Aro/ace culture is not noticing the blatantly obvious signs that you are aro/ace all your life and later realising half the shit you thought was your personality is said blatantly obvious signs.
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Riz: Lots of successful men in history don't marry but go on to live with their friends. I've done the research. Historians are always finding these people who were described as a "confirmed bachelor with a wide circle of male friends". It's actually normal.
Jawbone: How do I explain that being a bachelor with a wide circle of friends is both normal and not what he thinks it means?
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If you get mad at the thought of someone shipping a canon gay man with a women, or a canon lesbain with a man, or making a canon tans character cis (either way) but don’t get mad at the thought of someone shipping a canon aroace character then you are the asshole.
If you don’t care what people ship and people can ship any pairing no matter the canon relations and therefore you don’t care what people do with a canon aroace character… I judge you WAY less. Like a tiny amount like a tiny bit just a smidge like “that’s weird” but not like “that’s kinda aphobic buddy”
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This is needed for science!
As usual, please reblog for a bigger pool of people!
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Let me just say as someone who hides a lot of myself in public how nice it is to see aroace and gender flux folks like me being unapologetically proud of expressing their nonbinary attraction and identity. I’m proud of you and I want to be like you when I grow up….even though I’m 35
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HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!!
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maybe i’m weird but i love pretending to have crushes on celebs or characters, i love calling them hot and giggling and kicking my feet even though i feel absolutely no sexual or romantic attraction towards them.
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Why would anyone be aphobic? Ace and aro people have done literally nothing wrong in the act of existing.
It's probably because we're so much sexier than everyone but you'll never get us in a relationship with you, aphobes. Y'all haters don't stand a CHANCE against a bag of potato chips.
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I just ran into a despicable side of Tumblr
A side of Tumblr who called aromantic asexuals 'autistic virgins'
A side of Tumblr who sexualised age regression and said it was nothing but a diaper fetish and 'everyone knows this', then told an age regressor to 'kys'
And I blocked everyone I saw who shared those beliefs
Just a little something for aro/aces and age regressors:
You guys are valid and I love you. You don't deserve this harassment. Be you <3
And to call aro/aces 'autistic virgins' is incredibly ableist. Not every aro/ace is autistic, and to use that language on autistic and/or aro/aces is fucking stupid. As an aro/ace audhd person, autistic people aren't what these people think they are. They never will be.
We're all people here, despite what others say.
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Amatonormativity is OUT queerplatonic relationships are IN
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aroaces are so cool send post <2
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I’m not an artist
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HAPPY ASEXUAL AWARENESS WEEK
(let's all be aware of Me and every other Asexual)
here's some of my favourite asexual characters!
Tori Spring (asexual) - Heartstopper (comic series, TV show)
Isaac Henderson (ace aro) - Heartstopper (TV show)
Yelena Belova (ace aro) - MCU
Georgia Warr (ace aro) - Loveless by Alice Oseman (book)
Aziraphale (asexual) - Good Omens (TV show, book)
Crowley (asexual) - Good Omens (TV show, book)
Entrapta (ace aro) - She-Ra and the Princesses of Power (TV show)
Reyna Avila Ramirez-Arellano (asexual) - Percy Jackson (book series)
Sherlock Holmes (asexual) - BBC Sherlock (TV Show)
Hope everyone has a great week!
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I always doubt myself for being aroace then I remember that for a long time I tried. I really tried to be attracted to people. But some things just aren’t for me. Self acceptance is more important than fitting in.
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part 1 of “the anime Ace Aro finds their person and commits for life.”
Gaara has been an OG of mine since i was a preteen, and frankly i’m insulted it’s taken me, an Ace Aro, this long to pick up on the obvious signs. it’s hardly even a step outside of canon, give this man his well deserved QPR 😤💙
transcript:
(doodle one)
Gaara: I've only known this boy for a few hours. But if anything happens to him, I will kill everyone in this village and then maybe myself.
Naruto: Gaara, that's not what I meant!!
(doodle three)
Gaara: Naruto, I would give my life for you.
Naruto: Can we /not/ talk about you dying right now? Once was bad enough. But uhm, yeah.. me too.
Gaara: -smiles-
Gaara: Unacceptable, I will not allow this.
Naruto: Wha- oi!
(comic)
Temari: Are you in love with him?
Gaara: No... I don't think.. I am capable of that. He is my most precious person, but I know I am not what he longs for. I cannot give him anything more. I would not change him, though. If he is happy, I will be satisfied.
Temari: ..But will /you/ be happy?
Gaara: -pauses-
Naruto: HEEEY! GAARA!! It's been a while! How've you been?
Gaara: I am well. And yourself?
Naruto: Eh, can't complain. Not when I just got here!
Temari: -sighs-
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