honeyymistt

[honeyymistt]

hi everyone! wow, it’s been awhile.

to be frank, i’m not sure who is going to read this or if anyone will. i think part of me is writing this for me rather than for my “audience.” i stopped posting regularly awhile ago. i completely stopped posting two months ago.

i have finally come to terms with the fact that i simply don’t find as much joy in this blog as i used to. i started this blog in high school, and i’ve been in university for a good few years now. a lot can change in your life in those few years. i’ve shared so many special moments with the community here. it’s because i love the community so much that i feel the need to give a proper goodbye. there’s no specific reason why i’m leaving (in fact, maybe in a few months or years, i’ll come back!). i feel the need to say goodbye because i don’t want to feel guilty for abandoning something that i have loved and that has loved me in return.

thank you for all of your unconditional love, friendship, advice and support. i truly believe that i have become better because of all of you. thank you for all of your love (and debate) on my post about reaching out to friends. regardless of whether or not you agree, i hope it’s opened your eyes to new perspectives. that’s all i’ve ever wanted to do - create a space where we could express ourselves and learn.

be kind to each other. be kind to yourselves.

& for one last time, i love you

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Stay warm ☕️ 🐇

[honeyymistt]

for 2024:

read a lot and read everything

film and art and music are what builds ur soul

be outside

love and romance will not come to you any quicker if you are focused on it constantly

possessions don't improve things

movement does improve things

university is <4 years of the rest of your life - make the most of it

find the pleasure in hard work

lose the pleasure in scrolling

creation is essential

joy, love & intelligence are the tenets of life

stagnation isn't inevitable. no person is in a fixed state. you can always change

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i found this on twitter and really wanted it on my blog so if you took this and see this pls let me know so i can give you credit 😌

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“you’re so sensitive” i was born with a poet’s soul. bitch

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happy new year 🤍🤍 here’s a list of 23 lessons from 2023, in no particular order of importance

stay diligent with routines

be more open minded

the guy you’re obsessed with isn’t your soulmate!

invest in your sleep

send the hard text. start the hard conversation.

you don’t need to talk to your friends every single day

things will happen when you are ready for them. once you get it you’ll realize how the timing was perfect.

laugh more. make others laugh more.

write through your experiences and feelings instead of over sharing to bond with people who aren’t your closest friends/family

being creative can change your life and your work

breathe deeply into yoga poses!

don’t stress about things out of your control. worry about it IF it happens. why suffer twice?

people don’t need to understand the things you like

read more than you watch

plan ahead. things usually aren’t as time consuming or as daunting as they seem

you become good at what you practice. be mindful of what you practice.

be with the people who see you, celebrate you & accept you. do the same for others

practice more gratitude before bed

you can always be a better listener

sensitivity is a superpower

say i love you more. hug more.

you’re smarter than you give credit for. intelligence comes in many forms

instagram & tiktok can work for you, or against you. approach and consume with caution.

#happy new year! #life lessons #advice #journal #these belong to honeyy #self care #self improvement #positive thinking

[honeyymistt]

hi there @/o72l!! thanks for leaving a comment on my post 💋🎀 it may have been awful in your eyes, but i think your comment is rude and that speaks more to your character than my post speaks to my writing skills.

happy end of 2023. i hope 2024 is happier, warmer and kinder to you so that you can spread that to others as well. 🤍

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honey how are you meri jaan!!!!!!! ive missed youu

hi lovey 🤍 i’ve missed you too !!

i’m doing very well :) i worry that my absence on tumblr has made people think something horrible happened in my life haha. but i promise all is well ! i think it’s been about 3 years of posting on here and so naturally, a lot in my life has changed. i had a hard time figuring out what to post about and it started to feel like a job which i hated !!! but i still love coming on here from time to time and seeing what everyone is up to <3

that was a ramble. how have you been? i’m sorry i haven’t been a good friend and disappeared. i hope life has been treating you well! i cant wait to hear from you 😚

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every woman 20 years older than you who you admire had to sit on the floor of her bathroom and wail more than once to get where she is these things have to happen will happen will be useful to you someday

#honeyymistt shares stuff

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free palestine 🇵🇸🤍

hey canadian friends here's a toolkit with actions you can take and resources to support palestine. please, if you are canadian or live in canada, please take some time to take action and demand ceasefire now.

Free Palestine 🇵🇸

[honeyymistt]

hi honey! it’s so good to see you again 🫶🏻

i have a bit of a situation and I’d love any words of wisdom from you if you’re willing.

so two years ago, I met someone and quickly developed a crush on her. a few months after we met, I confessed to her and she said that she didn’t think she had feelings for me and that she would like to remain friends. I was totally fine with that, so the next year was fine. she went abroad for school the year later.

now she’s back and we are co-running a dance club at school together so we are spending a lot of time working together. we have a bunch of mutual friends now so every so often she comes over to my apartment since she’s friends with all of my roommates too. we eat meals together and talk a lot and we make each other laugh.

long story (relatively) short, my feelings for her have returned and multiplied by like a million. I say “returned” like they left but I’m not sure if they ever did honestly. anyway I feel like confessing to her again wouldn’t be the best move, but I feel like, in both the best and worst possible way, I’m going to EXPLODE!!! I’ve been thinking about so many things lately and how me and her are running out of time (we are both graduating in the spring) and I think that sense of urgency is contributing to my want to do something about this.

I can’t know exactly how she feels because I am not inside her brain. all I know is that when anyone mentions love or the future, I automatically and unconsciously picture her. it’s a little pathetic tbh. but I’ve accepted the strength of my feelings and I need a way to express them or at least control them. I guess I’m writing to you for any advice you may have regarding this.

tldr: too much love. not enough time or ability to express.

sorry for the super long message but I’m not sure what to do. thank you so much :) hope you’re doing well

hi lovey!! thank you, it’s so nice to be back <3

this is a such a sweet message. so many people would love to be talked about the way you talk about her. she’s a lucky girl!!!! i always think that clear communication is the way to go. these feelings are a LOT to handle, and if pouring your heart out to her is going to make you feel better then i think, why not? if you don’t think that she feels the same way, you’ll obviously have to structure your confession as just that - a confession. but if you have a feeling that maybe she likes you back, then you could explain it and see if she can confirm it or clear it up. like you mentioned at the end, “too much love. not enough time or ability to express.” i think communication can do wonders for this situation. if she likes you back, then yay!! go on a date!! if she doesn’t, then you move on with acceptance because you did all you could do.

you could always say something along the lines of i know that i already told you this a year ago but i still have feelings for you. i feel like you deserve to know because we hang out so often and because we’re running the club together. i respect if you don’t feel the same way and i want you to know that i’m not going to jeopardize the club or drag in mutual friends. if you don’t feel the same way, i understand and i won’t act on it. i really admire you and i just need to let you know to get it off my chest. (you can adjust this according to how you guys talk to each other and add more details to explain yourself)

i don’t want to say this because it might give you false hope but this is just something to keep in mind. feelings can change. and i say this for both your feelings, and hers. my boyfriend and i went on a date last year and nothing came out of it. we went on a date almost a year later (a few months ago) and it was completely different and we’re dating now. people change, circumstances change and feelings change. just remember that!!

i think that everyone deserves to feel love and confessing could get you closer to that - love with her, or love with someone else. regardless, the choice is entirely yours and i trust that you’ll make the right decision. i can tell that you have a heart of gold, my sweet anon. i am sending you courage and support!!!! i’d love to know what you decide to do and what the outcome is. my inbox will remain open and i’ll always be here. <3

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for the anon who sent me a msg asking for advice in my inbox: i will try to answer that later today or tmr!! 💌

[honeyymistt]

hey bestie! I’m so glad you’re back!!!!! How’s life????? Give us the updates (if you’re comfortable)!!!!

<3

hi!!!!! thank you so much! i’ve missed it here ❣️❣️

here are some updates!!

- i officially specialized in HR for school!

- i’ve definitely drifted from some friends and it’s been sad but it’s ok! there’s been no drama about it whatsoever. i think everyone is busy with their own stuff so everyone understands. plus, i made lots of new friends so far bc my classes have so many new ppl 🤭

- my boyfriend and i are still going strong hehe yay i was nervous at the start tbh. we’ve been very good friends for like 5 years so i had doubts that we would be better as a couple than friends but that doubt is gone now :) i’m enjoying my time with him and seeing him today! it’s been so strange having a bf tho and i despise saying “my bf” bc it sounds so bratty to me 😭😭

- but yeah, the bf situation is the biggest difference in my life. it’s so nice to have someone to call before i go to bed and he’s so sweet to me and treats me so well. i’m very very happy with him :’)

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What's your fav (healthy) recipes? 💓

so sorry for my late reply anon :( i’m still a beginner cook and don’t really have a collection of recipes built up yet 😭 my answer atm is avocado toast LOL 🥴🫠

#chat with honeyymistt #i would love to post a link to my pinterest food board though to share if you would like ❣️

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