace #art #oc #my ocs #oc art #illustration #oc artist #oc artwork #fursona #furry #cat furry #Pride #queer #doodle #drawing #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #queer community #the a in lgbtqia stands for ace #sona #fursona drawing #sona art #queer rights #aphobes fuck off #aphobes dni #aspec #queerness

[i-3at-s0ap]

"when I decide women and girls don't know how to label themselves and that my opinion is more valid than their lived experiences, it's because I'm a ✨feminist✨"

#femisnism #for the record i'm a feminist #tw radfem #radfem tw #cw aphobia #aphobia #aphobes dni #feminism #radical feminists dni #asexual #aroace #acespec #discorse

[snapdrxgon-ivy]

YES we need more aro/ace/aroace representation in media

YES not every dynamic needs to end in romance

NO you are not an awful person for wanting to keep shipping characters without any aro/ace headcanons

NO you are not an awful person for wanting any characters you see to kiss

I am aroace !! I prefer to ship characters than keep everything platonic !!

It is hard/nearly impossible for me to feel real romantic attraction to someone, so instead I turn to fictional media to experience what I can't

I struggled with this detail a lot, since most of the people on my spectrums that I've seen will headcanon most characters on the spectrum as well, and I felt like I should be adding more of my own aro/ace headcanons to characters. But I don't have to. You don't have to.

This is just to comfort people who might have had the same concerns as me, because yes representation is important, but so is just enjoying a media how you want <3

#aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aroace #aromantic headcanons #asexual headcanons #aroace headcanons #fandom headcanons #aphobes dni

[sobbles-bog]

yippie

#IMAGE JUST FROM GOOGLE #aroace #aroace flag #aromantic asexual flag #aromantic #asexual #lgbtq+ #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #RAHHHHH and im agender too😈 #aphobes dni #or else👿 #bog meows

[3rdsecretoptions]

i hope all the aromantic people no matter if they're cishet man or cishet woman a very good day everyday, every year and forever in their life

#aro #aromantic #arospec #aphobes dni #lgbtq #my text

[loislaina]

I'm not strictly aromantic or asexual (I might be demi however; I'm *still* trying to figure that one out!), but I support and love every single one of you. Your identity is valid. Your queerness is valid. YOU are valid. You're deserving of all the happiness in the world.

(this includes cishet aroaces by the way)

#aphobes fuck off #aphobes dni #aromantic #asexual #aroace #demiromantic #demisexual #also im just saying it's really f*cking hard to tell whether you're demi when you haven't had sex b/c your dating life is basically null #and as someone who has CPTSD it's even more difficult #because you don't know if your demisexuality/demiromanticism is coming from a place of trauma or you're actually demi #but enough about me #this was supposed to be about celebrating aroaces #because y'all valid as fuck #and i hate that this platform has so much aphobia on it #you're all beautiful people and please keep on keeping on #the world needs your voices

[delphiniumjoy]

Listen

I say found family because "queerplatonic polycule" requires so much explanation and invites a whole lot of criticism.

But if those words make more sense, or seem less like childish fantasy to you, then that's what I mean.

#aroace #aromantic #found family #aphobes dni #qpr #queerplatonic #lovequeer

[gemandthescotts]

Believing heterosexual aromantics, asexual heteromantics, and aroaces don't belongs in the LGBTQ+ community, but the rest do is aphobic.

Think about it like this,

This is steve, he is a trans guy! Great for him right? He is heterosexual! He's still apart of the LGBTQ+ community, right? Of course! Heterosexuality doesn't nessessarily mean someone isn't apart of the community!

So to say just because an aro/ace doesn't feel attracted to the opposite sex that they aren't apart of it IS excluding aces/aros! It is saying that being asexual or aromantic in it of itself isn't being apart of the LGBTQ+ community, which is 100% aphobic

We are all against the heteronormative status quo, and those who are against us are going to put us in the same group, so why don't we stop fighting over bs and fight together?

#asexual #asexuality #aromantic #asexual positivity #aromantic positivity #lgbtq #queer #lgbtqia #lgbtq positivity #my friend today made this argument today and it's the most stupid bs #stop trying to mask it #aphobes dni

[thatqueergarbagerat]

Normalize wanting committed, non-romantic relationships that aren't QPR's or PLP's

#and normalize being deeply uncomfortable with labeling the relationship(s) as partnership(s) #even if it fits the definition perfectly #im nervous about labeling myself as partnering because im so opposed to calling myself someones partner #even though i want long-term committed relationships #which i believe is the definition of partnership but i could be wrong #aro #aromantic #arospec #aromantic spectrum #partnering #amorous #partnering aro #amorous aro #aphobes dni

[queerasaurus-rexx]

people acting like being ace/aro by itself isn't queer like my sibling in trans christ

what do you think the 'a' in lgbtqiA+ means?

accessory?

#acephobes dni #acephobes fuck off #aphobes fuck off #aphobes dni

[sharky-the-idiot]

Captain Spaceboy is asexual now. Sorry. I don't make the rules. He's asexual in my brain whether you like it or not. (my headcanon not canon btw)

#help #i am slowly going insane #silly #im a dumbass #hmmmm #huh #lolol #omori #captain spaceboy omori #omori captain spaceboy #captain spaceboy #asexual #APHOBES FUCK OFF #he's also trans in my brain but he's trans in everybody's brain so #ALSO #TERFS FUCK OFF #terfs dni #aphobes dni

[disgustingposer]

aight some real talk

calling people virgin as an insult in 2023 is cringe as hell, when it's a cishet person I give sort of a discount because not everyone is like, engaged deeply in the queer community and well read on queer/feminist theory but when it's a queer person saying shit like that I feel like scolding them

basically, virginity as we known today is a social construct that originates in patriarchy, men would determine the value of a woman by her sex life. A woman who never had sex would be seen as pure, naive and innocent and also, women who had sex before marriage were seen as unworthy, dirty, sinners and sometimes put on the streets to die.

"but what about hymens" basing social constructs by genitals and pseudo-biology is one of the main strategies of gendered oppression. it's contradictory to call yourself queer and use this argument as a way of justifying the existence of virginity.

also sex is more complex than penetration, there is a lot of sexually active people with vaginas who never had their hymens broken, would you call them a "virgin"?

"but sex is a rite of maturity" no it isn't lol, are you like in the middle ages or something? there is multiple ways of a person to develop their emotional maturity

also, virginity as a social construct affects heavily asexual people. but it also affects allos as well, there are allos who don't have sex because of social issues from neurodivergence or just general shyness or aren't like, interested in sex and prefer to do other things in life, there is nothing morally wrong with this people. There aren't such thing as "virgin hobbies" there are grown ass married men who play videogames. and more

#ill probably regret posting this #asexual #queer theory #asexual rant #aroace #feminist theory #aphobes fuck off #aphobes dni #rant post #angy #life is pain #why do i do this to myself #stoneflower's brainrot