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kelconfetti · 7 months

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tony would say this to peter and peter would actually stop talking.

#🧃　˗ˋ ୨ zephs rambling (＞。☆)#jokingly ofc #father son bonding #spiderman #marvel #mcu #irondad #/silly #peter parker #spiderson #autistic peter parker #iron dad #incorrect marvel #incorrect marvel cinematic universe #neurodivergent #hes silly #i love him

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starrykites · 1 year

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every spiderman is trans and has adhd and autism. source? me!

#spiderman #peter parker #peter parker x reader #autistic #autistic spiderman #trans spiderman #transgender #trans peter parker #autistic peter parker #adhd #adhd peter parker #marvel

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punkeropercyjackson · 1 month

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So basically,here's why Miles and Peter B worked and Spiderson and Irondad and all those 'Batman adopts [crossover kid]' stories don't:

Peter B didn't overshadow Miles-Yes,he's a vital part of his character and had a lot of screentime too but Spiderverse is always MILES' MOVIES.Peter B was not his co-star but his mentor so they didn't share the spotlight and this was a wise choice on the writers part because it would be very unfair on black superhero fans to claim it as Miles' debut only for it to be another Peter Parker movie(Wayne Family Adventures:Take notes)

While yes,Peter B was lowkey an asshole in the beginning,he was never outright cruel.He was literally just snarky and bitter and Miles snarked back at him so they were equals instead of a grown ass man picking on a lil boy and being rewarded for it

Jefferson and Rio weren't demonized or downplayed to prop Peter B up-They got plenty of time with Miles too and it's very clear that while Peter B acts like a parental figure to Miles,Miles views Jeffrio as his only parents while Peter B is more like his way older brother that defaults to acting like a dad due to their age difference(Speaking from the experience of an adult with only kid siblings and a good amount of teen friends that i've gotten close enough to consider we consider eachother siblings too,this is 100000% accurate to how it works)

Peter B dosen't baby Miles-He just teaches him the best he can but believes in him enough to try things out for himself and do his own thing so he's a genuinely good teacher for him in addition to a positive adult figure like his parents and Uncle Aaron but again,they're not blood related and they both act that way and that is appropriate due to the differences in their heritage(Peter B a white jewish person/Miles an afrolatino person.Again,realistic rep and i'm Miles this time)

Peter B also genuinely cares about Miles feelings and thinks extremely positively of him as a person instead of just another crime fighter and provides him comfort and safety instead of traumadumping all over to him and placing the responsibility of caretaker on him like a discord mod LMFAO

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staliaqueen · 1 year

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good to know tumblr has their priorities straight

#spiderman #peter parker #marvel #autistic spiderman #autistic peter parker #autistic spectrum #autism spectrum #autism #autistic #autism memes #autistic memes #neurodiversesquad #shut up mal

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comfortmarvelimagines · 1 year

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Headcanons request for Tony Stark’s daughter and tony being overprotective when someone says something mean in public when you stim. Thank you

(Except I liked this so much it became a full fic. Can be read standalone or as WYCFTQ)

You truly never understood the value neurotypicals placed on spontaneity. Its opposite, routine was everything that kept you grounded; safe, predictable, generally within your scope of capacity. Your worst days were the ones that were shoved off kilter by a change in plans, a cancellation, a meltdown that threw your timetable for a loop. You went to school, went to the tower, went home. That was your world. Small, but anything bigger felt unmanageable. Even that was barely manageable. So when Tony announced a surprise for you and Peter on an afternoon where school let off early, you felt unbalanced.

“Mr Stark, pleaaaaaseeeee tell us I literally can’t wait. I might die,” Peter, ever-impatient and fuelled by ADHD after his meds had worn off for the day, was literally vibrating with suspense. As opposed to your drained stillness, feeling like the floor had collapsed under you.

“You’ll like it, that’s all I’m giving you. Patience is a virtue, young one,” Tony raised an eyebrow at Peter, feigning a lecture. “And you’ll be fine,” he turned to you. “We’ve practiced using your strategies. We’ll bring stim toys, your headphones, and I’ve asked where we’re going to turn the lights down and music off to make it accessible. And they listened, because I’m me. We can leave as soon as you need, and you’ve got your communication device to tell us if you’re non-verbal. You’ve got this. It’ll be good for you, and for this hyped one over here,“ he ruffled Peter’s hair. “Capische? Good. Let’s go.”

Tony drove, but kept the music fairly low key. Peter was bouncing in the front seat, animatedly keeping a running list of all the possibilities that got increasingly far-fetched as Tony refused even the slightest hint. You had to admit, even through the snowdrift of anxiety that felt like it was building by the second, it was pretty funny. Amusing, even. Eventually, the Audi pulled into the parking lot of a mall and as he swung it in to park in the electric vehicle charging station, Tony pulled a baseball cap on low over his eyes.

“Alright, you ready?”

Peter was already halfway out of the car before the engine had been cut off. Tony turned to you. “Well, clearly someone is”, he gestured to Peter. “You doin’ okay?” At your nod, he continued in a near-whisper. “We’re going to a toy store. There’s Lego and sensory stuff for days, and I promise you’ll like it. But if it’s too much, I’m right here, and you’ve got your device to communicate. You say the word and we leave, no hesitation, okay?” At the mention of where you were going, you started happy flapping and bounced in your seat. Sensory stuff AND lego? Fuck yeah!!!! Some of the anxiety snowdrift melted back down and you got out to join Peter, who still had no idea where you were going and looked like the fact was making him positively implode. It was funny just how different you were, yet how you were both going to love this place.

At some point between the car and the store, you grabbed Tony’s hand. It was grounding, which you needed when the sensory overload of the general mall walkthrough got disorienting. You stopped, fluorescent lights searing into your brain and the beginning of the meltdown urge to run crept up your spine. Peter, miles ahead and oblivious to just about everything except the mystery destination, kept going, but Tony pulled your noise canceling headphones out of his jacket pocket. “You left these in the car,” he said by way of explanation, “And we’re nearly there. You’ve got this.” Resolve strengthened, you pulled the headphones over your ears, pressing the button on the side, hoodie pulled up, determined. If nothing else, you were going to get there for Peter’s sake- he might explode from excitement if it wasn’t soon.

In line with Tony’s promise, the toy store was bliss. The lights were dimmed and corporate music absent (thank Thor, and whatever other gods are out there), and the Lego. Oh my god, the LEGO. Rows of Star Wars and flowers and little city buildings and a huge tub of loose pieces, next to a free play table in the centre of the display. Sticking your hands deep into the cool plastic pieces felt positively heavenly, and in forgetting anyone else was around you were stimming freely in unfiltered joy. Vocal stimming, too.

“Surely you’re too old to be making those sorts of noises. I mean, I’d expect them from my 2 year old grandchild, not at your big age.”

The admonishment came from a woman, somewhere between middle- and old-age, making her way over to you from the baby doll section. You froze. She meant you? You were so happy you hadn’t been masking, not forcing the happy stimmy noises down the way you typically did when in the presence of others.

“Yes, you, don’t look at me all stunned. What are you doing in here anyway? You look too old to be playing, with Lego or with anything else.”

Fear felt like it was shutting down your access to comprehensible thought. Like moving through jelly, you pulled the lanyard around your neck forward to show the woman the pin. It was a green sunflower lanyard, the hidden disabilities awareness kind, and the button read “Please do not touch me. I’m Autistic.” You felt a distressed sound come from the back of you throat, whining, that you just couldn’t push down. Tony Tony whERE IS TONY?

“Hey y/n, have you seen-“

“Oh, so you’re special. That’s nice of your… people… to bring you out like this. You know, into the community.”

“What the fuck did you just say to my kid.”

The baseball cap was off. Tony had come from the back of the store, from the sensory section with Peter, and stepped straight into the middle of the degrading, one-sided conversation you were now trying to practice your breathing exercises through. You’d practiced them a million times, with Tony, Peter, Nat, Bucky, everyone said to practice because when the time came you needed them to work but right now you weren’t sure they were enough because you felt like you were drowning. Special. You weren’t fucking special, not in the way she meant it, you were just Autistic and Autistic is fine, Autistic isn’t bad, you had as much right to be here as anyone else but that word was making your ears ring, and you felt like your head was underwater and you couldn’t breathe and your hands were flapping but not in the good way in the too much bad energy need to get it out way. You needed weight, pressure, grounding, to be crushed, and, no longer paying attention to the conversation between Tony and the stranger, you pulled your AAC forward from its crossbody strap.

“Squeeze. Tony.”

“Okay, kid, yes, squeeze. I hear you.” You basically body slammed him as he crouched down to your level, and you hummed in relief as the hug was all the input your nervous system was craving. He turned to speak over the top of you.

“I need you to leave. Now. You had no right to say what you did. This is a public place, and my kid deserves access in the way that works for them. That includes stimming, and playing, in the way that brings them joy. I hope you learn from this.”

You assumed she left, because he didn’t say anything else. You stayed, tightly held, until you pulled back from the hug cautiously.

“Do you want to leave?” You shook your head. No. As awful as that whole interaction had been, getting here was a task and you didn’t feel you had made it worth it yet. “Want to see the sensory toys?” Yes yes yes a million times yes. Nodding wasn’t enough; with trepidation, a little of the flappy happy hands broke through. Not fully, though. The word ‘special’ still echoed in the back of your mind, unwanted and uncomfortably present.

The sensory toy section was pure magic. There were bubble tubes, tactile fidgets, bouncy seats, spinners, lights, glitter bottles, projectors, a reversible sequin dinosaur, acupressure rings, a cocoon swing hanging from a frame… It was like a goldmine of sensory wonder. As you joined Peter in discovery, little by little the mask you put up melted away and you were spinning, joyfully bouncing on the balls of your feet, happy vocal stims free and unjudged. And if Tony was putting aside one of everything you showed interest in to purchase and bring home with you, well, of course he was. If he couldn’t make the ableist public go away, the least he could do was provide you with the safest, most inclusive and loving home possible.

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ashidentshappen · 1 year

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Reasons my autistic ass vibes with Peter Parker

Senses dialed up to 11

Nervous

Intense sense of justice and moral compass

Trans?? Yes.

Confused

Trying is gd best

Just a silly little guy

Blames himself for everything

Craves attention and validation

Nerd

Feel free to add more

#trans #meme #trans meme #autistic #autism #autistic peter parker #autistic spiderman #autism meme #trans spiderman #trans peter parker #Spider-Man

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emmedoesntdomath · 10 months

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tony, biting into an apple: oh, and make sure you don’t take any bread. ducks can’t digest it.

peter, freezing with an entire loaf of bread in his hand, mouth dropping open in horror: what???

tony, utterly oblivious: yeah, it’s harmful to them

peter, eyes welling up in tears because he has been feeding these ducks SO MUCH BREAD: have I been k i l l i n g baby duckies

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nicxxx5 · 2 years

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being autistic is headcanoning all my favorite characters as autistic then proceeding to consuming any and all content headcanoning them as autistic as my latest hyperfixation

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jasontoddssuper · 8 months

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Do i even need to say anything

#HELP WHY AM I JUST NOW REALIZING IT'S THE SAME FUCKING DYNAMIC /pos #peter b parker #miles morales #reigen arataka #shiego kagayama #mob #spiderman #spiderverse #atsv #mp100 #autistic peter parker #autistic miles morales #autistic reigen #autistic mob #and they're all trans :)#letters from summer

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eyluvu · 8 months

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autistic peter having sensory overload and tony bringing him his fav frog blanket and frog plush and noise cancelling headphones and having protocols with jarvis just for petes needs and jarvis dims the lights and turns the music to something relaxing🫠

#posting so i remember #cos im TIRED ASF RN #peter parker #tony stark #tony and peter #irondad #spiderson #autistic peter parker #irondad prompt

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morgangalaxy43 · 7 days

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I love how everyone fully agrees that every spider person is autistic, bisexual, trans and has adhd

#peter parker #spiderman #gwen stacy #miles morales #bisexual peter parker #trans peter parker #autistic peter parker #adhd peter parker #marvel #bisexual headcanon #trans headcanon #queer headcanons #lgbtq headcanons #autistic headcanon #adhd headcanon #neurodivergent headcanon

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kelconfetti · 6 months

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peter parkers search history probably

spiderman youtube clips

romantic ways to confess to a girl

lego star wars set

spiderman funko pop (hes excited about having his own funko pop ok..)

spiderman identity (he searches this as a joke and clicks websites seeing who people think he is, one that caught his attention was someone saying he was peter quill and the reason quill went missing in 1988 was to fulfil his density on being spiderman. he laughed when he saw it and proceeded to show it to tony)

pros and cons of sleep deprivation (he finds no pros. go to sleep.)

#🧃　˗ˋ ୨ zephs rambling (＞。☆)#marvel #mcu #spiderman #peter parker #/silly #irondad #spiderson #iron dad #search history #autistic peter parker #peter parkers search history #peter parker headcanon #petermj #peter x mj #spideychelle

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gbirrd · 10 months

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no thoughts head empty only the boys remain

#spider-man #autistic peter parker #autistic jason todd #autistic tim drake #dick grayson #tim drake #jason todd #the batboYS #minus dames im sorry #but!!!#spider-man/dcu crossover time #lets GO #fanart #dc fanart #robin jason todd

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punkeropercyjackson · 1 month

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I found this really cute Timsteph fanart that's also a Petergwen redraw but unfortunately op was a Timber anti who used Stephanie as ammo against it so here is a repost since it's not their art anyway!!Actual artist is Hallsth-Eine

Enjoy♡♡♡

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spideytorchiscanon · 1 year

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Peter: I am not 'blunt' or 'rude' I'm just honest about my thoughts that may be about someone.

Johnny: You made Dr. Kaplan cry. This is the last time we are seeking any psychologists help.

#johnny storm #peter parker #incorrect spideytorch #fantastic four #jonathan storm #spideytorch #autistic peter parker #spidey torch #bi spiderman #spiderman #spider man #human torch #peter parker x johnny storm #johnny x peter #peter x johnny #johnny storm. the drama queen™️

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autisticmoonknights · 10 months

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every character with enhanced senses is immediately autistic btw 💜

#this post was made with matt murdock in mind 💜 and also peter parker 💜#our poasts #marvel tag #daredevil #spiderman #autistic matt murdock #autistic peter parker #daredevil tag #spiderman tag

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