"Prioritize your mental health over anyone's comprehension. Your peace and happiness matter most, regardless of others' understanding."馃挏
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馃寛 | Asexual Pigment Stars
馃寛 | Divider Credit
ID: A four piece gifset of dark purple pigment slime being drizzled onto black clay. It is colored purple and mixtures of gray with clear stars around.
Divider: A rectangle of the asexual flag's stripes in smaller rectangles.
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We go live TOMORROW! 馃挏
Tune into the first episode of "Ace of Hearts: A Podcast for Alloromantic Asexuals" tomorrow morning (4/24/2024)
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Spotify
Podcast description: "The dating world is no easy place for asexuals - people who experience little to no sexual attraction. But none of us have to go it alone. Take a step into our digital clubhouse, a space for alloromantic asexuals to share stories, tips, laments, and laughs. So grab an iced drink, sink into that fuzzy pink beanbag, and join us as we navigate all things love."
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Sharing a recent commission that holds a very special place in my heart 馃ス馃
My commissions are still open!!
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馃枻馃挏 Happy international asexuality day! 馃枻馃挏馃悁
Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity 馃枻馃挏
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ACE WEEK COMIC...01!!
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I hate how oddly sexualized breasts are, and how oddly sexualized bedrooms are, and I hate how anything not inherently sexual gets sexualized, it was hot outside and me and my boyfriend were watching his friend repair his truck at my house and I had a shirt off and only my binder on since yk it was hot out, and the other guys also had their shirts off and it was considered fine, but when me and my boyfriend went to go relax in the ac in my room I changed from my binder to a sports bra cause my ribs hurt and kept a shirt off cause I was still sweating a lot and really hot, and my mom came in complaining about how I need to wear a shirt and how it's weird to wear only a bra in a bedroom with your significant other even though she knows I'm ace and she thinks it's weird since he isn't ace and I have breasts and bedrooms are sexualized, why is it okay to not have a shirt as one assigned gender and not the other, why are certain environments more sexualized than others, it makes no sense especially since we weren't doing anything sexual, neither me nor him made it weird, but my mom was making a huge deal out of having tits in a bedroom
maybe it's cause I'm autistic or maybe cause I'm asexual but I think the oversexualization of literally everything is weird
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I just gave a sermon at my church today about asexuality and how to be an ally. Not only did I get a lot of comments about how much people liked it (and how it was easy to understand for so many old folks), but one old lady came up to me afterwards with tears in her eyes and she said, "I'm 77 years old and I finally know what I am. Thank you." And that just made everything I've done worth it.
(also, thank you @onbearfeet for letting me use one of your blog posts. It resonated with a lot of people)
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"Love's language has many dialects. Cuddling close, holding hands, and sharing quiet moments - these are the whispers that speak volumes about the strength of our bond."
It's important that your Asexual partner knows that you can do these things without the fear that it will lead to more. When your partner can relax those fears, then they can fully enjoy these types of intimacy without the anxiety typically involved. 馃挏
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Many Aces go through a process where they learn what society conventionally considers "sexy" and learn how to feign sexual attraction, without experiencing it themselves, based on those standards. This is known as "hacking the allo-gorithm"
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I was going through my health textbook and someone wrote "fuck that" under the lines about ending friendships because dating is more important and if that is not the most aromantic/aroace thing ever, I don't know what is.
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Happy Pride...2!!
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