#need reassurance

[mereeples]

Maybe somebody can help me with this better on here.

I recently came out as aroace to my family (took 2 years to do, we’re a Christian family and was scared of getting backlash. They were very supportive with my decision though).

(This got long, added the read more so it’s not giant on my page, lol)

I wanted to find some content pertaining to the aroace spectrum because I wanted to see other opinions and experiences. I’m still trying to figure out where I am on it, y’know? But whenever I look up aroace content, especially on tumblr, it’s a bunch of people yelling about shipping aroace characters and why you’re a terrible person if you do ship them? I get it for some, because some of the ships don’t make sense to me depending on the character, but, I don’t know, I just feel hurt I guess when I see someone say that character CAN’T be with someone just because they’re aroace.

Now before anyone yells, bear with me on this: I’m not referring to romantic or sexual relationships. That argument I can understand, but some make it sound like someone whose aroace is incapable of love or compassion.

I know that I’m aroace because I’ve never been attracted romantically or sexually to someone before. I honestly don’t see myself in that kind of relationship at all. But it doesn’t mean I can’t love or someone else can’t. There are more loving relationships other than just romantic or sexual, a relationship can be a platonic or family oriented scenario.

I’m currently writing a story regarding a platonic marriage, because I was curious about the thought of one. The relationship is way different from a typical marriage, and I honestly like the thought of such relationships where you know you love that person but you don’t show it in a normal sort of way. Like, you just vibe well together and that’s all there is to it.

I don’t know, I guess I just want people to know some of the stuff I see being said hurts sometimes. I get your side of the argument when it comes to people getting romantic or sexual with a character, but it doesn’t mean they are incapable of other types of love or relationships. I’m still new to my spectrum, and I’m still trying to figure out things, but I can’t be the only one getting a tad hurt by this indirectly. I just want people to be a little more empathetic about the topic, I guess. This topic involves a person’s identity, and like all identities, they are not cookie cut the same.

I don’t know, does anyone else have a say about this? (Also, please be nice or let me know if I’m coming off offensive. I’m really just trying to get reassurance or someone else’s opinion on the subject).

(Also, does anyone have any other character interpretations of someone being aroace? I only know of one that I like and I don’t want to talk about him on this blog because I try to keep it PG 13. Only other fictional character I know about is SpongeBob, apparently he’s asexual…)

Keep your smiles bright even during the most bleakest moments in life. 🙂

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #fandom #just kinda need a friend #love #relationships #queer platonic relationship #need advice #need reassurance #I’d like more education on the topic too #be patient with me I’m autistic. and I’m not saying that to be cute

[deniald0ll]

abt to cry my body wants to cum SO BAD it's been since july 5th and im fucking barely holding on

#txt #need reassurance

[tilldeathdousart]

#tilldeathdousart #health #mental health #mentally abused #emotional abuse #abuse #mental health awareness #low self esteem #low self confidence #breakdown #constantly apologise #I’m fine #need reassurance #hypersensitive #I’m not enough #anxiety #depression #negative feelings #emotional #fear #upset #hidden feelings #mental health support #you’re not alone

[ermine4ever]

Am I Tripping??

No, for real though - am I tripping or does Mon from GAP the series, actually look like Carly from iCarly?  

#icarly #gap mon #miranda cosgrove #becky armstrong #thai gl #im freaking out #need reassurance

[laytonesqueautistic]

So as the new HB episode looms I once again remember my anxiety for Stolas

Doesn’t help from what we saw in the trailer, what looked like Stolas’ hand with some IV tubes really makes me worry he’s gonna be badly injured

I know Viv and Bryce said he won’t die and they have songs for him in S2 and Stolitz will be endgame but I’m still fucking terrified

Especially since a lot of people think even if Stolitz is endgame Stolas will die because of his song. Stolas is my comfort character and I don’t know if I could like the show without him.

Can anyone send me positive thoughts? Maybe some help? Please, I’ve lost sleep over this.

#helluva boss #helluva boss stolas #stolas #stolas helluva boss #helluva boss vivziepop #prince stolas #helluva angst #helluva #helluva stolas #stolitz #helluva stolitz #anxiety advice #anxiety help #anxiety #comfort character #comfort ship #comfort characters #need positive vibes #need reassurance #need advice #please talk to me #seeking comfort #seeking reassurance #stolas goetia #fictional character death #character stuff

[hatzilla]

Everything feels off. I've misplaced my emotions. Scattered thoughts litter my room and I've packed my garments in the bags under my eyes. We're going on a trip. Back to spending the days curled up in the pit of my stomach. Back to climbing up and down the spiral staircase inside my mind. Pacing back and forth on the things I've said and done before, wondering if I was enough or too much. Did they really want to talk to me? Did I overshare? Why did I say that? What do they think of me? What can I do better? Am I good enough? Am I deserving? Who have I let down? Why did they they leave me? Am I not worth the fight? I am falling under the weight of uncertainty. All I can do is wander in the crevasses of my mind, hoping to find a sound answer despite there being none.

#mentalhealth #coffeebreak #feelin sick both physically and mentally aha #im so tired #cloudy #depression #healing #wandering #need reassurance

[nsetti]

falling so hard in love you start doubting if they feel the same <<<

#need reassurance #girlblogging #femme #sad thoughts #love #femme fatale

[justsurvivinglife]

Hi

My parents are very strict with food, in fact I am on a diet, and because of this food control I suffer from binge eating. Today I went to the supermarket and bought nutella and a bag of chips (both things that are not allowed in my house) and a friend of my parents saw me… He even made the joke that I was buying a lot of vegetables.

Since he will see them Saturday I am very scared that he is gonna tell them that he saw me buying all of that stuff, I can’t tell my friends about this because they know that I am on a diet and I feel ashamed…

#need reassurance #ed not ed sheeran #bingedisorder #parents strict with food #almond mom

[shyfather]

Like to charge reblog to cast that I either get employed again full time again or my vtubing hobby can turn into a career

#it’s rough rn #need reassurance

[okwonyo]

guys check my pinned and compliment me pls ><

#✢ soul2soul ☆⌒(ゝ。∂) #need reassurance #(again)

[cowardlycowboys]

girl who constantly feels like they're in trouble and did something wrong

#omg kiera no one cares #the precursor to girl who needs reassurance but would rather die blah blah #anyway nothing happened im not in trouble I just feel guilty

[emotinalsupportturtle]

umm what..

X-men '97 (2024)

#besties how gay is it to need a constant psychic reassurance that my best friend loves me to the extent that our minds are linked 24/7 #'xavier's sacrifice" i'm dead #cherik #erik lehnsherr #charles xavier #proffesor x #magneto #xmen #x men 97 #rogue #anna marie darkholme

[lazylittledragon]

the thing that i love so much about my relationship is that i feel absolutely zero pressure for us to be in eachother's pockets constantly. not just in the way that we like to have our own space sometimes but that i don't feel guilty for getting fixated on a project and not texting him or leaving him on read for a few hours. we have a system where i just say "i'm so sorry, i fell down the Art Hole again" and he says "that's ok, was the art hole fun, can i see what you did in there?". or if i have a feeling i'm going to draw until late at night i'll be like "pre warning, i might be in the art hole this evening" and when i'm done he's texted me goodnight anyway.

tldr: find someone who doesn't get mad at you for crawling into a hole and instead helps you out of the hole and asks what you saw down there

#ramble #G i know you don't tumblr but if you ever see this i adore you #context: one of my exes got upset when i started my webcomic because it meant i would be giving her slightly less attention #and another one asked me to stop sending her my art entirely and that kind of thing doesn't leave you y'know #i'm very glad i'm with someone that doesn't make me feel like we need to be texting 12 hours a day to reassure myself that he still loves m #because i already know he does :')))

[heart-wit-strength]

Being on the ace spec with aesthetic attraction is so rad like 'nooo pls stop taking your clothes off you look so hot having them on' :(

#pls tell me this makes sense #i need to be reassured that this happens #bc I swear I'm so always like this watching shows where a character undressing is supposed to be spicy but all it brings is disappointment #and picturing someone naked is an immediate turn off #asexuality #asexual spectrum #greysexual #lgbtqia #text post

[laytonesqueautistic]

Y’all…

I’m just so emotionally exhausted and I’m trying to hold onto hope but it’s hard.

I ordered a Cameo from Bryce Pinkham but I’m worried it won’t go through, I know the site says it’ll refund you but I just…I really need a message from him.

I’m really exhausted from so much, I’ve cried so many times. I really really need this.

Can anyone send me positive affirmations? Or something, I don’t know. I’m just so exhausted.

#need affection #cameo request #stolas helluva boss #bryce pinkham #need positive vibes #need comfort #need reassurance #i want to cry #emotionally exhausted #vent #sad boi hours

[royalarchivist]

Quackity: These past days I've been in many calls, and I'm not done yet. I've spoken to a lot of people and creators. I've read your comments and I'm well aware of what needs to be done to carry out this project. I want to tell you all, beforehand, that for me the team's well-being is fundamental. I'm very involved in this topic to sort it out and I want to make that very clear. I want to tell you something... I want to tell you all that the administrative staff responsible for so much harm to the project has been fired. Specifically, those who made decisions without my permission, affecting the administrative and financial area of the project. Consequently, after this, I was in charge of doing a financial analysis that's carrying out for the QSMP.

Guys, to be really honest, it was not going to last. Therefore, I've had to make deep drastic structural changes that have lead me to reduce the performance of the server down to the most essential, and this is in order to ensure the well being of everyone involved in it. Having said this, I want to give a very important update: I want to let you all know that the QSMP will have to slow down temporarily. This is to ensure this new structure adapts to the project, because it's a restructuring that's taking place. I'm letting you know, and I reiterate, there are no voluntary positions inside the QSMP.

At the moment, there will not be any more individual update accounts of all 5 existing languages in the project. In any case, during this transition, there's going to be a temporal absence of all Eggs and NPCs. I know these are difficult changes, and I repeat, it's temporary until we adjust to these new conditions that will improve the performance of this new structure that's being made from scratch, both in the administrative and financial part. I'd like to reintegrate people fro the QSMP as time goes by if a financial viability can be found for the project Taking advantage of this update to tell you guys that within the changes of the server as it is, creators will have full control of their lore and stories. The team will not intervene in the way that it was being done. Moreover, efforts will be made to change the competitive dynamics inside the game so as to ease up the game style for the creators. Like I'm saying, all of these changes, and more, are being carrying out to have the project as best as possible, and they're being done little by little. This is a whole new structure that will ensure the best continuity and experience for the creators, the community and the team behind.

Guys, I want to make very clear that this is restructuring process, and again, it's not a fast one. The server being open does not mean everything's perfect, I understand that very well. Conversations will keep taking place, communication will continue and the constant improvement of the project as well. I ask, please, for everyone's patience and understanding regarding all changes. Please do wait for official announcements since a lot of incomplete and incorrect information is being spread. I want to tell you all something- if you don't trust in these changes or have many doubts about it, and don't want to consume any more of the project's content, I understand 100%. I have a personal commitment with the QSMP and I will work until it functions in the way it is supposed to do.

Lastly, I want to let you know that it was being worked on for months on finalizing the integration of Korean creators to the QSMP. For that reason, tomorrow we will be welcoming the new Korean creators of the QSMP, of course, taking into account all the changes I've just mentioned. I hope you can give the new Korean members warm welcome to the project. And as you know, their schedules are earlier. For everyone who would like to watch, they will be joining at 11am Mexico time and at 9am US time. Basically, I wanted to give that update regarding everything that's being done within the project. Again, thank you for your patience and understanding- these are necessary changes and I'm glad they're being done now. And many more things will keep being adjusted.

via @QuackitySubs

#Quackity #QSMP #QSMP Official #Translated #This is very long and I bolded parts to make it easier to read #but if there's a way to make it more accessible to folks lemme know! #I personally find the bolding thing helpful but I know everyone is different #Edit: got rid of the additional ''Quackity:'' bolded parts since that's unnecessary #since. you know. he's the only one speaking here #Quackity Subs also missed a few words in here so I added those in but otherwise this is exactly what was posted #Minus the part where they said ''fro'' #I don't know if they meant for or from but that's a very vital difference so I'm leaving that as-is #IMO: It's reassuring hearing the full statement #''Please do wait for official announcements since a lot of incomplete and incorrect information is being spread'' #is an especially important reminder #There has unfortunately been a lot of misinformation and catastrophizing / doomposting going around #I understand it's a very scary stressful time for many people #and it sucks being told to be patient #but we actually DO need to be patient if we want to get actual accurate information