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"Tips For Navigating Men That Aren't The One": Part 2

this is the second part of a blog post I made some time ago with the same title. If you haven't read that one please go read that here. The first post was both a satirical and basic set of rules that you can apply to help separate good men or potential partners from the rest. I fully intend to make this second one a more in-depth version of the first. Adding on to make a more complete and secure set of rules to follow.

Disclaimer: As stated in the first post, you don't have to follow these rules if you don't want to, these are what I believe helped/helps me. Thank you. <3

I hope that you're doing and feeling well and that all of your desires come to you effortlessly. 🤍

Rule #1: Please be aware that men will choose for their ideal life/ or dream.

As a woman, at least once in our lives, we may discover a man who cares for us or maybe even loves us but will choose someone over us who is completely different, looks different, behaves different, thinks different, or simply does not even fit into the same category we separate ourselves into. And this is okay, this is okay because we have to understand that men will always choose someone who fits better into the lifestyle they desire to live or the lifestyle they feel they want to live.

for example, a man who is wealthy and is looking for someone high maintenance or interested in the life that he is living is going to seek out someone who fits the criteria for what he feels is ideal. A man who is religious or has a pretty saturated cultural background and fully intends to remain that way may seek out someone of that same religious or cultural background.

Now, remember, stray away from subjecting yourself to a critical and harmful mindset that pushes you to believe that you are below someone or the issue. You are not. People will simply chase after what they think is ideal. But also, if you are a high-value woman yourself and believe that you are a prize, have a lot to offer, and anyone would be lucky to be with you in the first place, do not dwell on a man choosing someone who you may perceive to be not as well sorted out then you are or someone who lives a completely different lifestyle than you do. We often find that men will go to who they feel understands and reflects them. Whether he's a drug addict or a model for Ambicrombi and Fitch.

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Rule #2: Beware of men who do not truly respect you.

If a man can cuss you out, belittle you, refuse to validate your emotions, ignore your boundaries, apologize without change occurring afterward, lie to you, make fun of your appearance (physically or even your fashion), not prioritize your time together or communicating with you by choosing to put things above that, etc. He does not respect you. It is your responsibility as your own woman and your own person to immediately remove him from your space as soon as you notice that he doesn't respect you. Not only as a woman but as a person.

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Rule #3: If he can disappear or leave he doesn't deserve to be there.

A man who loves, respects, and honors his woman would never willingly disappear or leave his woman to be alone and all by herself or face the world alone. This could be as simple as him leaving you alone at a function or a party or in life by ghosting or disappearing.

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Rule #4: It's your responsibility to identify your triggers and your trauma.

The art of seeking out, attracting, and choosing a good and worthy partner if that's what you're looking for needs to start with healing and identifying patterns in your own life. You undermine the work of your spirit guides and ignore your own self-value by continuing to choose men or participate in bad habits because of your trauma. You have an unhealthy attachment style? Work on yourself and do what's necessary to change that so that you can securely be in a relationship. Have you forgotten to realize that your past relationships and partners may be a reflection of your parental relationship and parents? It's time to heal that trauma so that you can be attracted to better and choose better rather than being attracted to and loving a narcissist or someone who exudes narcissist behavior just like your mother or your father.

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Rule #5: See men for their actions and not for their words or their beauty.

Sometimes, and more often than not, we miss out on the crucial step of seeing people for who they truly are, the types of things that they do in comparison to what they say, and their behaviors. You have to do a better job at identifying red flags. Sometimes when we love people or are infatuated with people we become blind to the truth. Repeat after me, "It is my responsibility to identify red flags of people who come into my space." Remember this for later. We get caught up, confused, played, and mistreated when we don't do a good job at holding people to their actions and behavior and we just listen to the dream they're selling us instead. We must hold people accountable even if we love them or want to be with them. Because nobody else will do this for you.

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Rule #6: Remind yourself of the truth when recovering from breakups.

When you get out of a relationship with a narcissistic partner or someone who hurt you and didn't care, someone who didn't turn out to be the person you thought they were. Remember that it was your love that made them so special, so kind, so gentle. That they were none of those things at least not to you. Remember, "It was my love that made this person so special, not them." and "It is my responsibility to hold them accountable for them not being very kind or good to me." If that person loved you or cared for you the way you thought they had, they would not have done what they did to you.

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Rule #7: Activate your "dark-feminine" energy and preserve your "light-feminine" energy.

Your dark feminine energy is the part of you that protects you against anyone who tries to come in and do wrong to you, especially men. strengthen your intuition, be able to identify when someone has good intentions and when they don't, and do what's necessary to step into your dark feminine energy so that she can build boundaries that bad men and bad people cannot cross. Save your light feminine energy for those who truly deserve it, your compassion, your nurturing, and your soft interior for those who earn your love, and deserve your love. Repeat after me, "It is my responsibility to harness my power and look out for my heart and my peace."

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Rule #8: No more wasting your energy or your time on men who can't give you what you want, don't give you want, and don't offer anything for what you offer.

this one is quite self explanitory. Again, cannot. do not. and don't offer anything that you want. is a no go. Those types of people are a waste of time and space in your life. If you are manifesting marriage, a divine connection, true love, or a long-term partnership why are we sitting around wasting our time, energy, and love on someone non-committal and unhealed? Ladies, why? Do better.

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Rule #9: No more "but.. he changed." excuses or sympathizing.

I've just told you that it is your responsibility to identify red flags and bad behavior. Hold yourself to that, and hold the women in your life to that standard as well. "bUt He WaS dIfFereNt aNd hAd EveRyThINg BefORE I sAcRifICEd EvEryThInG aND nOW hES cRAzy, MeAN, aNd iNcApAbLE oF beHavInG LIkE aN adUlT!" Listen to how that sounds. We know that it is very difficult to unlearn bad and old behaviors so how do we come to the conclusion that after someone was "perfect" they suddenly began to behave differently or display outrageous expressions of behavior. It just doesn't make any sense.

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Rule #10: Be careful what you wish for.

This one can be kept short and sweet, don't manifest a partner, don't tell the universe you would like love...without being specific about what you're asking for. Set your intentions and desires straight.

"I'd like a partner." ✗ WRONG!

"I'd like a healed partner." "A balanced partner." "I'd like the right partner." ✓ WELL DONE.

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These are my ten rules, I hope these inspired you, or you found something useful here. Remember, what you put out into the world is what you get back, look out for yourself, and uphold accountability above all. I love you. <3!

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🌸✨ Embrace Your Inner Dream Girl: Empowerment and Self-Discovery! 💃💖

Becoming your dream girl is a journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and empowerment. It's about embracing your unique qualities and becoming the best version of yourself. Here are some steps to embark on your journey of becoming your dream girl:

1️⃣ Define Your Dream: Take the time to explore your dreams and aspirations. What qualities and characteristics do you envision in your dream girl? Is it about confidence, kindness, intelligence, creativity, or something else? Define what being your dream girl means to you.

2️⃣ Embrace Self-Love: Cultivate a deep sense of self-love and acceptance. Recognize your worth and value, appreciating yourself for who you are. Embrace your strengths and acknowledge areas where you want to grow. Treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and respect.

3️⃣ Set Empowering Goals: Set specific, actionable goals that align with your vision of being your dream girl. Break them down into smaller, achievable steps. Focus on personal growth, whether it's improving your skills, developing healthy habits, or pursuing your passions.

4️⃣ Take Care of Your Well-Being: Prioritize your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Engage in self-care practices that nurture and rejuvenate you. Exercise regularly, eat nourishing foods, practice mindfulness or meditation, and get enough rest. Taking care of yourself is essential in becoming your best self.

5️⃣ Cultivate Confidence: Work on building self-confidence and self-belief. Celebrate your achievements and embrace your unique qualities. Challenge negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations. Surround yourself with uplifting and supportive influences.

6️⃣ Personal Style Expression: Explore and express your personal style. Experiment with different fashion choices that reflect your personality and make you feel confident and empowered. Dress in a way that makes you feel like your authentic self.

7️⃣ Embrace Self-Expression: Find ways to express yourself creatively. Engage in activities that allow you to explore your talents and passions, whether it's through art, writing, dancing, or any other form of creative expression. Let your authentic self shine through.

8️⃣ Cultivate Positive Relationships: Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who uplift and inspire you. Build relationships that encourage personal growth and allow you to be your true self. Let go of toxic connections that hinder your progress.

9️⃣ Practice Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude and appreciation. Recognize and celebrate your accomplishments, big or small. Be grateful for the journey and the lessons it brings. Gratitude helps you stay present and positive along the way.

🌟 Embrace the journey of becoming your dream girl with love, patience, and self-compassion. Remember that it's about progress, not perfection. Embrace your unique qualities, pursue your passions, and unleash your inner beauty. You have the power to become your dream girl and create a life that aligns with your vision. Embrace the journey and watch yourself flourish into the amazing woman you are meant to be. 💫💖

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hi there pretty community! i'm back & looking for some inspo to remain more active here. please interact for me to check and follow u. lots of love <333

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👑 Embracing Your Inner Dream Girl 👑

Do you ever look at someone and think, "She's got it all together, she's living her dream life"? Well, guess what? You have the power to be that dream girl too – your very own version of her. Here's how to tap into your inner magic and become the dream girl you've always admired:

1️⃣ Define Your Dream: What does your dream life look like? Take some time to visualize it – from your career to your relationships, to your daily routine.

2️⃣ Identify Your Strengths: What are your unique qualities? Recognize your strengths and the things that make you shine. Embrace them with pride.

3️⃣ Set Clear Goals: Break down your dream life into actionable goals. These can be big or small, but each step will bring you closer to your vision.

4️⃣ Self-Care Rituals: Prioritize self-care like it's a non-negotiable. Treat yourself with love, from skincare routines to indulgent baths.

5️⃣ Confidence Boost: Boost your self-confidence by dressing in a way that makes you feel empowered. Wear what reflects your personality and style.

6️⃣ Positive Mindset: Cultivate a positive mindset. Practice self-love and affirmations daily. Remind yourself of your worth and potential.

7️⃣ Expand Your Knowledge: Never stop learning. Invest time in gaining knowledge and skills that align with your passions and dreams.

8️⃣ Network and Connect: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Build a network that aligns with your goals.

9️⃣ Celebrate Progress: Celebrate your achievements along the way. Each step forward is worth acknowledging and celebrating.

🔟 Stay Open to Change: Your dream girl is a dynamic concept. As you grow and evolve, so does she. Embrace change and adapt as needed.

Remember, being your dream girl isn't about perfection – it's about embracing your uniqueness and pursuing the life you desire. You have the power to design a life that aligns with your values and aspirations. Go ahead, step into your dream girl shoes and start creating the life you've always envisioned. 🌟✨

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Can you please add a Vagacial section to your beauty routine post

here you go! xo

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sooo when’s the next yt vid 🫣

it’s coming I PROMISE. kinda unintentionally rebranded my life a little bit so my content won’t be the same. there’s a lot happening right now but my next upload will FOR SURE be either a “where have i been GRWM” or a sit down video on a #DreamGirlJourney or #ThePrissyGirlAgenda topic.

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Journal/Diary Prompts

What makes you feel safe?

What are you currently looking forward to?

Positive things about your day (even on a bad day)

Affirmation Page (I am..I will..I can..)

Where does your soul need to be liberated?

What are things you need to let go of in your life?

A list of bad habits you need to break?

What types of thoughts, behaviors, and patterns did you experience today (especially on a bad day)

What are you grateful for?

Your goals for the week/month/year

What do you love about this time in your life?

Things you need to get off your chest/write about something you've been avoiding addressing

Boundaries & Standards (some you need to set, what are they)

Thoughts on the new month or month ahead of you (desires, goals, etc.)

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The 12 spiritual laws of the Universe 🤍🪐✨

This one is for my spiritual Queens and Kings who are wondering about the twelve spiritual laws for reasons like bettering yourself or anything else that may bring you to wondering what the twelve laws are. I love the universe, and so without further ado, let's get into those laws. <3

Bless.

1) The Law of Divine Oneness: This law really helps us to recognize that everything is essentially connected to everything or something else. That every thought, word, movement/action, and belief of ours affects others and the universe around us regardless of whether or not the people are near us or far away, typically, beyond time and space.

2) The Law of Mentalism: The all is mind. The universe is mental. Ideas lead to the manifestation of things and events. Thoughts create our state of existence and the nature of our experiences here on Earth. "Be responsible for anything you create by being responsible for everything you think."

3) The Law of Vibration: Everything in the Universe moves, vibrates, and travels in a circular pattern like the way the Earth spins on an axis. Those same principles of vibration in the physical world equally apply to our thoughts, feelings, desires, and will in the Etheric world. Each sound, thing, and even thought has its own vibrational frequency unique to itself.

Note: Etheric is defined as something being of or related to the heavens or a spiritual world or plane of existence. Etheric is the less common alternative to the word ethereal.

4) The Law of Action: This law helps us to understand that we must engage and/or take part in actions that support our thoughts, dreams, emotions, and words. Simply meaning that we should put actions behind our hopes and dreams to accomplish what we desire to.

5) The Law of Correspondence: The principles of physics that explain the physical world such as energy, light, vibration, and motion have their corresponding principles in the etheric world or universe. "As above, so below."

6) The Law of Cause & Effect: This universal law teaches us that nothing ever happens by chance/coincidence or outside of the universal laws. every action and/or thought has a reaction or consequence. "We reap what we sow" meaning that, basically, what goes around comes right back around. ⭐

7) The Law of Attraction: The law of attraction demonstrates how we create the things,events, and people that we come in contact with within our lives. Our thoughts, feelings, words and actions produce energies which in turn attract like energies. Negative energies attract negative things and positive energies attract positive things. ⭐

Note: This is everyone favorite law as well as the most famous this law is most often brought up within the conversation of manifestation. We need to think as if we already have what we desire and think positive to manifest things as we should.

8) The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy: This law helps us to understand that all people have the ability and power to change the conditions of their lives. Higher vibrations will ALWAYS consume and transform lower vibrations. Thus, each of us can change the energies in our lives by understanding the universal laws and applying the principals in such a way as to inspire/affect change.

9) The Law of Relativity: Each person is given or will recieve a series of problems, tests, or lessons for the purpose of strengthening the light within each and every one of us. This law teaches us to compare our problems to others problems into its perceeding perspective. No matter how bad we percieve our situation or issue to be. There is always someone who is in a way worst situation than we are.

Note: This does not mean attempt to invalidate someone elses feelings or experiences at all nor does this mean to allow people to do it to you.

10) The Law of Polarity: This law teaches us that everything is on a continuum and has an opposite. We can suppress and transform undesirable thoughts by concentrating on the opposite pole. ⭐

Note: This is very important!!! learning the skill of pushing the negatives out of your mind and finding the positives and the light in every situation is fundamental.

11) The Law of Rhythms: This law teaches us that everything vibrates and moves on a certain rythm. These rhythems establish seasons, stages of development, and patterns. Each cycle reflects the regularity of the Universe. Some people have mastered the art of rising above negative patterns or parts of a cycle by never letting negative things to penetrate their consiousness.

Note: Changing how you react to things is what breaks patterns!

12) The Laws of Gender: The laws of gender manifests in all things masculine and feminine. It is the law that governs what we know as creation. This law demands everything in nature is both masculine and feminine. Both are neccessary for life to exist.

Note: I believe in energies over here. It is absolutely possible to possess masculine or feminine energies regardless of sex. Gender is energy it is mental as well. Sex is physical. Be who you are. Embrace that.

I hope that this was an enjoyable read and that this was helpful for you as well. <3

Stay Pretty, -𝓑

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☾The Phases of The Moon & Her Meanings☽

Hello again, I know I've not been as active as I usually would be, by active I mean actually typing blog post and not just reposting things. Lately I've been gone because I was experiencing an abundance of change in my life that felt like it shook the foundation that I'd been sitting upon for the longest while. And through these moments, on one particular night (September 16, 2021) while I was talking to a friend I made a sudden realization. The moon that night was extremely bright and my crown chakra was blocked and I was waist deep in the midst of the cloudiness that was my mental state. The sudden change that I spoke of earlier, had taken place, September 13, 2021. The Moon that evening had caught my attention as well the same way I had on the 16th when I had a breakthrough about the presence of the Moon.

On the thirteenth of September, the Moon was a First Quarter Moon, and on the sixteenth of September, the Moon was a Waning Gibbous Moon. I'd began to look into the phases of the Moon and their spiritual meanings that night September 16th, 2021. I'd always been particularly drawn to the Moon and her beauty but I'd never taken much time to look into what the phases of the moon, really, absolutely meant. Now with further ado, let's get into it. 🌙🤍

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What does the Moon represent?:

The Moon represents powerful feminine energy she represents wisdom, birth, death, and reincarnation. The Moon also represents what we would refer to as our "inner-world". If you're into astrology, and if you're not and you're new here. Your moon sign reflects who you are on the inside; our hidden desires, desires, fears and stresses, dreams, our shadow-self. Your moon sign is reflective of your personality. Your moon sign is about your heart, your domestic habits (how you relax and what truly makes you feel safe and comfortable), Your sense of security (what truly brings you comfort and security), Your gut instincts (the way you react/instinctively and intuitively), and the way of taking care of and nurturing others.

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🌑 The New Moon: 🌑

The darkness is symbolic of the beginning. It represents birthing or the planting of a seed. The New Moon represents the start of something new. During this phase, it's an ideal time for you to set clear goals and intentions and/or start new projects or new ideas. Be sure to let the Universe now your goals and ideas. This is a perfect time for manifestation. ______________________________________________

🌒 The Waxing Crescent Moon: 🌒

This phase of the moon symbolizes growth of that seed. There is now a forward motion and hope for something more to come into fruition. A gush of energy and a forward moving strength to utilize. Plans, dreams, and ideas are growing. This is the perfect time to identify your focus for growth and commitment.

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🌓 First Quarter (Half-Moon): 🌓

The seed is now starting to make roots. The phase of the moon that is First Quarter, it symbolizes strength; deteremation, focus, decision-making, and commitment to action. Remain positive, refrain from being your biggest critic. Keep moving forward, utilize your emotional energy and creative passion.

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🌔Waxing Gibbous:🌔

At this phase, there are buds preparing to bloom. This symbolizes the developmental phase. This is where ideas and plans can be refined before the next stage. This stage represents gaining something. For example, money, skills, relationships, etc.

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🌕 Full Moon: 🌕

At this phase, the seed is now at full bloom, it's representative of fertility, transformation, completion, and abundance. This is the perfect time to let go of, release, or end things. That goes for relationships, jobs, negative thoughts, stresses/worries, etc. It's the perfect time for guidance, healing and magic. As well as, the perfect time for recharging your energy and crystals, oracle cards, and jewelry.

🌙 Note: Be wary of the full moon's power. Tension, polarity, intense thoughts and emotional behavior may be at a high. Write down your feelings and preform a releasing ceremony if absolutely necessary.

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🌖Waning Gibbous:🌖

During this phase of the moon, this is a perfect time to focus your energy on getting rid of bad habits, stresses, or negative thinking. The waning gibbous is also known as the "dissemination moon" which brings about energy for better communication, revelation, and completion.

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🌗Third Quarter (Half Moon):🌗

This moon is another "Half Moon" but it's decreasing this time. The seeds planted were grown, gathered, and brought in. This is the perfect time to stop, contemplate, introspect, reflect, and re-evaluate or the future that's to come. Think about all of your accomplishments and get rid of negative energy to prepare for the new beginning.

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🌘Waning Crescent Moon: 🌘

At this phase, the moon is illuminated less than one half. And still decreasing until it's all gone. It is now the ending of an old cycle and the start of approaching a new one has begun. It is the time to think things over and contemplate which things to release and prepare yourself for a new beginning.

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work with the universe and the moon, she'll help you. <3

Stay Pretty, -𝓑

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How to have a successful/fun dramafree highschool experience?

Tips to have a successful and drama free highschool experience 💕🎒

Academic:

Prioritize your studies: focus on what you need to focus on, get assignments done, keep your grades at a respectable standard. The idea is to make sure that you get things out of the way before it gets too late. If you fail a class and have to repeat it, sometimes it slows you down.

Keep in contact with your counselor: nobody wants to be in classes they don't like or way behind on something. Speak to your counselor about switching out of classes you may not want to take, adding classes to your schedule that you may have failed and need to retake, speak to your counselor about graduation and education plans if necessary.

Please don't be afraid to ask for help: from your teachers, from your peers, from your counselors, etc. You may feel like it's embarrassing to speak in class or ask a question in class but chances are your classmates may have the same question. If you struggle with social anxiety, you can try speaking to your teachers after class, emailing them to ask for private tutoring/help or to ask a simple question.

Social:

Stay away from people who are constantly mixed up in something: sometimes the people we hang out with can pull us into a lump of shit, respectfully. My advice to you is to stay out of things that have nothing to do with you, if you're asked for your input on a situation you can simply tell them you don't want to be involved or you can give your input and move forward.

Protect your peace: it's important to acknowledge the fact that you aren't obligated to press an issue if it's not that big of a deal or it's not bothering you all that much. Someone being shady? Okay, so what, if you don't have any haters then you're not doing anything important anyway. Someone puts their hands on you? defend yourself always, never swing unless they swing first. Something that someone did bugs you a little bit? Don't let them see you sweat that's exactly what they want.

Stay away from boys if you're into them and just started high school: They can be distracting and to be completely honest with you, I wish I would've stayed away from my 9th-grade boy too. We do a lot of stupid things when we're 14 years old, it's inevitable but try and distance yourself from them and avoid being in relationships or situationships with them until you're ready and are sure. Boys will always be there, your chance to get a high school education will not. (in most cases)

note: Stay away from upperclassmen boys too. And I know you always hear this it's for a reason. They don't really want anything serious or want you for you in most situations, even though they're older they still have a lot of dumb boy shit to get past. Leave them alone and tell them to leave you alone.

This is a good time to start establishing better standards and boundaries: Boundaries are about how you want others to treat you and how you respect yourself. Standards are about what you will accept in someone you're in a relationship with (platonic or romantic) and what you will not.

example: boundaries ="I will not be disrespected." Standards = "If I'm to date a boy/girl he/she must have a job and/or a car"

Participate in extra-curricular activities: This could be good for you!! Join ASB, play a sport, join cheer, take electives you like! Go to dances, go to games, etc. If you want to go or do something do it before you get too busy or you run out of time to do it. And go to your school library, get acquainted with your librarians, find out what time of books you like, get into reading too.

Stay Pretty, -𝓑

#high school #high school advice #school #dreamgirljourney #dream girl #self improvement #self discovery #healthy relationships #raise your standards #standards #conflict #drama #boundaries

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✨Dream Girl Year Journal ✨

🌺 🌻 🌺 🌻 🌺 🌻 This year we blooming  🌺 🌻 🌺 🌻 🌺 🌻

Inspired by @2pretty​ ´s Dream Girl Guide.

I´ve seen a lot of girlies making these and it has inspired me so much to discipline myself to make a whole year of dreams come true. Sooo...

My dream girl is a financially,  emotionally and mentally stable woman. She just happens to be gorgeous. She´s highly educated and succesfull in both academia and her programming career. She´s constantly looking for ways to deepen her knowledge in art and science. She´s living by herself in a lovely and bright plant-filled apartment where something amazing is always cooking.

12 qualities/steps to become her:

 She has a programming job

This month I´m working on my CV and sending it to land a part time data analyst job. I´ve come to realise I´ll need more money for the next steps and the experience will be worth it once I finish my major.

I´ll start journaling about this month soon!

She has clear skin/ beautiful hair

I´ve already saved for my long waited isotretinoin treatment. My acne is not terrible tbh but I want perfect looking skin so bad. I´m done with breakouts. I´ve already gotten an appointment with my dermatologist and he´s confident that I´ll only need around 6/7 months.

Also, I´ve already started my curly girl journey and its looking amazing, this month I´m investing in morehair masks, better conditioners and setting the perfect morning and nightime hair routine.

She´s fluent in 3 languages

My mother language is spanish. Also, I´m already certified in English and French but tbh my french is pretty rusty, this month I´m starting an online course to talk to native speakers and perfect my wrtting. 

 She´s an amazing cook

I have already started cooking for myself and my family but this month I´m making time for new recipes and getting some technical skills. My bf is totally up for doing this one with me!

She has a great body

I´ve been procratinating my chloe ting´s challenges. I´ve been doing a routine here and there but I haven´t made proper time to take cake of this. I´m looking to gain some weight and start getting stronger in my upper-body. 

She´s skilled at 4 object-orientented languages, also Excel and SQL

I hope I´m already working somewhere for this. I´m going to start Data-camping and setting up a great github to prepare for a proper full time data scientist job.

She´s done with her Social Service.

I´ve just started my social service so I hope by this month I´m almost done. This will be a wrapping up my project, presenting article and lecture month. 

She has finished her university classes.

By this month, I hope I´m almost done with the 9 courses I have left. So this will be all work, no fun, get that perfect score for your masters month.

She´s making some coin.

I´ve already started a small (tragically small) savings account. This month I´m going to be working in selling stuff and trying to get some investing knowledge

10.  She has a beautiful smile.

If everything works by this point I will have saved up for half my braces treatment. I´ve long wanted to do this, I was hoping to get a loan for it but since Covid I had to pospone it. Now I feel I can get it with my own saved money (and parents help lol). So everything happens for a reason and even though I´ll be 23 with braces I´ll be 24 with a great smile.

11. She´s finishing her thesis

This! I´m already savouring the moment I can say, I´m through! By this month I will have more than a year and a half to work on my thesis so I can´t let a single week go without doing some advances. 2022 I can already feel it.

12. She´s mindfull

I have to work on my anxiety and depression every-single-day of my life. This won´t be the month of  my mental health awareness. I want to take a trip with friends this month, when I´m done with school and some other  family related stuff. I want to take a month to breathe before I start getting ready for my masters.

Steps to create her:

I have divided my steps into daily and eventual steps.

So daily:

Health related

1. Eating healthy: Different salads everyday, heavy breakfasts, no soda or processed sugar

2. 2.5 liters of water 

3. Stretching/mild yoga  routine 

Beauty related

4. Washing face every morning and before bed. Doing skincare

5. Deep conditioning, braiding before bed

Career related

6. Work on thesis at least an hour everyday

My hour working on this is over so I´m going to leave it there. 

Thank you to you all for posting and inspiring me. I hope this will be a great eyar to each and everyone of you.

#dreamgirljourney #dreamgirljournal #journal #goals

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How to raise & maintain standards:

when navigating romantic and platonic relationships and how to deal with disrespect and remain in control

Everyone wants to feel appreciated and loved by someone deemed worthy of their time and energy. I’d really like to discuss how to raise your standards and maintain your standards my fellow dream girl comrades. Everyone knows that while bettering yourself and being the best version of yourself that you possibly can be it’s equally important that we’re highly selective about the type of people we choose to invite into our space/lives whether it be platonic or romantic relationships we’re talking about. Always protect your peace. Be picky about your significant others and your friends like the way Cher is picky about the shoes she puts on her feet and the boys she chooses to date.

1. Are you a high-quality candidate for friendship and romantic relationships yourself?

The very first principle of attracting high-quality people into your life is being a high-quality individual yourself. For example, I’m not saying you need to own designer statement pieces to attract a rich man, I'm saying that you also need to have something of your own to bring to the table when you’re looking for high-quality people. You need to make the effort to better yourself and put your best foot forward before you seek any type of partner or companionship. Think about this quote: “Act like you're blessed, Talk like you're blessed, Walk like you're blessed, Think like you're blessed. Put actions behind your faith, and one day it will become reality.” The idea that we need to embody what we desire is true in most aspects. You can’t be a low-quality person who doesn’t reflect what she believes she wants to attract into her space. All material things aside.

2. Where’s your list of the things you’d want in a significant other or friend?

I have one of my own in my diary, it’s so important that you develop a list or vision of the type of person you’d like to see in your orbit. My own list says:

♡ A financial provider (Someone who has a job, Someone who can take care of me in the material aspect)

♡ Loyal

♡ Long-term/ marriage minded

♡ Wants children/ a family

♡ Someone who does a sport or has productive hobbies away from me

♡ Someone quiet or introverted (this isn’t a requirement, I’ve dated extroverts before)

♡ Someone who doesn’t smoke or drink heavily (Marijuana is always okay with me)

♡ Someone who’s emotionally mature and knows how to communicate

♡ A feminist

♡ An educated individual

♡ Someone who cares about their appearance and self-care

♡ Someone with at least one talent

♡ Someone with an appetite for living and learning

♡ Someone with good work ethic, self-discipline/control, and long-term goals

It's extremely important that you're abundantly clear about what it is that you desire.

3. Hold everyone who expresses the need to be around you to the requirements you’ve built for yourself and others:

Understand that how someone does one thing is how they do everything, please don’t make it so that you ignore your own standards to meet someone else who’s below you where they’re at or halfway. You need to be consistent with this for it to work. FIlter out the people who don’t fit your standards from those who do.

How to handle disrespect:

@empressofdiamonds has a really good in-depth post on how to handle disrespect. I added this into this topic because I believe it’s important that you learn how to detect and handle disrespect when establishing standards and removing/avoiding people that don't meet your standards and don’t deserve your time and energy.

1) Never allow the disrespecter to get away with their efforts to disrespect you

Remind them that you won’t tolerate it, remember to remain stern and in control when you’re telling someone what you will and won’t allow. “You break patterns by responding differently.”

2) Always cut contact with those who think it’s okay for them to disrespect you or speak to you in whatever way they see fit.

3) Never make room for people who resort to violence or clear aggressive ways of expressing emotion and use those tactics to disrespect you and others

Remember that anything you don't like or don't want in your orbit is mutable. You're the creator of your reality, you decide what's real and what's fake.

Stay Pretty, - 𝓑

#dreamgirljourney #y2kblog #standards

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13 things I really want to do in the near future:

✰ Work on my self-control and self-discipline

✰ Learn how to read Tarot cards

✰ Learn how to read palms

✰ Learn how to drive

✰ Purchase a book

✰ Teach myself or learn how to read/write Spanish

✰ Expand my vocabulary

✰ Publish my poetry

✰ Establish more routines in my daily life

✰ Write more in my dream girl binder

✰ Get a job/ save up more money

✰ Buy one luxury item

✰ Learn how to cornrow

✰ Plant rose quartz in someone's car

me at the moment ^

#to do list #dreamgirljourney #dream girl #self care #self discovery #y2kblog