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notdelusionalatall · 17 days
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chatonmagique · 9 months
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Me just clipping my hair away.
My BDD thoughts: Maybe if my ears were bigger my face would look smaller
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whatevenisokay · 8 months
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My brain so cute, it does this lil thing where whenever something goes wrong it thinks de@th is the best and only option🤩
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that-depressed-puff · 2 years
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Pro-Lifers: How would you feel if your mom had aborted you??
Me, chronically depressed, stressed, emotionally unstable, commitment-phobic but clingy with abandonment issues, hopelessly filled with self-loathing, anxious, exhausted, looking forward to a fulfilling life of working myself to the bone, medical and mental problems that I can’t afford, and crumbling relationships:
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alastorhazbin · 1 year
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Yyyeeeeaaaahhhh
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throatgina-sausage · 1 year
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This is how you should be looking at the photos of every influencer’s body when you log onto Pinterest, Tiktok or Instagram.
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Ladies and Germs, I saw a video the other day that fxcking blew my mind. This is really important.
https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7179284617063681285
This woman explains just how easy it is to warp, tuck, reduce and enlarge areas of the body IN REAL TIME while she is recording.
As the video progresses she’s editing her appearance at the same time, while educating us about how easy it is to exist in photos AND VIDEOS online with a body that she (or anyone using these tools) does not possess. By the end, she looks UNRECOGNISABLE. She switches the filters on and off, like a before and after shot. The way the obvious clues such as suspicious looking bathroom tiles and stretched backgrounds are NOT noticeable (because it’s not a still image) is fuxcking dangerously deceptive.
Filters/editing tools are getting more and more advanced and it’s infuriating how these technological advancements are further feeding the beast of unrealistic beauty standards. It’s getting near impossible to to tell what’s real and what’s fake, even on video.
You know that quote ‘’Don’t believe everything you read online’’?
Disbelieve most pictures of bodies you see online
Go to the park, the supermarket, the gym or any public space; That’s what real people look like. 
Please share the hell out of this post or the link to the video above. There’s no such thing as too many people being aware of this BS 
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emos-at-ihop · 2 years
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I got annoyed that when looking for relatable body dysmorphia memes that I only ever see shit like “sometimes, I don’t like how I look in a photo,” so I made hyper-specific bdd memes to demonstrate what bdd can actually do to a person lmao
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official-megumin · 9 months
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Hey, I saw your recent post about how you're struggling. I know you don't know me, but I just want to tell you that you're not alone. There's a lot you said you're struggling with that I've gone through as well. I understand. I want you to have some solidarity, even if it's just because a stranger chose to share a piece of their story with you.
When I went off to college, things were fine at first. I went through my first semester with flying colors. Second semester started the same, but deteriorated quickly. I fell behind on homework, so I didn't understand what was happening in class, so I stopped going to class as much, and this spiraled until I stopped going to class all together. I spent most of a semester either in bed or *shudders* on League of Legends, only leaving my dorm to eat at the dining halls. When I failed all my classes, I was invited to never return. It was very much a dark place to be, and I can only hope that you're not stuck in as bad of a mental space as I was.
Of course, I don't know the full severity of your mental health, and I don't expect to either. I'm sharing this next bit of wisdom in fear of the worst, in fear that it's as severe as mine was: Find a reason, any reason, to stick around, and latch onto that. For me, that was my cat. I saw a meme once where the poster shared they were only sticking around cause their pet wouldn't understand why they were missing, and why they never returned home. Point is, the reason doesn't have to be something grandiose. No matter how trivial a reason may seem, like not ever tasting ice cream again, or not being able to see a new season of an anime, or even just cause of a meme, it's always a valid reason to not give it all up. Find what that reason is for you, and latch on tight.
I'm sure you've heard "things will get better," a million times, and I understand just how hard it is to believe, especially when depression takes hold. Instead, know that no feeling is final, and there will always be a tomorrow. Your mental state does not define you, and there will always be time for it to change.
Take care.
thank you so much for the taking the time to respond.
I'm no longer a student, I haven't been for years. But back when I did go to school, I also started off with near perfect attendence(granted I couldn't keep up even at the start) but as time passed and my mental health worsened, I started not completing homework and just staying home from time to time. I did end graduating, but only barely. And without covid and a hospitalisation that stopped me from going to exams, I wouldn't have passed at all.
Since then, I've been on sick leave. And it's been over 3 years by now, first year I spent just trying to get the doctors to listen to me telling them something was wrong. And in the process I tried to end my life a time or two and I was admitted to the hospital 3 times.
End the end I came in telling them about my experience with "Hearing voices" really it was just my alters, but still I was granted 2 years of intense therapy.
Now those years are over and I still haven't really improved much, my depression is as bad as ever, so is my BDD.
The only thing that has improved is my social anxiety. Which I am thankful for. But really it's not enough of a change to really make a difference.
Luckily I have grown older and wiser over these past 3 years, I haven't tried to kill myself for over 2 years for once(apart from one time this week where I was very close to attempting it) and I have learned the importance of having something to keep you going just like you said yourself.
I'm not really good at talking about this sorta thing, but when you sent this ask yesterday. You did it at the perfect time, I was very very unhappy when I saw it, and it cheered me up a lot.
I know that it to you probably didn't seem like that big a thing to do. But it was, it genuinely was.
I'm also really sorry if I caused you any sort of worry, my intention with that post wasn't to ask for help really. I think at least.
But more to show that there is more to my life, and to so many other trans people out there than just happiness. And that it's not a failure to not be happy all the time, even if it seems like everyone around you is doing great. That was what I was trying to do.
I hope you have a good day, and a good rest of your week. And that you feel like you made even just a tiny difference in the world.
I hope you feel like you have the strength to help others, as well as other people may feel inspired to reach out to others whom they feel could use a hand.
The world needs more light in these dark times, and honestly this interaction with you has been a highlight, thank you
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blatantvirucide-a · 1 year
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KNOWING YOUR PARTNER WELL CAN POTENTIALLY MAKE WRITING TOGETHER A LOT EASIER. ( REPOST DO NOT REBLOG ! )
○    name: penname lottie, but my name's marcelle ○    pronouns: she/her or they/them are cool ○    preference of communication: pms and sometimes discord !  depends on how involved talking gets; tumblr pms don't function the greatest ○     name of muse(s): Alex !  and then several others over on @natterghast ○    experience/how long (months/years?): uhhhh, for rp, my whole life ?  i grew up with the concept. i didn't start written rp until my preteens though — and didn't rp on tumblr until i was about 17. (i am 28) ○    platforms you’ve used: tumblr, discord, msn, some forums (briefly), and mmos ○    best experience: i have a lot of good experiences !  uh, idr what i talked about when i filled this out last. but this time i think i'll talk about when me, my cousin and a friend of ours were playing W.oW classic for a short stint. we spent a good portion of our time rping !  we were a funky lil trio. (forsaken, troll and orc respectively.) my forsaken rogue, Liselottie Lowe (LEE-suh-laht luh-veh) was the deadpan snarker of the group. she struggled with BDD heavily due to being in a body that wasn't her own, and she died a very long time ago; she was alive during the fall of Lordaeron. her companions were a flirtatious and adventurous troll ranger, and a soft spoken but dependable orc shaman. she grew very protective of them !  one of my best memories of them is from when we accompanied our friend on his shaman quest. our characters did a lot of talking. ○    rp pet peeves / dealbreakers: there's always a few and i don't know if i want to list all of them. with Alex ?  anyone with game familiarity that puts their own notions of the character onto Alex, which it will never meet. it's awkward and makes plotting / conversation stilted. a similar dealbreaker is when someone wants their character to fight Alex right out of the gate. i enjoy the challenge of writing action scenes, but i don't know how to tell someone that Alex will just kill their oc. furthermore, conflict of that nature isn't a big focus of mine. i would much rather write Alex fighting alongside someone. ○    fluff, angst, or smut: fluff and angst are my preference !  but i've yet to write smut and with Alex i don't plan to. Alex would only ever have intercourse with someone under very special circumstances. ○    plots or memes: little mix of both !  i have a preference for plotting, but it's not a hard and fast rule; and i've had good experiences simply working off memes before. either way my favorite thing is just having fun discussing our characters. (with the intention to plot something or not.) i regret that i get cold feet sometimes and don't always talk when i want to. ○    long or short replies: i lean towards a happy medium. i like to write concisely but with enough to say or do to immerse a reader. if our characters are talking in a coffee shop, i might have my character accidentally knock over their coffee, because i find descriptive environments very helpful for setting a scene. still, whenever i dither too much i find myself unsatisfied and am likely to sit and restructure the whole paragraph to trim it down. the technical aspects of writing please me a good bit so i end up focusing on them. ○    best time to write: sometimes i'll be thinking about a thread and get struck by a particular sentence that i want to write and i'll write right then, but most times i do my writing in the morning after waking up. i socialize with my friends in the evening, so if i haven't written anything by the afternoon i'm not likely to write at all unless i specifically set aside time to do so. ○    are you like your muse(s): i'm not sure if Alex and i share any similarities. if we do, it's nothing i'm conscious of !  if anyone thinks we do lemme know, i'm curious
tagged by @ebonyforged thanks !! tagging @dynamoprotocol @kharimera @deathmcth @jfouler
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sjukpojke · 4 years
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notdelusionalatall · 6 months
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i obsess and nitpick and worry to the point where i get physically sick and tired, and not just mentally :))))))
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chatonmagique · 5 months
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Putting in so much effort just to look disgusting has me feeling like this
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helpmebepositive · 5 years
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Today is one of those days where I go from "I don't look too shabby today!" to "Why the fuck do I look like a male bodybuilder in his bulking phase" within three seconds
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When your issues come together for your own good
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selfaware-despair · 3 years
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Journaling is all fun and well until you reread your old entries and realize you’ve been mentally ill since 12 years old.
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