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#this has been a PSA
ebdaydreamer · 2 days
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OK... People of the Media: if you have interviewed Oliver Stark, I need you to hold on to that material and Do Not release it. We are busy. We have things to do. Please give us A Break.
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sunnywalnut · 7 months
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Local PSA: invisible disability does NOT mean you can live your life like a "normal person" invisible disability meant that if a stranger looks at you in public they wouldn't know what's going on.
Like if a wheelchair user were to decide to run into a corner store to grab a candy bar because they know that their legs can last that long without, the cashier wouldn't know.
Or someone with "mild" scoliosis walking upright through their shoulder leans slightly to the left. Maybe they just have bad posture. The lady in the next isle thinks to herself.
The person with EDS or POTS or whatever sort of condition wearing compression gloves out and about. Perhaps it's a fashion statement?
Or what about the people with intestinal issues? They can look like "normal people" too.
You never know what someone is going through.
You never know what they might need to survive or if they're on the edge of a flare up or even if they are currently going through one just by one look.
I think both disabled and non disabled need to realize this. You're not "no longer disabled" because you can "live without" disability aids. They're there to help you. To make your life easier. If living without a cane is going to make it more likely you'll fall over and hurt yourself, use the cane.
If you need to sit down to do dishes or cut vegetables because you need to save your legs for taking out the trash, sit down.
If you need a shower chair because you don't know if you'll pass out, use the shower chair.
People are going to judge you regardless for multiple reasons out of your control.
I'd rather they judge you while you're being safe.
You don't need to struggle to be "normal."
You can just be you.
However that looks for you.
Use your disability aids.
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For the love of god, praise and reassure your Dom after sex. I cannot tell you the amount of times I’ve told a Dom they did a good job after sex and they’re like “???? Why are you saying that???” It’s INSANE. Aftercare goes both ways! Praise! Your! Dom! Tell them the specific things you liked! Tell them how hot they were! Tell them that you appreciate them taking control! It goes such a long way, trust me.
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shyjusticewarrior · 1 month
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A reminder:
Robins: Dick, Jason, Tim, Steph, Damian
Batboys: Dick, Jason, Tim, Damian, Duke
Batkids: Dick, Barbara, Jason, Tim, Cass, Steph, Damian, Duke
Batsiblings: Dick, Jason, Tim, Damian, Cass, Duke
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potential-dizzy · 3 months
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ugly-anarchist · 28 days
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Friendly reminder that "aroace" is NOT the umbrella term for the whole aromantic/asexual community
The correct umbrella term is Aspec
Aroace is its own specific identity and alloaros don't want to be placed in the "aroace" community
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astronomical-bagel · 9 months
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some of you don’t know what scrunkly even is anymore :(
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avatarexpert · 3 months
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⚠️PSA for people affected by flashing/strobe lights:
The Mean Girls Movie Musical contains scenes with strobe lights and effects that may negatively effect photosensitive viewers. Please be careful and share with friends and family if/when going to see this film if you or someone you know deals with photosensitivity!!
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z-nogyrop · 1 year
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truly cannot overstate how important it is for everyone to do research into local insect species and just try to notice them when you go outside. there are beautiful metallic blue mud dauber wasps where i live and they’re common in the summer but i just never noticed them until this past year. there are so many dragonflies at the local park. in one walk this june i found ebony jewelwing damselflies and an enormous stinkbug and an emerald-coloured tiger beetle and there is honest to god so much beauty in the insect world if you are willing to look for it
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codthefishgod · 25 days
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To all the people who think aspec people aren't LGBTQIA+ because we aren't "discriminated against enough", here's a lovely list of reasons why you need to educate yourself:
- We suffer from dehumanisation, people actively devaluing or even erasing our humanity because of our identities (The voidpunk community is heavily supported by aspec people because of this)
- We suffer from self hatred due to feeling as if and being told we are broken, that no one can be happy unless they're in a romantic/sexual relationship, because of allonormativity and amatonormativity that actively damages our mental health
- Amatonormativity shapes laws that put us at an active disadvantage, such as giving married people financial and legal benefits
- Aspec people have been victims of conversion therapy, correctional rape, a lower quality of life, and other effects of being a marginalised and oppressed group
- We suffer from our identities being pathologised and deal with medical stigma because of this, causing many of us to feel unwelcome in and even avoid health care settings
- We suffer from our identities being erased, which can range from people completely denying our existence and people equating it to celibacy, to an almost complete absence of aspec representation in the media (It's been getting better lately, especially for alloaces and aroaces, but I have yet to ever see a canon aroallo character, and representation for those on the spectrum rather than in the extremes is often ignored)
- YOU are creating a hateful, exclusionary space in a community meant to be about inclusion. The same thing that happens to us happens to bisexual people, to polyamorous people, and other identities that are "disputed." In a community meant to be about rejecting the norm, YOU are shoving us out because we don't fit the norm of being LGBTQIA+. Because we're not enough like you.
These are only a few examples of aphobia that people like me deal with. Discrimination and oppression against aspec people stretches far beyond this.
But even if it didn't, it is disrespectful and harmful to everyone involved to gatekeep membership in the community based on oppression and discrimination.
We aren't LGBTQIA+ because we experience oppression. We are LGBTQIA+ because our existence alone goes against heteronormativity and other societal norms forced upon us.
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hypnobrainwasher · 3 months
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Good girls shouldn’t have to think.
Have you helped a local good girl not think today?
Do your civic duty and ease a good girl’s troubled and overburdened mind today!
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nando161mando · 3 months
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PSA: If you’re defending Israel as it carries out its genocide of the Palestinian people, you can fuck off. No ifs, no buts, no maybes… just fuck off.
Ways you can fuck off:
1. Unfollow me
2. Block me
Ways that don’t constitute fucking off:
1. Oozing your genocide-denying, complicit ass into my mentions.
But can’t we just all get along? No, we cannot all just get along with fascists who commit genocide and those that enable them.
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write-and-buried · 2 years
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I've seen quite a few people lately apologising for being behind on their reading of fics from friends.
Can I just say, my fics aren't going anywhere. I write for myself, and share them to hopefully give some other people comfort and joy. Whether you get that joy the day it's posted, or a week later, a month a year, it doesn't matter - that's the good thing about fics. They're there when you need them.
Reading / Reacting to my work is not the token you insert to receive my friendship ❤️
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trek-tracks · 25 days
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It's all fun and games for now, but please don't boop your Spocks too hard, kids
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hapfish · 7 months
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HAPPY 4K!!!!! @intotheelliwoods
honestly this was just an excuse to put big leo in a cute summery dress <3 (alt under the cut)
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judeschapstick · 8 months
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