#love and belonging

[uschi-the-listener]

I can get through

Anything

In a day

Only a few months

Every year

My feelings

Are a kickball

Told to

Buy and buy

Bake and make and

Buy some more

And feel

All the feels

Like it or not

Dredge up

All that

Stuff

Families

Mothers

Relationships

Love, love

Every kind

Of love

And belonging

Nothing resonates

Not in a good way

Ghosts are attracted

By emotion

Just let it go

I will

If it will

.

#holidays #love and belonging #love #loss

[artisticdivasworld]

Embracing Choice Theory: A Guide to Better Living

Today, I want to introduce you to a transformative concept that has the potential to significantly alter your perception of life and relationships. It’s called Choice Theory, developed by the renowned psychiatrist William Glasser. This theory is not just a psychological concept; it’s a roadmap to understanding ourselves and navigating the complexities of human behavior. The Essence of Choice…

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#basic needs #behavior choices #Choice Theory #decision-making #educational application #freedom in choices #fun and learning #human motivation #love and belonging #Mental Health #personal responsibility #power need #psychological concepts #Quality World #relationship improvement #Self-reflection #survival instinct #William Glasser #workplace dynamics

[honeyymistt]

i’ve heard a lot of people say “don’t reach out to your friends first and see how many people will remain in your life. those are your true friends” and i get it. it sucks and it’s tiring constantly being the one to message first, to initiate hang outs but don’t take this so literally. some friendships require initiation. i have lost touch with so many people who genuinely cared about me and wanted me in their life because i stopped reaching out. it’s a hard pill to swallow but honestly some people just suck at it and it doesn’t mean they don’t love and value you. i’ve reconnected with some people over the past few months and it’s crazy how genuinely happy they are to see me and how engaged they are in the conversation. i just think sometimes we’re too harsh on each other & too quick to emphasize other peoples flaws and remove them from our lives but then we’ll all be alone and what’s the point of life then!!!!

#i ramble but idk how else to explain this #some ppl are just shitty at reaching out but they still love with their entire being #these belong to honeyy #reminders #gentle reminders #positivity #relationships #friendships #self care #5k #10k #15k #20k #25k #30k

[theoldkyokodied]

The Allegiance of the Ascended Vampire and the New God of Magic

#bloodweave #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #gale x astarion #astarion x gale #gale dekarios #astarion ancunin #yes this is about astarion helping gale defeat mystra and take her place with the crown in exchange for gale helping him with the ritual #the ‘they can make each other worse’ part of their relationship turned to the max #I enjoy them being reluctantly soft for each other more but from time to time I just think about how powerful they could get together #toxic evil boyfriends. take love and twist it up until it’s unrecognisable #I like to think that astarion approached gale with that offer after realising no one else in camp is gonna help him #and that he can use gales own hunger for power which backfired when astarion actually became emotionally invested in gale #and after gale kept his word despite everyone’s concerns astarion changed his plan from not fullfilling his end of the bargain to actually #helping gale kill mystra (mostly so that gale could belong to him and him alone. and letting him take the place as a god bc having a god #at you beck and call is definitely appealing. especially one as eager to please as gale) #anyway what I want to say with this is please please please let me kill mystra i don’t even care if the weave gets destroyed again

[stil-lindigo]

the calamity.

a comic about being seen.

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#cw: blood + eye scarring #oh the inherent intimacy of seeing and being seen #just a comic about how the desire to be seen and shown love and compassion unites us all #also big scary monster lady pretty #girl power! the personification of disaster and strife uses she/her pronouns! #i also feel somewhat obligated to mention here that i dont have anything against christianity as a whole #i just think the concept of God is interesting #i went to a christian school for 12 years im allowed to make this comic #comic art #sapphic #yes. interpret the subtext #stillindigo art #heartearters #thats the name of the anthology this will belong to. whenever i finish it #stillindigo comics

[stellarfalls]

A dreamer, that’s what she was

#my fav oc 🫶🏽 #she belongs to a 90s movie I love her !!! #ts4 #simblr #sims 4 #sims 4 gameplay #hana* #gen:valley

[hualianschild]

#bros entering his simping era fr #jinshi #the apothecary diaries #kusuriya no hitorigoto #maomao #jinmao #celebrating the first apothecary diaries post (and anything I've posted) that received so much love #oh now this post belongs in that category too guess y'all love this panel as much as I do lmao

[alizalayne]

for my birthday yesterday me and my friends went to a very high production haunted trail and i was so happy and gleeful that most of the actors did not try to scare me because i would see them and smile like i was seeing my favorite most beautiful puppy in the whole wide world

#art #comics #nosferatu #vampire #vampire baby #since this is the vampire baby friend group it belongs organized with the other vampire baby posts #💕💕 i had a wonderful time and love my friends

[grievingmoon]

“i was thinking about how i don’t actually have anything of my own that i can keep. i very luckily have some material things, but every material thing goes away eventually. they can get lost, broken, stolen or just deteriorate, including my body. once i die this will all become nothing. and i was thinking about what do i have that’s really actually mine? that can’t be taken away? and i know this is corny but this love that i feel in me, that i’ve created in me, that i’ve built in me, held on to—it’s mine for as long as i want it, for as long as i don’t give it up or let the world take it away from me. and i really do believe that to love is the best thing i ever did in my life. better than any song i've ever written, any achievement by far. to love is truly the best and most beautiful thing i ever did. and then as i was thinking about that, i started thinking about how sad it was that once i die, i couldn’t leave behind this most beautiful thing that i have. i guess it sort of dies with me. so i wanted to write a song about how i wish that when i die i could at least leave all this love behind in the world.”

mitski explains her new song “my love mine all mine”

#when she sings nothing in the world belongs to me but my love mine all mine #she truly gets it #mitski #the land is inhospitable and so are we

[catsauceeartofficial]

Accepting isolation, craving belonging

#art #digital art #comic #long post #this is kind of vent? #I don't want to be all I had a rough childhood wahh #I just find it bizarre to have so many little aspects of my childhood shape me #I crave isolation #I thrive in isolation #But I want to belong #I want to intimately know someone #and I want someone to intimately know me #This is to all the people who have loved me #even if we dont talk anymore #i love you and have loved you and i want nothing but for you to be happy #original post

[shyranno]

I've been sad lately so I've been trying to boost my serotonin by drawing Jedi AU youngling trainer Maul (who I affectionately call Dad Maul)... it works :))

#star wars #fan art #jedi au maul #maul #darth maul #i call this my #happy au #it's fairly extensive and i have written many things for it #i love it a lot #its my happy place #all younglings belong to friends! #maul would be so chill if he never met palpatine #i have proof for this bro dont fight me #also i just think its so funny if jedi au maul has ALL the apprentices while canon maul has like zero

[allgremlinart]

breaking my silence Zuko and Sokka should never have been in that sun/moon poll to begin with there is not a celestial bone in those bodies. dating the moon doesnt count thats like moon nepotism. "Sun and Moon pairing" girl thats not Sun and Moon thats Tabasco Sauce and Beef Jerky. thats Legos and Fidget Spinner. idc I stand by this.

#zukka #know I say this with love in my heart ! but like those are two autistic frat boys they do NOT belong in the sky

[valeron99]

Love will always be stronger.

#lokius #loki x mobius #mobius x loki #loki #loki series #loki fanart #loki art #loki season 2 #loki spoilers #loki fixit #loki finale #loki god of stories #loki mobius #mobius loki #mobius m mobius #mobius my beloved #they are time husbands #they belong together #they deserved it #loki loves mobius #mobius loves loki

[jqnehr]

𓂃₊ ⊹ 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐧𝐬 : 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐜𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐞.

⟡ ꒰ 𝐳𝐚𝐲𝐧𝐞 ꒱ ⨾ after a long day at work, snuggling into your side and dozing off is the perfect conclusion to his day. he likes to press his face into the valley between your breasts—a completely innocent gesture, akin to a newborn babe nestling into its mother’s embrace. he likes to listen to your heartbeat, letting its rhythmic thump lull him off to sleep. you hold him close and massage his scalp tenderly, letting him relax and slumber peacefully, your cheek resting against the top of his head. you both fall asleep together like this often, tangled together, zayne finally catching up on the sleep he’s been needing for a long time. 

⭒ ꒰ 𝐱𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐫 ꒱ ⨾ he sleeps like a baby, softly snoring into the crook of your neck, strong arms wrapped around your middle, clutching you close tightly. sometimes he’s practically sprawled on top of you, his crushing weight almost too much, but his warmth and how comfy he feels around you more than makes up for it. xavier's bed head is adorable when he blearily emerges from your nape, blue eyes hooded and fogged with sleep. and he most certainly is not a morning person—he usually flops right back down onto you, chests pressed together, dozing back off. it takes a couple of slaps to his chest and arms to thoroughly wake him up and get ready for the day. it doesn’t help that it’s like holding a massive teddy bear when in his arms, comfortable and safe. 

⊹ ꒰ 𝐫𝐚𝐟𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐥 ꒱ ⨾ this menace of a man adores spooning you—it’s his favourite sleeping position ever. once you both hop into bed, he draws you in and presses you snug against his torso, arms enfolded around your middle, face pressed into your nape from behind. sometimes—well, usually—rafayel likes to annoy you by nibbling on the skin of your nape and pressing soft kisses there, his intentions clear, and you smack him sharply, telling him sternly—yet not without affection—that you’ll move if he doesn’t settle down. either way, he wraps himself around you and clings to you securely, sleeping soundly through the night. to say he can’t get enough of you would be a sore understatement.

this is really fucking cringe. I am SO sorry for this 💔

#zayne love and deepspace #xavier love and deepspace #rafayel love and deepspace #zayne love and deepspace x reader #xavier love and deepspace x reader #rafayel love and deepspace x reader #zayne x reader #zayne x you #zayne fluff #love and deepspace rafayel #love and deepspace xavier #zayne #love and deepspace x reader #love and deepspace #love and deepspace zayne #xavier #rafayel #banner up top by me! please do not use with or without credit <3 #heart divider belongs to @/cafekitsune #love and deepspace headcanons #love and deepspace imagines #this is by far my worst piece of writing but I had to write this quickly so I can go to chores or I'd go crazy while scrubbing the bathroom #floor #so yes pls bear w me #I apologise deeply for this <3 #why did xavier's turn out the longest when he's not even my favourite?? #somehow I wrote a really nice one for rafayel when I actually hate him (kind of) #my baby zayne's is the shortest 💔 #oracleofstars

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

i think it would be funny if people occasionally arose from the dead. like if that was a real-life one-in-a-million but well-documented Thing That Sometimes Happens, and the entire legal system around death (laws on inheritance & marriage & murder etc) had to include caveats for the unlikely-but-scientifically-possible event that the dead person in question might spontaneously self-resurrect, even years or decades after death. it would raise so many inconvenient and absurd possibilities

#imagine the legal system in that timeline #property laws and inheritance laws and bigamy laws--what happens if your spouse resurrects 10 years after they die? #think how AWKWARD that would be #what happens if you inherit from someone who comes back do you have to give the inheritance back? what if u used it to buy stuff? #does the jetski u bought with the money your grandpa left u 15 years ago in college now belong to grandpa? #or is there a statute of limitations? #if the guy you got convicted of murdering returns from the dead does your conviction get changed from murder to grievous harm? #how is the grievousness of the harm measured? in the number of years the guy spent as a corpse? #what if you spend 20 years in prison and the victim comes back to life and it turns out grievous harm would have landed you only 5ish years #do you get reimbursed for the extra 15 years u spent in prison? #what is the legal process for proving you have come back to life? #what are the minimum legal requirements for establishing a revenant's identity? #does it become regulation to make fingerprint/dental records of every single person who dies just on the off chance one of them comes back? #what happens if it's someone from like 300 years ago? #the world has changed and everyone they know is dead. is there a social services department that can help with that? #there would be a whole branch of counseling services for people who have reanimated or had a loved one reanimate #grief 2.0 counselors

[enii]

Small tasks

#illustration #artists on tumblr #cute #artoftheday #digital illustration #wholesome #small tasks #to do list #procreate art #i love completing small tasks just so i can feel that i matter #i matter #procreate #procreate illustration #cute comics #mental health awareness #place to belong #it's okay if all you did is exist today #it's okay to not feel okay #relatable #relatable illustration #some days #days like this #you will be okay #art #artist on tumblr #artist #mental health #i am doing great #relatable comics