#narcissistic abuse is no joke

[greenevergreens]

Narcissistic abuse is real, and don't let ANYONE try to convince you that the hell you went through didn't happen and no matter what DO NOT let ANYONE convince you that YOU are in the wrong for talking about the abuse you endured and giving that abuse the appropriate name of narcissistic abuse.

#narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse survivor #narcissistic abuse is real #narcissistic abuse is no joke #narcissism #npd #narcissists die #narcissists are abusers #narc abuse #narc abuse is real #abuse survivior #abuse #tw abuse #emotional abuse #child abusers #narcissists fuck off #narcs fuck off #psychological abuse #mental abuse

[cringefailroboguy]

It sickens me how you people silence us abuse victims with the whole "Ohhhh using narcissistic abuse is an ableist term", you don't realize that you're silencing us. You will never even BEGIN to understand the abuse and pain we all went through, all you care about is your political correctness and "ableism". You will never understand the pain of me being abused by my narcissistic mom, narcissistic dad, narcissistic sister, narcissistic brother, narcissistic grandma, narcissistic dog, narcissistic cats, narcissistic postman, narcissistic Silent Billy who lives in an apartment two blocks from me, narcissistic pigeons, narcissistic mosquitoes, narcissistic wasps, narcissistic houseplants, narcissistic construction site, narcissistic pavement, narcissistic clouds, narcissti

#narcissistic abuse #npd #cluster b #actually npd #im going to sleep now #joke aside tho - I used to have a friend who legitimately accused every person they ever interacted with of abusing them #i wonder how they're doing now

[a-sip-of-milo]

Hi I was wondering if you could explain what Narc Abuse is? If you’re comfortable explaining ofc, if not feel free to ignore this. I’ve seen it on other peoples dni as well and I’ve not interacted because I am unsure of what it means. I’ve tried looking it up but haven’t found a concrete answer. Also side note I do n o t believe people with certain disorders are inherently abusive/dangerous. Especially as a neurodivergent person myself. I am genuinely asking this and as kindly as possible. I hope you have a great day.

That's okay! Narcissistic abuse is described as a very specific kind of abuse caused by people with NPD. If you want specific examples of what narcissistic abuse might entail, then take a look at this article about emotional abuse and this one for domestic abuse🙂

#actually this started off as a joke but those two resources are not bad #ask #npd safe #narcissistic abuse is not real

[vain-creature]

This came to me in a vision

#npd #actually npd #narcisstic abuse #This is a joke btw!!!! putting it in the narc abuse tag for funsies #narc abuse #narcissistic abuse

[necrogfie]

i know what actually, i fully support narc abuse

i want a narc to abuse me ! !

#rambles 🧸 #joke post but not rlly (the narc abuse part is a joke - not the i want a narc to abuse me part) #i love narcissistic

[boyczar]

please remember that it is a compliment to be disliked by people. most people don’t even like themselves. think about why you even want to be liked by somebody. why do YOU like YOURSELF?? why give a fuck about whether or not somebody with so much work to do on themselves doesn’t like you? they literally do not even like themselves. they can’t genuinely “like” you.

#mine #so tired of people who literally only know to people please #‘people pleaser’ is such a joke of a phrase bc they’re literally the most disappointing people i know #they don’t respect themselves #they live in such a way that is so repulsive to me it literally gives me euphoria to know they dislike me #call me names lie about me tell me you never wanna see me again #it’s literally bliss #like what do they expect? #for me to cry on the floor and beg them to love me?? i am not a fucking codependent like everyone else you know #i’m not gonna fucking fawn over you after you mistreat me #and of course no one else will defend me bc they’re all cowards too #afraid to not be on the narcissist’s team #bc the only other team has literally one player and that’s the scapegoat / truth teller #literally who tf wants to go against the narc?? nobody!! that’s why they think i’m stupid #it’s a blessing to be hated by cowards #it’s a sign you’re doing at least one thing right #acoa #family systems #codependency #narcissitic abuse #sick & tired of people living in these beat-around-the-bush type relationships where they are never direct and they are never happy #they don’t actually CARE about each other #they just want to be comfortable!!! #well it’s not COMFORTABLE to grow #‘you’re not the same person you used to be’ yeah well you’re EXACTLY THE SAME!!! #i love when people think that’s an insult #go ahead and tell on yourself #you have never changed or grown or confronted the ways that you treat people #i’m over it #it’s such a joke when these people try to talk to you

[alostlittleriverlotus]

hey guys

Just learned there's no cure for narcissism.

Looks like us narcissists are just stuck being so much better than everyone else and being super sexy 😔 why must we be cursed?

(I'm making a joke out of some ableist bs I saw saying narcissism is evil and can't be cured and they don't care about our trauma. And for the ableist folks that go "narcissist is different from npd" this person flat out said NPD. They know. Fuck off.)

#ableism #anti narcissists suck #narcissistic abuse isn't real #narcissistic abuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #it just means I'm hotter than all of you /joke #npd #actually narcissistic #ableists

[we-are-the-memers-mr]

Today is the first day of the rest of my life. I'm proud of my progress so far and I love who I am for the first time in a long time. Without toxicity in my heart, there is room to love myself.

#memes #haha #funny memes #funny #dank memes #dark jokes #dark memes #domestic violence #healing #mental health #self compassion #boundaries #abuse #child abuse #trauma #narcissistic parents #family violence #toxic family #dysfunctional family #emotional neglect #family trauma #toxic people

[greenevergreens]

This is why I also don't really believe it when a narc says people always end up abusing them, considering how they're always the ones making themselves out to be the victim. I mean I'd bet good money that they're out there traumatizing people then crying victim the second the person they abused starts calling out the narc on their shitty behavior.

#narcissistic abuse is no joke #Narc #Narcissism #Narcissistic #narcissistic #narc #narcissism #npd #not npd safe #npd unsafe #narcissists are abusers #narcissistic abuse is real #narcissistic abuse #survivor of narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse survivor #narcissistic abuse victim #narcs are abusers #abuse #emotional abuse #psychological abuse #psychological warfare #narcissists fuck off

[subconsciousmysteries]

now my mother and sister are crying that I'm having a baby cuz they think I'm gonna be scum like my mother and make ppl, let alone kids, who aren't his parents look after him when they don't want to. Lolno. I'm not like you freaks. I understand the concept of consent and boundaries unlike you.

#My sister will never see the light lol #She's brainwashed by mum to scapegoat me for mum's parentification of her #Classic n bitch #Can't wait for her to die (mum) #Lucky my sister is a 7 who quickly forgets conflicts and wants to joke around when she isn't triggered #My sister only sucks when mum is in the room abusing me (takes mum's side) or #When mum complains to her about what a terrible person with no empathy Sarah is because she disobeys me and hurts my feelings #Sis has golden child and enmeshment syndrome #And I don't feel sorry for anyone who is enmeshed one bit #Even tho their behavior towards you as a scapegoat can be bloody disgusting #I forgive my sister but never my mother #Psycho narcissistic bitch with anger problems

[empath-abuse-awareness]

Ahh I’m already getting hate anons, I guess that makes me a real npd advocate now huh

Anyway narcissists you are amazing and you deserve so many good things

#joke #narc abuse #narcissistic abuse #narcissism positivity #surviving narcissism #narcissist #npd positivity #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #npdawareness #empath #narc #narcissism #narcissismawareness #debating on posting that anon for people to laugh at or to delete it and prevent nonny from getting the attention they want

[toolazytodecide]

No song will make me as immediately angry as “Bigmouth strikes again.” by “The Smiths” like I honestly can’t tell if it’s genuine or not but I kind of don’t care. It enrages me.

#The Smiths #Bigmouth Strikes again #for anyone who hasnt heard it its essentially opps im such a bigmouth for threatening to murder my girlfriend #ugh everyones so judgy now i understand how joan of arc felt #like youd think nobody could write that genuinely #but then again people like that do exist #and even if it is a joke i dont think men should joke about murdering women in any way #like the way he phrases the jokes too is so specific and terrifying #like maybe hes mocking narcissists #or maybe he is one #ive seen all the people online trying to defend it bc its a joke but i dont care #also the lyrics are a shame bc the song is a bop #abuse mention #violence mention #tw domestic abuse #also there are probably worse songs i know don't take my phrasing too literally #like i know R Kelly released a whole album defending what he did #which yeah probably would make me angrier if i listened to it #but i have no intention of doing so #i do however love the smiths so regularly hear it on playlists

[surviveoutloud]

A brothers story: Narcissistic abuse.

How do you deal with a narcissistic person. An Ex wife is very difficult to deal with. When they were married she treated him like crap and knocked him down as much as she could. He was in the Marines she never let him do anything even with his family when he was home. Could you imagine not being able to even see your own family?! Their marriage was short lived but he only married her because she would take the child, and each time he requested a divorce she became pregnant or stated she will harm herself. He felt bad no matter how psychotic she is. Even her own family contacts him and tells him she’s crazy and to just leave be. Her own family sent him emails showing her mental issues with manic bipolar and multiple personality disorder as well as being a narcissist to not just him but anyone around her. Since childhood her family couldn’t deal with her as she has homicidal ideations when people make her a little mad. She was cheating the entire marriage. For years she has flipped her mind and keeps taking drastic measures. It started with her having him falsely arrested and him getting all charges dismissed. Then her sending texts to him and herself with threats to him and his new family with children. (He changed his number and emails it stopped but of course on her end it didn’t) she didn’t know he changed his number. Each WiFi number she used was tracked back to a towers in her area many states away from him. The courts accidentally gave her his new email since he pays child support for the children. So far 3 guys came forward about sleeping with her while he was deployed. The only time he was with someone else was when he told her it’s over. Not cheated! She emails him constantly with threats and fights and always blames him as the aggressor for the fights. However all he asks is about the children and when he can speak to them. He moved states, he changed numbers again, filed restraining orders. Shortly after moving she find out where he lived and CPS comes to him and of course her accusations are found false but when his state attempted to find her they couldn’t. She uses his social security number to destroy his credit. He lost communication with the children because she won’t answer any emails text or calls unless it involves paying or an issue she has. She tries to force him to call her # knowing she will claim harassment. As she continues to claim she will ruin his life. Every text or email from her is “you’re bipolar , “smallD**ck boy”, “spermdonor” “bald, chick nipples” just rude and childish messages. He has offered a mediator, therapy, visitation that works for both parties and he gets no contact for the kids. He offers to do things her way and it’s never good enough. The sad part is when he talks to the kids they tell him everything she coaches them to say and think. She literally tells them to call him by his name and to say they hate him. Even the kids have told him, she tells them to be as mean as they can and that they don’t have to listen to him ever! She is mom and GOD as she claims. Or she will send messages pretending to be them. Since they are under 13 courts won’t let them speak. He went as far as to not do visitation anymore because she plays a dangerous accusation game and each time it’s unfounded. In the same breath she gets mad he doesn’t take the children. Over the years he has compiled over 4000 emails, screen shots, recorded calls, messages everything to show her mental instability and her narcissistic personality. My question is how do you co parent with someone who threatens you and your family. It feels as if she forces his hand on having anything to do with the kids to protect his family. I’ve never seen someone so diabolical they can’t co-parent and so psychotic they believe what they say even when you show them exactly what they sent you in recorded document. Like woman!!!!! She wanted the divorce and cheated the entire marriage but once she saw he didn’t fall and is living a happy life, where he is a better man it’s like she broke mentally. Worse than what she was before.

When she obtained a order of protection on him she lied and stated he had fire arms- well his fire arm was stole 3 years before hand and Cobb county Ga had it in evidence he never claimed back, she claimed he beat her when she was pregnant but the voicemails show he wanted to leave her and she would BEG for him to stay. She claimed she feared for 7 years yet again - voicemails and emails prove she was the aggressor and never hurt her. She claimed he convinced her to never call the cops- well he was never home to do so after the Marines he worked out of state. Never one did she have a bruise a cut or even a scratch. He has had multiple black eyes including the day of their wedding when she punched im him in the face. She has given him bruises and scratches that were pictured. In her report she claimed she felt afraid and ran to him in the bathroom. Call records show he was on FaceTime with his now wife who was valuable witness to everything. She took his phone not to call 911 but to meddle in his relationship. She just couldn’t let him be happy. They were married separated living together for the entire marriage. She dated over 10 guys throughout the marriage. Then at the time her boyfriend lived in Las Vegas. He dodged a bullet with her. The case was dismissed and removed from his record. This was the turning point of her trying anything in her power to ruin his life. For a second he was mentally shattered but his support system brought him up! They carried him to the top. Now she is mad. Let’s fast forward to the day she got the order of protection- when arrived to their residence he went with 3 officers to get his uniforms and his truck. This crazy woman cuts the screen and shatters the window of the baby’s bedroom so she can throw clothing and other pyramid out the window. Screaming at the officers “you better get a warrant”. Get this she has the nerve to blow up his phone every hour on the hour for days after that. BEGGING him to come by asking him to just talk to her. It was game over he signed anything those divorce papers said just to get her out his life. She claims to be a victim for 7 years. She was not she IS the AGGRESSOR.

Fast forward - He has gone to court over 3 times in 2 years to get a restraining order and guess what. NOPE she’s too far from him. Statues have to be met in order to obtain such order. I swear it is just sad. The scary part she is trying to be a police officer in Chicago: WOW!!! now that is insane. She could harm someone really bad. She is very good at making you think she is an amazing person but emails, texts, phone recordings and voicemails all say differently. She plays the victim card very well. Yet she is no victim. She reminds all of us of a Casey Anthony, Amber Heard, and the Gabriel Hernandez trials! Very worrisome! Over 50 people can testify to her verbal-physical abuse and false accusations. She was very good at falsifying messages to herself but she forgot a tiny factor. Maybe she got so mad and caught up that she actually forgot she was sending them from her very own email. Not one she claims someone made and isn’t hers but the one she uses for her everyday life too. Narcissistic people will believe their own lies and believe their own games. GASLIGHTING AT BEST. They often have a tendency to make themselves have a spotlight/power and have others feel sorry for them. But SORRY WE DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR A GROWN WOMAN WHO THREATENS BABIES OR AUTISTIC CHILDREN. Not in this life time. Who even calls an autistic child fat and tells the parents to put the child on a diet. Its one thing to be mad at the adults but the child. Leave the children alone. Disgusting! We pray for justice for him. She will and does cause trauma to all. It’s her way or No way. We can’t wait to see what fabricated messages and emails she comes up with. Everyone knows of photoshop and edits. He has been working with detectives and lawyers for years. Ironically she moves and can’t be served. His proof is live, his is real, and his story is just beginning to be told. She shows the good parts of what she says and the bad of how he responded by telling her no or ignoring her but never what triggered his protective parental stand. Fortunately those are all over social media now not part of the story but the full story, full conversations, and the full evil in this woman.

Update—

Yes she forced him to a point where he wanted to give up his rights and be dead. She had him living in a constant state of pain. He picked himself up and became stronger. He speaks out! Maybe then but now HE is done and he has spoken! DM if you would like to see correspondences. They will blow your mind. Talk about insanity! He has been begging for his children since 2020 and she still hides. One thing the children will know for sure is the truth. She won’t even let him speak to the children without her hovering because she is afraid he will tell them things that will show he has always tried. Things that will prove to them and everyone she is a MONSTER. Even when he broke and almost gave up on them he humbled and apologized. Tell me why does a mother need to control how children speak to their parent? They mention a friends name and she hangs up. She blocks every means but acts like it’s him who has the issues. Yet she has no problem getting in touch with him when she needs something. Or when she wants to argue with him back and fourth. Tell me if you are so abused by him and he’s an aggressive person that you hide from, why do you offer to get rid of your children to him and his family for not weeks but years at a time. But coward and back out because he wanted it on a legal document in court not just a handshake? 🫣🤔😕🤨🤔🤔🤔 Please enlighten us all. Her name is … Didivalis Cruz

He allows her to smear his name but at the end of the day the proof of it all is in had evidence. NO MORE! Never again! The truth of it all is written in black and white. Let her claim the victim position. The day will come we’re all will be shown and the world will know it is not him who had been in the wrong it is her. Yes he WAS behind in child support due to Covid-19 but he still pays over 800 a month and Paid off all arrears just to beg to speak to the children and still nothing. Only a spineless mother would say she’s in her right to withhold children because she’s was paid half during Covid months. Always about money and being the victim!

#online diary #narcissistic parents #abuse #exposing the truth #positive mental attitude #survive #chicago #what a joke #she is amber heard #amber heard #awareness #fathersmatter #my diary #follow

[gch1995]

Honest to god just saw the worst take. It was someone comparing fucking ageism to the hate that yoda gets and quote on quote how using “stuck in his ways was a part of that”.

That is a terrible excuse for the lack of growth, willful denial of self-awareness, and shitty writing for Yoda’s character. While there most definitely are age related mental diseases that affect self-awareness and memory like Alzheimer’s Disease and dementia, there are no signs that Yoda suffers from these issues within canon, though I have joked sometimes that he may have been getting senile in his old age because we know nothing about his backstory. It would certainly make him more sympathetic if he really were suffering from an age-related sort of mental disease that affected his memory.

Sadly, that’s not really the case in canon. In actuality, Yoda doesn’t appear to be suffering from any sort of age-related mental disease that negatively affects his cognitive abilities, memory, working memory, or outlook on life in canon. It’s more like he is closer to a cult leader with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and possibly PTSD from the fall of the last Jedi Order. Deep down, he’s deeply insecure and terrified. He knows why he fucked up. However, he’s too afraid to admit his methods were harmful, so he keeps trying to gaslight his recruits and the Republic at large to enable and perpetuate his systematic abuse of power “for the greater good,” so he never has to actually face the truth of how much he fucked up and take personal accountability.

#star wars asks #anti yoda #if Yoda WERE a senile old man with Alzheimer’s or dementia it would be easier to sympathize with him for not learning #sadly that is not the case with the Yoda we get in canon #i know I’ve joked about Yoda possibly being senile before #but in actuality the character we see him as in canon is not a senile old man #if anything he’s closer to narcissistic personality disorder/corrupt cult leader mindset and methods #he knows why he fucked up and why he was wrong but he doesn’t want to admit that he ever could be wrong #so he keeps abusing his power over other people throughout the galaxy particularly his recruits to get them to support him #ot star wars #pt star wars

[silverislander]

have discovered a new enemy while doing research for the honours essay. why are you pretending to understand psychology and BLATANTLY misinterpreting actual terms and concepts in order to tear down a movie aimed at teenage girls, my good bitch. i'm going to start biting

#you got the WRONG BITCH bc you just hit on two of my biggest interests (zombie movies and psychology) at once #FIRST of all. you dont have the credentials to be talking abt this and it shows bc why dont you know what psychotic means!! #simple shit!! you want to pretend you know psychology dont fuck up psychopathology psychopathy and psychosis! all different things! #you can BARELY conceive of narcissism. a one off joke about how a character recognizes his flaws and wishes he was respected more #is NOT proof to label someone as a fucking narcissist oh my god. id actually argue the complete opposite #you are accusing A Zombie of being abusive based on (checks notes) being scary looking eating brains and /protecting a girl/ #bc uhhhhhhh smth smth dark triad smth smth twi/ight #last time i checked thats literally just fucking normal ass zombie shit + him being NICE!! #its not male gaze 'ocular aggression' bestie he cant blink. hes dead. #talking about how the zombie is unrepentantly creepy when he Literally worries about coming off as creepy In The Movie out loud #SECONDLY to circle back why are you so stressed about twilight. thats not even the subject of the chapter #(there are good critiques of those movies but this is not that) #your book came out in 2015 why were you still shitting your pants and crying that girls were having fun 3yrs ago at the EARLIEST #reaching so fucking hard to 'um ackshewally [thing that teenage girls like] bad' im shocked you didnt throw your fuckin back out #your arguments are nonsensical your positions reveal an alarming level of sexism and you should be ashamed #levi.txt #believe it or not im having fun rn. im funny complaining not angry complaining #w@rm b0dies isnt a Good movie but i will go to bat for it actually. let teenage girls have fun garbage #god knows adult men have enough of their own to choose from ESP in this genre #and its a movie that has a lot of interesting shit someone could analyze!! im focusing on it as a representation of changing feminism #but id love to see a reading of its portrayal of zombiehood as disability + its cure narrative #or critiquing how it writes its female characters bc admittedly theyre bad ngl #or on how survival is represented in comparison to films like zomb!e/and (which i also love) where you 'earn' survival with competence! #genuinely there is even smth to be said for the problematic nature of the brain eating element. id be intrigued by that paper #i dont think its much worse than the play the movie is based on? but its not nothing #it Is ultimately a little bit fucked up and i dont think the movie explores it enough #but noooooo we gotta talk about how the zombie is a narcissistic abuser bc of the brain eating. ok

[eldritchsquared]

mutual is posting about a movie i utterly despised and i should be entitled to financial compensation

#the movie perpetuated narcissist abuse........ mutual no......... this isnt your heart....... #im not actually upset this post is a JOKE mutual if you see this im JOKING dont be mad at me #mine