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anti-endo-haven · 2 days

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The one thing I don’t like seeing from endos is some of them saying “your trauma makes your privileged! No one will believe me but they’ll believe you!”

Trauma doesn’t make anyone privileged. The views that trauma is privilege is terrible. That’s abuse that someone has been through, assault someone has been through.

If you’re saying that someone is privileged because they have trauma… you really need to do something to help yourself out. That’s a terrible mindset to have.

No one believes in endos because of the harm they cause to systems and singlets that are trying to be there for systems. Endos and non-traumagenic “systems” don’t need to be included in everything.

Anti-endo spaces are made so systems can have space from endos and that community, but endos and proendos force themselves into it any way. Why? Because they hate it when someone speaks up against them.

It’s not something you should feel entitled to.

This is why I will never support endos and proendos or “systems” made without trauma. You don’t exist. Your mind CANNOT fragment without trauma and that trauma IS NOT a privilege to have.

#anti endo #endos dni #did system #system #osddid #actually did #did plural #traumagenic system #endos not for you #osdd plural #osdd plurality #did plurality

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bat-coven · 26 days

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I hate the idea that age=head count for systems. OSDD or DID develops when you're a CHILD. You gain alters first when you are a CHILD. That's how the disorder works and for some reason some people don't understand that. And saying "oh you can't have a high head count" to a younger system undermines what they've gone through (same with saying "you can't have a low head count" to an older system). Not only that but it also makes people ignore the complexities of how systems function and it just breeds a whole new problem (that being more fake claimers). I just think it's stupid

#system rant #traumagenic did #did #did plural #osddid #did osdd #cdd system #did community #did system #endos dni #endos fuck off #actually plural

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lovesomesys · 2 months

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Introject who is close to source? Great, good for you!

Introject who is working on distancing themself from source? Great, good for you!

Introject who is super source separated? Great, good for you!

I’m proud of you all regardless of whether you’re attached to source or not- whether you want to be attached or not. Whatever level of separation is best for you is amazing. I’m proud of you all.

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anti-endo-safe-space · 1 month

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me when a pro-endo post shows up on my dash

AGREED

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deceasedchoir · 26 days

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i wish our body could shapeshift so i could just look in the mirror and see who's fronting

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me-and-the-squad-being-otherkin · 1 month

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cw// fakeclaiming, prejudice against non traumagenic headmates

here are some sources on endogenic systems!

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traumagenic-roleplay-refuge · 13 days

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Hello! This is an pinned post for this blog! You can ask anything you want, btw! (Also, HUGE NOTE: Credit to @anti-endo-haven, everything here is based on their account.)

This is an ANTI-ENDO blog. No endogenics, no willogenics, no western tulpas, no demogenics, none of their supporters. Endo-neutral or people who can't give a fuck anymore are welcome. NO SYSCOURSE ALLOWED.

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About the blog owner!

This blog is run by a anti-endo & anti non-traumagenic DID system. We have DID (obviously), autism, ADHD, SPD, and GAD. We are intersex, transpan, nonbinary, and sapphichillean panaspec vari-oriented.

Our main blog is @seraphim-system-official but our most active is probably @seraphim-coinz (shameless plug)

We may or may not sign off!

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What can we do here?

Glad you asked! You can:

Look for a roleplay

Talk about your characters

Talk in general

Ask questions

Submit polls regarding your characters

Infodump

Et cetera!

Feel free to ask if you're not sure if something's allowed!

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Rules!

Please trigger warning things. I'll do my best to add all of the warnings, but it really, really helps if you go ahead and provide the list.

NO proship/assault/dark content/etc roleplays. What this means:

No sexual assault

No looking for illegal ships

No description of gore/violence (you may say, "I want my roleplay to involve gore and violence," but you can't describe what exactly you want. Keep that in your roleplay partner's DMS, after they consent.)

Oh, but Francis, I don't wanna see the words at all!

Again, everything will be heavily warned about in the tags, as well as at the top of my addition to the ask.

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The question rules (towards us!)

You can ask just about anything! Keep in mind that we're a minor, and a traumatized one at that.

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Other rules!

As long as it follows what I’ve already requested, there are no more! I won’t tie you down with boring constraints here!

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Can I have an anonymous sign-off?

PLEASE YES! WE'D LOVE ANONS!

Current list: None

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I'd like to something important to be added to the pinned post!

Go ahead and let me know either through message or an ask! I don’t mind making sure things stay up to date!!!

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Bye for now!

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wxrmeaterz · 2 months

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Welcome - We're the Forest Collective

This post contains our Do Not Follow , Before You Follow and some extra info about us bellow the cut

Collective Terms + Identities:

Forest , Xi/They/Wolf/Howl , Transmasculine

Therian + Otherkin (Primarily Wolfkin + Wolf theriotype , but we also identify with ragdoll cats, bunnies, and several others)

Punk , Cripplepunk / Cpunk

Collectively we are situational mute (do NOT call us selective mute) and predominantly semiverbal

(we have several masked verbal alters who communicate for us verbally when necessary, but we are considered semiverbal)

We interchangeably use parts , headmates and alter language and mainly use We/Us when talking about us.

Get blocked (DNI):

Antisemitic, homophobic / transphobic, TERFs/SWERFs, racist, ableist, fatphobic, zionists etc

Non-traumagen "systems" + supporters/neutrals (endo, willo, etc) OR culturally appropriate closed practices

Pro/neu contact paras, radqueers and transIDs fuck off

If you reduce introjects to their source / blacklist certain sourced introjects (wtf is wrong with you)

If you don't know how to actually tag and TW things you're getting blocked

If you don't follow your own DNI

Anti contradictory labels - you are literally so intersexist and transphobic.

If you cannot tell the difference between real values and FICTION

Before You Follow:

Do not use complexity labels on us

We are physically disabled and use mobility aids

We often lose the ability to speak or communicate coherently as well as the ability to advocate for ourselves

We will block you if you actively post / reblog about our triggers

Posts / reblogs tagged with: "dir post 🧂" or "dir reblog 🧂" are directed at our syspartner

Anons and asks will be tagged with "🌳 forest.chats"

We have survived RAMCOA , Programming and TBMC and post about it (tagged with appropriate warnings)

Our Disorders:

AuDHD , Dyslexia , Speech disorders (stutter, situational mute, semiverbal), Tourettes

Agoraphobia, C-PTSD, Polyfrag DID

Cluster B PDs: BPD, HPD, NPD

Cluster C PD: DPD

OCD, DPDR, Pica, ARFID, Anxiety + Depression

We are visually impaired with VSS (currently looking for more Dx that may explain our vision)

POTS, FND, Hypermobile EDS, Fibro

Our Collective Pronouns page:

(this also contains links to other headmates pronouns pages)

#endos dni #intro post #polyfrag did #actually did #did alter #did osdd #did system #osdd #cdd system #osddid #endos fuck off #plural did #plural osdd #osdd plural #did plural #did plurality #osdd plurality

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crystaledhearts · 2 months

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Introduction!

This blog is intentionally made for RAMCOA/OEA systems who want a community! All posts will feature RAMCOA/Programming warnings unless stated otherwise.

We will talk about our own experiences with programs and RAMCOA as well as on how it affects our daily life!

Others are free to send asks talking about their own experiences, ask questions, talk, or do anything of the sort!

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About the Blog Owner!

We are an anti-endo and anti non-traumagenic TBMC-DID system that has NPD, HPD, BPD, and is autistic (still to our denial).

Our main blog is @shining-star-system! We have another side blog which is @anti-endo-haven!

Posts will not be signed off here as it will be referring to us as a whole!

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What Can We Do Here?

Vent

Rant

Info dump

Ask questions (I can decline to answer!)

Talk about hyperfixations

Tell us about your experiences

Submit posts

Talk to us

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Venting Rules!

Please trigger warn things properly! If you don’t know what the trigger warning is, give me a brief about what you’re going into!

You can vent about anything! This is also going to be a safe place but is more related to RAMCOA systems/survivors!

For those that don’t want to see the vents, tags are below on what to avoid!

crystaled heart vent

crystaled heart vents

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Rules for Questions

Like on our other side blog, you can ask anything within reason.

We are allowed to decline to answer something, especially if it feels like it can be a danger to us to comment on!

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Other Rules

If you try and fake claim someone because of their experiences, get the fuck off my blog. It is a safe space here. I won’t tolerate it. Everyone is different.

As long as the rules above are followed, I do not mind what happens! I CAN add more rules as needed!

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DNI LIST

Common DNI

Endos

Pro endos

Non-traumagenic systems

Trans-IDs (transRAMCOA, transOEA, transProgrammed, transProgrammer)

NONE OF YOU ARE WELCOME HERE

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Sign Offs!

You can have sign offs! Just let me know if you want one added to the list!

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Claimed Sign Offs!

🐾mind / #🐾mind

🩷 / #🩷

🗂️ / #🗂️

The Backrooms Catalogue System / #The Backrooms Catalogue System

🥀🦷 / #🥀🦷

🪐🫀 / #🪐🫀

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I’d Like Something Added to the Pinned Post!

Feel free to send us a message or an ask about what you’d like added! We don’t mind!

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systemblr · 2 months

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i hate being a system bc whoever was in front when we were at the store said they wanted to “eat healthy” like fuck you i wanted my chocolate cookies

#🇺🇸 posts #connor becoming a system-wide opp #jk we love him #did system #actually did #traumagenic system #actually dissociative #dissociative system #dissociative identity disorder #did memes #did plurality #did plural

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anti-endo-haven · 2 days

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I am someone who doesn't have DID but is very interested in psychology and learning as much about the disorders that I do not have, as well as the ones that I do have, as possible.

I was just wondering what you thought about something that I saw on TikTok (I know, not a very reliable place to find information).

There was someone who claimed to be a DID specialist who implied that Endogenic systems are just as valid as traumagenic systems because they could potentially just be traumagenic systems that are super covert even to themselves.

Okay, so, getting into this.

Yes, there are OSDDID systems within the endogenic community because they’re being gaslit into believing that what they have gone through “isn’t enough to form a system.” Trauma is a response and a child will react to things differently. If you, hypothetically, had two separate kids with the same trauma or traumatizing experience, they wouldn’t be 100% similar. There could be similarities, but each child will survive differently.

This does not make endogenic and non-traumagenic systems valid. They’re causing harm to others, harassing others, and are actively trying to demedicalize a disorder because it doesn’t include them.

They want OSDDID systems to make terms that will always include endos when the brain cannot fragment without trauma or a stressor.

You cannot have alters unless you have the disorder, the trauma that causes the disorder, and the stress (even if you don’t even realize you are stressed or it’s stress from a while ago or resurfaced memories causing that split). There might be times where someone won’t know the reason someone has split or a new alter has returned from dormancy or something like that which is okay, but you cannot have an endogenic system or alter.

But there are absolutely OSDDID systems stuck in endogenic communities and are unable to get out because they’ll be harassed, threatened, doxxed, anything. The endogenic community is a threat to trauma survivors, doesn’t make them valid, and they actively want to tell survivors if their trauma is or isn’t “enough.”

If that person on the TikTok was a genuine specialist? No idea, but there’s a difference between endogenic systems and trauma survivors being gaslit and hurt because someone wants to keep them on their side.

TikTok is also not a good place for information as misinformation and disinformation can spread worse than the bubonic plague. Please be wary of what you believe from there and always double check your sources and do research on your own, even with other social medias including Tumblr, Twitter, etc.. You can never do “too much” research. (I know that you’re aware of this, but still stating.)

#anti endo #endos dni #did system #system #osddid #actually did #did plural #traumagenic system #endos not for you #osdd plural #did plurality #osdd plurality #tw dormancy mention #tw syscourse #syscourse

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bat-coven · 30 days

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Being a system really isn't that bad when you find that silver lining. I know that a lot of systems aren't able to with how their condition works but for us I think we view each other as a little family. Or at the very least a group of friends. Yes, being a system sucks. Yes, it's hard to enjoy it and we don't a lot of the time. Yes, it makes life harder. But I'm not alone. I have people to comfort me when others outside of the system can't. I have people to talk to. We listen to each other and we communicate (not super well all the time but still.) Final fusion really isn't an option for us because of the bonds we've built with each other whether it's romantic or platonic. I like being a system even though it sucks

#actually did #endos dni #did system #did community #traumagenic did #osddid #did plural

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lovesomesys · 8 days

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Why do people call strangers in the internet names like “sweetheart” or “honey”

Like it would make me uncomfortable to be called a nickname by a stranger and I know a lot of my friends feel the same! Dont call strangers nicknames! It’s weird!

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anti-endo-safe-space · 1 month

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ngl the pure CONCEPT of endogenic systems is actively offensive

Agreed anon, highly highly agree

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deceasedchoir · 2 months

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❝ ALTER (SYM) HOLDER FLAG ❞

[in order from left to right :] queer platonic love holder, asd sym holder, platonic love holder, romantic love holder, guilt holder, avpd sym holder, npd sym holder, bpd sym holder, dpd sym holder, happiness holder, anger holder

these flags are for traumagenic systems only, the npd sym, bpd sym, dpd sym, and avpd sym are for systems that have the matching pd. do not use these flags if you are not a system. free to use, no credit needed, but greatly appreciated.

꒰⠀do not interact : ace exclusive, nontraumagenic systems, radfem, radqueer, basic dni⠀꒱

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jokestersinmyhead · 1 month

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Having a day where someone is out for a really long time and is productive is such a refreshing feeling

(thanks, Odessa you're amazing)

#she registered for classes and went to work #shes probably the one who has her shit together the most #did system #system #osddid #osdd system #traumagenic system #actually did #actually osdd #endos dni #actually traumagenic #did plural #did plurality #osdd plurality #osdd plural

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