just a reminder that all the bg3 companions are in fact bi or pan- i see a lot of people headcanoning karlach as lesbian, which- yes i get that sexuality is complicated and you’re allowed to have headcanons, but if your only reasoning for that headcanon is “well just look at her” or something along the lines of “stereotypical butch lesbian”, you’re gonna need to ask yourself why you’re basing sexuality off of stereotypes
i’ve seen the same thing with astarion- people headcanon him as gay with their only reason being “stereotypical flamboyant gay man” despite him a, not actually being that flamboyant in the first place- his flamboyancy is a mask he uses- and b, able to have sexual and romantic relationships with women in game.
stereotypes are not all sexuality is, stop trying to make it into that
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If you get mad at systems/headmates for having problematic sources I wish you a very die
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“AdRiEn Is’Nt Bi”
The fucking way I fucking look at fucking Luka:
-cat 🐈⬛
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What if we wrote a "fantasy" novel about being a system. The characters (alters) can all communicate telepathically, but have to deal with another dimension (real world) with its struggles (just look around) and they have to take turns teleporting to this world (fronting) so they can solve the problem...
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hiya!!!! coined a possible new term for one of my headmates, tho tell me if it aint new!!!1!
fylter
a fylter (pronounced filter) us an alter with a role similar to gatekeeper, but cannot control access to memories. they only control who is fronting, who is dormant, and can oftentimes manipulate the innerworld. usually this alters abilities stem from their abilities in source but not always
i'll reblog when i design a flag!!
WE ARE ANTI ENDO. ENDOS CAN NOT CLAIM OR USE THIS. THIS IS A TERM FOR TRAUMAGENICS ONLY
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I’ve never understood the people who are all “fictives should change their name if it doesn’t match the bodies ethnicity” as if we have any control over who we split?? Our Aussie-Italian host didn’t, at the ripe old age of like 7, go “I’m going to deliberately split an ancient Egyptian”. I just,,, appeared because that’s what was needed at the time. And for a long time the only thing I knew was my name, Ahkmenrah. (Which by the way, isn’t a real pharaoh I was made up for the NATM series). Obviously I’m aware of the body I front in, where I live and what privileges I do and don’t have in this body. I’m not stupid.
For a lot of us our names are a massive part of our identities, you can’t just ask us to change that. (Also I’m from an ancient dead culture there’s no one walking around with the name Ahkmenrah nowadays). While fictives are separate from their source to a point, they are still a fictive and still carry the memories and feelings from their source. If someone wants to change their name that’s fine, but you can’t expect others to follow suit. We don’t control how or who we split as, and asking us to take away our names is stripping us of a big part of our identities.
Idk just a thought, because I remembered when this discourse was a thing going around and I honestly can’t believe it was even up for debate.
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Blendy System Emojis!!
Requests are open!
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— Fusys or Substar
☆ when alters fuse but instead of being normal, they function like a subsystem, or a system in a system
★ i call it Substar because that sounds cool as fuck, no other reason :3
sign off - 🥁
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Crergenic
[PT: Crergenic /END PT]
A system or a headmate that’s originated from believing, having faith or having the certainty of, itself makes it own existence, even if have faith or believe before it happens.
For example, believing that your head will generate a headmate makes your system get one, having faith that your headmate is cool makes it act cool, having certainty that your system will be modified, affect reality, and your thoughts and your own system change based on your force of belief.
Crer is from Portuguese meaning to believe
Attention: [PT: Attention /END ID] If you see other people claiming to have coined this, keep in mind that it was just posted without my consent and credits.
[IMAGE ID: The image is a cartoon-style background with a vibrant color scheme of light yellow and cyan blue, creating a sense of energy. The colors seem to radiate from a central circle in a pattern that makes them transition from yellow to white between them and to blue. The yellow background is further adorned with white star-like shapes scattered throughout. /END ID]
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finally got a membership to the local jcc! very excited
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you are valid if
your system has mostly introjects
your system has few or no introjects
your system has lots of amnesia and barriers between alters
your system has no or very little amnesia and barriers
you have a personality or mood disorder on top of being a system
you have lots of alters
you only have a few alters
you experience psychosis or some psychotic disorder
you're heavy in one or more alter roles
you have alters with no roles or who dot know what their roles are
you still live with people who caused you trauma
you're still in relationships with people who hurt you
you struggle with taking care of the body
you have nonhuman alters
you have invisible disabilities
you have physical disabilities
you and your system are valid. no matter your situation or trauma you are valid and we're proud of you for making it this far and doing your best each day. we wholeheartedly wish the best for you all
no one person let alone any system is meant to fit in a box, whether you do or not match up to the "standard" system description youre still valid. youre still loved. youre still amazing.
after everything we've all gone through we all deserve some good things so we like making these posts every now and then to put some positivity in the community.
regardless of what your system looks like youre still entirely valid. dont let anyone ever tell you otherwise.
Endos and supporters stay the fuck off this post.
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Our therapist wants us to integrate (merge alters) but I don't want to...I don't wanna lose them, they're my friends...
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