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scrumptiousfoxglitter · 1 day

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Signs from when I was younger that maybe kinda sorta should've clued me in on that I'm maybe not as allo as many have anticipated (mayhaps):

• Despite my mother suggesting otherwise, I was able to 'choose' my crushes

• Despite *that,* any option in kiss, marry, kill (or any other variation of it) was just... Wrong

• Any talk of romance and sex outside of a fictional context, and especially if it involved me, felt like a survival scenario

• The sweet childhood memories of me trying to force myself to be attracted to fictional characters (and it 'working')

• The shock and horror I felt when a friend of mine called Scar from The Lion King hot (like, he's not even anthro?)

• The concept of marriage sounding like a survival scenario past the wedding party

•A survival scenario that I, in fact, would consider death over then to even bother actually participating in. Not outright choose it, but I wouldn't rule it out

• Legit cannot (and still can't) fathom what my ideal partner would be (I just listed traits I would want in a buddy ol' pal)

• The reasoning for identifying as pan ("all genders make me feel the same way, so that means I'm attracted to all genders")

• Before that I waited for my first crush to reveal my orientation like sexualities are some box opening

• I AM A CHILD OF GOD, AND THUS CANNOT COMMIT TO DISTRACTIONS FROM OUR LORD'S MESSAGE (exceptions may apply)/hj

#aroace #aroace agenda #aroace stuff #actually aromantic #aromanticism #aromantic #aro #ace #ace ace baby #acearo #asexual #asexual things #queer #lgbtqia

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midnightcrisisstuff · 3 months

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actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

#queerplatonic #alterous attraction #asexual #if you find this and youre her no you didnt #aromantic #queerplatonic relationship #acearo #qpp #qpr #lgbtqia #love #transmasc #alterous yearning #alterous relationship #fuck you mum i love my girlfriend and youll have no part in it #fuck you mum #transgender

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siriusly-remu · 1 month

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the aromantic agenda

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@makelimeade @kiwimuichiro @fallenrain40 @redysetdare @canonically47 @arodabi @drakenhert @pinnakoladda @thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove @midnightcrisisstuff @the-nefarious-vampire

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fun-k-boards · 1 month

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If I ever make a book it's going to be so painfully aromantic and asexual that any allos reading will die from a heart attack because of the lack of romance and sex

#aromantism #aromantic #aro #asexuality #asexual #ace #aroace #acearo #sex repulsed #romance repulsed

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aaa-battery-not-rechargeable · 10 months

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about a month ago, my uncle asked if I had a significant other. I appreciate his gender inclusivity, of course.

I'm used to the question. it's not like it's something outrageous that he's asking. so I simply said no, that's not for me.

he looked at me and said "well, someday." not someday maybe, just.... someday.

of course I'm not quick to anger, but there's a part of me that's a little more defensive about my aroace identity. so I jumped to my defense.

my uncle isn't a bad guy, he's quite nice and tries his best to be respectful in the current political shit storm by supporting queer people. but apparently that does exclude me, an aroace.

I reiterated that I'm just not interested in a romantic or sexual partnership, and I really do not ever see that changing.

and he said something to the effect of "it's okay if you don't want that now."

and I said, "no, it's just okay that I don't want that."

and he said that I was pessimistic. as if I was secretly searching for a relationship or a partner, but was rejecting love because I could not find one.

I calmly (with all the rage in my veins) told him "no, a life without love or sex is something optimistic for me."

he had the gall to look horrified.

I'm sick of aroace people not being seen as normal human people when they don't want the outcome of their life to look like everyone else's. I'm sick of the white picket fence, I'm sick of the assumption that everyone has another half out there.

I'm whole on my own.

#aromantic #aro #aroace #asexual #aromantic asexual #arospec #loveless aro #acearo #ace #aromantic positivity #queer #lgbtq pride #lgbtq+#lgbtqia #lgbt #aro pride #pride month #aroace pride #lilith has the microphone

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aroace-alucard · 8 months

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can someone make a QPR dating app please. please i'm begging you. it isn't enough to just have a "find a friend" app because every time i try one the person i'm talking to ends up either catching feelings or being REALLY weird about it when they find out i'm aro.

"but you'll die alone!" and you will not live to see it; you will die by my sword before death takes me.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #qpr #queerplatonic #queer platonic relationship #qpp #queer platonic partner #arospec #acearo

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dreaming-like-a-girl · 5 months

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For me being in a qpr lately is like. No we're not dating. Yes this is my boyfriend isn't he great and lovely and handsome aren't I lucky. No I don't want anyone to mistake us for romantic partners. Yes I want to marry him. No we're not "just friends". Yes I don't want people to think our friendship matters less than our love. No I don't care what people think. Yes I want you to know that we're each other's and each other's alone. No I've never had a crush on him. Yes, I love him with all my heart and soul.

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ace-disgrace-withamace · 11 months

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‘Why do you make sex jokes if you’re asexual? Doenst that mean you want sex’

Bestie I can make jokes about being impaled on a spike medieval torture style, doesn’t mean I want to

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kirbyskisses · 1 year

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if you, like me, are asexual or acearo - I cannot recommend enough “Is Love The Answer?”

It’s a shojo manga by Uta Isaki. The space imagery, the artwork, the lovable characters, the explanation of a sexuality, and the relatability of it all made me cry by page 11.

It feels good to finally get some explicit representation of myself in anime/manga.

#this is the most obscure thing I will ever talk about #is love the answer #asexual #asexuality #queer #aromatic #acearo #manga #anime #shojo #space ace #space

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ciudadanouniversoblog · 6 months

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Yes. So?

#im asexual #asexual #happy ace week #acearo #ace #ace week #ace pride #soy asexual #comunidad asexual #espectro asexual #orgullo asexual #asexualidad #asexual spectrum #ace community

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3jane-rosen · 5 months

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breaking-news-the-aroace-has · 30 days

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business-bug · 12 days

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Does being aroace fuel my god complex

Yes

Do I mind:

No

#aromantic #aroace #asexual #aro #ace #arospec #aspec #acespec #asexuality #aromanticism #ace pride #acearo #aro ace #aromantic pride #aromantic asexual #asexuel #aromantism

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fun-k-boards · 2 months

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'I can't wait for my daughter to get married and have kids when she's older!'

Then I proceeded to get hit with the trans boy aroace beam at like 6

#trans #transgender #transmasc #aromantic #aro #aroace #asexual #ace #acearo #aromantism #asexuality #trans man #trans masc #trans boy #trans guy

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beetroot-merchant · 8 months

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petition to make cishetallo the norm instead of just cishet please

edit: badly phrased post, apparently. my point is when referring to non-queer people, if you're not going to say non-queer, put an 'allo' somewhere in there. where you put it does not matter.

edit 2: the 'het' does not exclude ace people. demisexual homosexual: someone who only feels attraction to people of the same gender after they have formed an emotional connection.

#im not even cishet but it feels like intentional aspec erasure at this point #like the amount of fucking work cishet aspecs have to do to be accepted as queer is so gross #aspec #aspec pride #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbt community #queer #queer community #aromantic #asexual #aroace #acearo #aromantic asexual #sorryyyyyy about the tag spam but this really bothers me #🐞 || beetle babbles #edit. oh my god the reading comprehension on here realy is That Bad.

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samijami · 6 months

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Reblog if you're asexual,

Or if you like creamy peanut butter

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