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relationshipinfo · 9 months

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Will You Survive a Relationship Breakdown?

Relationships connect us in this world with each other. We have many kinds of relationships-parental, sibling, friends, professional and love. We go through many phases in all these relationships. Ups and downs are part of our life and our relationships. Most of us can bear break down in most of the above relationships except those of love. Why? Who will survive a breakdown in romantic relationship and who will get shattered? Let us discuss.

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The higher the attraction, the higher will be the shock. The closer you are, the break up will give you more shock. It is very simple equation. But let us remember that life is not made of equations and emotions do not behave mathematically. So it all boils down to personality. There are some who expect the relationship to break sooner or later. They are pessimists and call themselves practical. These people are never surprised if the relationship breaks. They may wonder about the reasons but will not suffer trauma.

On the other extreme, we have some people who believe that they are made for each other and that the relationship, the loyalty and the faithfulness will last for the life and if possible beyond. This is the vulnerable class. If by bad fate, they are ditched by the partner, they will suffer very bad trauma. They will never believe that this could ever happen and all their life they will spend wondering how it happened. Their faith in their partner is absolute. They trust their partners most and for them the shock of the broken trust is unbearable. They need psychiatric help. Hopefully with professional help they may recover. But at times the trauma is uncontrollable. They lose their faith in life and everyone else. The betrayal kills their inner core and the will to carry on. If you are one such type, please go into any relationship with the awareness that your partner may not be as honest as he/she looks.

Relationship is a beautiful feeling and a wonderful experience. One tends the relationship as one cares for a tender plant. One gives ones whole being to the relationship. The breakdown therefore becomes unbearable. Sometime I feel that the world is for people who are practical and never allow their heart to rule over their mind.

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nanorelationship · 1 year

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"You are killing US with YOUR jealousy"

So far I have enlightened the world with my thoughts on jealousy and self-esteem. I want to clear up any misunderstandings that may have some male people thinking that I am targeting only women here. Jealousy and self-esteem issues also can imprison men as well as women. No one is excused from real human emotions. Emotions know no face, color, size or gender. There are two victims here, not just one.

I also feel that I have neglected to reveal how the other party involved in a relationship that suffers from jealousy or self-esteem issues also suffers.

A relationship is a partnership. It is a commitment made between two people, in that we will stand by each other through thick and thin. Unfortunately, when it is a jealousy issue, both parties are effected. We tend to focus on the person that is trapped in the prison of worry, more than the other person that is caught in the line of fire, partly because we need to free that side first, then we can help heal the other.

Well I am now going to share that persons prison of hell as well.

To be accused and mistrusted by the one you love is a hardship and a definite pain that one cannot bear for a long time. They eventually either walk away or take a stand and call out to you, (the attacker) to please stop; to please listen to what you are saying and accusing them of.

Time after time they try so hard to reassure you that they do love you and that they are not interested nor lusting for anyone else. When they try to tell you that it is all in your mind, they risk getting attacked more for defense. It is no doubt a vicious circle. They become paranoid that no matter where they are, you are already convinced that they have betrayed you in some way. They wait for the shoe to drop. Some times it takes a few days, some times it drops immediately. Never the less they have to sit by and worry about when it will drop. They fear that this time they will not be able to say the right thing. They fear we will get even more depressed and irrational with what they say to us. They begin to feel, "damned if they do, and damned if they don`t". I personally hate that feeling. To think that I myself would put someone in that position makes me want to run away faster than Forrest Gump.

The neglect you put on that person through your jealous insecurities is as real to them as your feelings of being trapped in your prison of doubt. There are many scenarios as to why jealousy rises up inside people, but for the innocent ones that really do not ever do anything to trigger that fear inside you, they are the innocent victims. People that have come to the point of identifying their issues and have began to deal with them, please remember the other person that is there with you. They too need special attention, because they have shared your fears and your pain. In a much different way, never the less, they still ache. Jealousy can destroy so many good things in ones lives. It can destroy our mate, through you, it kills the one thing that you love deeply. The worst part about it is, that you allow it. You must stop. Would you take a gun and shoot your mate? NOT!! So then why are you allowing this emotion to torture what is so dear to you? I repeat, as long as your mate is not responsible for your fears or if they have made amends and are trying to make things better, then please understand their pain of being mistrusted. When they see you in pain and they are being told it is because of them, they crumble. Your mate loves you as much as you love them, and to feel they are responsible for your trapped feelings eats them up inside. To see you smile and feel totally loved makes them feel good about themselves in that they are responsible for that smile. That is a good feeling all the way around.

Also be careful not to fall into that habit of being unhappy through jealous feelings. Understand where they are coming from. Are you using them as a reason to get attention? Again, a wrong kind of attention. If you cannot get the right attention you feel you are lacking, then talk to your partner. Do not let jealous emotions take over and confuse what you really are trying to say. Any weakness in your mind is a direct route for negative feelings to travel through. Once they get there, they work very quickly at bringing you down. So be aware of what exactly you are feeling.

I hope that I have at least opened up some thoughts in your minds as to what else is going on in a relationship that is plagued by jealousy. Both sides are equally being torchered and killed. We need to LIVE, LOVE & LAUGH more often with each other. Oh and lets not forget my favorite thing to do…HUGGGGGG!!!!

One thought from my heart to yours:

Say this outloud:

"I am always ready to risk. I am always ready to learn. I am always ready to test my strength, and so I put my worries aside and just live!"

Dorothy Lafrinere Owner/Operator Website- http://www.womensselfesteem.com Weblog- http://www.justblogme.com/Dorothy Forum- http://womenselfesteem.proboards29.com email- [email protected]

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insertedgyfangirlname · 9 months

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McDonald’s: Quarter Pounder with Cheese! :D

Me: Queer Platonic Crelationship???

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may8344 · 4 years

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The Journey of a Forgotten Solider (Levi x OC)

CRelationships:

Alana Frey (OC)Levi (Shingeki no Kyojin)/Original Female Character(s)Levi Ackerman/Alana FreyFurlan Church/Original Character(s)Furlan Church/Alana Frey

Characters:

Levi (Shingeki no Kyojin)Furlan ChurchIsabel MagnoliaAlana Frey (OC) - CharacterErwin SmithHange ZoëPetra RalGunther SchultzEld JinnOluo BozadoKeith ShadisSpecial Operations Squad | Squad Levi

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Graphic Description of CorpsesBlood and InjuryViolenceMurder

Summary:

Alana Frey, a girl born in the Underground City, longed to see the true sunlight every morning that she would wake up. Alongside her comrades: Furlan Church, Isabel Magnolia, and Levi, Alana’s life as a thug continued with no way around it; until the sudden day she and her companions were offered the deal of a lifetime.

“Once you complete this job, not only will you be generously compensated for your work,

but you will also earn the right to live above ground.”

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Chapter 7: The Night Sky

Treading through the dark hallway of the base, Furlan counted the doors as he passed them. Stopping at one with a keyhole, he murmured to himself. “This should be his room.” Quietly opening the wooden door, he entered the large, dark room. Bookshelves lined the sides along with some drawers. In the centre, a large desk sat with a wooden chair behind it.

Furlan began digging around the books, scanning for some trace of the document they were searching for. In a rush, he switched to opening drawers and looking around objects. “Dammit. Where could Erwin be hiding it? I thought this would be easy since there’s not much here.” Putting a finger to his chin, he pondered where else he should search. However, his thinking was suddenly interrupted by an owl-like whistle down the hallway. "Shit!" That was his cue to leave as quickly as possible.

Leaving as discreetly as he came, Furlan met up with his three companions as they sat in the supply room of the base where no other people were present.

“We won’t find it, no matter how many times we turn his office over. It’s probably best to assume it isn’t in his room.”

“Where do you think it is?” Isabel questioned, perched cross legged on one of the wooden crates.

“Where would you put something that you’d really want to keep safe?” Alana, who was sitting next to Isabel, asked. Her legs hung off of the boxes as she swung them lightly back and forth.

“I’d just stick it in my cummerbund, of course!” She stated proudly, patting the lower part of her stomach.

Furlan sighed at her reply. “I don’t know if Erwin wears a cummerbund or not, but it’s likely he’s carrying it on him. And so, I was thinking… we could use this upcoming expedition to our advantage.”

That drew Levi’s attention. He leaned against the crates, arms crossed, and eyes slanted as normal.

Continuing, Furlan explained, “Outside the Walls, Erwin and the others will have their hands full with Titans. We just have to wait for an opportunity.”

“I see. Great idea!” Isabel agreed.

“You okay with that, Levi? Lana?”

Alana wore a frown as dysphoria filled her veins. With a worried tone, she opposed. “I… don’t think it’s a good idea. While they might have their hands full, we will too. Don’t you remember what Squad Leader Flagon said? Titans really are dangerous! And what happens if we get separated? Or worse…” she trailed off, not wanting to picture any of her friends getting eaten by the crazy monsters beyond the Walls.

“Oh, come on!” Isabel whined. “We’ll be fine! We survived so much so far. What bad could possibly happen? As long as we all work together, we’ll be unstoppable.”

Furlan, who wore a determined grin, patted Alana’s knee, which hung off of the crate. “There’s no need to worry, Lana. We’ll get this job done and then we can all live up here together. So believe in us, alright?”

Though she still had her concerns, Alana ended up giving in and nodded. “Alright, alright.”

With that, the blond turned towards the shorter, dark haired man. “So, Levi? What do you say?”

“Sure.” He shifted his weight off of the wood behind him and stood firmly in front of Furlan. “But I’ll be going alone.”

“What?” All three of them responded in shock and confusion.

“You three come up with any excuse to stay behind.”

“Big bro…” Isabel frowned before raising her voice, “Why!?”

“We haven’t even seen a real Titan yet, and it’ll be our first time outside the walls,” he reasoned. “It may take all we’ve got just to make it back alive. But if I’m by myself, I’ll manage somehow.”

It was not incorrect that Levi was gifted. His ODM Gear skills were far above the rest, and his sword work even more. He was able to brush through Titan dummy training with ease.

“But that’s…”

Furlan raised up his hand to stop Isabel from speaking. Instead, he spoke up with pained eyes, “So what you’re saying is that we can’t handle it, right?”

“That’s right. At least, that’s how I feel.”

That’s when the ginger snapped. Hopping off of the crates, she stood her ground in front of Levi and argued. “How can you say that? You won’t know until we’ve at least tried!” Her expression turned somber, “What’s wrong? It’s not like you to lose your nerve like this.

“If you won’t stay behind, then we’re done talking! We’ll wait for another opportunity.” With that said, the ravenette walked away, leaving the remaining three behind.

“Levi!” Furlan called out.

“Wait, Big Bro!”

[~]

Once nightfall came, Levi found his way to an open area of the castle-like base, and perched himself on top of one of the brick walls. He sat quite far up from the ground, gazing into the sky. Thoughts scattered through his head as he remembered when they were captured in the Underground. All of his companions were captured by the Scouts in record time.

He didn’t want the same fate to happen to them with Titans.

The breeze passed through the air, crickets chirping their songs, and leaves rustling from the trees below. Above the ravenette, the sky was filled with clouds. No moon nor stars brightened up the area. The only light visible was some of the dimly lit torches on the lower floors.

“Big Bro. We need to talk.” Isabel spoke in her rare stern voice. Her and the other two trailed Levi to the open space after planning out how to convince the stubborn man.

“Levi, let’s talk this through,” Alana reasoned.

“No matter how I look at this, you going alone is a bad idea. It’s a fool's errand.” Furlan added.

“You said that when we first step outside of the Walls, it’ll be all four of us together, right?” The ginger crossed her arms. “Have you forgotten?”

“It’s all the same,” the ravenette mumbled, ignoring their proposition, instead looking up to the sky. “Without the moon and stars, the night is just as dark above ground as below it.”

The three looked up in confusion. Furlan was the first to speak up. “The color of the sky, sure. But…”

“But it’s different.” Isabel practically yelled. “We know that there’s no ceiling! It’s completely different!”

Levi’s attention drifted back to the trio behind him. He was thrown off by their answer, though his emotionless face said otherwise.

However, Alana’s face held a genuine smile. “That’s right. The sky is endless. It may be the same darkness, but it’s different from the Underground.”

Isabel cut them off, pointing up towards the sky once more. “Look!”

Chairs so close and room so small

You and I talked all the night long

As if on cue, the clouds began parting. Moonlight was flooding through the cracks and crevasas between the foggy blanket above. Soon, the stars and full moon were shining brightly in contrast to the sky around it.

“The moon is so bright!” Isabel beamed as she sat on the ledge next to Levi. “Right? It feels different, doesn’t it?”

Furlan took a seat on Levi’s left with Alana on his other side. “Of course. We’re not Underground.”

Meagre this space, but serves us so well

We comrades have stories to tell

“We’ll never go back down there,” Alana declared, determination filling her voice.

“She’s right, Big Bro. The three of us always pulled through, right? It’ll be the same with the Titans. Let’s do this together.”

“Levi, trust us.” Furlan said as he met eyes with the ravenette.

And it's always like that in the evening time

We drink and we sing when our fighting is done

Levi’s eyes widened slightly at his words. He knew how strong Furlan and the rest believed in trusting each other. ‘Trust’ was not a word to be meaninglessly tossed around through the group unless they truly meant it. His silver hues glance downwards as he contemplated the idea.

Remembering the time when he and the rest had let their pet bird fly into the endless sky, the corners of his mouth faintly turned upwards. That had been their first sight of freedom from the Underground. If they ended up victorious with their mission, then they, too, would also be able to be as free as that bird.

“Alright. I’ll trust you.” He agreed in a whisper. Levi genuinely smiled as he stole a glance at his four friends.

And it's always so we live under the burnt clouds

Ease our burden, long is the night

“Yay!” Isabel loudly cheered. “Big Bro sure is a stubborn one, ain’t he?”

Furlan and Alana both chuckled softly at her outburst. Alana looked past Furlan and instead at Levi, the stellatus sky mirroring in her crystal blue eyes. “We won’t let you down, Captain. Never have, never will,” she teased, using her nickname for the ravenette.

Just as no stars can be seen

We are stars and we'll beam on our town

After a small moment of silence, Isabel pointed up at the stars. “Is it true that stars really spin round and round?”

“Apparently,” Furlan answered. “At least, that’s what it said in the books.”

“It’s so pretty! Who knew something like this was waiting for us here?” Isabel replied, her gaze locked on the bright dots in the sky.

Alana tilted her head up, muttering to herself with a smile. “It really was worth it, huh? I don’t think I could ever regret coming up here.”

We must all gather as one

Sing with hope and the fear will be gone

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(A/N) Hello everyone! I hope you enjoy the chapter, albeit a little short. I'm decently far ahead with my writing, but I've been having major writers block and lack of inspiration recently. This was a very fun chapter to write. However, as I relook at it, I realized my words can't do this beautiful scene justice.

Unfortunately, due to all life things, my editor stopped writing at this chapter, so my words may be a little scattered or unorganized. My thoughts and ideas typically run faster and my vocabulary isn't as large as I'd like to believe. If there are grammatical mistakes or unintelligible paragraphs/sentences, don't hesitate to tell me! Thank you all for reading :)

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relationshipinfo · 9 months

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Women! Get More Love By Giving Less.

Any woman can attract a better quality man or inspire the man she has to give her more love, affection and romance, by learning the truth about Overnurturing.

What is Overnurturing? It’s doing too much in a relationship. Giving too much. It’s the reverse of how a relationship works best for a woman.Giving is what men are supposed to do. Women are supposed to receive the love, affection and gifts that men give, and then give love and affection back to them. Though many of us have caught onto this, it’s challenging to stop doing what we’ve always done, what we’ve been told is the way to do things, and to fly in the face of the fallout we fear. So I’m going to tackle one little issue — Nurturing.

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Nurturing is masculine. If you want to get what he wants to give, stop nurturing your man.

Radical as this sounds, try it. Stop doing. Stop giving. Stop massaging your husband’s feelings. Stop helping your date do the relationship thing and let him flounder until he figures it out. He will.

This whole concept of nurturing is a dilemma for most of us. We think of mothering, nurturing, caring for our young as a feminine aspect of ourselves.

It isn’t.

Nurturing and caring for others may be a female trait — Motherhood is female — but it’s still about action! Nurturing is about doing. Giving. Your energy goes out of you and toward or into someone else. When you give, you are acting from a masculine energy place.

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We are so accustomed to the idea of nurturing being feminine, we get confused. We think being loving to our men is nurturing them. Massaging their bodies, minds and spirits. There is nothing wrong with the idea of nurturing — it’s the form our nurturing takes that causes so much difficulty. We are all composed of masculine and feminine (yin and yang) energies. We move through them fluidly at our best, and are stuck in one or the other at our worst.

But most of us are stuck at one extreme or the other. We either give too much all the time and then find ourselves resentful all the time, or we go the other way and make ourselves emotionally unavailable to our dates, our husbands, our boyfriends, and every man we meet.

Too often, our nurturing energies are perceived by men as mothering. Our actions seem intrusive. We seem to be judging them and finding them coming up short — otherwise why would they need taking care of? On the other hand, they love attention. Don’t we all?

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To strike some sort of balance when we are all so mightily out of balance, I’m asking you to pull back to zero. To at least imagine pulling back to zero. The baby steps you actually take may seem huge. When you stop doing for your man what he doesn’t need you to do, yet has grown accustomed to your doing, may resent your not doing, and will certainly find himself relieved that you’ve stopped doing, things may get messy before they get better. But they will get better.

This is all about Overfunctioning.

What does Overfunctioning and Overnurturing look like?

You come to the door the moment he gets home and ask him how his day went. You offer to massage his neck, his feet, his back because he looks so tired (even though you’re just as tired.) Or you give your date directions to your house before he asks. And you invite him in and offer him something to eat or drink without even knowing what he has in mind for the evening. You offer to cook him a meal when he’s barely taken you out to a decent restaurant. You offer sex to your husband, without being asked, and even if you’re not in the mood, because you figure you should. You ask him how he feels, and demonstrate concern for his feelings and moods.

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This sounds nurturing, but it’s not. It’s mothering. Nurturing a grown-up is giving him what he wants, not what you think he needs. Nurturing a grown-up is not tolerating what you don’t want. Not tolerating him treating himself badly or carelessly if it’s damaging to you or his relationship with you — this means smoking, eating badly, not working, never leaving the house.

And you do it not by telling him what he needs to do and helping him do it, but by telling him how angry it makes you feel when it’s happening. Or telling him how good it feels when he does something that makes you happy. Let him figure out how to take responsibility for making you and the relationship happy — on his end of it.

This is feminine energy — the expression of honest-to-goodness feelings. All the caretaking and fixing and doing and massaging and concern is masculine energy in action, and it will get you nowhere near what you want.

Try it the feminine way. Stop nurturing a grown-up man, and start expressing your feelings moment by moment. The first time is scary — but then, you’ll see — you’ll wonder how you ever loved any other way.

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Yes, You Can Have a Romantic Valentine’s Day, On A Budget

While we would all like to whisk our partner away to celebrate St Valentine’s Day at an exotic five star resort, I know I can’t afford it, just yet!

Here are some ideas for Valentine’s Day luxuries on a budget that will amaze your partner. And if you do it just right, with a little creativity, you can have the ultra-romantic day that will convince your loved one of how much you love him or her. Again.

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Getting out into the open air, just the two of you, is a great way to spend Valentines. Head for the hills or the state park. There are walks to suit all — whether its an easy walk or a more demanding hike. Remember, it’s February, so its likely that the place will be deserted and you will have all that natural beauty to yourself. And outdoor privacy is so romantic!

Take along a special picnic when you go out. In a small picnic basket collect a tablecloth, a vase with a realistic rose in it, 2 taper candles with holders (don’t forget a lighter) and a lovely meal for two. When you reach the picnic area you can surprise your partner by setting the table for a romantic meal. Sit down and enjoy!

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You could take the picnic with you on a romantic drive, or for a day out kite flying or bicycling. Remember that it’s being together that is important.

The outdoors idea even works for couples that have children. There’s always plenty for the kids to do if there is a safe and empty playground close by. What better way to celebrate your love than by keeping one eye on the children and reminding yourself why you love them, and their other parent, so much.

Don’t fancy the great, romantic, outdoors? Cooking your romantic Valentine’s meal together is a great way to share the day. Male sure that your dinner choice is something you will both enjoy, even better if its a special treat you don’t often have. Go over the top in decorating the dining room and go to town on the place settings. Make sure you both dress up in your best clothes, as if it was your first date, with your best jewelry and scent.

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The main thing to remember is that if you are together you will have as romantic a time as you would have at a posh resort or an exclusive restaurant. It’s the thought that counts, not how much money you spend.

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relationshipinfo · 9 months

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You Can Be Romantic!

Why is it that so many people believe that they don’t have time or take the initiative to be romantic? Maybe most people don’t believe that they are creative enough to be romantic. Everyone is creative! The definition of being creative is having the ability or power to create. The word create offers a much broader definition than most people accept when it comes to the process of being able to come up with something original or simply well thought out.

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Gifts that are considered to be traditionally romantic like candy and flowers are wonderful, but sometimes you need something that goes one step further. If your spouse enjoys flowers, you don’t have to settle for roses because they can sometimes become unexciting after a while! Present him or her with something completely original such as a daisy or another flower where petals can be counted. Ask him or her to play the childhood game of ‘they love me, they love me not’ and watch them pluck the petals as they go. However, don’t allow for the possibility of him or her arriving at the ‘they love me not’. Count the petals before you present the flower to your spouse and trim it so that there is an odd number of petals for the right outcome!

Arts and crafts used to be a fun break from the monotony of the school day, but believe it or not, it will come in handy when it comes to creative romantic gestures. Instead of promising that you will love him or her forever, show them. Take a piece of paper, ribbon or other material you choose and write “I love you” on both sides from end to end. Twist the paper 180 degrees and connect both ends of the paper until you have mad what looks like the figure eight. Tape or glue to ends together. You can present your love with a symbol that shows them your love for them is an endless love.

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Creativity comes in many different forms! Being creative can mean creating an atmosphere. If you want to plan the ultimate romantic evening but funds are low or you simply don’t want to have to leave the house, shut down the electricity and imitate a power outage (it’s up to you whether or not you tell him or her!). You won’t have any distractions or heat, so it is up to both of you to keep the other warm and entertain each other.

Maybe romance is on your mind, but he or she is going out of town. Did you know that people on airplanes are typically hopeless romantics? Any flight attendant would be more than happy to make sure that your spouse receives a special present after the flight has left the ground. Simply approach a crewmember after he or she boards the plane and they are usually more than happy to oblige a hopeless romantic like you! (You might want to make sure that the gift is unwrapped or keep it to a single rose due to heightened security.)

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Creativity doesn’t have to come in the form of gifts every single time. Gestures like getting up and dancing with your spouse when a special song comes on the radio is quite creative and incredibly romantic! Whenever the mood strikes you, allow your creative juices to flow!

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You Can Improve Your Relatonships

Is there magic to what makes some relationships last longer than others? Maybe. Do some people just sit back and sulk, while others seem to let life go by right over their heads and problems? It sure seems so. Or maybe it’s just that some people learn secrets of success from their grandparents or other relatives or friends. And since the latter is probably more accurate, here are some tried and true tips from people who have enjoyed long, happy relationships.

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1. REFRESH — Take time to look back, refresh your memories and share what brought you together. Especially when times are difficult, lean back and rely on these old memories as your foundation and glue yourselves back together with them (not literally, of course!)

2. DATES — Keep dating each other. Even if life seems too busy, meet at the end of the evening for something light and easy, like viewing your favorite sitcom (record it if necessary) together or playing a game of Euchre.

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3. FUN — Couple tend to have fun on dates, then get married and too serious. Lighten up. Head to Yahoo Games (off Yahoo.com main site) and join in any number of card or other games. Or head to a local rental shop and rent an Xbox or other game player and some games.

4. FORGET — No need to “always” remember the bad things that happened during an argument. Actively “forget” sometimes. Be the first to apologize and make up. Go for it!

5. SPACE — Give each other some space. Either you trust or you don’t. Get on with life, though. People need time alone and time with their mates and other friends. Be sure to give and take your fair share of space.

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6. DISAGREE — Agree that it’s okay to disagree on some issues, and leave it at that. No need to create a new religion or political movement just to appease both of you. You don’t HAVE to agree on everything. And you won’t. And that’s okay.

7. MEMORIES — Make some together. Enjoy special moments, special anniversary dates and events. No need to be elaborate. For example, maybe you enjoyed watching a hot air balloon race one spring day. The next year, you might schedule time to watch it again. Make it an annual event. Collect postcards with balloons on the, playing cards, toss pillows…over time it becomes a theme.

So don’t just sit back and sulk. Take short steps to improve your relationships and let life’s problems magically pass by while you hold on to your relationship.

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Improving relationships require knowing what to do and how to do it. If you follow some tried and true tips, it is possible you can also improve your relationships.

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You Love Them Because They’re Funny!

For years I heard woman after woman say after obviously falling in love, “He’s so funny! I just love that about him.”

Often after someone has lost a family member, they’ll say “I’ll always remember her smile, the way she laughed, the little jokes she would tell to lighten the mood.”

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Could it be we love people who have a great sense of humor? I’ve always thought so. And now we have scientific proof of what many of us long suspected. Humor is one of the things we enjoy most about life and, frequently, the people we love are the ones who make us smile.

Fortunately for those of us who probably aren’t that funny, humor is most often in the eye of the beholder. The guys at work may not laugh at your wise cracks, but if SHE laughs, well that’s all that matters.

For a long time, nobody in the scientific world knew much about humor. But during the past 20 years, more and more research has been done. We know what parts of our brains deal with humor. We also know when a baby starts to develop a sense of humor.

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So don’t hesitate. Let your funny bone show through!

* When you think something is funny, don’t be afraid to let it out. Just think first if your remark might be taken the wrong way by those in earshot. Humor is great — foot-in-mouth is less great.

* Use humor to ease uncomfortable situations. When the mood starts to get tense, an appropriate chuckle and humorous side remark can get everyone back on track.

* If you’re not naturally funny, read cartoons, joke books, the laugh lines at the back of Reader’s Digest, and pay attention to how script writers set up funny situations on TV. You CAN learn to be more humorous than you are. Pay attention to humor and your sense of humor will develop.

Above all else, be someone who APPRECIATES humor. Try not to make someone feel bad when you don’t find their attempt at humor to be all that funny. As long as the humor isn’t in grossly poor taste, give your humorist a smile. And be one who isn’t afraid to chortle and guffaw when someone really pushes your funny button. A good laugh can be the best medicine you’ve had all day.

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