#asexual problems

[bloggingboutburgers]

Every damn time

#no one can know i don't like sex #asexual #aromantic #aroace #asexual problems #aromantic problems #my art #nonburger

[frogsforthefrogwar]

#ace #ace pride #asexuality #asexual #asexual pride #ace problems #asexual problems #sex positive #sex favorable ace #asexual kink #anti swerf

[moss-the-clown-guy]

CAN WE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASSEEEEEE NORMALIZE NOT HAVING TO HAVE A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP?? IN MEDIA??? THERE'S TOO MUCH ROMANCE IN MY STORIES. I'LL BE READING A STORY AND

#aroace #arospec #aro pride #aromantic #aromantism #asexual #asexual pride #asexual problems #aromanic

[asexuwales]

I remember from before i realised i was asexual and me and some lads were talking about relationships and people cheating and the horrors and i piped up:

"if i had a partner i really wouldnt care at all if they slept with someone else, i dont want to have sex but they might so its easier for them to just fuck someone"

EVERYONES faces dropped in horror,,, thats when i started feeling like there was something wrong with me.

Looking back at it i realise, most asexuals dont see sex as a form of dovotion or an act of love, so to me I interpreted it as the equivalent of "oh they can go tenpin bowling with their mates, i dont care i dont like bowling so it wouldnt be very fun with me but i hope they have fun"

I keep forgetting and seriously sex is taken and given in a allo relationship.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #asexualpride #asexual things #asexual thoughts #asexual problems #asexual stuff #acespec #ace #ace pride #lgbtqia

[boredgramlin]

#asexual problems #asexuality #asexual #ace memes #aroace #aromantic asexual #ace af #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbt memes

[peregrinethegryphon]

I just wanna call something “hot” without there being a sexual connotation.

Like a person could draw a really cool dragon and I want to tell them how cool it is but “cool” or “aesthetic” is too underwhelming a description. There’s plenty of Cool and Aesthetic dragons, but THIS dragon, this dragon is HOT.

However, I do not wish to fuck the dragon. I simply wish to stare at it as my brain goes brrrrrrr.

#aesthetic attraction #asexual problems #and also non asexual problem because surely allos experience this too??

[space-raccoon1]

Being a closeted Aroace is so difficult sometimes because my friends will go into full detail about how badly they wanna fuck some guy and I’ll just be sitting there like

#aroace #aro pride #closeted #aromantic #asexual #asexual pride #relateable #aromantic pride #aromantic problems #aroace problems #asexual problems

[aceatbeingace]

Bit of a fun poll this. I'm curious as to if people feel more comfortable with saying asexual or ace when describing themselves or just mentioning ace stuff. Personally use ace because: I'm lazy and like shortened terms. But hey, give it a reblog and a vote if you wanna see some results!

#asexual #asexuality #ace #ace pride #acespec #acespec pride #asexual pride #asexual spectrum #ace poll #queer polls #lgbtqia poll #tumblr polls #asexual poll #asexual problems #asexual questions #lgbtqia #aceatbeingace #grey ace #ace community #asexual community #asexual culture

[pawfulofwaffles]

Ok I need to say this because I’ve been thinking about it all month, maybe longer. Did any other asexuals have a “hypersexual at a disturbingly young age” to “sex-repulsed ace” pipeline or is it just me

#or anything similar?? #am I alone in this?? #ace #asexual struggles #sex repulsed asexual #actually asexual #asexual #asexuality #aspec #ace spec #acespec #aroace #sex replused #acearo #sex repulsed ace #ace spectrum #asexual spectrum #ace pride #asexual pride #asexual problems #thoughtfulwaffles

[bibi-likes-to-draw]

there seems to be this weird thing where people assume people who are ace or aro are somehow cold hearted when some of the sweetest people I have ever met are ace and aro! Guess people can’t fathom someone who is happy fulfilled without a partner

#asexuel #asexual #aromantic #acespec #aromantism #arospec #aroace #asexual problems #aro problems #ace problems #aroace problems #text post

[bloggingboutburgers]

Can we please talk about how the words "adult" and "mature" get way too often reduced to sex and the messed-up implications that adults who don't like sex don't count as adults

Cus I'm pissed

#no one can know i don't like sex #asexual #asexual problems #asexuality #ace #my art #nonburger

[everyone-is-emptyy]

#everyone is empty #no sex life #hot girl shit #femcel #ace memes #dick jokes #girlblogging #ace sapphic #girly things #asexual humor #asexual stuff #asexual things #asexual problems #asexual jokes #asexual memes #girlboss #tumblr girls #dark memes #asexual #asexual thoughts #funny gay #funny girl

[glugglestar]

Somehow for some reason it seems incomprehensible to certain tiny minds that I can be ace and they can still get a boner from looking at my hot body

It's not that hard: I'm sexually attractive (and they're not) and I'm not going to have sex. You can't shag me; I'm unshaggable. Hope this helps

#lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbt pride #asexual #aroace #aromantic #acespec #arospec #ace pride #asexual pride #asexual problems #aro pride #aromantic pride

[dreamer0903]

Aroace moment:

Me : omg she is so hot!

my friend : yeah, I would totally bang her! would you??

Me : *horrified* WAIT WHAT? OMG NO WHY WOULD I DO THAT?!?

And that is how I found out that I've been using the word "hot" wrong my entire life.

#arospec #lgbtq #ace #ace pride #acespec #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aro pride #lgbtq community #aroace problems #aromantism #asexual problems #ace problems

[musingsofaclosetedasexual]

I think asexuals write some of the tenderest, sweetest romances you’ll ever read (or watch), because we are always observing and noticing what others have. And yeah, sometimes we shed a tear or two. But we are capable of creating so much beauty and experiencing romantic and non romantic love and sharing our very real, deep emotions with others in a way that resonates with millions.

I guess what I’m saying is, don’t gush over heartstopper and then try to tell your local aces what they are capable of feeling. Happy Heartstopper Day to those who celebrate

#asexual #asexual problems #heartstopper #alice oseman #acespec #ace pride

[whoneedsname501]

Help please!!!

I swear there used to be alot more fanfics, in alot more fandoms. Or are the fic hiding from me? Now it is really hard to find something good and when you find something its usually smut. Give me fluff, and cute stuff. Or are just everybody so horny???

Please I need a good recomends for my favorite men. Just as:

TMR Newt

Benny Watts

Whitey Winn

Draco Malfoy

Stiles Stilinski

Tommy Shelby

Poe Dameron

Jack Dawkins (I know he is new but I need something good)

Obi-wan Kenobi

Hawkeye Pierce (MASH)

Hawkeye (MCU)

Javier Peña

Edmund Pevensie

And alot more....

I need FLUFF with them!!! Or at least angst that ends with fluff. Or at very least smut with a lot of fluff and plot. Yes I am the one person that reads smut for the plot :) Please!!!

#asexual #tmr newt x reader #fluff #edmund pevensie x reader #whitey winn x reader #benny watts x reader #javier pena x reader #tommy shelby x reader #poe dameron x reader #hawkeye pierce x reader #hawkeye x reader #stiles stilinski x reader #obi wan x reader #draco malfoy x reader #jack dawkins x reader #asexual problems #cute #romantic #give me fluff #Spotify #faded #faded alan walker