#i am on the ace spectrum

[transmasc-wizard]

Aroaces deserve respect.

Aroaces deserve respect whether or not we want partners.

Aroaces deserve respect whether or not we feel alterous attraction.

Loveless, lovequeer, and voidpunk aroaces deserve respect.

Oriented aroaces and angled aroaces deserve respect.

Aro-spec ace aroaces, ace-spec aro aces, and aro-spec ace-spec aroaces deserve respect.

Questioning aroaces deserve respect.

Aroaces deserve respect regardless of how long ago we figured out our identities.

Closeted aroaces, out aroaces, and aroaces who can just say "it's complicated" in that area deserve respect.

Aroaces deserve respect.

[aphobes DNI, non-aroace aspecs please do not derail with aroallo and aceallo things. you are important as well, but this post is not about you.]

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aromantic asexual #oriented aroace #angled aroace #aroace spectrum #aroace positivity #seriously. derailers will get blocked on sight and i am not kidding. (this does not apply to people adding more aroace positivity that i #may have missed)

[asexualone]

Yeah I think I left my sexuality in my mother's womb

#it's tough to be a god #ace #acespec #asexual #ace pride #aroace #asexual pride #asexuality #ace culture #ace culture is #asexual jokes #aroace culture #i am ace #ace space #ace ace ace #asexual community #asexual struggles #asexual spectrum #asexual stuff #asexual memes #ace memes #ace post #ace people exist #ace positivity #ace humor #asexual humor #ace talks #ace representation #sex repulsed ace #ace speaks

[thefrogginbullfish]

#asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #aroace #lgbt #queer #lgbt memes #garlic bread #cake #how did I not realize I'm on the ace and aro spectrum sooner #I thought we were just having a chill conversation #what even is flirting??? am I accidentally doing it???

[dungeons-and-dragon-age]

Found these ship memes from last year that were almost done so I thought I might as well finish em up real quick :>

Didn't have the energy to draw portraits tho so I just used some old picrews of my ocs and whipped up some of their partners hdfjkdg

template || picrew

incoherent ramblings under the cut cos i cannot and will not shut up <3

Liam & Fenris

both parties are so overprotective it's not even funny. guys your separation anxiety is showing

Fenris: *insert bugs bunny meme* our wardrobe

idk i just think they are saps and like saying each others each others' names over pet names

Liam isn't shy about PDA per se, he will absolutely hold hands or be otherwise sappy in public (Addie is suffering constantly), but he is very private about anything that goes farther (this is about them and for them and not for anybody else). Considering how Fenris throws himself at Hawke before the last battle tho I assume he is not quite as reserved lol

Lilan & Isbela

Bela doesn't fit in all of Lilian's stuff but generally they swap clothes whenever they feel like it

probably should've put Bela's awkwardness level lower but w/e. Lilian however absolutely is an awkward mess in the beginning lol. Girl has no idea how to deal with These Weird New Emotions

No the low jealousy does not mean they don't care, it means that I imagine they're just.. very secure about their devotion to one anther. They're both flirty and both liberal with their sexuality and they know that none of that threatens what they have.

Also smh i feel like they wouldn't be too huge on PDA? Like they're not averse to it but not super keen on it either. Which is funny cos I don't think they would mind with other people at all, only when it's the two of them

They are at their core just as sappy as fen and liam you can fight me on this

Kala & Alistair

Tbh most of their awkwardness comes from neither of them having any experience (plus their upbringings in general) and both of them having to figure everything out. It's nice figuring it out together tho :)

Yes Kala is a Dwarf yes she is a big spoon.

I can totally imagine Ali exaggerating screaming about bugs bc he thinks it's fun to be over dramatic (and to have kala come to the rescue)

I wasn't really sure where to put them on the protectiveness scale cos I imagine they are very chill most of the time, because they both know they can handle themselves just fine, but at the same time they have "don't you dare look at my partner wrong" kinda vibes

June & Cullen

not a romantic ship but I'd say that the.. *gestures vaguely* whatever they have still counts lol. They live together, in any case, so,,,,

FR why does June even buy clothes she just steals everyone else's anyway

Should've put June further towards the "affection through words" side cos she is very vocal about her feelings in general and on the other had struggles to show her love through actions properly

Can June drive a car? Questionable. Will she do it anyway? Take a lucky guess

I think it is very funny to think that they are both horny mfers, but June is very blunt about it while Cullen still has that chantry boy attitude about it lol

maybe should've raised cullen's jealousy meter p: the more i think about it the more he strikes me as the type to get jealous xd

Ari & Josie

They're so fun. I love them. I really don't talk about them enough

Took a while for Ari to start using pet names, and Josie does it a lot more, but it's turned into something like a game between them

They love cooking!! And they're mighty good at it too. Beware tho if you try their food, they like it hot and spicy

Josie may seem coy and proper but I think the would totally be up for PDA. Get people talking, cause a bit of a scandal, yknow? She doesn't cos Ari isn't fond of it, but she would.

Ari doesn't get super jealous, but he can't help being at lest a little surly when some snob gets overly flatter-y and honey-tongued with Josie.

i feel like they're both protective but in a passive way, if that makes sense? Like they know they are both well equipped to navigate the kinds of dangers they deal with, but they'll still take precautionary measures in the background to make extra sure nothing happens. And they're not in-your-face about it, but they know and appreciate it anyway

#i am *just barely* resisting the urge to include a huge incoherent ramble about all these dorks hjsfdhafg #i think i didnt finish them back then bc i didn't wanna figure out exact heights and ages lol #(which is why i simply didn't :) ) #and bc i was unsure about some stuff like the pda and awkwardness stuff #cos everyone is obviously gonna get much less awkward around each other over time #and for the pda one i figured it meant stuff that goes beyond basic tame pda #bc e.g. june has no problem making out in public but feels a bit awkward about saccharine pda #and on the other side liam will absolutely hold hands or give fen a lil smooch but would rather not do anything that goes farther #also disclaimer ace =/= no/low libido; it just happens to be the case for kala and ari (and most of my charaters in general jksfhsdfhk) #oc: kalagna brosca #oc: liam hawke #oc: lilian hawke #oc: june trevelyan #oc: ari adaar #my ocs #oc meme #also. im really curious where other ppl would put the canon characters on the spectrums

[kiveruu]

u dont have to be sex repulsed to be asexual! the general stereotype of ace ppl is that we are all sex repulsed and think anything sexual is gross (which also leads to us being treated like ignorant naive kids sometimes) so shoutout to my sex indifferent aces and sex positive aces!! i see u!! yall are so valid and u are still ace despite ur feelings on sex and ily

#zephyr is boring #before anyone asks #i am ace #dont try me #asexual #asexuality #asexual spectrum #acespec #ace positivity #sex indifferent #sex positive #sex repulsed #asexuals are valid

[strangeauthor]

white ppl seeing a post about police brutality : ah yes this is the perfect time to Derail it and make it about me

#before u get on my case i am ace i am on the ace spectrum #and i am not an exclusionist

[searihart]

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL ASEXUALITY DAY!!!

I am proudly graysexual and i love miku, so here we go

No matter where you are in the spectrum, you are valid

#i personally prefer to go bt grayromantic but i am graysexual too #its just grayrom feels like home since i am more romance-centered #aspec #aspec positivity #asexuality #asexual spectrum #asexuality art #ace #ace pride #graysexual #greysexual #gray ace #grey ace #hatsune miku #my art #digital art #ms paint #international asexuality day #vocaloid #piapro studio #asexual #demisexual #ace spec #queer #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #LGBT art

[bluemoose86]

Yk what I thought the whole “two lesbians complaining to each other that they want a gf and then nothing happening” thing was just a meme until this happened to me the other day:

Me: Yeah I don’t think straight people exist anymore, I’ve had three people who I thought were 100% straight come out to me this year and one of them is even a demi lesbian like me

My friend, who I have complained to about being single and how hard it is to date as a demi many times: Wait is she pretty??

Me: Uhhhh yeah?

My friend: Ok. Date her.

Me: Haha yeah right

*Later* (the / represents separate messages bc there’s no punctuation)

Me, texting my demi lesbian friend: Oh btw one of my friends thinks we should date lol

Her: Tea???

Me: Yeah bc I said dating as a demi lesbian is hard and I mentioned you were one too so she said we should date lol

Her: Omg/I love that/Bc yes it’s that easy/That’s so funny

Me: Lmao ikr

*And then nothing happened*

#I feel like we took this to a whole new level #like #I am in shock actually #lgbt #ace spectrum #arospec #demiromantic #lgbtq #wlw #lesbian #demi lesbian #lesbian struggles #wlw struggles #peak lesbianism #demisexual

[finaltennessee]

I have been on the verge of tears for the past 4 days because of our flag means death and I am totally okay with that

#I may be on the ace spectrum but I can’t tell whether I want to be or makeout with (maybe fuck) taika in all leather and a full sleeve #both I think it’s both #the urge to dress like either stede or Ed since I started watching this is unbearable #I am absolutely going to cosplay as one of them for the con I’m going to soon #I think I’m in love with taika and all of his projects #reignited my love of film and storytelling all over again. #our flag means death #taika waititi #rhys darby #david jenkins

[heesulovebot]

porsche really got me here reblogging every single thirst trap like

#kinnporsche #no this is so funny because i am ace spectrum i do not experience this very often but apo really just smiled and i melted 😭😭😭😭 #showed a lil tit and i was GONE 😭😭😭😭 #TAWAN I AM SO SORRY

[actuallynunk]

so in honour of pride month i did some soul searching.

who was going to tell me that being sexually attracted to someone means you actually want to have sex with them???

what the fuck i have never felt this way towards anyone, i thought it was just "omg this person is so hot hhsjfjdjfj" but apparently not :')

ace people help me out here please

#am i ace? #what the entire fuck is happening #happy pride month #pride month #asexual #lesbian (possibly on the ace/aro spectrum) #aspec #??? #asexuality

[asexualone]

I don't know about you, but I personally need a shirt that says "If you catch me staring at you, it means you're aesthetically pleasing. I don't want you, I promise."

The more brutally honest, the better

#ace #asexual #asexuality #ace pride #asexual pride #aroace #acespec #aces what do you want on your shirts? #it's tough to be a god #asexual jokes #asexual problems #aspec #sex repulsed #no sex only sexy #i am ace #asexual spectrum #ace space #pls tell me i'm not the only one #ace ace ace #aspec pride #asexual community #asexual struggles #gray asexual #asexual stuff #ace humor #queer #queer pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbt pride

[juliaanoia]

funfact: German satire show ZDF Magazin Royale made an episode about internet porn and they made the very first öffentlich rechtlich (that is public broadcasted, funded by taxes) porno film in history.  I am mentioning this since this show keeps rewriting tv history with groundbreaking, incredible concepts and material and they are incredibly thoughtfuly and cool, so if you are interested in a more thoughtful, feminist type of porn this might me interesting for you? https://lustery.com/pov/ffmm-straight-queer-doggy-bj-oral-orgasm-squirting-royale

#i am slightly on the ace spectrum i think #so I'm no expert :D #but I think this is a good one if you like the physical love making stuff #zdf magazin royale #jan böhmermann #sexy #I'm glad my taxes went into this #german stuff #they seem to be having fun #so many smiles #I'm glad my money went into this #it includes an interview with the director #(who is a woman) #feminism

[kingrove-sci]

cannot believe I missed international asexuality day omg hfbdjhdh but HAPPY BELATED ACE DAY!!!

Friendly reminder that ace people are part of the LGBTQ+ community! No ifs ands or buts, they just are! (I will not argue about this.)

Just wanted to tell all people on the ace spectrum that you're valid and you shouldn't be made to feel bad about yourself, just in case no one told you recently! ♡

#international asexuality day #asexual #hfbdjhchfd cannot believe i missed this especially since i myself am on the ace spectrum LMAO

[gautierprotectionsquad]

if you think you might be ace-spec

here’s some things that I think might be helpful if you are questioning:

not all asexuals are sex repulsed

sometimes you can be okay with the idea of sex but not the reality

asexuals can fantasize about sex

asexuals can get sexual humor

finding someone “hot” but not wanting to have sex with them is aesthetic attraction

wanting to make out with or touch someone but not have sex with them is sensual attraction

Your relationship with sexual attraction can be fluid

Feeling sexual attraction and having a sex drive are two different things

Some asexuals have a sex drive

It’s okay to try out labels. If asexual is how you feel today but not tomorrow, that’s okay!

#questioning #asexual #asexuality #ace spec #ace spectrum #asexual spectrum #am I asexual #am I ace #hopefully this helps #romanticsap #800 notes

[aegoromantic-culture-is]

Aego aroace culture is having to "like" a ship enough before reading smut

#aegoromantic culture is #aegoromantic culture #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #am i the only one who does this? #actuallyaegoromantic #aromantic spectrum