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purity-in-heart · 2 months
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Ffs people
I know we're on the internet, I know we normally can't see the other person's face, but they're still people! Male and female users alike should still be respected. So show some restraint or be patient. Don't be rude, don't be demanding, and make sure you're not saying something so sexual that it's discomforting. Even if there's a small chance you'll cross the line with what you say, think on it or don't do it at all. It's not difficult. I just ran into at least three or four posts addressing overly sexual asks or replies and DMs by an audience member who is so impatient or out of patience that he got mad, when it's not somebody refusing to take 'no' for an answer - Which is another issue, btw; NO MEANS NO. It's commonsense, just be respectful and open-minded. And accepting 'no' as a response is the most basic form of commonsense, I shouldn't have to explain this! I'm being nice, here. I'm literally exercising respect and open-mindedness right now, because I could easily call you specific people idiots or cowards, but I'm not, because you're people, too, and I'm considering the possibility that insulting you will just make you wanna tune out without learning from your mistakes first. The worst thing I can say right now is the truth that I've seen people on here, especially, leave because of the pressure brought by people who have no patience or others who tell female users about their shlong just because they're female or based on their content. Is that what you really want? Is risking or overstepping one's boundaries really worth it?
#ContentIsNotConsent
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I can't enjoy the new Sumeru ot4 on a personal level due to some of the headcanons I'm attached to, but at the same time, I'm distantly delighted that this funny polyship is taking off, and I hope you're all having a great time.
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lettuce-king · 2 years
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Alright fuck this im gonna have to start this conversation because you guys can't act like fucking adults.
I'll preface this by saying I ship namdermo and there's nothing wrong with shipping it.
However,,,
The problem starts when y'all start shitting on Harvey and the other actors when they're doing interviews.
You guys get way too comfortable pushing all the blame for nandermo not being cannon on Harvey and Kayvan. Yes they're going all will they/won't they with their responses but they are answering these questions with their perspective on the characters.
News flash,,,they don't write the plot. They don't write what happens to their characters. Do they get to improvise a little? Yes when they're allowed to, bit its not enough to change the fucking plot. They just act as the characters, they aren't them.
Is there a better way to go around answering these questions? Yea, actors should be given pre-written responses they can use to avoid answering those types of questions. Unfortunately they aren't, so they have to wing it without giving too much away.
But another way to avoid this is by not asking dumb fucking questions in the first place. Specifically, when he and the main cast were answering question at Comic Con, the interviewer asked something along the lines of "was the fight at the night market charged with sexual tension?" Genuinely how the fuck is he supposed to answer that? Not only is that a weird thing to ask but you're not asking a character, your asking this fucking guy that just so happens to play the character, he doesn't fucking know, what the fuck is he supposed to say? "Yea absolutely?" "No, they're in different relationships and it was a ego driven fight?" Its like people forget he's a fucking person outside of the show, asking dumb shit like that is not only awkward for him as an actor, but fucking disrespectful.
Not once have any of you considered they might be legally obligated, under fucking contract, to not discuss future plot events, so to avoid anything that might spoil the season they have to give will they/won't they responses.
Not to mention that I've seen so many people shit on Harvey for posting nandermo fan art on his page and then say something that disproves nandermo in an interview. If you paid attention to his stories, he posts anything with Guillermo in it, ship-related or not. He's literally just supporting fans and encouraging fan art. I'm sorry actors and content creators don't normally share and repost ship fan art but most of them don't share fan art at all, so don't discourage one of the only ones thats do so from giving recognition to the fans for putting time and work into something.
I know you guys don't want to be ship-bated but IF nandermo is genuinely slowburn, why would you want it cannon now? A season or 2 before it becomes cannon in the show? Its kills the excitement and build up and all ur left with is dissapointment with knowing what happens next. And even if it doesn't become cannon, you can still ship it, just don't hate on the actors.
My point is this: These actors are real people. They are not the characters in the show. Do not harrass them or treat them like shit bc they post some shipping fan are or decredit your ship. They are fucking people and you as a fan should remember to treat them like it. Don't be fucking disrespectful, act like a god damn adult.
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i-am-just-a-girli · 5 months
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Hurtful words lacerate the heart. Although it may heal over time, scars will never completely disappear.
—Anoir Ou-chad, The Alien
One should always be mindful of their words; you never know how a passing comment could potentially ruin someone's entire day.
:).
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subtlelifeblog · 1 year
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Treat everyone with respect and kindness. Remember that kindness is contagious❤✨.
It may require a mountain size patience to be kind even when you are angry or disappointed the best you can do is to wait.
Do not react right after being angry. Take some time, relax and then think about the possible solutions. ❤✨.
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legislativelevon · 1 year
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i am also 15 and very much autistic so im sorry i worded that weird??? :sob: jesus im not a freak for liking peoples work i just admire you
hope this is a lesson to everyone sending out weird messages. I'm guessing you're the guy who said this? do me a favor and look back at your words. you think I got that idea from what you said in the first place? you being autistic had nothing to do with this, so I have no clue why you brought it up. being autistic isn't an excuse for sending creepy messages online. if you wanted to say admire, you should've said that in the first place.
you really think giving me your age is going to help you in this situation? I literally don't care how old you are. it doesn't matter, sending creepy messages isn't cool. if you want to apologize, dm it to me instead of cowering behind an anonymous message, creep
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imnicerthanilook · 1 year
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The word sorry is overrated….
If I hit you with my car but then apologize to you, your leg will still be broken.
So why do we rely on 5 letters to “fix it” when we hurt people emotionally?
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absterclaw · 1 year
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Don’t take people for granted, because one day they’ll decide you aren’t worth it.
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The main purpose of life is to live rightly, think rightly, act rightly.
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lynn-does-stuff · 1 year
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This just in, Think Before You Act has been rotating in my head like a rotisserie chicken for the past week now.
When Kaveh comes out I’m definitely gonna remix his theme too (hopefully).
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heavyheartedhorror · 10 months
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If you mastered your fears, then what are you afraid of?
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jaibyday114 · 11 months
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Stay True
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tentaclemagician · 1 year
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Protip: for those who send anon hate to people who like the new Harry Potter game, you all are just scared little children who won't say those things irl and know you will get reported and banned off Tumblr. So listen to your morals and be a decent human and not tell people you don't know to harm themselves bc what if they were young teens who don't even know what is going on with Rowling and her views, and they are just excited to play a video game. You're doing more harm than good by attacking people who probably have no idea what is going on because they might not have Twitter and with Elon Musk wouldn't blame them 🤷 bulling and sending death threats as I said before is never a good idea to get your point across.
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glttr-bby · 1 year
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Glad to see your doing fine with the breakup can I ask why?
I mean. I got drunk and cried for two weeks, considered how I would go about committing “sillyslide” even though I’d never go that route, lost 15 pounds, and my hair was falling out.
But sure, I’m fine now.
He didn’t like the long distance.
(Do you always ask people inconsiderate questions on anon, or are you sometimes a normal functioning human? My messages are open. This was a cowardly way to try to talk to someone about something like this.)
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atoasttoreality · 1 year
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People nowadays will do anything for fame.
Do what you want, but think first before acting.
Don't hurt others with your actions just because you want 5 seconds of fame. 🤦🏻‍♀️
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euesworld · 2 years
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