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agirlunfilteredsblog · 7 days

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LETTING GO AND MOVING ON

Hi girls!! Learning to pick and choose where I place my energy is something I’ve always deeply struggled with so today, I figured we’d discuss ways of learning when to let go and simply let things be the way they are supposed to be.

1. MAKING PEACE WITH YOUR SITUATION

Although things nay not be going on the way you want them to, sometimes, you need to face the music and accept your reality. Now, I never said to settle for your reality, simply accept it. Denial will get you nowhere but delusion and no matter how much social media attempts to glorify it, you do nothing except make yourself look stupid. Delusion is nothing more but the logic and mind killer.

2. COMMUNICATING

If you ever feel the need to say your piece to an individual; just say it. So long as it’s in the bounds of respect and rationality, expressing yourself will make it much easier to let go of a situation. You won’t live with regrets and you’ll be able to move on knowing you’ve expressed your true feelings and intentions.

3. REMINDING YOURSELF THAT LETTING GO IS NOT THE END FOR YOU

Often times, we think that letting go of someone or something is the end of the world. We say that we won’t be able to do life happily, but that is not the case. Your course in life is not linear, you will undoubtedly face obstacles. But those obstacles are not your end and letting go isn’t either. Embrace the fact that your life is ever-changing. As they would say in Latin: Promoveo.

sending so much love,

A girl unfiltered 💋

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 10 days

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A little message I sent to my friend recently

#self healing #reminder #mindset #wellness #healing #kind notes to self #self reflection #self growth #healing energy #healing words #wordsofwisdom #just girly thoughts #girls of tumblr #this is a girlblog

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 11 days

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For any girl wishing she was someone else

Stop living for other people’s standards. When you become so intricately obsessed with how others view you, you forget the importance of individuality. Be proud that your standards differ from others. Be happy that you are inherently different. Embrace those differences and wake up grateful that you even have them. Diversity is truly the only thing the whole world shares.

#reminder #mindset #know your value #know your worth #kind notes to self #self healing #self growth #self worth #self love #love yourself #spread love #healthy life tips #affirmations #healing words #wordsofwisdom #healing energy #growth #you are worthy

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 15 days

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So beautiful that I had to share with you guys 🤍

#reminder #spread love #be kind to yourself #spread positivity #spread kindness #kind notes to self #self healing #self love #love yourself #inner peace #inner love #light energy #finding happiness

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 15 days

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MORE VALUES* (OR QUALITIES) TO HOLD NEAR AND DEAR

Hi my gorgeous gorgeous girls!! You guys all loved my takes on values that are crucial in life so naturally, I had to post some more for you guys ;)

AWARENESS

The ability to read social cues and body language (of yourself and others) is such an important quality to have as you grow into adulthood. But beyond that, simply the ability to know when’s your time to express yourself and/or your opinions is truly an underrated superpower.

CONFIDENCE

This one definitely comes with time, so by no means am I saying that if you aren’t confident that you are in a lower standing compared to others. However, confidence is key in making it in this life. Find things you excel at and build those. The confidence of self will come in time.

ACCOUNTABILITY

This trait, in my opinion, is the defining proof of inner growth. There is nothing worst that someone who isn’t capable to look at themselves and honestly admit they’re wrong when they clearly are. Erring is what makes us ultimately grow and denying yourself the pleasure of learning will ultimately be your downfall.

CURIOSITY

As I’m sure you’ve gathered from my blog, I love learning. I believe that if we were put on this Earth for one thing it would be to learn and further our minds. You don’t need to be “school smart” or “street smart” to learn (I hate those terms), you just need to be curious. When you stop constantly questioning yourself on if your thoughts are relevant and simply reflect on them, your world will expand tenfold.

AMBITION

The most successful people in the world are successful because they had one thing: drive. Girls, I know on social media we are seeing an uprise in women who are pushing the idea of being a stay-at-home girlfriend, but you need to remember that this cannot be everyone’s reality. I’m not bashing these girls, in fact, I would love to be able to have a husband capable of providing a life for myself and my family, but right now, I want to get a degree so that I can support myself comfortably if need be. Money comes and goes, but knowledge is infinite. Get that degree, get that education, you might need it somewhere along the line.

So much love,

A girl unfiltered 💋

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 16 days

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how do i explain to my dad that no i dont know the girls that like and reblog my posts, but i would die for them and they're all invited to my wedding

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 16 days

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GROWING OUT OF YOUR INSECURITIES

Hi girls!! First and foremost, I want to apologize for being MIA as of recently, I just got back from traveling and school has been extremely chaotic as of late. Nevertheless, I’ll do my best to upload as regularly as possible from now on!!

As the title states, today, we will be discussing how to grow out of those nasty ideas we unfortunately hold ourselves accountable to. Obviously, it’s not easy (dare I say possible) to simply ignore the insecurities that run into our minds, so all I’ll be trying to do is give you advice on how to reduce the amount of negative energy that surrounds you on a daily basis.

Speaking purely on experience, so this may not apply to you, insecurities stem from certain traumas. My biggest piece of advice to you is getting to the root of said traumas and healing those parts of yourself. Sometimes, even when we think we’ve healed, we haven’t, so I really want you to dig deep in your mind and reflect.

Beyond that, start telling yourself affirmations. It sounds silly, but trust me, the more you say those affirmations, the more you’ll start believing them.

Finally, accept the fact that you aren’t perfect. I say this is in practically every post because I truly and full-heartedly believe it. We aren’t perfect and that it was makes beauty of life. Our uniqueness is what makes us shine; think of how dull life would be in uniformity.

Hopefully this helps and if you need any clarification please, please, please do not hesitate to let me know!!

So much love,

A girl unfiltered

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 18 days

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#reminder #mindset #self healing #self growth #self worth #self love #self improvement #kind notes to self #be kind to yourself #love yourself #healing #wellness #affirmations #know your value #know your worth #happiness #light energy

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 22 days

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Can you expand on how to create a Happy Routine? That's a new concept to me.

I would love to!!! And don’t worry, the idea of a “Happy Routine” is only something I started implementing as of recently too!!

Honestly, I would say a big part of this concept is acting intuitively. Often times, we are so conditioned into doing what others expect us to do or implementing habits that don’t accommodate to our bodies. A Happy Routine is a routine that rejoices your body in all aspects: physical and mental.

Start incorporating habits that you enjoy doing. Reflect deeply on what actually brings you joy and things that you THINK bring you joy. Stop caring about what people have to say about the things you enjoy doing. All-in-all, I’d say a Happy Routine is simply implementing things that nourish your body, your energy, etc. Think of it as removing things in your life that actively drain you!!

I hope this helps and if you have any other questions do not hesitate to let me know!!

A girl unfiltered 🩷

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 24 days

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 28 days

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You should be proud of yourself and show it by having high standards and expectations for other people. After all, if you don't value, prioritize, and invest in yourself, why would you spend time with others who do and put up with less effort? Compared to others, your company speaks a lot more about you.

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 1 month

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Hi girls! Today, I will give you my tips on how to ground your life around your needs and learning how to prioritize yourself as well as your well-being.

1. Creating a “happy” routine

What I mean by “happy” is creating a routine that makes you happy to wake up each morning. We all have little rituals that excite us; all you need to do is tap into them and apply them in your daily life. If running brings you joy, incorporate running in your daily routine. If it’s journaling, incorporate journaling in your schedule.

2. Reserving the end of the day for self-reflection

Because we get so caught up in the problems of our lives, we tend to forget to remind ourselves about our blessings. Telling ourselves about all the good things we possess allows for “nuanced”views of self. Distinguishing what we have a right to complain about and what we complain about simply for the sake of it makes ALL the difference.

3. Accepting the fact that we are constantly changing

Listen to me, you do NOT need to know every single aspect about yourself right now. In fact, you might not ever and that’s okay. One day your biggest priority could be school and the next month, it could be family. Your needs do not need to be cemented. Embrace the change and love every single part of your life’s evolution.

So much love,

A girl unfiltered 💋

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 1 month

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#reminder #mindset #kind notes to self #spread kindness #be kind to yourself #healing words #self healing #healing #affirmations #manifesation #spread love #love yourself #self love #wordsofwisdom

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 1 month

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Don’t forget to always be your most authentic self. Aspire to light up every room you walk in with your energy at its purest form. Be the person that people look up to. More importantly, be the person your younger self would fully look up to.

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 1 month

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Hey girls!! Not my usual post but today is my birthday and I wanted to come on and say thank you so so so so much for allowing me to have this blog and speak my mind. This little community, which I started thinking would be nothing, turned into my biggest passion project yet! Actually I take that back, you guys are so much more than a passion project, you guys are my friends and I hope I reflect that in my posts. I love you all so much and hope you guys have the best weekend (if thats where you’re at) ever!!! 🩷

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 1 month

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VALUES TO HOLD DEAR AND NEAR

Hi girls!! These are some quotes that typically ground me when I have struggles adhering to my own moral code/values. There is nothing shameful in struggling with your inner-self, the shame comes when we refuse to acknowledge it.

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KINDNESS

“Kindness is free to give, but priceless to receive”

“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness of people”

PERSEVERANCE

“I will persist until I succeed. Always will I take another step. If that is to no avail I will take another, and yet another. In truth, one step at a time is not too difficult. I know that small attempts, repeated, will complete undertaking.”

HONESTY

“If you cannot be honest with yourself, there is no hope of being honest with anyone else.”

“If you are a person who won’t be honest unless other people can ensure that there will be no consequences for your honesty, you will never actually find the people, places, and things that you are actually compatible to. You are dooming yourself to a life of incompatibility.”

HUMILITY

“Humility is the mother of all virtues; purity, charity and obedience. It is in being humble that our love becomes real, devoted and ardent. If you are humble nothing will touch you, neither praise nor disgrace, because you know what you are. If you are blamed you will not be discouraged. If they call you a saint you will not put yourself on a pedestal.”

“Humility is the first step towards learning. You can't learn until you are humble enough to realize there is something for you to learn.”

So much love,

A girl unfiltered 💋

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agirlunfilteredsblog · 1 month

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Yes, I aspire to be rich. Rich in adventure, rich in health, rich in knowledge, rich in happiness and laughter, and most importantly, rich in love.

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