#queerplatonic boyfriend

[dreaming-like-a-girl]

For me being in a qpr lately is like. No we're not dating. Yes this is my boyfriend isn't he great and lovely and handsome aren't I lucky. No I don't want anyone to mistake us for romantic partners. Yes I want to marry him. No we're not "just friends". Yes I don't want people to think our friendship matters less than our love. No I don't care what people think. Yes I want you to know that we're each other's and each other's alone. No I've never had a crush on him. Yes, I love him with all my heart and soul.

#i could go on #i am so in love with this ridiculous boy #alterous attraction #queerplatonic relationship #queerplatonic #<<<this is how i love him but also so much more #aroace #queerplatonic partner #queerplatonic boyfriend #qpr #alterous #lgbtqia+ #qpp #love #transgender #boyfriend #acearo #demisexual #asexual #asexuality #aromantic #demiromantic #demialterous #alterous yearning #alterous relationship #platonic marriage #queerplatonic marriage

[finns-gay-thoughts]

i just want to cuddle. i want our limbs to be so tangled you can’t tell where one of us ends and the other begins. i want our fingers to be interlocked. i want to feel your warmth. i want to stare into your pretty eyes and tell you things that make you blush. i want to be with you.

#finn rambles #gay #mlm thoughts #mlm sfw #t4t sfw #gay yearning #alterous #queerplatonic #qpr #boyfriend #achillean #t4t mlm #trans mlm #mlm positivity

[vividlyaro]

on sunflowers; a platonic love letter

i knew you then. i know you now. but how i wish i could have known you in that space between the two. how i wish we could have grown together.

we were sunflower seeds in the dirt, and even then i knew you were something special. you were good, so good. (for a week, i was convinced you were otherworldly, more than human. because i had no other concepts to explain how seen, how understood i felt when i was with you.) i was a child longing for connection, and when you entered my life, i almost didn't know what to do with all of the joy that followed.

we knew little of the world. we had so much growing to do. and in another lifetime, maybe we could have remained side by side throughout.

but the wind scattered us just out of reach. and i had a tendency to release my grasp on every good thing. it was chance that led to distance, but it was my own fear that led to silence. and i am sorry for the time we have lost.

and yet. we grew, reaching for the same sun. we grew in parallel arcs, turning to face the light, unfurling our leaves to touch the world with gentleness and courage.

and now i see you, here in the sunlight. we ended up here. we ended up okay. we cannot look into the past to see what made us who we are. but we can see who we were. and we can see who we are.

and i can say to you:

i knew you then. i know you now. i am sorry for the time between. thank you for not giving up on me. i love the person you are. i am proud of us both. you are someone i always want in my life.

i hope the future is kind to you. i hope your best days are ahead of you. i hope you know how loved you are. and i hope we see each other soon.

with this letter, i am sending you hugs and smiles and candy and music and legos and cool rocks and funny videos of baby animals and all of the happiness in the world.

your friend,

vivid.

#b. #<- tag for THIS friend whom i adore #anyways. if you're the person this is dedicated to and you're reading this: #hi! <3 um. fun fact. i have actually dedicated a non-zero amount of poetry to you over the years. #also i was discussing the topic of a potential future wedding with my queerplatonic boyfriend and he asked who i would want to invite. #my first answer was you. the distance between us is frustrating but my first answer was still you. #anyways. you're awesome. ily. hope you have a fantastic day. <3

[alienaliart]

Gentle reminder that your faves are as gay and trans as you want them to be 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

#sonadow #shadow the hedgehog #sonic the hedgehog #sonic #sonic fanart #sth #alienaliart #artists on tumblr #shadonic #sonic x shadow #gay and trans boyfriends let's go #I like to think the context for this piece is that it's Sonic taking Shadow to his first pride #a lot has changed in the queer liberation movement since the 50s you know #Shadow is mesmerized ❤️ #self indulgent hcs honestly cause I'm an asexual enby and I love seeing myself represented in Shadow #my personal hc for Sonic is that he is an aromantic pansexual cause that's how my partner is #and he's in a queerplatonic relationship with Shadow ❤️ #this was my first time drawing them as chibis and I love how adorable they turned out #I just wanna give them so much hugs

[jaypilled]

i'm ok with you

#no one understands they're everything to me #they're platonic boyfriends to me. queerplatonic if you will. #i really need to coin a name for their platonic slash queerplatonic pairing #but i don't think i can come up with anything better than macaron or firefox those names r literally perfect but they're both romantic #but to be honest i think im like the Only one that sees them this way. idk who else would use the tag #ok anyways #nexo knights #nexo knights fanart #aaron fox #macy halbert #transmasc mace and aaron solidarity #transmasc macy halbert propaganda #jay art

[wingstobetorn]

Huntlow isn't a completely romantic relationship to me. I don't think they're 100% platonic either. To me they just don't put a label on it and do whatever they want and that's the appeal of it to me

#boyfriend girlfriend sometimes and just besties the next and that works out for them #queerplatonic huntlow also has my heart #DO WHATEVER YOU WANT FOREVER!!!

[drarreckyninja]

Spencer, walking into Derek and Penelope’s bedroom in the middle of the night: I had a bad dream. Derek: What was it about? Penelope, half-asleep: No, don’t ask him that! Derek: Why not? Penelope: Cause he’ll tell you, but I wanna sleeeeeeep!

#criminal minds #morgan x reid #morgan and garcia #moreid #morcia #incorrect quotes #in my headcanon #penelope and derek are queerplatonic bedmates #and they live with derek's boyfriend/later husband spencer

[gender-luster]

the aro want to be called someone's girlfriend/boyfriend, but like. completely unromantically

#wife/husband too! but i really don't want to get married #anyways. who wants me to be their platonic/queerplatonic boyfriend/girlfriend?! #aro #aromantic #arospec #ty says things

[forestgrey19]

who wants to be my partner/s and we save up to move to a cottage in a lil forest surrounded by flowers, with our pets and gardens, spending our free time laughing at dumb movies and running our fingers through each other's hair while we snuggle in bed on rainy days?

#mlm yearning #asexual yearning #nblm yearning #t4t yearning #looking for a partner #looking for a boyfriend #lf boyfriend #lf partner #actually asexual #aspec #aroace #queerplatonic #dating #single #cottagecore #cottage aesthetic #minors dni #dm me lets discuss our soft cottagecore future and be all queer and neurodivergent together <3<3<3<3

[sissytobitch10seconds]

People complain about Valentine's Day being commercial and complain about it being only for couples.

I have a solution for one, that technically exacerbates the other. We should turn Valentine's Day into what it was in elementary school. Fuck fancy dates and roses and expensive chocolates. Give me shitty powdered candy and help me glue exactly 1 million hearts onto a cardboard box with my name written on it by the teacher. Then we can go to the gym and eat a single sugar cookie before we do a line dance we've been learning for three months

#valentines day #this is my second valentine's day being out as aroace #date with boyfriend because it's wednesday not v day lol #aroace #aromantic asexual #queerplatonic relationsips

[stackofcrows]

home.

They say home is where the heart is

And for the longest time I thought

That homesickness was a made up thing

An excuse to feel distraught.

They say home is where the heart is

And yet, what tends to happen

Is that I’d rather be anywhere else

Than the house that I grew up in.

A home should be a safe place

A home should be a haven

A home should be a place to rest

When the world is too much to be in.

But what many don’t consider is

A home is not always a place

A home can be so many things

But mine is in your embrace.

Because if home is where the heart is

And my heart belongs to you,

Then that must mean that you’re my home

And I feel homesick without you.

It ails me like a malady

I’m bedridden from the symptoms

A classic case of homesickness

And the cure so close, yet so distant.

They say home is where the heart is

And I am homeless for the moment,

But I will sit and wait for the time

When our home becomes more permanent.

They say home is where the heart is

And I am inclined to agree

I feel most at home with you, my love

And I wish you could be here, with me.

#wrote this for my boyfriend when we were long distance for a bit #we are no longer long distance and i am so glad for that fact #crow tags #crow thoughts #poem #poetry #writing #queerplatonic relationship #love

[dreaming-like-a-girl]

Let's pack a tent and a little telescope and an old camera and a guitar into the back of our car and drive out somewhere far from all the people and all the noise, and we'll set up on a hillside under the stars and snuggle up beside each other in front of the fire, I'll play guitar for you until there's nothing but dull glowing coals, then we'll take out the telescope and watch the stars and you can tell me about all the constellations you know and I can tell you how looking at the stars is the only thing that compares to how I feel when I look at you, then the next morning we'll wander through the trees taking photos with the old camera, of strange plants and long abandoned stone castles, and pretend we're wandering through elven forests with ancient spirits, holding hands as we trek through our dreams

#queerplatonic #queerplatonic relationship #qpr #qpp #queerplatonic partner #demisexual #alterous attraction #alterous #lgbtqia+ #love #transgender #demialterous #demiromantic #aroace #acearo #aromantic #asexual #asexuality #queerplatonic boyfriend #i love him so much #he means the world to me

[finns-gay-thoughts]

hi can we cuddle. i miss your face. hi can we cuddle. i like feeling your skin on mine. i like you. can we cuddle. can we cuddle can we cuddle can we cuddle can we c

#ik my like most popular post on here is already about cuddling but 😭 its soooo #gay #finn rambles #mlm thoughts #mlm yearning #queer love #queerplatonic #qpr #achillean #mlm sfw #t4t sfw #trans mlm #t4t mlm #gay yearning #boyfriend #mlm love

[threadsofsaffron]

weird vent thing I wrote at 1am -> ???? -> this thing

#art #crs #oc #cyaris #aevos #short comic #queer shit #i dont know how to explain this but theyre the most platonic romantic couple ever. theyre just two weird guys whove been locked in a lab #their whole lives and theg have no conception of romance and yet they still love each other so much. queerplatonic maybe but it's something #that i dont really like to put into words #but they are boyfriends that is a Word i will allow

[disposabletapedispenser]

poly positivity

it’s my 100th post so.  hey, my fellow polyams! you’re valid. you are valid whether you’re only currently dating one person or if you’re not dating anyone at all. you’re valid even if sometimes it can be stressful and being poly makes you doubt yourself. you’re valid even if you’re too scared to ask out that other person you like. you’re valid even if you’re not sure if a poly relationship would work for you right now. 

poly relationships are beautiful. they are not just threesomes or “a kink thing” or groups of friends or inherently abusive/ problematic. all forms of poly relationships are beautiful. are you in a polycule with everyone dating each other? valid. open relationship? valid. dating people that aren’t dating each other? valid. 

poly people, you are so loved and i am so proud of you all. the kind of openness and communication that we commit to is so underrated and if nobody has appreciated how incredible you are for it, i’m doing it now! 

also, shoutout to asexual poly people, or polyplatonic people. polyamory is not inherently sexual! if you have multiple qpps but don’t feel like a romantic partner is your thing or you have both, you’re still a valid polyamorous person. 

also shoutout to aromantic poly people! or just aspec in general (like me :D) lets fuck with the relationship norms together my brethren

of course i must also take this moment to give a heartfelt thanks to my two beautiful, incredible, precious partners. (even though theyre not allowed to see my tumblr yet its too chaotic fklgjdflkgjf)

al, i love you. thank you for always being there for me even when i am freaking the fuck out about someone i like, and reminding me that i am seen and that you will support me no matter how it goes. i owe so much to you, my love, and you have made so many difficult, confusing days better. i can’t wait to finally meet you. i love you so much and i am so proud of you <33

mads, you are incredible and i am so lucky to have you. you make me feel so loved and every day that i get to see you everything feels brighter. you are so beautiful and sweet and you make me so fucking happy. thanks for everything, sweetheart. love ya <3 :)

and of course my qpps!

PLUM. YOU’RE POGCHAMP AND I CANNOT BELIEVE WEVE BEEN QPPS FOR SIX MONTHS WHAT THE FUCK???? you are my best friend and the best ever. i love you my guy

lamppppp your sense of humor and everything about you just makes you so incredible to talk to. thanks for sitting on call with me while i impulsively shaved my head, it was awesome to have you there. love youuu

and finally, my platonic partner chara. 

i have always loved you and i will always love you. i can’t imagine a world without you in my life. thank you. 

MY FELLOW POLY PEOPLE. go tell your partner(s) that you love them. if you don’t have any partners, appreciate your friends today. we have so much love to give and i think that makes us really cool. 

#poly #polyamorous #polyplatonic #queerplatonic #queerplatonic relationship #qpr #qpr positivity #poly positivity #polyamorous positivity #i love my boyfriend #i love my girlfriend #i love my partners #i love my qpps #qpp #lgbtqplus #queer community #love is love #aromantic #asexual #aspec

[alterouslyinlove]

boyfriend but platonically

#i want to be someone’s boyfriend and i want a boyfriend but not in a romantic way #i just think the word is nice #also anyone else see someone use the word boyfriend and automatically imagine it being an mlm relationship #like i forget straight people exist #anyways #gay #aromantic #queerplatonic #queerplatonic relationship #platonic #alterous #alterous attraction #🌀 #my demolition lover <3