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theworthynerodivergent · 1 year

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More on being nonbinary

I have joined some communities since coming to this conclusion and they have made me feel more confident in my thoughts and feelings.

After doing some research I can say that I believe that I am a nonbinary trans masc. I know this can be defined differently from person to person so for me I’d say I feel like I can go between feeling masculine and feminine but I feel that I lean more toward masculine majority of the time. Sometimes I feel like I do feel like neither and I’m just here existing.

For me, I’ve noticed discovering this has been more emotional for me than coming to the conclusion I have adhd. I think it’s because this has the potential to drastically change my life. If it does I’m pretty sure it will be for the better but still change is scary.

While discovering adhd is more of an ah I understand and I can work to work with this being nonbinary is more like time to begin the journey of acceptance, learning, and unlearning and I think it’s forcing me out of my comfort zone of putting myself last to appease others.

With this, I no longer wish to put myself last. I want to feel comfortable in my skin and be proud of who I am. This is going to be a long journey but it’s one I want to take being scared and all.

I told my boyfriend of… wow 8 years yesterday and while he’s not entirely surprised he said that he needs time to process. It was hard for me to do it so it was nice to hear that he accepts me for who I am and loves me no matter what. Tho this still may change things in our relationship and I’ve decided I’ll be ok with whatever happens.

As far as pronouns idk yet I say for now I’m ok with any and all this may change later.

As far as my appearance I already dress sort of masculine but I want to fully commit now and I was thinking of also getting a binder but I have a big chest (44 F) so idk what would be a good one for me. If anyone has any suggestions I am open to hearing them.

This self-discovery journey of mine has been very eye-opening, emotional, draining, overwhelming, stressful, and reassuring. I’m learning so much about myself and realizing I’m not lazy, crazy, or dumb and there is a reason for my experiences and they are valid just like my feelings.

From learning about adhd, the trauma that I’ve been in denial about (more on that later), and identifying as nonbinary this has been a wild transformative few months. I am very curious to find out more about myself.

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missingno-polaris · 1 year

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I COME BACK WITH MORE

some were made on request :D

also, turns out there's an ADHD one?

anyway, enjoy them :D

edited this 3 times because i forgot tags

extra edit: psst, this is part 2, part one is here

#lgbtq #lgbtq community #queer community #asexual #aromantic #pangender #adhd tag #i love making these #mood #non binary #minecraft #missingno polaris #minecraft art #missingno-polaris

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vroomvroomwee · 6 months

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So the first special was trans non-binary Doctor. The second was pan adhd Doctor. The third was aspec mentally healthy Doctor

#doctor who #doctorwho #ace #aspec #aro #asexual #aromantic #asexuality #aromanticism #pan #pansexual #bi #bisexual #adhd #actually adhd #nonbinary #non binary #trans #transgender

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warmafternoon · 7 months

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Trans people that own a chest binder, do you ever like not wear it for like 4-5 days and you're like "man I wonder why im so sad" and you realize its cause you've had ur tiddies out for 4 days and then you put it on and you feel better

cause I do this every damn week

#I have ADHD i literally forget to wear my binder and then have no idea why im so sad #I have a small chest so it's not even like in view it just gives off an aura of sadness I guess #trans pride #trans #transgender #transmasc #trans man #trans masc #enby #non binary #nonbinary

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melyasssy · 2 months

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Non-binary stimboard ᥫ᭡

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yourdailyqueer · 7 days

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Dan Rebello

Gender: Non binary - Demiboy (he/they)

Sexuality: Gay / Asexual

DOB: N/A

Ethnicity: Indian

Occupation: Teacher, activist

Note: Is Autistic, has ADHD and polyamorous

#Dan Rebello #enby #lgbt #lgbtq #asexuality #non binary #demiboy #gay #asexual #indian #asian #poc #teacher #activist #neurodivergent #poly #autistic #adhd #popular #popular post

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fairyb0ii · 5 months

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Things we must remember in 2024:

1) Free Palestine

2) Queer rights

3) What's happening in Iran, Afghanistan, Palestine, etc...

4) Black lives matter

5) Mental health matters

6) Everything about human rights

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bizarreaizen · 11 months

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"xenogenders are making a mockery of real trans people !!" no they're not. xenogender falls under the trans and non-binary umbrella, most people who use/have xenogenders are neurodivergent people(but neurotypical people can still use/have xenogenders). they're not making a mockery of trans people, they're just using xenogender to describe their identity. they're not harming anyone in any way possible. most of them are just neurodivergent people who use something to describe their identity. /gen

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xxfaggatronxx · 24 days

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A bit of angst warning ‼️

I want Ghoap content but in an angsty, healing way after Johnny got shot, but…

Realistically.

I want the journey of Johnny waking up only to find his speech stuttered and hearing practically gone, Simon desperate to communicate, Johnny taking it in stride, if he can’t use his mouth, he’ll use his hands.

Learning BSL like he was born for it, and if he gets a little too animated, he reverts back to military hand signals. Simple words change until he can mutter or speak a little more, but he can’t fully recover. It hurts Simon the most that he can’t call into their house and have Johnny come tumbling out of their room like an overeager puppy to greet them.

Months of therapy and yet Soap can only mutter stuttered, soft words. It takes three years before Soap grunts one morning “Bonn-ie yoo a-wa—ke?”

Simon shoots up and Johnny looks surprised too, but he just grins and signs sadly ‘*Dunno if I can do that again soon, love,*’ Simon nods, and its only a few days later when he finds out Johnny was practicing his name, a stuttered “Si-mo—n,” as Johnny smiles and Simon tears up. ‘*I told you I would practice,*’ he signs.

I want the doctor to ask him to wriggle the toes in his left leg, and have the description of his face falling and Simon’s eyes widen some more: more problems to deal with, to live with, to overcome. Johnny refusing to have his left leg removed, the right one already in a brace from a previous injury. Simon pleads him to at least get a wheelchair, and he does.

Stuttered, scratchy, raspy cackles as he uses his arms to race through the hallways, pushing the wheels to see how fast and far he can go… until Simon races after him, a smiling yet scolding tone as they wheels Johnny back to his hospital room, even athoughs he pouts and his hands fly up in messy signs.

“Runnin’ from me, Johnny?”

‘*Wouldn’t have to if let leave*’ The Scot’s fingers a blur.

A few weeks later crutches become the more permanent option, and Soap limps around with a big grin on his face, acting like a cat as he bats at Gaz’s ankles with the end of a crutch. Teasingly taps Simon’s ass with the end of the pole until the Lieutenant, smiling and teasing, threatens to take them away.

He knocks Price’s papers off the table, getting a scowl, and then a small chuckle from the older man who mutters: ‘Gettin’ too good at using those, considered a weapon in your hands, MacTavish,”

I want Johnny waking up…. Different. Same Johnny, thank god, remembers them, but he forgot things. Some important things. What was he doing in the train tunnel?

‘On a mission’ Johnny scrawls with shaking hands

What was the goal of the mission? Johnny pauses and thinks, but the doctor shushes him, and leaves Johnny and Simon alone. Two weeks later, Johnny signs ‘Who’ and the sign for a question. Gaz is sitting with him, Price too. Simon was out getting lunch.

“Who what, mate?” Gaz asks, confused.

‘Who’ Johnny gives a questioning look, then makes the sign a moment later. Price frowns with Gaz, and Johnny looks frustrated, signing ‘who’ a couple more times, and pointing to his head.

“Oh… who shot you?” Price is quiet when Gaz speaks. Johnny nods, then does the sign. It was painful, reminding Johnny of Makarov. He had also forgotten who Laswell, Graves, and a few other people in his life were. He had even forgot that Price was his boss, had forgotten he had tattoos, forgotten he had been called ‘Soap’ once. He remembered serving, but not much else on the SAS track. He never really got his memory back, but he remembered the little things.

He even remembered Simon liked baby’s breath flowers. Johnny being wheeled past a window and making a loud ‘AH!’ Noise, waving his hand to get Simon’s attention as he clumsily pointed with a smile to the flowers outside. ‘*Your favorite*’ Johnny smiled, making Simon’s heart flutter.

And who cares if it’s five years down the line? When Johnny shows up to the award ceremony to promote Simon to Captain. He rolls in through the front doors, in a kilt and suit top. He stops his chair by the door, and Simon’s heart clenched: using the chair meant Johnny was having a really bad day with his legs.

And then he stands. No crutches, no wheels. Grinning as he limps up to Simon, their mouth open as their boyfriend limps forwards, and pins the new rank to his chest, smoothing his hand over their suit to wipe off the dust, then, wobbling, Johnny sinks to one knee, and speaks.

“Would-ould you ma-ke me the happ-iest m-man in the world-ld, and be my per-menen-t partner…,” Johnny paused and smiled, wobbling in his knee with happiness in his eyes, meeting Simon’s wide, disbelieving ones. “Simon…. Riley,” no stutter.

He really had been practicing.

#cod modern warfare #cod mw2 #cod mw3 #non binary simon riley #simon ghost riley #adhd john mactavish #john mactavish #mw2 #after modern warefare 3 #fuck cannon #captain price #kyle garrick

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i-bit-the-dust-it-was-yummy · 7 months

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Lokius thoughts from S2E5:

SPOILER WARNING OBVI‼️‼️

Loki fixes his hair before talking to Mobius and not anyone else, Sylvie, O.B, ect. ect.

Mobius asks Loki if they were friends in a were we just friends 🤨 INSTED of were we really friends 🤨

Don I know what you are 🫵 (don’t worry about Loki it’s obvious you don’t have to point it out)

ALSO RQ CASEY AND OB MOMENT WE ALL SAW THAT WHEN THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT THE TEMPAD RIGHT?

#autism #adhd #gay #rizz?#non binary loki #loki 2023 #loki s2 #loki season 2 #loki #loki series #loki spoilers #mcu loki #loki mobius #lokius #loki casey #loki ob #genderfluid #nonbianry mobius

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forgotn1 · 1 year

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Gender is a performance and I don't have enough spoons to bother trying.

#genderqueer #nonbinary #queer #actually autistic #actually adhd #non-binary #gender performance #neurodivergent #this is framed as a joke #but I think it might also be factual

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theworthynerodivergent · 1 year

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Hey so it’s been a little minute since I’ve posted anything…

A lot has happened since my last post an for some reason I’ve been hesitant to write idky but today I’m feeling ok I guess.

So here’s a list of what’s been going on with me

I finished my internship, graduated and did not get hired at said internship but I graduated so yay! Currently looking (kinda not really) for a job.

I quit my morning job which I’m happy about but that puts a fire under my ass to look for a new job cuz money but at the same time I just want to chill. So far tho “chilling” anxiety that leaves me doing nothing 😩 so not that chill.

I’ve been working on figuring out what nonbinary means to me and who to share it with still and ongoing process.

I’ve had my adhd pre assessment wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be but waiting to find out if my insurance will cover the actual assessment or not.

Been going between feeling excited / feeling anxious and depressed about the future.

I got a ear infection that I’m just now getting over had it for about 2 weeks or so an wow was that horrible.

Made a list or things I want to do or try before this year is up which are: swim, play tennis, start being more active and lose some weight, YouTube/vtube maybe, learn to draw, start back writing an I think that’s it for now. Hopefully in the future I’ll be writing a post about how it is to do these things.

So yea a lot of things, thoughts an emotions, an idk this is kinda a ramble post but I wanted to write this before I got to anxious and decide not to write here again. So I’m glad I wrote this even if It doesn’t get read I know it’s long. If you do read it thanks I appreciate ya ^_^

#mental health #undiagnosed adhd #black adhd #black neurodiversity #about me #emby #non binary adhd #black nonbinary #i graduated #I quit my morning job #my thoughts #my emotions #and things #neuordiversity #ramblings #I’m back I think

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adhd-creativity · 1 year

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ADHD and Gender

I've just thought about how possibly gender doesn't necessarily inherently change the way ADHD affects us (for example, articles stating that adhd makes men more hyperactive than women). But society and how we've been socialised from infants to align with our assigned gender most definitely does.

Example- my male colleague, I'll call him Ben, has combined type adhd just like me (innatentive and hyperactive). It's a lot more 'obvious' with him- he talks loudly about his interests, bounces around the room, and today he's left the staffroom distracted by something work-related. He's left a used mug, glass, and a dirty tuppaware out on the shared table.

My other colleagues complain about Ben to me- they feel safe doing this as I pass so easily as 'normal'. They call him inconsiderate and someone calls him gross. And I think privately to myself, I would so easily have done that too, but I'm too hyper-aware of the shame, the gossiping of everyone around me.

I also know- in a public space you can't leave your used things out on the table. Even if it's really hard to keep track of and not do accidentally. I know I am expected to be tidy (especially in public) and consider everyone around me at all times, even if it negatively affects me.

They don't know about when I hid a growing pile of used mugs and plates in my little office space until people started complaining things were missing, how I complained with them (lol). They don't know that I stayed super late one shift and filled a bag with the mugs and plates and sneaked them into the kitchen to wash, clanking guiltily as I went, having to soak and scrub them for more than an hour.

I don't know Ben's personal history, but maybe he grew up not being told to constantly keep on top of his own mess and chores. Maybe that's women's work. Or maybe he had a modern thinking family who encouraged him to take up the space he needed (not shrink yourself down, make room for boys that need that space) and to not care what others thought of him. Maybe they were annoyed by him leaving cups and plates and making a mess, but Ben's a boy, and boys are allowed to be messy.

Maybe Ben has been enouraged to speak loudly and proudly about his interests all his life, so now he tells people about them. Maybe he's never been told to be quiet, to not think so highly of himself, to let others talk first.

I don't know Ben- I just know that he's had a very different experience of the world than I have, even if we both do share ADHD.

And because he's maybe had the chance to be who he is, loud and chatty and chaotic, without society telling him to be quiet, smaller, neater - maybe thats why people like Ben get diagnosed when they are 8 years old. Maybe that's why I didn't get diagnosed until 30- after years of pushing and having to fight my case.

What do people think? I'd love to hear some other perspectives on this

(Disclaimer- this is not meant to be gender essentialist or man-hating. I think gender is a construct and although I've been socialised as a woman, I am non-binary. Also I am not a health care professional these are just my thoughts lol )

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vroomvroomwee · 8 months

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Wanting top surgery while having OCD is one of the most awful experiences.

Like, yes, I KNOW I'm non-binary, "Butwhat if you're actually cis and just confused?"

I KNOW I want the surgery. "But what if you don't, and it's actually the wrong decision?"

I KNOW that ultimately it will make my life significantly better. "But what if it doesn't and you end up regretting it?"

"What if?" OCDs job is to make you as miserable and unhappy as possible. Its purpose is to make you doubt yourself, morally, psychologically, in every way it can.

Fuck you OCD

And it's even worse when combined with autism and my fear of change

Not enough people are talking about this, so if anyone is suffering from this dilemma, you're not alone.

#fuck you ocd #ocd #actually ocd #mental illness #actually mentally ill #neurodivergence #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #autism #actually autistic #audhd #adhd #fear of change #top surgery #nonbinary #non binary #trans #transgender

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cerise-on-top · 3 months

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Hiiiii how have you been love bug? (Please tell me if your uncomfortable with that term since you are non-binary and they/them I’m not sure what nicknames you are uncomfortable with it’s just what I call my friends and just a nickname I have for people in general🫶🏻🫶🏻 ) so I’d like to to request farah with a adhd reader who is hyper forgetful and sometimes has meltdowns ( as someone with adhd)🧡🧡🧡

Hey! I'm fine! Bought some more yarn for my leftover blanket today, which I'm excited to work on! And don't worry, I think love bug is really cute! I don't mind most nicknames, but thank you for being considerate, I really do appreciate it! Hope you're doing well as well ^^

I don't have ADHD, so I don't know at all what it's like for someone with it! I had to do some research on it, so I don't know if these are actually viable methods of helping, but I tried! Please do correct me with something that might help and I'll add it in this post afterwards! I hope this is enjoyable to you regardless! Thank you for the request!

Farah with a Reader with ADHD

Farah doesn’t particularly know a lot about mental illnesses. She may be traumatized, yes, but that doesn’t mean she ever had the time to research any of them. So she’s definitely not the best person to go to when it comes to things like these, but she tries, even if she can’t always understand everything that’s going on. You’re suffering, and that’s enough for her to know she should do something to help you.

You being this forgetful may be a cause of concern for her, though. It’s not every day she meets someone who forgot what they did five minutes prior. It’s especially concerning when it’s something important, though, like seeing a doctor. Although she may be worried for you potentially developing something as severe as dementia eventually, she’ll try to push her worries aside and help you to the best of her abilities. If you ever need reminders, she can help you. Farah remembers and retains things very well, she’s never had any issues with it since she had to in order to get by. If you need to remember something, she’ll remind you a few times a day. You have an appointment? Don’t forget about it tomorrow, I’ll tell you again then. However, she’s also a big fan of post its and will write down whatever it is you may need and place it somewhere she knows you’re going to see it. I know, out of sight, out of mind, but she’ll also text you and have you make reminders on your phone for important things so you don’t forget. Won’t get mad at you for forgetting your anniversary, she can see that it’s hard for you to remember things and won’t yell at you or anything either. However, she will mention that it was your anniversary, or maybe her birthday. For the most part she just wants to spend those days with you, if she can, and will thus remind you. Again, you don’t need to feel ashamed for forgetting, she’ll tell you that it’s quite alright and that you shouldn’t worry. She’s patient like that.

If you have a meltdown in front of her, she definitely would not know what to do at first. Depending on what kind of meltdown it is, she’ll react differently. If it creeps up on you, slowly making you irritated, then she’ll ask you what’s wrong. Regardless of your answer, she’ll ask you how she can help you, if you would like to be left alone or if you would like to take a small break in any way. She gets it and she’ll get you away from whatever is stressing you out so you can slowly recharge. If you really do want to be left alone for a while, she will comply, but will knock on your door to check up on you every once in a while and will bring you some food as well. Farah just wants you to be well, so she’ll take care of you how she thinks might help. Food is always good, food usually helps her, so she hopes it’ll do the same for you as well.

If it’s a sudden meltdown where you don’t know where left and right are anymore, then she’ll get you away from everyone else at first. While she can’t imagine what it’s like for you, it likely isn’t very pleasant for you to be crying and screaming in front of other people. Hoping that you trust her, she’ll try to ground you, asking you how you’re feeling, what you’re feeling and how she could help you. What happened is also another question she would ask you. Again, she won’t really know what to do on her own, but she tries her best. Farah will talk to you in a soothing tone and try to distract you at first so you can calm down a bit. Whether it be cracking a joke or asking you about your top five favorite reptiles. Even if you can’t answer her properly, she’ll just reassure you that it’s okay, that everything is just bad in this moment and that it’ll pass. She’s with you this entire time and won’t leave you unless you want her to. Asks you to breathe a bit with her. In all your time being together, she’s likely learned a breathing technique or two that might help you.

Once your meltdown is over, she’ll be very gentle with you, especially if she can see you’re beating yourself up over it. You really shouldn’t feel ashamed for something that you can’t help, it’s not your fault. If you feel especially down, she’ll give you a kiss on the forehead and get some ice cream with you. Something like a meltdown seems exhausting to her. While she doesn’t want to seem like she’s rewarding you for having a meltdown, she does want you to be kind to yourself afterwards, that’s what the ice cream is for. And if you don’t want ice cream, then some berries, fruits or a small snack will suffice as well. Either way, she’s there for you the entire time until you feel better.

#cod #cod x reader #farah karim #farah karim x reader #I didn't think anyone at all would notice or remember that I'm non binary #I don't really mention that fact as much as other things but it makes me happy that some people do pay attention!#also love bug is a really cute nickname! your friends must be very lucky to have someone like you in their lives!#again I don't have ADHD I only have schizophrenia and there doesn't seem to be too much of an overlap among them #so I really don't know what it's like to live with ADHD but I get the forgetfulness #I have so many reminders on my phone and on small paper notes it's incredible #I also journal every day so I don't forget what I did during the day. that's one of my best habits yet #but yeah I'm also the kind of person who can't remember what they did five minutes ago and it's so very frustrating #sometimes I wanna look something up on google only to forget five seconds later what it was #sometimes retracing my steps helps me remember but not always unfortunately it's very annoying #but we are just so very strong for living with our mental illnesses!!#being mentally ill is exhausting and I can't think of any positives either #I know it may seem hard at times but it's important to be patient with oneself. I learned that the hard way #so please do be kind to yourself anon! you deserve it! you seem like such a nice person!

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rage-against-the-cistem · 2 months

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autistic guy needs rent money. the job hunting been a pain in the ass, waiting for a call with the final offer is like waiting for godot

hi peeps! i recently moved out out of my parents house to avoid the abuse. i thought i could get a job fast, but given my limitations (autism, anxiety, depression, not having a car, not having a college degree) and lack of experience, it has been hard.

i wish i did better at job hunting but rn im burning all my saved money from my first and last job, to buy food and pay rent. Im getting into a depressive bout bc well that is what happens when u have such a tight budget that leaves no space for treats.

honestly, the donation goal is 210 euros just to cover rent, the other expenses i can manage them. i just don't want to be homeless.

you can donate here

i stream playing DOOM (1993) and Silent Hill on twitch and write poems, if you want one made for u, i do commissions on ko-fi

if you can't donate, have a cute possum pic^^

#mutual aid #donation #signal boost #queer #trans #adhd #ocd #non binary #trans masc #anarchism #dono post #trans mutual aid

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