#disgusted in asexual

[transgender-png]

parents will be like "we love you no matter what" my mother in christ how can you love me when you dont know me

#mommy issues #daddy issues #lol hashtag relatable ! #the shit that came up #when i typed in “mommy” #gross #dont even get me started #on “daddy” #disgusted in asexual #vent

[alevens]

zolu is maybe one of the easiest ships i've ever liked. they're dating, except when they're not, they're best friends even when they're kissing and they're still captain and first mate when they aren't. they hold hands, they hug. they have sex. they don't.

Luffy can hold Zoro's katanas and Zoro can hold Luffy's strawhat and no one bats an eye. one says "You're so cool!" and the other says "You're strong" and it's just another way to say "I see you, this is why I follow you/this is why I trust you". it's not seeing each other for a long time and still knowing how the other's steps sound like against wood and sand. the captain runs and the first mate follows. it's always "Zoro and the others" and "Where's Luffy?"

if they're just friends, if they're something more, if they don't have a label for it, at its core, it's just about how they get each other. they understand how the other's mind works. however you view them, it doesn't erase they fact that they love each other in a way they don't love other people.

#zolu #on why i love zolu #seeing the hate its gotten on its own tag #i figured i'd put it on my two cents #i am aroace and i do hc Luffy as aroace #the same for Zoro if i'm honest #but the thing about this hc is that not only it isn't canon #but is an actual spectrum #what really made me pause was that the argument was that zolu was an “icky” ship bc of how they viewed Luffy as aroace #i would have prefered they just said they hate the ship #it makes sense as i do too hate ships without reason sometimes #but it was how they seemed to view aromatic/asexual people that fucked me up #both orientations are spectrums #the way i see it and experience it isn't the same other people do #giving this label and then saying it only woks on one way is disrespectful to the many people that fall under this umbrella #it isn't as simple as saying “aromantic folks can't experience love” and “yeah ace folks all find sex disgusting” #everyone is different everyone has different views and it's about finding what fits *you* personally! #sorry for the rant on tags i just wanted to get it off my chest #i've seen more people explain it better and break it down more coherently #and i'm so so glad to see so many big brained people ready to communicate on why that take just wasn't it #one piece

[batri-jopa]

Growing up as aromantic / asexual:

In my childhood and adolescence

After 10 years of desensitization by watching popular media...

...and after few months on Tumblr

I did not even realize how much fed up I already was with all the cisheteronormative couples struggling with stereotypical "gender roles" dilemmas, "traditional family" conflicts and "social expectations" of patriarchal world...

I mean how many times can you watch the same issues over and over again when none of it ever was part of your own not-partnering single life in the first place?

#I needed disgusted-Miguel-reaction-meme but it turns out nobody did a meme out of this scene before??? so I did it myself #asexual #aromantic #arospec #acespec #aro ace #aroace #aspec #a spectrum #a spec #sex repulsed #sex positive #romance repulsed #romance positive #miguel coco #coco miguel #miguel reaction meme #reaction meme

[confused-spood]

this is my life now

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #illustration #funny #meme #we literally have this friend who constantly flirts with us and lemme tell you #I'm left with dread and horror #while she's disgusted and kinda terrified #But it's rly funny most of the time

[theinsomniacindian]

Sometimes I wish that people would learn the difference between sex-repulsion and sex-negativity

#sex-negativity (hating sex as a concept and shaming others for liking it) #sex-repulsion (being disgusted by the idea of having sex yourself) #i'm tired of seeing sex-repulsed 'positivity' posts where they confuse these concepts #newsflash buddy; you can be sex-repulsed AND sex-positive. #i do agree that shaming others for liking sex is bad but at least inform the right people #but there are barely any sex-repulsion positivity posts that don't go 'it's okay to be sex-repulsed as long as you aren't sex-negative!' #every time i go to the sex-repulsed tags whenever i need positivity for my internalised aphobia these are the types of posts i see #lgbtq+ #lgbt #asexuality #asexual #asexual pride #ace pride #ace #sex repulsed #sex repulsed pride #sex repulsed positivity #sex repulsed asexual #the insomniac archives

[jeanmoreauss]

if people start spinning the sex-repulsed, traumatized by sex so couldn't possibly enjoy sex view with Jean Moreau I will be coming after them with knives because have you morons not learned a single fucking lesson about infantilizing SA survivors

#killing you killing you killing you #i'm asexual and an SA survivor #guess what! still not sex repulsed and still like sex! #GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELVES #we actually have no narrative indication that he's disgusted or repulsed by sex #there's caution around consent (like checking in on Cody) and obviously he's fucking traumatized but for the love of god let's not go to th #sex repulsed demonizing anyone who writes about jean having sex or liking sex #like please go fuck yourselves #aftg #tsc #the sunshine court #jean moreau #all for the game #personal.txt

[thatoneluckybee]

hi if you post your explicit or suggestive selfies to asexuality tags, specifically repulsed tags, you are the epitome of dirt. do NOT go to spaces specifically for people who probably do NOT want to see or consume that content, or who may be upset by said content, if you're only going to post that content. screw you. thanks.

#asexual #asexuality #sex repulsed #sex repulsed asexual #sex repulsed ace #ace #aspec #acespec #genuinely. I'm not ace but know people who are and it's disgusting to see that content show up whenever I reblog anything #with the ace tags! STOPPIT!!

[greatalastoraltruist]

I feel like swinging a bat at a hornets nest so I'll say the quiet part out loud. A lot of y'all are bein aphobic as hell when it comes to Alastor. Alastor is seen to act repulsed multiple times in the show when other characters have suggested sexual acts with him and between that and his being confirmed ace, the fact that Alastors tag is still full of smutty fics just shows that you don't respect the character or folks on the ace spectrum at all. Yes, some ace folks aren't sex repulsed but Alastor clearly isn't one of those folks and y'all doing gymnastics to try to justify your constant objectification of our only confirmed ace character says a lot about y'all and how little y'all respect us.

Y'all are doing the exact thing to Alastor that so many of us on the ace spectrum fear from those around us every single day. You don't care about the character at all, you only care about how you wish he would fuck you and there's literally a whole show of other characters you can do that with that isn't the only confirmed ace character.

#like COME ON yall are no better than those kind of cishet men who see women as nothing but holes to fuck and its so blatant #let us have this one singular character thats supposed to be for us and stop disrespecting that important part of his character #and don't even get me started on the fics that have Alastor get hypnotized or smthn else that takes away his ability to give proper consent #those are essentially date-rape fics and its fucking disgusting #alastor the radio demon #alastor hazbin hotel #asexual alastor #Hazbin hotel #broadcasting across hell #alastor x reader #alastor x vox #alastor x lucifer #alastor x you

[princsstwilightsparkl]

saying "if aroace people can date, then can lesbians date men?" is absolutely aphobic narrative btw!

#sorry just have to say this lol #so tired of people generalizing all aroace people as romance averse #its absolutely erasure of the rest of the spectrum #the top tweet isnt so bad depending on who theyre talking about #if a character ACTUALLY is canonically romance/sex aversed then yea its weird to erase that #but if they're canonically AROACE and you go 'erm that character cannot date or have sex🤓☝️' ur being aphobic as fuck #the 'shown no attraction to anyone' part kind of throws me off there #i hate when people say 'well this character didnt have feelings for anyone in the one year time span of the show so theyre romance aversed- #and nobody can ship them or else i'll harass u and subtweet u!1!!' #like. a characters life may not involve sex or romance at all fucking times. that does not make them aroace. #ur headcanon- even if you think its based on a logical conclusion- is not reality #sometimes yall just be making shit tf up #complaining about 'fanon' as if ur not the one pretending ur hc is real and treating everyone else like theyre the bad ones #but if that tweet is just saying that IN ADDITION to theyre canon identity then yea. thats valid. #their* </3 #obviously the reply is fucking disgusting #i couldnt reply directly cuz my twitter is priv #people will say this kind of shit to ME- AN AROACE PERSON #u preach about aro/ace erasure but when an actual aroace walks in you tell them their way of being aroace is wrong #not everyone is the fucking same. #non-partnering aroaces deserve more rep but telling partnering aroaces that their way of being aroace is wrong is genuinely horrific #like actually fuck u #aromantic #asexual #aroace #arospec #meowing (yapping)

[random-human-being2311]

The Captain, Kitty and Robin are Alloace-Aroace-Aroallo solidarity. tO ME.

#bbc ghosts #the captain #kitty higham #robin the caveman #alloace #aroace #aroallo #asexual #aromantic #aro #ace #aspec #before mfs with tumblr reading comprehension think I'm doing gay erasure for cap #ALLOace. GAY ACE #bro has so many ace vibes that I find relatable so uhh sorry guys he's been hit with the aspec beam #aroace kitty because #just because #oh also she's 100% ace from that one scene where she learns what sex is and is immediately disgusted #extremely relatable #and aromantic because aros can be a huge fan of fictional romance and still be aromantic #believe it or not #and because I say so so uhh sorry that's final #robin is aroallo because fuck it why not #we need more positive aroallo rep #and also I can't imagine robin in a romantic relationship #they aren't really his style #hello future me who forgot that they added this to their queue

[loveableabomination]

Being ace but also being people-pleasing enough that I think I'm not ace cuz I like to make my partner happy...is a mind-fuck.

#ace #asexual #trans #lgbtqia #trans man #ace trans #ace pride #ace problems #sex doesnt disgust me per se #for the most part #but I want it to be done fast #like yeah yeah just get there already #so we can get to the cuddles and lovey dovey stuff #can I actually just have lovey cuddles without the sex? #like for reals #that'd be great #but I know that isn't how the vast majority of people are #finding another ace? #ridonkulous #finding another ace around my age who likes me and who I like back? #may as well start my search for unicorns cuz I'll find one of those before a relationship #and y'know what I'm cool with that #dream home is a house in the woods far away from people #so I can wander barefoot in the forest without people wondering what in god's name I'm doing walking barefoot with coffee in hand #and if I'm being honest probably also a book #walking while reading is underrated #I used to rollerblade up and down the street while reading #I will forever associate Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with rollerblading and the scent of the fields by my house #anyways yeah #im an urban hermit dreaming of being a forest hermit

[kyacchan-comics]

Sometimes, I still think about that reader who's been following my page for a year or more, positively reacting to my comic updates, but when I shared my support for a new law in support for gay marriage and child adoption in lgbt couples, she wrote an ESSAY about how that was a blasphemy and how could I force children in the hands of sinners and that that law would allow people to persecute Christians.

Ma'am.

Ma'am my main comic is about two women falling in love, one of which is trying to get out her bigoted village. The other one is a druid.

You've been reading it.

I drew them kissing more than once.

Ma'am.

#kyacchan rambling #lgbt+ #tw mention of homophobia #I ended up blocking her #she spiraled into saying that sex outside of marriage is DISGUSTING and that it should only be done for making kids #like ma'am I am asexual but damn I think you need a bit of self analysis #there's something going on there I think #but also goddamn relax

[tryyda]

i lied I don't actually like sex. put your clothes back on, I'm going to read my favorite tma episodes to you in my native language. (this actually happens bc my partner doesn't know english that well)

#the magnus archives #tma #lesbian #we're so gay it's disgusting #tma is gay #lgbtq #asexual

[punk-pangolins]

RANT POST KMS

AS AN ASEXUAL I FUCKING HATE FOLLOWING QUEER TAGS

#GAY AND #TRANS AND #NONBINARY ARE ALL FULL OF FUCKIN

🤢🤮PORN🤮🤢

WHY ARE THERE NAKED PEOPLE WHERE MY FUNNY GAY MEMES ARE SUPPOSED TO BE

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

EVEN IN #ASEXUAL TOO IM SO UPSET

I DONT WANNA SEE UR TITS

I WANNA SEE BLAJHA FANART YOU FUCKS

GET IT RIGHT

no hate to ppl who like their bodies now and shit BUT ITS DIFFERENT idc if its what YOU wanna see I have no part in this consent

#why must i be cursed with such visceral disgust #i dont wanna see that #fuck you #rant #i fucking hate this #rant post #ranting #asexual #gay #trans #nonbinary #i fucking hate it here #lgbt #lgbtqia #queer #kms #i hate this #i wanna die #i hate everything #im going to kms

[actual-corpse]

Saw a YT vid with the title, "Fandom Can't Handle Asexuality"

You're right, they can't... Because it doesn't fucking exist to them.

#aroace #asexual #enby people arent real either #we're told to stop using neopronouns and to stop being aroace bc 'nobody will take LGBT seriously' #keep being exclusionary #i dont want to be your friend if you're gonna act like that #I'm a genderqueer aroace person who's pronouns are it/its and you're gonna fucking respect that or be called a bigot #this shit has got to stop #also... because it matters #dont be ableist #ever. just dont #one of the main reasons i hate Alastor so much... is the fandom's treatment of him as a character #most of them completely erase his sexuality in favor of shitty crack ships. #I think a QPR with Lucifer or Rosie is a cute idea! but that's it #keep Vox pining for Alastor... that's great too #its like when I tried to erase Porter Gage's Bisexuality.... It was wrong and I've changed (Fallout 4's romanceable companions are cannonic #cannonically bisexual... I don't make the rules) I was just mad because someone had MY BLORBO in a disgusting ship and I got sick of seeing #it... And THEN I learned how to block tags!!! #idk where this is going #i'm just upset that aros and aces and enbys are erased #maybe it's a confirmation bias and i've just spent too long doing demographic research #i HATE demographic research #it takes me to disgusting places #i need to find my sewing patterns so I can refocus my energy into something good

[molsno]

it's kind of funny people don't come at me accusing me of being a sex pest because they probably think it's harder to get away with on account of me being ace. the tradeoff of course is that I instead have to deal with people telling me that ace trans women need to accept the fact that their partners just absolutely Need to have sex with them or else they'll kill themselves. so there's pros and cons

#don't get me wrong people have absolutely accused me of whatever kink they find most disgusting #but making shit up about the sex life of a vocally asexual person is usually recognized as bullshit #I'm just saying. I have fucking haters but they can't really use the usual tricks against me #txt