#tw toxic relationships

[akindplace]

I was also thinking: The messed up thing about thinking you should be the one to fix every need, to make everyone happy is that you sort of assume that they can't pick up their lives by themselves, that they are incapable of being responsible adults or incapable of making themselves happy. And how does someone take positive action in their lives if you take it upon yourself to act for them? They become dependent on you, and you enable it. Codependency is a very toxic thing that can happen in any relationship, platonic, familial, or romantic.

#toxic relationships #codependency #relationships #enabling #tw codependency #tw toxic relationships

[grayluforever]

Knowing he could not have Kikyo, a jealous Naraku successfully tore her away from her lover, Inuyasha, resulting in Kikyo's death and Inuyasha's imprisonment to the Sacred Tree. If he couldn't have Kikyo, Naraku would make sure that no one could have her.

#anti narkik #anti naraku x kikyo #anti naraku #kikyo deserves better #inukik #inuyasha x kikyo #tw toxic relationships #anti victim x abuser ships

[queerlilchinchin]

The Slope to Hell, Part I

Hello and welcome to the first vote for who the killer is in The Slope to Hell, a murder mystery by yours truly.

The way the game is played is I'm going to write out a scenario of what happened. It'll be a brief overview of what was found, who spotted the body and who the suspects are (and who's left) and why they are suspects. You may then ask the suspects questions to figure out who the killer is... once you think you've figured it out, you can vote on the poll below who you believe it is.

Game rules: NO anon asks, ONLY ask via asks - replies and reblogs will be ignored and ONLY 2 main questions per character per asker - only one follow up question per main question. Make sure you check out the questions already asked before asking a question. Your questions will still count against your question count if you ask repeat questions.

Once the poll has ended, the character with the most votes will be the one picked and it will be revealed if it was right or wrong. If it was wrong, we will continue with the next scenario and on and on until the killer is picked.

I will have a taglist for this, so if you wish to partake in this weekly game and don't want to miss any of the polls/games, please let me know and I'll add you to the taglist!

Scenario: a scream cuts into the freezing mountain air, followed by gasps and murmurs. A woman's body was found mangled at the bottom of the mountain. The woman that was found has medals in skiing and was excited for the skiing competition that was going to happen at this annual skiing outing.

There is murmur of foul play, that she was pushed down the mountain.

There are 9 suspects for who could have done it, including Samantha, who the scream had belonged to. It is up to YOU to figure out who did it.

Meet the Suspects...

Larry is a young man, 35, who used to date Samantha (the suspect that found the body) and is desperate to show her he's changed and is a better man and friend. He was heard telling her that he suspected Morgan of sleeping with Samantha's boyfriend shortly before the incident... was this an act of chivalry, to show Samantha that he's willing to go to any lengths to prove himself to her?

Samantha is a young woman, 32, who caught the victim fraternizing with her boyfriend shortly before the incident. A screaming match broke out shortly after, resulting in the victim storming out, declaring she was going to ski and clear her head. Was this an act of jealous rage?

Daniel is a young man, 34, and Samantha's boyfriend. He's been cheating on her with the victim. He was caught making out and trying to round the next base with the victim shortly before her demise... could this be an act of proving in the end, his loyalties lay with Sam?

Josh is a young man, 36, and best friends with Samantha, who caught the victim trying to sleep with her boyfriend. He has made it no guessing game the fact that he dislikes and does not trust the victim. Could Josh be looking out for his best friend by doing what she couldn't stomach to do, no matter how enraged?

Lou is a young man, 30, who used to date Daniel. When it was announced among the group that Daniel and the victim were sleeping together, he disappeared and wasn't seen again until after her body was discovered. Could this be an act of envy?

Deegan is a young man, 32, who has been very vocal about the fact that he has disdain toward the victim and doesn't like to be around her. In fact, he avoids her at all cost. When he found out about her sleeping with Daniel, he became noticeably disgusted. Could this be an act of disgust?

Ms. Grymm is the instructor (age 42) for the skiing safety classes. She has made it more than clear she is not a fan of anyone in the group - well, except for one person in it... shortly before the incident, she was seen staring at Morgan with disgust written all over her face. Could this be an act of utter done-ness?

Carly is a young woman, 33, who briefly dated Samantha shortly after Larry cheated on her. In spite the relationship - if you can really call it that (she does) - being so brief, she became utterly enamored by Samantha and would do anything for her - even kill. Which she has stated many-a-time. Could this be an act of devotion?

You have now been introduced to all 8 suspects and their stories and reasons for being suspected. It is up to you to find the killer. If you don't, there may be more deaths, and no one wants that!

If you haven't voted yet, take a look at my masterpost of questions for the suspects. I will be posting links to all of the questions' asks (separated by who was asked) there.

Then, once your mind is made up, cast your vote. Then reblog this so others may play as well.

Reminder: there is a taglist if you wish to be added to it. Just let me know!

#tumblr polls #murder mystery #tumblr games #ask games #writer games #writers of tumblr #simulation games #poll games #vote the killer #tw death #tw cheating #tw toxic relationships #the slope to hell #creative writing #my games

[inkykeiji]

Hiya Clari! Prepare for a silly ask, but how would your Dabis react if they turned around and noticed reader checkin' out his ass? We did once discuss which of your Touyas had the best butt, sooo... <3

lmaooooo anon!!!! i love this question so much ahahahahaha okay okay

tw: stepcest, toxic relationships, implied daddy kink, implied dubcon with dark academia touya (DA!touya)

touya-nii gets fucking mean with his teasing, relentlessly lamenting about your behaviour until tears are streaming down your cheeks and hiccups are stammering heavy and painful in your chest, going on and on about how bad you are, about what a sick little pervert you are, and so clumsy with it, too, so conspicuous and obvious. you really should be embarrassed, you know, he’s telling you with that usual apathetic lilt, but you know him better than that now. you can see it, that malevolent glee glittering in sapphire eyes, that eager and excited tremor sewn into his words. you know he’s just teasing, know he gets off on shit like this, know he doesn’t mean a word of it, but that doesn’t mean it hurts any less. but oh, don’t worry, he’s reassuring as he pulls you into his lap and cradles you to his chest, voice drenched in condescension as rough hands rub comforting circles into your hitching back. niichan will give you what your so clearly desperate for, because he’s such a good big brother, always tending to his baby sister even when she’s being bad.

bmb!dabi gets a little shy with it—there’s no way you’re actually checking him out, is there? there’s no way you’d be so goddamn obvious about it, right?—a little snappy, a little snarky as he asks what the hell are you looking at? it’s only when you start, seemingly surprised by his voice, eyes staring up at him guiltily, that he realizes you truly were staring at his ass. such a notion has that irritating warmth spreading through his chest, blanketing that creature you birthed behind his ribs as it snuggles into his heart. and although he scoffs as he turns away, acts as if he’s so annoyed and disgusted by your actions, he spends the rest of his night glaring up at his ceiling, tangled threads of thoughts knotting tighter and tighter as he replays the moment over and over again, evaluating every millisecond of it in an attempt to figure out what the fuck it means.

tag!dabi, cliché as ever, asks if his princess is enjoying the view, musing smugly to himself about how he’s got himself such a dirty, deviant little girl. when you can’t hold his gaze, stinging little pinpricks of embarrassment erupting across your cheeks, his voice turns sharp, firm and commanding as he tells you to look at him, princess. look at Daddy when he’s talking to you. and you know, it’s rude not to look at someone when they’re speaking to you, especially after you’ve been caught doing something so unsavoury, maybe he should punish you for it.

twin!dabi, for a moment, is confused. does he have something on his pants? he’s asking as he looks over his shoulder. what are you looking at? what’s captured your attention so wholly that you startle, snapped out of some sort of trance the moment his voice sounds? what has you so enamoured? but it dawns on him only a moment later, when your face is practically yanked to his own, adorned with wide eyes and a warped brow, features tinged with hesitant humiliation. and then he laughs, mean and mocking, and your cute lil face crumples under the strain of embarrassment as he teases you for being such a naughty little thing and, oh god, just wait until touya hears about this!

twin!touya is sneaky, subtle, sly with it. he lets you think you’re getting away with it, catches it inconspicuously out of the corner of his eye—that longing stare, chin in your hands, watching as he flits around the kitchen, dreaminess oozing from your gaze—but pretends to be oblivious until the opportune moment, nonchalantly asking if his precious little baby likes staring at Daddy’s ass just as you’re chewing a mouthful of whatever breakfast he’s made for you that morning, revelling in those sweet little chokes and cute little coughs sounding behind him as he pours himself his third cup of black coffee. turning toward you, he smirks at you over the steaming mug. that’s right, i saw you, he says, a malicious excitement shimmering in his eyes, pupils swallowing down your delicious mortification. and i’m gonna do something about it, as soon as you finish your breakfast.

1950s dabi outright asks you, voice equal parts amused and astonished, as he catches you one night while he’s walking around the motel in nothing more than a pair of briefs after a long day of murder and spy work. when his eyes capture yours, pretty glazed irises that dart away from his invasive stare the moment they connect, he snorts to himself. were you just…looking at my ass? when you shamefully admit that you were, he wiggles it obnoxiously for you, so you can get a good, proper, healthy eyeful and satiate yourself…unless you’d rather he satisfy your evident hunger in a different way?

DA!touya instantly responds with his usual arrogant confidence, going i know right? my ass looks fucking incredible in these jeans before launching into a whole self-satisfied spiel about how he always gets pussy when he wears these jeans, and hey? wanna fuck? i mean, you were looking and all, so you must want it, right? he says as if it’s matter of fact, eyes glinting in the dim light of his minimalist flat as they rake over your body slowly, selfishly, a sharp smile stretching abnormally wide across his cheeks, teeth razored and gleaming.

#tw stepcest #tw daddy kink #tw dubcon #tw toxic relationships #LOVED THIS ANON LMAO IT WAS SO FUN #thank u!!!!! it made me smile <333 #i hope you’re having an awesome night bb!! #sending so much love and health ur way <33 #inky.bb #clari gets mail #claris.dabis

[proudfreakmetarusonniku]

whoops I accidentally wrote a poem on the latest lore stream it’s probably not great I’m trying something very new so if it’s bad that’s why. obvious dream smp spoilers, along with themes of abuse, victim blaming, dehumanisation, and toxic relationships.

——

i come in green stitches

stuffing falling out

the gaps between

pale fabric

and

you ask of me

“why do you not fix your tears?

why do you not pick up a needle

and pick up some thread

and fix yourself?”

you smile

like you have saved me

from the misery

(undoubtedly my fault)

you ask of me

“why do you keep those?

the green doesn’t suit you

why not replace it with red?

that was always your colour.”

but if i were to tear

what was left in me

from him

out of my body

i would unravel

into cotton and blood and bone

(i hate it as much as you do)

you pick at my seams

and call it freedom

you sew yourself into me

and say no one can own

a beating heart

and i suppose that’s true

i lack a heartbeat as you do

i want to scream at you

“you should know better

you know as i do

that tearing out stitches

does not tear our strings.”

but I love you

so

i smile and say

“thank you.”

(i don't mean it.)

#My poetry #dream smp #dsmp #dream smp poetry #dsmp poetry #c!tommy #c!wilbur #c!crimeboys #tw abuse #tw victim blaming #tw dehumanisation #tw toxic relationships

[cyberphuck]

:readmore:

(Okay readmores no longer working, neat. Sadposting below, tw for abuse and toxic relationships in real life.)

My friend sent me another short email saying "I'm sorry for how I treated you" and not much else. Maybe she IS sorry, or maybe the one friend that she had who was willing to talk patiently with her finally got tired of having sand kicked in their face over wattpad stars and is picking up their toys and going home.

Oh no, the consequences of her actions.

To be clear, this isn't something I'm doing as punishment to her. I told her I will never stop loving her and I won't. But I've been here before, trying to keep up with someone riding the Abuse Unicycle and saying "oop sorry" every time they shove me to the ground. I know what that does to me, mental health wise, and I can't do it.

I'm just so worried that there IS no one else for her. Or that the realization that she drove away one of her closest friends will make it worse, not better. God knows that when I was in that place, I badly needed someone understanding who could see past the bullshit and help me dig it out. I got that person by sheer luck.

But I honestly don't think I have the strength and durability to do it for Mentor Friend. I think it would make me sicker and sicker and I might even be seriously injured or die in the attempt. Certainly I won't come out of it refreshed and smelling of roses.

I can't be that for her. But I don't want her to have to suffer with no one to turn to. I love her too much. I don't know what to do.

#tw abuse mention #tw toxic relationships #ongoing friend saga

[theemegasus]

And before anyone asks again, no, I'm not having any problems in my marriage at all. I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life.

That's why I reblog those things. To remind myself of how far I've come, and to show other ladies here you don't need to settle. Happiness does find you.

#isrtm starter #tw toxic relationships

[waveofmutilation-uksurfmix]

dear “jason”

poem I wrote, tw for toxic relationships and codependency, and mentions of suicide, self harm, and EDs

i remember being twelve, and learning how to save someone from drowning, and the teacher made sure to hammer it home that you need to make sure you’re safe first before you rescue them.

i remember the first time I said I loved you, i think I was about fourteen.

i remember our stupid little inside jokes, how they could just make us lose our minds laughing

i remember all our little phrases, almost cryptophasic in nature

i remember staying up until midnight, pleading with you not to end your life. i remember how i said i loved you, and somehow it took you off the brink.

i remember how certain songs felt when we were fighting

I remember you refusing to get help from anyone else besides me, because you were too scared and too cowardly to talk to anyone else besides your almost equally unstable friend

i remember how those three words of love felt like poison on my tongue

i remember when I first realised our friendship was becoming a prison

i remember the next time I spent the night trying to talk you off the brink, and the next, and the next.

i remember our promise. It was forged in an argument, and it’s not like you even followed the promise you made, but it was the only thing stopping me from cutting.

i remember googling resources for your eating disorder that you never even took advice from

i remember being fourteen and looking up suicide lines in your country, because I didn’t know how to help you.

i remember the feeling of drowning to keep you afloat.

i remember needing to leave for months, but being too scared of what you’d do to yourself

i remember our last day together.

i remember the confused brainfogged haze I was in when I made the decision to stop drowning myself to keep you afloat

i remember you begging me to take you back.

i remember you making a tumblr account for the purpose of threatening to end your life if I didn’t become your friend again.

i remember how I’d told you so many times I was dealing with autistic burnout, and that we were codependent, and that I wasn’t happy anymore.

i remember how the days after I left you dragged on, as if your memory was a ball and chain around my ankle

i remember hoping that one day we’d meet again

i remember all the friends I talked to during this time, and I’m grateful for all of you.

i remember how deleting my twitter felt like severing our last tie, burning the bridge I had made for you.

build yourself another dream, I’m not your home anymore, I thought I loved you but it’s just how you looked in the light, looking for heaven I found the devil in me, goodbye.

#poetry #tw codependency #tw toxic relationships #Julian jabbering #poem #idk why I quoted a buncha random songs at the end it just felt right

[wishful-seeker]

Loving someone you don't like is actually hell to deal with, sending hugs to those out there who feel the same <3

#this is about abusive relationships #tw abusive relationships #tw toxic relationships

[solis-angelus]

Ngl this remains one of the greatest compliments I've ever received.

#and that's coming from my enemy turned best friend turned lover turned ex. So yes it's legitimate #This fills me up with such validation I can't even- #tw toxic relationships

[floatyflowers]

The second wife| Dark! Ozai x Wife! Reader x Platonic Dark! Zuko and Azula

Ozai murdered your husband and your baby to take you as a second wife.

Of course, he has done it secretly so he doesn't appear like the villain in your eyes.

You were the handmaiden and younger sister of his first wife, and the one he wished to marry in the first place.

So, when Ursa runs away, he marries you against your will.

Even though the marriage was forced, right after your husband and child's death, yet you held no ill intention towards your nephew and niece.

Zuko is quick to accept you as you are his aunt whom he trusts.

While Azula didn't know how to act around you, thinking that you viewed her in the same way her mother did, a monster.

But you made sure to include her in everything along with Zuko.

The healthy relationship you had with Ursa is the same one you wish for Zuko and Azula to have, one full of love and respect.

But Azula always tried to push Zuko out of some activities, she claimed 'it is a girl's thing'

"Mother should only brush my hair because I'm a girl"

Meanwhile, Zuko clings to you, telling you everything he knows, or sought knowledge about it.

Meanwhile, you hate Ozai, he is just unlike...your first husband.

Ozai is beyond redemption in your eyes.

And many days, you avoid him.

However, one day, you and Ozai were fighting about political matters and Zuko intervened to defend you.

"Stop yelling at mother, she has done nothing wrong!"

You only placed your hands on Zuko's shoulders, fearing that Ozai might hurt him.

But the glaring competition between the son and the father only ended in Ozai leaving.

Unfortunately, Ozai did not let that slide when Zuko cut in one of the political meetings.

He challenged him to an agni kai.

Something that Azula was excited about.

You tried to plead for Zuko's case.

But that made Ozai more determined.

And on that day of Agni Kai, Zuko was left defeated with a scar as a reminder.

And then banished from the first nation for not wanting to fight his father.

But you kept sending him letters from behind your husband's back.

At first, Zuko swore to capture the avatar so he can be accepted back as an heir and into the arms of his aunt, you.

But after joining the team avatar, he swore to defeat his father and save you.

#tw: toxic relationships #reader insert #Yandere Ozai #Ozai x Reader #Ozai #romantic yandere #platonic yandere #zuko x reader #azula x reader #avater the last airbender #wife reader #Avatar the last airbender

[lostmf]

#sadnees #tw depressing thoughts #i'm sad #depressing shit #childhood trauma #childhood #depressing life #quotes #tw depressing stuff #poetic #complex ptsd #childhood ptsd #childhood truama #toxic relationship #emotional abuse #narcissistic abuse #tw self destruction #self h@rm #tw self destructive behavior #tw: sucidal thoughts #wound tw #tw ptsd #generational truama #daddy issues #tw abuse #heartbreak #this is a cry for help #help plz #ptsd vent #tw truama

[inkykeiji]

idk if youve ever got this ask before but do ur characters allow their reader to have friends? ik they cut their reader off from friends/family but are there any conditions they would allow reader to have a friend or two? like if touya-nii followed someone for a few days and background checked and KNOWS shes a good person to let his princess hang around? I use touya-nii as an example cause I feel like hes the most like toxic lmao and bmb dabi popped in my head as well

good question!! and the answer depends on the iteration, tbh!

tw: toxic relationships!

i already talked about touya-nii and friends in this ask, and i’ve mentioned that bmb tomura was cool with surface level university friends that don’t ask many prying questions or stick their noses where they don’t belong (aka anyone who isn’t going to start raising concerns). bmb dabi is more likely to be jealous of readers friends (because he is such a selfish boy!) than to bar her from having any completely. tag!dabi would be wary—why does she need friends, when she has him and his friends? aren’t they enough?—but he wouldn’t be as vicious and controlling about it as touya-nii is. he’d ultimately be okay with friends he has thoroughly ‘approved’ of. the twins are cool with friends as long as they aren’t male, sugar daddy natsuo is NOT okay with friends in any capacity, dark academia dabi is okay with friends that he has secretly vetted and will very cleverly manipulate his reader into breaking the friendship if said friend begins to become a nuisance, 1950s dabi and 1950s keigo are cool with friends, tag!keigo is 100% okay with friends obv, flawless tomura is really hesitant when it comes to friends, especially male friends, but he’ll wait a little and feel the situation out before he cuts them off (rly depends on how nosy they are and how much they flare his jealousy!).

you’re right though, touya-nii IS the most toxic, and the friend scale above kind of goes off of this; how toxic, abusive, and dangerous the relationship is. the more toxic, the less likely reader is to have friends, because friends like to sniff around and tug at loose threads and sound alarms (because they care for their friend and their well-being) and the most toxic men just can't have that, now, can they?

#obv that last bit is sarcasm LMAO #thanks for ur question anon!! <3 #i hope ur saturday night is going well!! #stay safe and drink lotsa water!!! #inky.bb #clari gets mail #tw toxic relationships

[saintshigaraki]

''''nice guy''' kirishima with his short fuse gf that he pisses off on purpose bc he likes riling her up :/ likes fucking her when shes hissing out how much she can't fucking stand him :/ he gets off on working her up and he gets off on calming her down. he's winning all around 24/7

#vicspeaks #toxic relationship tw

[bones-of-a-rabbit]

abandonment issues prologue, pt 3,,

(i was going to finish the third page bc thats where Moon gets properly introduced but its taking way too long for me to get to it so im v sorry here's two pages where almost nothing at all happens hhjjdfh)

next part: (tba) previous part: here! first part: here!

#abandonment issues #abandonment issues comic #fnaf comic #fnaf sun/moon #fnaf au #fnaf sundrop x reader #fnaf sun x reader #fnaf sun x y/n #fnaf moon x reader #fnaf moon x y/n #doodles #sketches #bones of a rabbit #bones of a rabbit au #tw obsessive behavior #tw toxic relationship #obsessive #obsessive love #clingy #posessive #tw possessive behavior #also yeah sun falls in love with u in like 0.2 seconds. sometimes it just be like that