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pageofheartdj · 1 month
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"Why people are so obsessed with shipping?"
Can't say for everyone, but I am aroace, very much on repulsed side with detachment issues. There is no way in hell I can experience romance or sex, nor do I want to. But fictional shipping gives me the thrill of feelings where I don't have to participate at all and just be an excited viewer. This feeling of tickling tightness in my chest is very pleasurable!! So I love shipping, I love smut, especially emotional. (just as mush as I love found families but no one complains about found families, only about shipping, so here we are)
"Then ship someone else? Why do you need Alastor for this?"
Well, it just doesn't work with some nobody character. I need to be actively emotionally invested in them for it to hit me perfectly in the heart(you can say it's like demi? where the feelings come after the 'bond'). And Alastor is that character for me(well the second character, in my ship with my first fave, aren't I lucky). He is my window to those feelings and only he can be it.
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gray-ace-space · 7 months
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i might legit be demiaegosexual. there are aspects of both i very strongly relate to
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genderdoe-sly · 3 months
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having a literal allergic reaction to cuddling (a bit of kissing too) was NOT on my 2024 bingo sheet
(if anybody wants to offer advice tho other than 'take antihistamines' [which I did today when it was already happening] please do, but no dms)
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themogaidragon · 10 months
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is there a sexuality for something like aegosexual, but I would eventually have sex with a person I feel a connection to? Kinda like a mix of demisexual and aegosexual. Or does demisexual include the shipping and consumption of media that aegosexual has? Rn I identify as demiaroace but it’s always irked me how idk if I can feel horny while being demisexual
Yes, it sounds exactly like demiaegosexual!
Demiaegosexal: a term that describes those who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal, but have the possibility of connecting once an emotional bond is forged.
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Questioning aspec culture is being confused because you want a specific label and writing an ask to this blog before realizing the word yourself and looking it up and realizing other people feel the same way and being really happy. (Demiaegosexual!)
<3
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movedaccountsxx · 1 year
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I recently started identifying with a different gender identity and sexuality, and I wanted to make flags I liked for them!
The first is Femnigender.
This is a gender that is defined as your gender being feminine, but your self expression does not feel feminine. It can alao be characterized as a disconnect between gender identity and gender expression.
I made a flag to represent both. The burgundy (top color) represents individuality and a strong sense of self. Salmon (second color) also means individuality, but can mean expression and confident.
The black is used to symbolize a disconnect between one's gender expression and gender identity.
The bottom half symbolizes a feminine gender identity. Both lavender and pink represent feminity, but while lavender is calm and mature, pink is lovely and more typical when thinking about feminity.
Last but not least, the white butterfly represents the feminine but unique nature of butterflies. It means feminine and individuality at the same time, while white represents sexuality and innocence.
(Note that the butterfly is a free to use png for personal use ONLY from the internet. It is not my image)
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The second flag is a new Demiaegosexual flag.
Demiaegosexual is on the asexual spectrum, and describes a disconnection between someone's desire to have sex and their arousal. But they have the chance to make that connection once they form a bond with someone. Before this, those who are demisaegosexual may feel sexual desires, but have no interest to doing it themselves.
I didn't really like how the original was just strange combinations of the demisexual flag and the aegosexual flag. So I made my own.
I kept the elements from many flags on the asexual spectrum, with the black (lack of attraction), white (sexuality), grey (grey area), and purple (community).
I also kept the triangles featured on the demisexual flag (and even the aegosexual one), and used black to separate parts of asexuality with arousal, to symbolize a disconnect.
Red represents love, passion, intimacy, and arousal. Blue represents introspection, calmness, and acceptance. And green represents connections, typically to nature, but in this case, to the people around you.
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These obviously aren't official. But these are my takes on the flags! Let me know what you think of them, especially anyone who identifies with the same micro-labels as me!
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neopronouns · 11 months
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Is the request for flags gone?
I just need a combo of the polyamorous (any version, can do multiple), squirrel bisexual (meaning a bisexual that prefers sensual affection over sexual, like cuddles and kisses), and demiaegosexual flags into one to represent me.
Let me know of you can.
If gone for now, you can set mine aside until you're ready to do this again :3
sorry, requests are closed, which (for my blog) means i won't complete or save requests sent at the moment /info
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mogaiknights · 3 years
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Coining Post
DemiAegosexual
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Definition: having a disconnect between oneself and subject of sexual material. One feels little to no sexual attraction unless an emotional bond is formed. Essentially as the term sounds, a combination of aegosexual and demisexual.
Flag meaning
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Black stripes: lack of sexual attraction
Purple stripes: demisexual experiences
Red stripes: sexual experiences
Pink stripe: differentiate between connection and sexual material
[Image Description: "A flag consisting of 7 equally sized stripes. From top to bottom, the stripe colours are: black, purple, red, pale pink, red, purple, black" ]
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aroaceconfessions · 3 years
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I just want to take a moment to say:
the way the asexual spectrum and concept of queer platonic relationships make me breath easier. a concept I start to unlearn just now is the assumption that I "owe" anyone intercourse, that I in fact am fine not wanting it physically and that this fact is fine for my partner. It’s okay just to text it, just to roll with the feelings and it won’t ruin anything. My identity is demi - aegosexual and that is completely valid. Full stop.
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pageofheartdj · 1 year
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I wonder if demiaegosexuality is a thing xD
I like smut between any fictional charaters in generally normal amount.
But it feels tremendously different when it’s characters I feel attached too!
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gray-ace-space · 6 months
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figured i'd repost my demiaego flag cause my post that's going around is of the version i don't like anymore.
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genderdoe-sly · 1 year
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Hi It’s ace day, so heres me! (from https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Demiaegosexual)
Demiaegosexal is a term that describes those who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal, but have the possibility of connecting once an emotional bond is forged. The connection can be romantic, platonic, or some other form of connection.
basically I’m aegosexual until I get emotions
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genderdoe-sly · 2 years
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that feeling when you’re a non-repulsed (forget word ha) aspec person and you enjoy that stuff and then you start to feel alone and strange because you wouldn’t want to do that with anyone anytime soon so you have to go to asexual tumblr to feel validated
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genderdoe-sly · 2 years
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BREAKING NEWS: dude has so many queer labels/identities that they avoid pic-crews all together because the most you can ever represent is three at a time and choosing feels wrong but not having any feels like a lie 8 dead 3 injured 
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genderdoe-sly · 2 years
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Hi! Get to know me + DNI list:
You can call me Wrench if you need a name, and they/them for pronouns. I’m a minor, so beware of that while interacting. 
Most predominant interests on my blog: 
-Fandoms:  DCU: bafamily, Community (NBC) [especially ANNIE EDISON], Shoresy (Crave, Hulu), 
Post about less often:The Boys (Amazon), The Old guard(Netflix), House M.D. 
Post masterlist
-Other: Autistic experiences, Queerness, Judiasm, random funny stuff. You can find many of my thoughts on Community (NBC) things under #headcannons by sly, dnd things under #sly plays dnd, my art under #art by sly. Ao3 account: INFJsly
Queerness: pansexual, non-binary, genderdoer, demiaegosexual. Bisexuality and pansexuality can co-exist. Neo-Pronouns are real.
DNI: Homophobes, terfs, trans meds, racists, xenophobes, islamaphobes, white supremacists, anti-semites, MAPs/pedophiles, anti-self-diagnosers, pro autism-speaks or ABA, pro-lifers/anybody anti roe v wade, pro eating disorders.
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