I can't believe I forgot to update the thonk chart... thankfully this should be the last update for a while. If you're confused about how to read this or refer to me: Hi, I'm Aries. I use 'they/them' pronouns and the heirarchy of this chart is based off of what I'm most likely to share with someone that's a potential friend. The lower a label on the chart is, the less likely I'm going to share it with someone I'm meeting for the first time. |=| The pronoun and name lists are somewhat exempt from this rule. If you want to refer to me by a different nickname/my neos, that's fine. I generally don't care, just don't call me "judgement". It's fucking annoying. |=|
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Here is how I explained asexuality to my mother:
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My Mom: What exactly is asexual?
Me: It means that I experience little to no sexual attraction.
My Mom: I just don’t understand that. You thought [name redacted] was cute.
Me: I still think [name redacted] is cute. I just don’t experience any sexual attraction towards them.
My Mom: That doesn’t make any sense to me.
Me: Well, I can recognize when someone is ugly, cute, uniquely hot, and when they are considered sexy, but I still don’t experience sexual attraction to any of them.
My Mom: I’m not saying that you don’t feel this way, or that I don’t believe you, but how could that be possible?
Me: Okay, so, let’s say that I have 4 pairs of shoes in front of me. The first pair are crocs, the second pair are ballet flats, the third pair are those chunky spice girls platform sandals, and the fourth pair are red stilettos.
My Mom: Okay…
Me: Now, I would classify the crocs as an ugly shoe. Do you agree?
My Mom: Yes.
Me: I would classify the ballet flats as cute.
My Mom: So would I.
Me: I would classify the platform sandals as ugly-hot. I know you hate them, but they call to me, and I still love them to this day. Does that make sense?
My Mom: *laughing* Yes.
Me: Lastly, I would classify the red stilettos as hot and/or sexy. Like, that’s a sexy shoe.
My Mom: Absolutely!
Me: Okay, now, even though I can recognize that these shoes have varying degrees of attractiveness, I do NOT want to fuck the shoes…and that is also how I feel about people.
My Mom: Ooohhhh, that makes way more sense to me. I get it now. Well, I don’t “get it,” because I’m straight, but I understand what you mean.
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Basically, this is how I felt trying to explain things:
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I like to crochet cute little things, and one thing that's quick/easy/fun for me to make are jellyfish. I decided to make some pride jellies - one for each of my flags!
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♥️💜💙 HAPPY PRIDE! 🖤🤍💜
A reminder that bi people in m/f relationships are still bi and are part of the queer community! Same with ace and aro people!
It’s frustrating being a bi creator with a bi story featuring a m/f lead. It doesn’t make my story an “auto success” and doesn’t protect me from rate bombing and hateful, bigoted comments, whether it be biphobic or fatphobic, or just downright racist.
I hope my platform will make good on their word to give queer creators a safer platform to post on.
In the meantime, show your favorite queer creators writing queer stories some love! We need the support and love from our audiences to keep our series afloat.
Anyway read Brimstone and Roses on WEBTOON!
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