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#2024 resolutions
cafeblossomss · 4 months
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2024 things:
go on more walks at sunset
buy more plants
read as many books as you want
buy as many books as you want
tell the people you love that you love them more often
eat your favorite foods
look at the stars as much as you can
drink more water
pet more kitties
go to a museum or art gallery or planetarium
play in the rain
smile at strangers
get coffee and go thrifting
do kind things for yourself
learn something new
love with reckless abandon
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keplercryptids · 4 months
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resolutions for 2024
assume the best of the ones you love. their arms are open, not empty.
it is not the end of the world yet. dabble in hope.
demand reciprocity, without apology. build community as an act of celebration.
marvel at the small & mundane.
your body's limitations are gifts, not punishments. honor them.
intimacy is a light you must always seek out, even when the darkness feels safer.
the best antidote is to learn something new. find the sacred in discovering you were wrong.
create & create & create & create.
defend/fight for/embrace/grapple with/embody/trust gender nonconformity.
love infinitely. rest often.
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clairesstudycorner · 4 months
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Life isn't gonna get better by chance. It's gonna get better by change.
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selfcare-love · 3 months
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2024 vision board. pt 1.
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jugheadthelesbian · 4 months
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my new year’s resolution for 2024 is to let myself be silly and unhinged and odd bc that’s who i am and im mentally ill enough that i deserve some silly and not just hot sad girl
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creatingnikki · 4 months
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things to remember in 2024
i. more quiet time, more silence. more shavasana, more stillness.
ii. keep promises you make to yourself. everyone else can be disregarded — the promises they make, the promises you make to them.
iii. there is no "should do this" or "should be that way" as a universal rule book. your experiences and lessons teach you what are your values, preferences, and takes on life and people. you don't need to convince others of them, you don't even need to most times articulate them to follow them and do as you please.
iv. things that increase your risk of chronic health (mental and physical) issues: sitting, smoking, and situationships. your legs, lungs, and love life deserve much better.
v. 'the best way to take care of the future is to take care of the present moment'. fight the instant gratification, the fomo, the yolo. do the healthy thing for you in the moment, every moment.
vi. go to the salon, the bookstore, the train station, the beach, the bakery more than you go to the bar, the boy's house, and self doubt/loathing.
vii. travel even if you don't have a big budget and cannot do everything you'd want to in that destination because you do now want some travel experiences and stories while you're still in your 20s. make it a priority now, you don't want to feel bitter later.
viii. stop trying to frustrate and confuse yourself so much. you are both the vivacious, warm, kind, person and the somber, detached, pensive person. it's not one betraying the other. it's both you — the sunflower and the black orchid.
ix. ask people of things, it's no virtue to only give and not take. however, don't be so sensitive or shattered if not given or denied. people don't have as much power over your heart as you believe. your heart is happily vacationing on the moon most months of the year away from this worldly chaos. it's your ego that cannot take it. acknowledge the role of your ego, learn to understand it so that you can work with it.
x. do the cringe things. post a hundred reels on Instagram even if you get five likes on each. cringe at that part of you that cringes when you do the things you want instead of cringing at yourself. when you do that you're viewing yourself as a third-party judging yourself and honestly love aren't there thousands out there to do that job already? so then you stick to your job — support yourself no matter how you decide to live your life.
xi. love and romance are not the centre or purpose of your life. you are. the genre of your life is neither rom com nor tragic passionate romance. it's slice of life. love and romance will happen when it happens and will be one part of your life. but all the other parts? they belong to you — to your art and writing, to your joy and exploration of yourself and this world, to your family and friends, to food and cats, to travel and music, to peace and sleep. live a full life.
xii. set processes for your routine that streamline everything and make it easy. your morning work commute, your night skincare, going over your monthly budget, saving and investing for your goals, how you organize your life and time. and when problems show up, simply problem solve. don't take it personally, try to not feel dejected and doomed. and for the times you do, don't try to fix anything. take a shower, eat a good meal, go to sleep.
xiii. when setting boundaries, and when those boundaries are crossed, you don't have to break your head trying to get the other person to change their behaviour. instead, you should change your behaviour. if they cross a boundary, then that should be your cue for a behaviour change, a decision. don't be at the mercy of another's understanding and compassion to have your life be aligned to your needs and values.
xiv. three steps taken > three hundred steps planned. pausing for three months > abandoning for three years. three people you love and who love you > thirty people who are fluff. idk why three is the magic number here but you get the gist. moderation, my love, and balance. regulation and removal.
xv. cut out the noise. you'll figure out more of what that means as you begin to do it. it's social media, yes. it's societal conditioning, yes. but it's also the things your loved ones say despite having the best intentions at heart for you. it's the things the younger you believed and thought and wrote. it's the friends and lovers who come and go and don't really know you well. it's all of it. you have to cut out the noise. build noise-cancelling headphones for your soul over time and carry them with you everywhere.
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thedipcanvas · 4 months
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troutreznor · 4 months
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2024
PUT DOWN THE PHONE
PICK UP THE PEN
LOOK UP
VAPE LESS SMOKE MORE
BE HERE AND NOW
READ NONFICTION & POETRY & NEWS
GREET EVERY BIRD BUG AND PLANT BY NAME (TRY) SAY HI TO FUNGI
MEDITATE OVER MORNING TEA
DO PSYCHEDELICS
GIVE PEOPLE A CHACE
GIVE IT TIME
LOVE THE THINGS THAT ARE ALIVE
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nocturnowlette · 4 months
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my new years resolution is that ill be using my powers for evil . watch out!
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2024 Wish
Anyone else here make a new years resolution to write more? Maybe even finish a story or two? I did. Here's hoping it sticks!
For everyone like me, here's my wish for you:
I wish you all continued inspiration, free time, and energy. May you find joy and fulfillment in what you write, and be proud of the stories you create. Whether you plan to publish traditionally, make money, or simply enjoy sharing your art online, I hope that you not only meet your goals but surpass them.
Happy New Year, everyone!
Let's write.
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ishhbowl · 3 months
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2024 resolutions
stay away from 10 step skincare and 40$ eyeshadow pallettes wear exclusively shitty drugstore eyeliner and sharpie nails as god intended
dress to make conservative moms convulse
make as much awful nasty gross art as possible
get more transgender
stay off tiktok instagram snapchat twitter. if anyone tells you to get tiktok instagram snapchat twitter you should eat them
crop all your shirts
invest in a good vpn (i personally recommend nord)
listen to bad music made by depressed 20 year olds with 18 monthly spotify listeners
firefox
go on walks when you can
always partake in vandalism
delight in the indulgence of creation
cheat on tests
i love you
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agirlunfilteredsblog · 3 months
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WHY YOU AREN’T GETTING YOUR DESIRED RESULTS IN YOUR GOALS IN LIFE
Hi girls!! Today, we are gonna list some reasons why you may have goals in your life that may seem impossible… Remember that these are only SOME reasons, there could be more personal variables to your struggles as well!!
1. INCONSISTENCY
The key to achieving your goals is repetition. You need to program your brain in a way that the path to your goals becomes routine, something natural. For example, if your goal is to workout more, working out for 20 minutes each day is much better than working once a week for an hour. Keep at it and results will come!
2. IMPOSSIBLE STANDARDS
You know yourself and your body… Don’t force yourself to do something impossible, that will only lead to a self-destructive pattern that will result in you feeling worst in yourself. Give yourself time to acclimate to your changing lifestyle. Let’s say my goal is to study more; I’m not gonna challenge myself to study 4 hours each day… A reasonable challenge would be to study an hour 4 days a week.
3. BEING TOO HARD ON YOURSELF
I’ve seen a lot of my friends attempt the 75 hard and fail and let it ruin their days. I find that ridiculous, I know discipline is important, but discipline is not all there is in life. Challenging yourself should be fun, it shouldn’t be a task you despise doing. If you fail at your goal, that’s okay!! Simply try again.
4. ONLY FOCUSING ON THE PHYSICAL AND NOT THE MENTAL
This 4th reason is especially prominent when it comes to setting goals to “workout more”. A lot of times, we workout more to see desired results on our bodies. Although desiring a certain body is totally fine, the point of getting healthier shouldn’t be to look a certain way, it’s to feel stronger. Having a healthy body, but a rotting mind is just as bad as being “happy”, but dying due to poor health conditions. Do your affirmations, remind yourself that you are loved in all bodies.
5. LACK OF MOTIVATION
Nowadays, I see a lot of teens start their health journeys because of social media and when they fail, they wonder why. A start to self-healing needs to stem from YOUR needs and desires. You need to have some sort of fuel to succeed. Whether that be an insecurity or a need to be better, other people are simply not motivation enough in my opinion.
so much love,
a girl unfiltered 💋
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lyralit · 4 months
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-> new year's priorities? (aka trying out polls because they finally work)
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clairesstudycorner · 4 months
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Welcoming 2024
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A Very Happy New Year be upon y'all!
That being said, here's my New Year's Resolutions! (if I'm posting it, I'm sticking to it. Well, that's the plan)
Academic:
Control procrastination
Study regularly, get projects done ahead of time
Quit multitasking
Studying healthy, taking small breaks
Quality > Quantity
Physical Health:
Regular exercise
Nature walks/morning walks everyday
Drinking adequate water
Eating healthy, controlling caffeine consumption
Skincare
Mental Health:
Reading more
Limiting phone usage
Meditating
Setting clear boundaries
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selfcare-love · 3 months
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✿2024✿ goals & habits i want to implement ✨
hair
wash 1-2x per week based on needs
oil treatment 3-4hrs before washing, once per week
hair mask 2x per week
small amount of hair oil in ends everyday
scalp massages nightly
only use claw clips + scrunchies to avoid breakage
loose braids/protective styles while asleep to avoid damage/breakage
skin
cleanse + moisturize every single day!
face mask once per week
find new skin care products that work with skin type, play around + establish a routine
body
eat mindfully
drink more water
incorporate greens + fruit as often as possible
indulge in fav foods <3 no restriction here!
move body more! dance, walk, workout, anything to get moving!
exfoliate, lotion, fragrance more often!
nail care <3 cuticle oil & polish!
mental
read more books
journal - prompted, gratitude, or just brain dumps. anything!
practice positive thinking + reinforce negative thoughts
practice self love + body positivity
overall, i just want to take better care of myself, mentally and physically. <3
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fortheloveofexy · 5 months
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I could be gayer
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