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Why is the Nadia Satrinava tags full of everyone but Nadia??? Why can't you fuckers tag your posts correctly?
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powdermelonkeg · 4 months
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Important rules/tips I've learned as an adult that helped with anxiety
If people are mad at you, it's their responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess
If they're mad at you in secret anyways, they're the ones in the wrong, not you
If people don't like what you're doing, it's their responsibility to tell you
If they say it's fine when it's really not, they're the ones in the wrong, not you
People are allowed to be wrong about you
If they are wrong about you, wait for them to bring it up, because if you try to, you will inevitably overcorrect
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You will not win arguments against them. Yes, even if you explain your point of view. They do not care. Drop it
The worst thing that will happen from a first-time offense is being told not to do it again. Maybe with a replacement if you broke something
You can improve relationships and gauge willingness to talk to you by giving compliments. It's like a daily log-in bonus and nobody thinks twice about it
Most things are better after you sleep on them
Most things are better after you have a meal
Most things are better after you shower
Your brain makes up consequences that are irrational. If the worst DOES come to pass and someone acts like they do in your head, they are overreacting, and you are entitled to say "what the fuck"
If your chest hurts after you feel like you've made a social error, that's called rejection-sensitive dysphoria. It means your anxiety is so bad that it's causing you physical pain, which is a good indicator that you're overreacting. Tense yourself, hold it for 20 seconds, let it go, then find a distraction
If you're suddenly angry at someone after you feel like you made a social error, that's also rejection-sensitive dysphoria. You are going to feel annoyed about it for awhile, but being genuinely pissed off is your anxiety trying to find something to blame to take the responsibility off your shoulders, and getting scared because it can't justify itself. Deep breaths, ask yourself how much you ACTUALLY want to be angry at that person, then find a distraction
"Sour grapes" is more healthy for you than stewing. Deciding you don't like someone who's perpetually annoyed with you, won't talk to you, etc. makes letting go of anxiety over them easier
If people don't like you, they will find reasons to be annoyed with you when they otherwise wouldn't. If people do like you, they will find reasons NOT to be annoyed with you when they otherwise would. People do not ping-pong between the two
You DO have to make a conscious choice not to think about something. If you're having trouble circling back to it, say out loud that you're done thinking about it and why. Then find a distraction
When you're upset, part of you is going to want to make false bids for attention (suddenly texting differently, heavy sighs, etc. but when someone asks you about it, you tell them it's nothing). Do not listen to it. You gain nothing from it except more misery
People like to help people they care about. It makes them feel good about themselves
If you think you're insufferable for needing help, see above. Yes, really. They get a serotonin kick from it
If you think you're insufferable for mannerisms you have, you either have to consciously choose not to do them, or accept that they're part of the package that comes with you. Being apologetic about existing does nothing except make you more miserable
If you do things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it makes it easier to do them when you hate it
If you avoid things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it reinforces and magnifies how bad it feels when you hate it
Seriously. Read those last two points again. If you can make yourself make a phone call when you've got nothing to lose, you will slowly lose that panic you get when you have to make a phone call you haven't prepared for. You do have to CONSCIOUSLY take that step
Hobbies that make you care for something get rid of that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough. Go grow some rosemary
If you don't engage with your hobbies regularly, you will feel miserable, and anxiety will spike
Hobbies are things that give you a bit of happiness. They do not have to be organized or named to do that. Go be creative in something. Play with coins. Make up lists. Start a new WIP
No one cares what you look like
If people point out things they don't like about how you look unprompted, they are being rude. You are entitled to say "what the fuck"
People who like you will find you pretty to some degree. Minor things about your appearance go completely unnoticed. Literally, scars and dots and blemishes do not register to someone who likes your company
You looking at yourself in the mirror is 10x more closely than anyone is going to look at you
If you're anxious about your body type, and you're creatively inclined, make/write an oc with that same shape. Give them nice things and make other characters love them. Put them on adventures. You'll start to see yourself in the mirror more kindly
You care about wording and perfect lines/colors way more than anyone who views your work ever will
Sometimes when you're upset, you're going to feel like not eating. Do not do that. Not eating makes you more miserable
Same with things you normally enjoy. Denying yourself helps no one. You are punishing yourself for being sad. Stop it
Both of these will take conscious decision to break the habit of. Make yourself do it anyways, and it will slowly get easier
And again, to reiterate: If someone is mad at you, it is THEIR responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess
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Just wanna warn you, sag and wga are anti ai
that’s good. fuck ai.
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loveofastarvingdog · 2 years
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castiel loves you guys. thanks cas
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incorrectbatfam · 22 days
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Goon #1: Last night, Red Hood paid the boss a visit, and Robin picked up a grenade someone left on a crate, and let me tell you...
Goon #1: When Hood yelled “Put that shit back!” so loud, you know what I did?
Goon #2: You put your own shit back, didn’t you?
Goon #1: I put my own shit back.
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syrren · 3 months
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“The artist becomes the canvas!” - TMAGP 002: Making Adjustments
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nell0-0 · 3 months
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I am totally in love with your design for young Link/Mask it's adorable and full of mischief. Your Hyrule Warriors comics are amazing. I know this isn't an ask but thank you!
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Mask being a little shit is like, my favorite thing ever. Warriors is so confused. The fact Mask is not technically lying, tho-
Glad you like them! Dw about proper asks or whatever, I love getting these, so ty!
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tiger-quoll · 1 year
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monn-i · 4 months
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250 notes by january 14th i will throw out my blade. and also finish my wips :333
EDIT: 1k NOTES FUCKASSES I FORGOT U COULD SPAM REBLOG
lord help me… i forgot how many chronically online ppl followed me….. 2.5k…. i wont chnage it morw afterwards bc that would feel dishonest to myself but dear lord u guys are awful its been like half a day /affectionate <3
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jay-wasstuff · 1 year
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Jarnathan on why they need the brick wall in the Council room:
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So this needs to be said and I'm sure some people may be annoyed that I'm tagging this as choices but since all this started from a toxic choices blog or two or three, we're all together in this mess.
Anyone who isn't new to tumblr is aware that you can filter tags and block blogs you're not a fan of. Since I know there's been people trolling my mutuals for over a year now, the trolls are obviously not new to tumblr, otherwise you would have blocked them and moved on with your life.
But since you don't have a creative or imaginative bone in your body, you attach yourself to someone who is so talented and send hate anon time after time to them trying to stamp out that talent so that you feel better about your miserable self.
Instead of simply blocking them and never having to see their posts, you obsessively look for something to get them flagged and reported on and congrat-fucking-lations you finally succeeded this time. You're probably chuckling and patting yourself on the back thinking you won somehow and you have! You won a prize for being a cowardly miserable vindictive shadow of a human being. It isn't cute, you're not funny and in the end, you won nothing. Because do you really think that's going to stop her? It won't, she's gonna keep posting her stories and her edits and all her followers are going to back her up and support her.
Seriously, fuck all these trolls, fuck all the lesbophobia that's running rampant in the choices and rc fandom and fuck every single blog with a huge follower count that chased off a smaller blog simply because they have a different opinion from theirs. You just look pathetic and karma is a major bitch.
Shout out to @rhonda-sayeed and any blog that deals with hateful trolls constantly. We see you and we love you ❤. You only receive hate because somebody feels threatened by you and it is a reflection on their character not yours.
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letswonderspirit · 7 days
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i had to
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incorrectbatfam · 5 months
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16-year-old Dick: You know what, I think it's time we started swearing. When we go downstairs for breakfast, I'll swear first and then you.
12-year-old Jason: Okay.
[downstairs]
Bruce: What do you want for breakfast?
Dick: I'll have Cocoa Puffs, bitch.
Bruce: Go to your room.
Bruce, to Jason: And what do you want?
Jason: Dunno but it won't be fucking Cocoa Puffs.
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himuronanart · 18 days
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I like to think that my fav is simply looking out for my wellbeing :)
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