#tw death threat mention

[a-sip-of-milo]

Ableist: You're not discriminated against! Stop trying to get sympathy

Also Ableist: *Sends death threats to cluster B's for the act of simply existing*

#cluster b #cluster b safe #cluster b stigma #npd #npd safe #aspd #aspd safe #hpd #hpd safe #bpd #bpd safe #tw ableism #tw death threat mention

[a-crumb-of-whump]

why is your mental health blog the only one with anon turned off?

Well, i'm very open about my not believing in cluster-B abuse and having BPD. That tends to draw out the "empaths" who feel the need to send anonymous hate and death threats my way. Got particularly bad for a while and that was when i decided to turn it off. best decision i could have made for the sake of my own mental health! haven't gotten a single hate ask since. shows you how many cowards there are on the internet:P

#ask #not whump #tw death threat mention

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

spop fans: my favourite fictional catgirl did not deserve to get death threats from her abusive mom!

also spop fans: *sends death threats to actual real life people*

#ah the hypocrisy #spop critical #spop salt #spop criticism #spop discourse #spop #she ra #anti spop #anti stans #tw death threat mention

[antiendovents]

cw: death threat mention.

i fucking hate that i can't say i'm anti-endo without people taking that as an opportunity to yell, harass and otherwise target me. LITERALLY JUST BLOCK ME IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH. but, no, you're going to spend your time sending me death threats for being a traumatised person who believes in *science*. i am so tired of this stupid "discourse". i want to exist as someone with DID without needing to be asked if i support people who claim they know better than neuroscientists when it comes to the formation of my disorder.

yeah. I hate having to argue over this, but unfortunately this is what happens when groups of people get together and spread misinformation and then form a whole community towards validating that misinformation. It's shitty. And I hate it.

#This might not make sense #Not much does #anti endo #actually did #did #did system #plural #endos dni #alters #system #endos fuck off #did osdd #Tw death threat mention #CW death threat mention

[the-amazing-sun]

This is too much for me, I'm crying, I don't like I wanna live anymore. I wanna die I wanna die I wanna die I wanna die I wanna die I wanna die I wanna die I wanna die i wanna die

I'm scared

Let me tell you something, long ago I got discord for the first time, I was in a roleplay server, everything was happy until someone became toxic and started threatening me, they made their friends do the same, I gave the server to my friend because I thought I could trust them, but they didn't, they put most of their "friends" to tell me to kill myself, I deleted discord and got a new account, I went to Tumblr but they did the same, so I cheated a new account on Tumblr but I'm scared it's happening again, I don't want it to happen again, please don't make it happen again, I love my friends here on tumblr I don't wanna lose them.

#mod moonshine speaks #tw sui mention #tw sui vent #vent #tw threats #tw death threat mention #tw vent

[greens-spilled-tea]

Don't fucking send anon hate it's really that simple.

And if you find yourself in the situation where you got anon hate or a hurtful anon (even if it wasn't necessarily anon hate), I'm sorry that happened to you.

Honestly, things may not have been worded the best and wishing harm on someone else is not okay, but also yall are really taking things that someone said in a moment of intense emotion way too personally.

I'm not saying it's okay to wish harm on someone. Isolation and ostracization are so incredibly traumatic experiences for anyone to go through. I've been there.

But also, it kind of looks like yall are literally trying to find things to be mad at now. Instead of acknowledging that someone said something in the heat of being upset or triggered, you... what? Further demonize them? Show how awful they are for having an emotional response to a death threat?

It's a very emotionally charged situation. People were and are hurt on all sides of this.

Can we at least put those differences aside to try to help each other for once instead of constantly tearing each other down?

#syscourse #sophiecourse #tw death threat mention #ask to tag #by green #sophieinwonderland #like. I don't usually defend Sophie. but all of yall have been having some intense emotional reactions #to someone else having an emotional reaction to something that is directly affecting them #sometimes you gotta just pull away and let them process through things without getting yourself involved #I know it sucks. I was triggered too initially. but dogpiling is not the answer here #she is also a person with emotions and she is allowed to express those #and if you're trying to protect or help her followers who may be affected by her outburts? #talk to THEM. not her.

[xoxo-ren-xoxo]

Amazing how so many exclusionists make posts on here like 'wahhh why do mspec lesbians keep interacting with me!?' and then they go ahead and call for our deaths whilst using our tags... like man, get a life

#ben chats shit on the internet #lgbt #discourse #mspec lesbian #tw exclusionism #tw death threat mention #queer #inclusive

[proship-selfship]

I won’t lie when I saw proshippers calling the anti-community a “cult,” I thought y’all were just making fun of them. However, once I read stories from former antis sharing their experiences, I agree that the anti-community is a cult. Former antis spoke about how they attacked people with death threats, suicide bait, and doxxing over fictional characters or have also been victims. The anti-community bully, ostracize, and isolates anyone with a different mindset, upset when they can’t control people to think and behave the way they want, just like a cult does.

also with the family stuff—explained the whole debate to my parents the other day and one of them said “it’s about the authoritarianism”

That's exactly what it is.

#ask #answered #anonymous #proship safe #antis dni #antis are a cult #tw death threat mention #tw suibait mention #tw doxxing mention #tw cult mention

[toh-proship-positivity]

Y’know i “kinda” hate it when Anti’s send proshippers death threats like that will do anything -~-

I find it ironic they're the ones crying about proshippers 'normalizing' pedophillia, yet they normalized telling people to off themselves, and then claim they're the normal ones

#tw death threat mention #mod hopskotch hopping #antis dni #proship #proship safe #proship please interact #tw pedophillia mention

[obsessivefangirl]

Due to 51 rape threats, suicide baiting, graphically telling me how to kill myself and how I was worthless and my existence hurt me and others, anons are off until further notice. Sorry to all that inconveniences.

#my ramblings #tw rape mention #tw rape threat mention #tw threat mention #tw suicide mention #tw suicide bait mention #tw suibait mention #tw death mention #tw death threat mention

[mywingsareonwheels]

On how to treat performers you don’t know personally. Or, some things that really should not need saying.

Actors are real live human beings. This means they deserve privacy and boundaries and safety, as we all do.

Most actors don’t go into the profession to become famous. Almost all actors *don’t* become famous and they are well aware of this. They go into acting to act, not because they want to be celebrities. However, even those who do want to be famous are still human beings, see above.

Most actors are not multi-millionaires. It’s not a highly-paid profession overall and it’s very insecure. Assuming an actor is extremely rich because you’ve heard of them is ridiculous, especially if they haven’t done any Hollywood blockbusters. You cannot and should not believe those websites claiming to tell you how rich an actor is.

A real live human not being explicit about what their sexuality is is not queerbaiting. Even if they have played a queer character. For Fuck’s Sake.

You can comfortably assume that those actors who are out as queer are the tip of the queer iceberg in the profession. It’s still a queerphobic industry and a queerphobic world, and people have a right to be in the closet, always.

Harassing an 18 year old because you want to know whether or not he’s queer is obscene. Harassing anyone of *any* age is more than bad enough. Turning up at the house of an actor you don’t know personally or sharing their address etc. is extremely creepy.

Taking photographs of someone without their consent is extremely creepy.

No actor owes you any information about themselves, their relationship(s), their sexuality, their health, or indeed anything. If they share that, that’s an act of generosity. You don’t get to demand it. You don’t get to be shitty about what they do share. FFS think about how you would feel in their situation.

Sending death threats, suicide-baiting, and other violent words to anybody is always wrong in all situations. Including to famous people who have fucked up in some way. (Yes, even to people who do genuine concrete horrible harm in the world, but even more to those who have just done something stupid and inconsiderate and crappy or handled being called on something in a cowardly manner.) Calling out or boycotting someone’s work is one thing; harassment and a deliberate intent to harm is quite another.

Even at the less extreme ends, it is horrible that so many actors (and not just major Hollywood stars, I’m talking UK tv actors here) don’t feel comfortable going out in public (even to the pub or a restaurant etc.) because of the risk of being stared at, photographed, having their day interrupted however tired and busy etc. they are. Also? Body-shaming anybody is always wrong in all situations. My Gods how am I even needing to say all this?! The weird possessive/hyper-critical/resentful attitude that I see in a lot of spaces inc. tumblr towards actors owes its origin to a cultural trope that dates back to ancient Rome and which comprised classism, some xenophobia, slut-shaming, the maintenance of patriarchal gender roles, and homophobia (well, bottom-phobia, strictly speaking). You look at the attitudes towards actors in the last few hundred years of UK history, e.g.? Exactly the same damn thing. If you dislike or are extra judgemental towards actors (inc. famous ones) purely for being actors (or for being famous/successful actors), that is the heritage you are participating in. Which shouldn’t be a surprise given we all know that this bullshit is used most ferociously against actors who aren’t cishet white thin gentile abled non-immigrant men (although Gods know even the actors who are all those things get it badly enough).

(Disclaimer: I’m actually not talking here about the writing or drawing of RPF, provided of course you never under any circumstances share it with or make it easily findable by the people in question. So long as you keep it well away from them, know that you are talking about fictionalised people not the real people themselves, and don’t let it influence how you treat them if you ever interact or talk about them, I’d say RPF is pretty damn benign (and yep, full honesty, I have both read and on one occasion written it ;-) ). Certainly compared to everything else on this list.)

This post is partly prompted by my sheer rage and sadness over what’s happened to Kit Connor. But it’s also about things that have happened towards so, so, so many other actors, from Mat Baynton to Jameela Jamil to Olivia Coleman to Sebastian Stan to Chadwick Boseman to Lee Pace to Letitia Wright to to to. It’s gross, it’s obnoxious, it’s everywhere. It’s worst on Twitter, but I saw the same attitudes in even the Guardian and the Independent growing up (let alone the right-wing English newspapers which were and are just disgusting about everyone in the arts). And it’s seriously bad on tumblr too, let’s face it. Fandom relies on the work of actors. Can we please ffs start treating them better? :-S

AND FINALLY: Again this should be darn obvious: please don’t treat anyone else in those ways either! In so many spaces these days there’s a “one strike and you’re not a human being any more” attitude when people mess up. It fucking sucks. We all deserve better and need better. All of us.

Ahem. Here endeth the rant. ;-)

#tw suicide baiting mention #tw harassment culture #tw forced outing #tw queerphobia #kit connor #actors are human beings #tw death threat mention #tw harassment #tw stalking #long post

[woomycritiques543]

....

Damn nigga, ive summoned the horde so badly that now it’s come to a point where they want me dead over a cartoon character.

What the-

#for future reference #tw death threat mention #and people say that the SU standom was bad #this is on a entirely different level of bullshit #WOAH OK #I get expressing yourself but you didn't have to get THAT personal #because I told you that you can say slurs anymore #lmao! #what a 🤡

[buckys-little-belle]

Why don't you answer asks? I'm guessing you have like none so if you could answer the few of us that want to talk that would be great

A “few” … I don’t think people really understand how insane and stressful running a Tumblr account is. I have over 1.5k followers, many who come to me for guidance and support, people who come for answers and help. The flip side is people who hate and demand, people who come only to hurt me. As much as I love this account, answering asks is very difficult, if an ask can be seen on my notification page I WILL and DO answer it, but when I miss it, it may take me time to get to it because of my difficulties with opening my ask box, I’m terrified over what I may find in there, will they be nice? Will they be people needing help? Or will it be death threats and violence, emotional manipulation or just mean people? I am currently just stressed beyond recognition over this account, and I just need some patience, time and grace. I know there are some very nice messages I’m missing, and I’m so sorry! One day I will get to them, I’m getting there <3

#anon #sorry this is a bit of a rant #tw death #tw death mention #tw emotional manipulation #tw rudeness #tw mean people #tw death threat mention

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

what spop critics say: spop is a show with a lot of potential that, with good writing and decent pacing, could have been a masterpiece. however, the writers fucked up by not giving the villain a good redemption and ultimately turning her arc into "predatory lesbian"

what spop fans hear: catra is EVIL and spop is TRASH and abuse victims DON'T DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE they should all BE TORTURED TO DEATH i'm a heartless monster who has no life and kills puppies for fun

#spop critical #spop #spop salt #spop discourse #spop criticism #anti catradora #she ra #anti catra #please learn how to read #i post a detailed analysis on how catra is an interesting character whose arc was butchered in the end #and c//a stans in the replies are like “your blog is full of HATE go kys HOW DARE you hate on a fictional character” #like calm down #tw death threat mention #tw hate speech mention

[princessgemma12]

I was right!! I’ve been threatened and harrassed by an anti for joking with Flooz on another post lmao

#tw harassment #tw death threat mention #anti culture #funny #moots #Flooz

[got-banned-for-hating-jkr]

Do you think the "kill yourself please" level could be foreshadowing (or in universe, referencing) the words that broke Squid or should I put down the lore shovel and lay in my grave?

#lunar's dumbass rambles #will you snail #will you snail spoilers #tw death threats #tw death threat mention