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sovereignsystem · 10 days
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plural lawyer call that a justice system
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flirts-with-dragons · 9 months
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Being in a system whose members all silently influence every decision/thought ever made makes for a really weird gender.
I'll ask "which gender we feelin today" and the masses will respond each with their own answer all at the same time so it's completely unintelligible and no decision is ever made
I just say I'm a pangender with tboy swag lol
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rusanya-does-edits · 4 months
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This User Romanticizes Their [Plurality Trait] Userboxes
We're sick of plurmisics and exclusionism and, as you can probably see from the last few posts, we absolutely were going through our old google photos. Anyways -- here you all go, we can't find the endogenic one so like, wdk maybe we'll have that eventually:
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xx-keilakreepz-xx · 1 year
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Traumagenic plural culture is relating 2 FNAF songs w themes of revenge
WE ARE AWARE OF WHAT YOU DID WE ARE AWARE OF WHAT WE DID WE WILL ESCAPE WE’LL FIND A WAY WE WILL ESCAPE AND YOU WILL STAY /lyr
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rustybutterknife · 4 months
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Microdosing polyamory by dating a system
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collectivewarmth · 2 months
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one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.
you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.
most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.
it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.
and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.
past, present, and future.
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thattheater-kid · 5 months
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Here’s my metaphor for systemhood that I tell my singlet friends.
Imagine you’re playing a first person video game. You have the controller, you control your character. It’s a normal first person game. You are an alter, the character is the body. This is fronting.
Other people live with you. Sometimes, they come into the room and sit and watch while you play. They sometimes try to guide you, give you advice on what to do next. They don’t always agree, and they can argue with each other. Other times they scream at you that you’re doing everything wrong and you suck at this game. This is co-consciousness.
Imagine how distracting it would be for people around you to tell you what to do, or to scream at each other or at you, even if they have good intentions. It wouldn’t be easy to focus on your game, would it?
Then sometimes, something happens in the game that prompts you to hand off the controller to someone else so they can play and you get a break. This is (some types of) switching. This can be good.
Other times, someone rips the controller out of your hand or fights you for it. This is (other types of) switching. And sometimes, six other players hook up their controllers, but there’s only one character to play as. So all of you have your controllers, but you’re all trying to play the same character. This is cofronting.
Imagine how difficult that would be. Imagine how hard it would be to try and play a game while someone is trying to take the controller from you, or while six other people are trying to play too.
There are also times that nobody is playing, or you can’t decide who should play. What’s happening to the character in the game? What are they doing if no one is playing? This is dissociation. The character is doing nothing. They’re stuck.
This is the best metaphor I have come up with for being a system. It’s something a lot of people get because they’ve played games before.
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welldrawnfish · 27 days
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Plurality
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elkinhollows · 12 days
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Being called by your name, not the host’s name, for the first time is like
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You know?
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actuallyverynormalbtw · 5 months
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realizing youre Real is .weird,,
like you can exist for Years??? never noticing??? never thinking about Yourself. assuming you are the host, or assuming you are another alter.
it is WEIRD to sit there with your morning coffee, having a conversation, and just suddenly the stars align . and you realize how different you are from "you" . you realize you werent "you", you were actually YOU the whole time.
I KNOW THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE BUT I HOPE SOMEONE GETS IT
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sovereignsystem · 2 months
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I see so many people say"oh I miss my wife" "oh i miss my boyfriend"
Yknow what I miss? My fucking cat.
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m0nst3rgunxz · 2 months
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HAHAHAH I AM MY OWN TARGET AUDIENCE IM SO. FUNNY
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autopsycollective · 2 months
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a reminder that the host isn’t the only person in the system who should be respected and made to feel comfortable.
the host is not ‘the important part’, we are all completely conscious and capable of our own thoughts, feelings and our own boundaries. our brain created us because it decided that we are all important and needed.
the host is not the only member of a system you should care about.
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elliebunniiee · 2 months
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Bitches in my head having anxiety, call that a nervous system
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thestarpletsystem · 5 months
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Technically, if you’re plural, every project is a group project. Give your headmates credit
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collectivewarmth · 4 months
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please do not let online system spaces convince you that you need to label and have every single thing in your system figured out. that’s an extremely unrealistic goal and you’re not any sort of faker for not knowing every single thing.
just be.
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