#give me advice

[artbyace]

dear tumblr,

what does it mean it mean if i have a crush on my bestfriend for over a year and then the second they ask me out i say no? am i. stupid ?

#txt #ace is dying #give me advice #what do i even do #at this point #am i a lost cause

[existencebringsonlypain]

only read more if you're NOT my mom. this is about the gift, so seriously mom don't look

okay guys. so. my parents recently split up, and I'm living with my mom. My mom only knows how to cook like four things, and they're all "stick em in the oven for 45 minutes and they're done!" style cooking. I remembered seeing a post talking about the Sad Bastard Cookbook, for those with low spoons- aka, cookbook with a fantastic sense of humor, requires very little effort, and has pretty decent results. I think she'd love it if I gave it to her as a Christmas present.

Here's the conundrum- the PDF for this cookbook is free, zero dollars. The printed version is sixteen dollars new. Obviously I don't want to spend sixteen dollars on something I can get for free, but I know my mom would both appreciate it more and use it much more often if she didn't have to go to her computer for "every" (like three per) step.

So, physical's the way to go, right? Well, maybe not. My mom used to bind her fanfics herself, back when she had these hundred-page-long fics. She's got binders full of pure fic (which, turns out, actually just mostly smut). So the other option is, I take advantage of her paper and ink while she's at work and print it all- here's hoping she's got enough ink- and print it all, hole punch, and bind. I'm willing to do that, but I will not do it happily, and it'll be mediocre at best.

#MOM DON'T LOOK AT THE TAGS #-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ #——————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————— #oh how i love the emdash #so long! the emdash i mean. not like. goodbye #anyway. tag time #existenceunrelateds #poll #polls #tumblr poll #tumblr polls #sad bastard cookbook #the sad bastard cookbook #advice #i need advice #give me advice #book binding #binding books #christmas #christmas gifts #....... #idk any other tags #low spoons #no spoons #sorry if im invading those tags

[zer0wasabitxh]

what the fuck is tumblr culture and how do I integrate myself into it

is post spamming bad or okay? What about copypastas in the ask box? How do we feel about that? Do we accept vent posting? What tags is everyone supposed to follow? Are we supposed to title our posts? Are multifandom blogs fine? I have so many questions...

pls help

#tumblr #send help #give me advice #please #i have no idea what im doing here #questions #tumblr users

[skateisawesome]

me and my friends boyfriend are steadily becoming good friends and i dont know if i should tell my friend?

obviously its completely platonic and will always be (he gives me the ick) but like should i anyway? idk if shes the jealous type so idk? whats the move here guys?

ADVICE ME PLEASE

#give me advice #tell me what to do #give me your opinions #please

[the-gobler]

a new drawing at this hour??

i’ll post a speed pain of some thinbf ig (and yes i am very sleepy

#art #my art #give me advice

[aspiritdrawings]

Haiii!

From artist to artist, any advice on how to make your art blow up more?

#artists on tumblr #minor artist #queer artist #digital artist #ibispaintx #small artist #neon genesis evangelion #puella magi madoka magica #ocs #character art #give me advice #hazbin hotel

[kaydotpng]

how does one make a move romantically that can be brushed off as friendship but kinda lingers with the other person throughout the day as a sort of "huh, that was kind of weird" so they don't get too suspicious but the thought is planted in their brain?

Asking for a friend hahahahaha. Haha.

#crush #i hate it here #i hate everything #I hope the guy I am asking this about dies #In a horrific car accident #Give me advice #Please #romance #Sadly

[tangerinecherrygal]

Should I start writing fanfic?

I’m not sure what I should write on. I’m interested in dragon age, yellowjackets, a thousand pieces of you (firebird trilogy) even arcane/ league of legends.

Also acotar series rewrites and stuff.

#fanfic #give me advice #league of legends #dragon age series #yellowjackets #a thousand pieces of you #arcane #fanfic writing #ao3 #moots pls help #acotar

[the-riddler-that-can-riddle]

Help I just zoned in for the first time in years help me I am so here it's scary I can just do stuff and I will do it I can put a pot on my head help please how do I zone back in!

#help #how do i get back #AAAAAAAA #someone help #give me advice #please #pm seymour #pmseymourva #please pm give me attention #put me in the funnies #please I want to be an entity on YouTube

[puppersfluid8xd]

GUYSSSS GUESS WHO JUS FINISHED MY FIRST TAILLLLLLLL AAHJFJHJHGJHGHJA :DD <33 IM SUPPERRRR PROUDDDDDD for sum reason i cant get the top layer of fur to blend in w da second layer >:( which idk y bc i didnt change anything besides how thick the "wefts" r anywaysss its got a lil white bow n it matches the cinnamoroll puppy ears i got a while back which was on purpose but im ver happy abt ittt ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა srry for the low quality lol T^T <//3 feel free to give me any advice u have tysm k byeeeee <33 ^v^

#puppy #sfw petre #puppy coded #pet regression #pet space #sfw agere #age regression #sfw interaction only #little space #yarn tail #give me advice

[dani-sdiary]

Vent: Autism Misinformation in Textbook

This is a homework problem and data set from my online Intro to Statistics class:

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"Is there a relationship between autism and what an infant is fed? To determine if there is, a researcher asked mothers of autistic (A) and non-autistic (N) children to say what they fed their infant.

A: Breastfed: 10, Formula w/DHA/ARA: 40, Formula w/o: 66

N: Breastfed: 10, Formula w/DHA/ARA: 24, Formula w/o: 11

Since data were collected for _2_ _qualitative_ variable(s), the correct graph to make is a _side-by-side bar chart_"

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Well, I am autistic, and, spoiler alert, it has absolutely nothing to do with what my mother fed me.

I was shocked to see a question like this in the very first week of the quarter considering I live in a very liberal city and go to a community college that strongly emphasizes combating this very sort of thing. Every syllabus is required to have a land acknowledgement, a DEI statement, and information and links to many campus resources such as access services, tutoring, the student counseling center, financial aid, and crisis hotlines, and many professors include additional paragraphs about respect and safety specific to their class.

Since this a remote course, I don't know much about the professor, but, from her written posts, she seems kind, friendly, and easy-going. My professor did not write this textbook, and I am unsure as to whether she, the department head, or someone else chose it for the class, whether it's used in Statistics 101 classes taught by other professors, nor whether she's used it for her previous classes (if any). I'm not sure how long the school or this class has been using this textbook or how long this professor has been teaching, but I am almost certainly not the only autistic student who has ever taken one of the most popular 100-level courses that fulfills a graduation requirement.

I do not believe that she had any bad intentions or saw this question as anything more than a random example, but it's my lived experience. We shouldn't have to deal with misinformation and stereotypes at any time, but especially not an in environment we're paying to be in because we want to learn and improve ourselves.

I am also going to school to become a teacher, and I completely understand the lack of readily available materials that are up-to-date. The textbook she assigned was free, which I really appreciate, and I don't want my complaint to lead to her switching to an expensive textbook and create a bigger problem for myself and my classmates. I don't think it's necessary to switch to a different textbook, and she won't be able to since the class has already started, but she might remove that particular question from the homework, or replace it with another. I'm not trying to cause a huge issue, I just wish I didn't have to deal with this. I'm tired of it.

Should I email my professor? Should I wait until the end-of-course surveys and leave a comment there? As I said, I don't have much information. Should I let it go and move on? Am I overreacting?

Unfortunately, I'm sure many of you have had similar experiences, from elementary school to college. What should I do? Any advice is appreciated. Thank you in advance.

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[craycraybluejay]

Give me ideas for stuff to eat, if it's a fetish thing for you then even better.

I'm severely underweight and somehow ended up losing more even tho I've been eating ok, so now I'm on a diet plan of "eat everything I think of to any point below nausea."

Also if you have any tips on how to gain weight and maintain it and what foods help do that quicker pls let me know.

Legitimately, it's scary to step on a scale and realize you've dropped around 15 lbs for no reason and in a short period of time.

#underweight #accidental weight loss #it might be the going off t thing idk #i was a diy er but lost my source #feed me #fr #where are all the feeding kink people bc i know thats a thing and i know at least some of yall know how to make someone put on weight #food recommendations #recommendations needed #give me advice #i want to weigh enough for it to be at least a bit of a struggle to pick me up #anoutherposting #skeleton lookin mf against my will

[hellishcollective]

What can I do about this?

our school’s counselors have been taking us and our friend group one by one into a room and asking weird questions like “do you cut yourself” and asking about sending “photos” to random people. I found out that they (An ADULT counselor WITHOUT CONSENT) had grabbed my friend by the arm and started interrogating her about the dog bites on her arms and saying things like “we know what’s going on” and claiming to just somehow know that she cuts??? (She DOESN’T) And going through her PRIVATE MESSAGES (an INVASION OF PRIVACY) with her friend. Someone please let me know what to do, because I am NOT just sitting by and letting adults (who are SUPPOSED TO HELP US) do that..

#please help #school #give me advice

[tobbogan-13]

do yall think this girl likes me

idk I don't pick up on shit like that, I have no social awareness

reasons why:

we joke around, today when we got the the bike stand things at the same time she came up to be and said high, she gave me her free bowling coupon thing,

reasons why not:

we don't know each other that well (only a few months), we're still in that kinda awkward "we have a few classes together and talk to each other" phase, idk hasn't really shown any signs that she likes me,

also if yall have adive for making the first move, I am so lost

#lesbians #queer #sapphic #wlw #crush #women #advice #give me advice #lesbians help #help me not be lonely #help plz

[jaccdraws]

I drew him a while ago and I don’t really like it but yuh!!!!!! I need advise on lighting though cuz it sucks lmao

(Kind of) SPOILER IN THE TAGS‼️‼️‼️

#jujutsu geto #geto suguru #kenjaku #kenjaku jjk #jujutsu kaisen #jjk #digital drawing #drawing #trans artist #anime #anime and manga #digital art #fan art #give me advice #lgbtq artist

[aspiritdrawings]

I want to post my oc so bad... the lore especially. Im drawing a comic of one of my favorite ones, but still, i haven't posted about them ever. But im also scared that they might just not get likes, any advice?

#artists on tumblr #minor artist #queer artist #digital artist #ibispaintx #small artist #oc #oc art #ocs #advice #give me advice #madoka magica #neon genesis evangelion