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prosebyday · 8 months
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I’m a better lover to myself than you ever were to me I make the best coffee for myself in the morning I keep myself warm at night, snuggled up in blankets I worked on the lawn and garden today I cook myself meals from homegrown veggies I’ve spent all week since I sent you away cleaning the house and it’s so much easier just doing everything I asked of you by myself, then waiting for someday when you might do it,  because someday never comes.  I do everything you did for me without the resentment you showed me because I love myself enough, I see my worth, I don’t resent me like you do and I still have so much time on my hands to be a person,  instead of taking on the burden of your emotional needs.  I can’t be a therapist, a mother, a provider each day to my partner.  I can do so much more for myself with that time and energy.  I love you and I deserve so much more.
August 19, 2023 // Grazia Curcuru
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breakupjournaling · 2 years
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After Him
08/28/2022
He never came back and that’s ok. 
Although it was impossible to see before, there is life after him. The memories and the lessons can never be erased, but the tinge of sadness no longer accompanies their presence. As if water has washed off their bitterness, I can fully appreciate them for what they are now. 
After him, my heart still beats and after him, I can still love. 
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nhungngaylangdang · 2 years
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Self note 01
Tôi và Tuấn đã chia tay được 12 ngày. 
Trong 12 ngày qua, tôi cố gắng gượng qua từng ngày với đủ các cảm xúc tiêu cực (đau đớn, dằn vặt, tiếc nuối, tức giận, oán trách....). Đến hôm nay (ngày thứ 12), tôi dần dần làm quen với thực tế. 
Tôi tìm hiểu luật hấp dẫn (LoA) những ngày qua. LoA bảo rằng tôi cần phải buông bỏ hết mọi negative feelings/emotions trong tôi, để hướng tới một hiện tại/tương lai tốt đẹp hơn. Trong tôi luôn phải ngập tràn tình yêu và sự tích cực. Nếu không, tôi sẽ giết dần giết mòn chính mình. Nếu tôi cứ mãi muộn phiền, cho dù tôi muốn quay về với Tuấn cũng là bất khả thi. Vì vũ trụ sẽ khiến các suy nghĩ tiêu cực trong tôi đẩy Tuấn ra xa. Và đương nhiên, tôi không muốn như vậy. Tôi vẫn đang rất cố gắng để trong mình luôn overflow những cảm xúc tốt đẹp. 
Tôi có rất nhiều câu hỏi không được giải đáp. Một trong những câu hỏi lớn nhất là “Tại sao?”. Nhưng tôi cũng hiểu rằng nếu cứ tự vấn, chẳng những tôi không có được câu trả lời mà tôi còn đang tự hại tương lai của mình. Bây giờ, chỉ có cách sống thật tốt, để Vũ Trụ nhìn thấy và an bày. Khi Tuấn quay về, tôi muốn hỏi gì mà chẳng được, đúng không?
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myeshachaneyyt · 6 months
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phanfictioncatalogue · 10 months
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Post Breakup (2) Masterlist
part one
a break does exactly what it says on the tin (ao3) - interruptedbyfjreworks
Summary: there was no sad smile, no teary eyes, no final words of goodbye. there was just a door shutting and two men going their separate ways.
A Coincidence - dxnhowell
Summary: It’s been 15 years since Dan and Phil had broken up, and they’ve both moved on from each other and started new lives. Phil meets a young girl named Luna Howell, only to find that she’s the daughter of his ex-boyfriend who he happens to still be in love with.
Abstinence (ao3) - apoetacriminal
Summary: “Okay, so I love you. I love you very very much....” As soon as he said it Dan opened his eyes wide. He knew. “and I think we’re great together, but lately I feel like our relationship,” his voice broke, “It’s like, lately our relationship has been stuck. you know?” Dan nodded slowly. His eyes were watering. “And I feel like when we’re alone we act more like friends than boyfriends, and we never go out and...I,” Phil looked down.
“Just say it,” Dan whispered,
“I-I think we should break up,”
Another Kind of Light (ao3) - basicallymonsters
Summary: "I miss you," he says again, feverish and rasping. "You're my only friend, you're the only person who's ever been a default for me, like factory settings; this Dan comes with a Phil, there's never even a question."
Or - they're miserable apart, and the only way they can properly sleep is together.
Breakup and Makeups - dxnhowell
Summary: Phil broke up with Dan because he thinks Dan could do so much better than him. A few months afterwards, on their four year anniversary, Phil realizes what a big mistake he's made and wants Dan back. They finally talk things out when Phil discovers Dan drinking.
Bullies and lies (ao3) - R3ad3r1
Summary: A breakup. Some bullies. Some lies, but in the end, love wins.
but home is just a room (full of my safest sounds) (ao3) - blueshirt
Summary: In which things fall apart, and then back together.
Or, the one where they break up in 2012 and stumble across each other three years later. Featuring Dan as a radio show host and BBC presenter, and Phil as a weatherman on the Isle of Man.
'cause I want what I want, but with you it's what I need (ao3) - t_hens
Summary: Phil had one rule: don't think of Dan, but that's hard to do when they bump into each other three years after Dan left.
Dan gets a Dog (ao3) - arewedancers
Summary: It happens in this order: they break up, Phil moves out, and Dan gets a dog.
Going Forward (ao3) - softiejace
Summary: When Phil Lester signs his students up for a mental health workshop, no scenario he's prepared for includes running into his ex...
i'd do anything to not be alone (ao3) - kae_karo
Summary: I don’t know why I bother waking up. It’s one of those nonessential activities, like eating or drinking or breathing. But I do it, because if I don’t, then nobody would water the plants.
Phil left and Dan doesn't know why. But he has to take care of the plants, because Phil would be so disappointed if he came back and his plants had died.
If It Hurts This Much - clumsyphilip
Summary: There are more awkward things than going on vacation with your ex’s family. Like when you’re still in love with him and millions of people think the trip proves you’re together
I'm running out of colours (You're running out the door) (ao3) - jestbee
Summary: Dan keeps coming back, but all it does is hurt
It Kills Me, Why Doesn't It Kill You? (ao3) - ticklishpickle
Summary: Four months after his break up with Phil, Dan is still pathetically in love with him. Four months without any contact with Phil, and Dan sees him at PJ's party. He needs to talk to Phil. He needs to know why Phil stopped loving him.
it's your soul that i'm caught in (ao3) - sunfreckled
Summary: He hasn't been inside the apartment building in a year. Still, he swears he can recall the exact smell of the hallway and hear familiar sounds coming from the apartments in his mind. He can see the interior when he closes his eyes, feel how it felt to put in the key into the right door and pull the door open. He can feel stepping inside, familiar sight opening before him, familiar scent floating in the air. Home.
Dan's eyes fly open, his breathing quickening as a wave of nostalgia washes over him, nearly making him choke on nothing. There are so many feelings locked inside his heart, and he's afraid they are breaking loose. He doesn't know if he can survive even half of them.
It's been a year since they broke up, and Dan wants to pick up the pieces.
i've never been this far from home (ao3) - orphan_account
Summary: It’s 2012; Dan misses Phil possibly too much, but it sure seems the feeling isn’t mutual. Of course, Dan doesn’t know the whole story.
like the rain to the sea (ao3) - creativityatbest, orphan_account
Summary: Circa 2012; Dan and Phil try to put aside everything to have Christmas at Phil’s house, but that doesn’t necessarily go to plan.
Magic Tricks (ao3) - queerofcups
Summary: Every magician knows there is no such thing as magic. They are masters of making things possible out of a situation that seems impossible. The key to getting what you want in life is to know that the only reason why something is, is because it was made possible. It can only be if it is possible for it to be. Make it possible and let it be.
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A relationship in reverse.
nothing to gain (ao3) - lestered (clonetrobed)
Summary: what if it only gets colder?
would you still wrap me up and tell me that you think this was smart?
cause lately i've been scared of even thinking 'bout where we are
Hooking up is fun, except when it's for all the wrong reasons.
Of Old Memories and Future Moments - irphanfic
Summary: ''Rummage inside Phil's bedside drawer‘‘ it said. Oh no. What would have happened if Dan had found something more interesting than a lip-balm inside Phil’s bedside drawer?
Old Habits (ao3) - scifi
Summary: dan and phil have broken up but old habits die hard
One Day (ao3) - Elegantbadger
Summary: Breaking up with Phil has been really hard for Dan, but one day he'll get over it.
Retrace, Retry (ao3) - catboydan
Summary: In 2012, Dan left Manchester and Phil didn’t follow. Dan didn’t let him.
Now, it’s 2016 and Dan returns to retrace his steps and maybe, possibly, have a chance at a second try.
Scenes From An Italian Restaurant (ao3) - sierraadeux
Summary: Dinner together, once a year. Seven o’clock, the little Italian place in Manchester.
It hurt too much to stay friends. It hurt worse to lose each other completely.
Sober (ao3) - orphan_account
Summary: This was for their own good. This was for their own good. This was for their own good. This was for their own good. This was for their own good. This was for their own good. This was for their own—
still looking up (ao3) - sunflowerwitches
Summary: with the year being a difficult year for both dan and phil, what with fans taking shipping to a whole new level, their relationship breaks apart. during the radio show, a fan requests a song that brings all memories flooding back.
Thank you, next (ao3) - orphan_account
Summary: Dan is grateful to his ex, Phil, who had taught him everything. He's so grateful that he wants him back. Except he doesn't want to admit the mistake he made by losing him in the first place, so he tries to move on. Includes cute artists, a smelly candle, a talking cat and a psychic that talks to it. Also, time skips and a timeline of dating that was avoided by choice.
prompt: an angsty fic post break up where one of them has had 1 or 2 other partners after like a year or something and the other is still in love and heartbroken
The Flower of Life (ao3) - worriedpeach (skeletonflowers)
Summary: For a thousand years Dan's regretted the choice he made in saving Prince Phil Lester's life, realizing far too late that love had never really existed for him after all. When the other gods get sick of the God of Death and the God of Life fighting, Dan and Phil find themselves chained together, forced to work out their differences in one way or another.
The Phanfic Game (ao3) - kae_karo
Summary: "We used to play it just for fun, poker meets party games meets our weird followers, but several years ago, we’d played and things had gone a bit farther than we meant them to. So we stopped. And never spoke of it again."
The Truth Runs Wild (ao3) - orphan_account
Summary: “Is this Dan? I’m so sorry, I know it’s three in the morning but I have your friend Phil here, he won’t stop crying and he’s really fucking wasted, could you come get him? He said you broke up but I didn’t know who else to call. He just kept asking for you.”
you used to call me on my cell phone (ao3) - danthrusts
Summary: post breakup au where dan is drunk and calls phil to pick him up
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blursy · 1 year
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How to Move on After Breakup
Breakups can be extremely tough, but it’s important to understand that you’re not alone. Many people go through breakups, and while it can be hard, it’s not impossible to move on. So, let’s dive into some ways to help you move forward after a breakup. BODY Step 1: Allow yourself to feel the emotionsBreakups can be emotional, and it’s important to allow yourself to feel those emotions. Don’t try…
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pinkfeathergurl · 1 year
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Makeover, who else?
Have you ever wondered why Girls become more beautiful after Breakups?
If you believe getting a new haircut or hair color can get rid of the memories attached to certain someone, then go for it, girl.
Well, a makeover might be an answer to overcome your heartbreak. Sometimes there's no right and wrong when it comes to healing. You are possibly a step ahead of improving your life, this is a moment when you are actually thinking about yourself.
What areas you can improve? What do you really love to do? After a breakup, you work towards fixing those things up. You feel more confident in yourself, have also healed your broken heart, learned your worth, and are working to be the best version of yourself.
Your transformations happen both internally and externally.
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httpknjoon · 1 year
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to you, namjoon | knj; masterlist
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plot | Great news! Your sister sent your handwritten letters to your ex.
genres | angst, fluff, exes!au, postbreakup!au
pairing | idol!namjoon x reader
note | My first fic on this site, initially posted on April 2020.
main masterlist
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CHAPTER ONE
CHAPTER TWO 
CHAPTER THREE 
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oliviawebsite · 4 months
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sorry for being so horny the last couple days its like a postbreakup emotional rebound type thing. coping by reclaiming and/or asserting my desirability
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jjuuppiter · 1 year
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fanart for brown guilty eyes and little white lies by goldenjupiter
this locklyle rockstar au, childhood sweetheart au, postbreakup au, aged up au fic breaks my heart so good and i would let it do it over and over again 🤲🖤 plus thanks to this fic all my sad love songs are now making sense again :)
anyway i hope anthony and lucy will find their way back! these two are still so in love with each other ;w;
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byersfanclub · 3 months
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you know were so back when the byler tag is divided over an opinion aka whether the rooftop scene is them breaking up or postbreakup
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rokuginsblog · 1 month
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my favs
filtered tumblr likes
bts
masterlist!
yandererich! maknae line
jung hoseok
my prisoner l faeking!hoseok
park jimin
my light l mermaid!jimin
kim taehyung
crazy for you | kth
bicker (s)
enemy (s)
tunnel vision
maybe i do
no kisses (s)
if its not you
jeon jungkook
after last night 
the lucky one
jujutsu kaisen
masterlist!
sukuna
tattooartist!sukuna
bully!sukuna
clubbouncer!sukuna
pregnant with bully!sukuna
sukuna falling in love
the tyrant (ii)
ex-convict!sukuna
yandere!sukuna
jock!sukuna
gojo
lovesick!gojo
bully!gojo&geto
pregnant with bully!gojo&geto
baby trapping vol.2
trustfundbaby!gojo
postbreakup!gojo
finals week with gojo
gojo x cam!yn
college!gojo
ex-husband gojo
geto
baby trapping vol.2
bully!gojo&geto
pregnant with bully!gojo&geto 
piercer!suguru
frat-boy!geto
jealous!geto
toji
toji doesn't understand personal space
ex-boyfriend!toji
mma!toji fushiguro x reader
mafia!tojifushiguro
roommate!toji
mr. and mrs. fushiguro, toji fushiguro
collegeboy!toji
yakuza!toji
arrangedmarriage!toji
debtcollector!toji
unholy (s)
attack on titan 
eren
collegeboy!eren
collegeboy!eren
nerd!eren
bully!eren
connie
connie hates your bf
。゚・ɞ feelings run deep - connie springer
jean
jean x fem!reader
demon slayer
being your biggest supporters for your streams
rengoku
rengoku x maid!fem!reader
sanemi
arrangedmarriage!sanemi
gyutaro
yandere!gyutaro
tokyo revengers 
dazai 
drunk!dazai&chuuya
chuuya
drunk!dazai&chuuya
sanzu
sanzu x reader
lookism
samuel seo
ego season
steamy sensation
eugene
eugene x reader
eugene x you (engaged)
ryuhei
ryuhei x reader
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captain-noir · 1 year
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people dont want to admit it but ldpdl is the lana girl tumblrinas think that they are. always chasing after the most depraved dick of the ancient variety. his postbreakup 70s druggie serial killer era and ultraviolence phase would have dr melfi herself stumped.
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kindledwriter · 1 year
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It’s a night out 😘 #postbreakup # newlysingle #singlegirl #buymeadrink CA: $CatsCaffeine25
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vi061313 · 2 years
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fic recs
under construction at the moment.
* alphabetically ordered *
* all the authors mentioned are excellent, be sure to check out their other work *
(M) - mature ˖ ࣪⭑ - personal favorite ↳ - follow up part
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[ 김남준 namjoon ]
coming soon
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[ 김석진 seokjin ]
nothing yet...
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[ 민윤기 yoongi ]
nothing yet...
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[ 정호석 hoseok ]
3.16 am : suga-kookiemonster
postbreakup!au, drunkphonecall!au, angst
˖ ࣪⭑ a holly, jolly crisis (M) : kpopfanfictrash
holiday!au, exbestfriends2L, fluff, smut, angst
36.2k
˖ ࣪⭑ cry to my room (M) : kithtaehyung
roommate!au, F2L, smut, angst
17.6k
greed (M) : whatifyoulivelikethat
sevendeadlysins!au, est.rel, smut
just between us (M) : wwilloww
dom!hobi, sub!reader, smut
3.7k
keeping a secret (M) : kpopfanfictrash
secretfwb!au, newrelationship!au, F2L, fluff, smut
3.7k
˖ ࣪⭑ starfruit (M) : inkedtae
camming!au, neighbor!au, camboy!hobi, plussize/chubby!reader, smut
20.2k
untitled drabble (M) : kpopfanfictrash
wedding!au, bestman!hoseok, maidofhonor!reader, E2L, F2L, smut
permission (M) : lcksndkys
dancer!hobi, F2L, smut
4.1k
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[ 박지민 jimin ]
˖ ࣪⭑ the boyfriend concept (M) : kpopfanfictrash
pornstar!jimin, fluff, smut, slight angst
22k
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[ 김태형 taehyung ]
coming soon
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[ 전정국 jungkook ]
˖ ࣪⭑ a holiday snowdown (M) : kpopfanfictrash
skiresort!au, snowboarder!jungkook, E2L, S2L?, fluff, smut, angst
36.3k
˖ ࣪⭑ airplane, pt.2 (M) : xjoonchildx
criminal!jungkook, agent!reader, humor, smut
part I, part II, part III, part IV, part V, part VI
by it’s cover (M) : gimmesumsuga
coworker!au, badimpression!jungkook, E2L?, smut
21k
catharsis (M) : junghelioseok
college!au, fwb!au, ft. jimin, smut
23.5k
clandestine (M) : junghelioseok
brothersbestfriend!jungkook, fluff, smut
10.3k
part I, part II, part III, part IV, part V, part VI
˖ ࣪⭑ come over (M) : bratkook
neighbor!au, voyeurism!au, peepingtom!jungkook, smut
7.2k
  ↳ choke me (M)
fwb!au, smut
2.9k
cozy thief (M) : bratkook
roommate!au, [sharing a bed] trope, fluff, smut
5.1k
˖ ࣪⭑ cream & sugar (M) : gukslut
barista!jungkook, escort!jungkook, asshole!jungkook, E2L, F2L?, humor, fluff, smut
part I, part II, part III, part IV, part V
   ↳ cream & sugar: love me a latte (M)
est.rel, fluff, smut
1.7k
crosshairs (M) : junghelioseok
secretagent!au, smut, angst
10.5k
curiosity (M) : hobidreams
college!au, bestfriendsbrother!jungkook, switch!jungkook, smut
3.6k
˖ ࣪⭑ deal (M) : jeonstudios
demon!jungkook, fluff, smut, angst
19.5k
edge (M) : whatifyoulivelikethat
tinder!au, firstdate!au, S2L, crack, smut
˖ ࣪⭑ ego (M) : suga-kookiemonster
college!au, fuckboy!jungkook, humor, smut
97.4k
finders keep hers (M) : yeojaa
college!au, fwb!au, F2L, idiots2L, smut
11.9k
part I, part II, part III
five dates (M) : kpopfanfictrash
arrangedmarriage!au, F2L, fluff, smut
17.6k
gluttony (M) : whatifyoulivelikethat
sevendeadlysins!au, est.rel, crack, smut
heated (M) : whatifyoulivelikethat
F2L, smut
hot boy bummer (M) : jungxkook
fwb!au, fuckboy!jungkook, bestfriends2L, crack, smut, slight angst
14.6k
i’ll be home (M) : wwilloww
fantasy!au, F2L, fluff, smut, angst
22.3k
it takes two (M) : junghelioseok
fakedating!au, roommate!jungkook
29.8k
kismet (M) : satnin-darling
fantasy!au, fate!jimin, fate!taehyung, S2L, smut
14.2k
last call (M) : xjoonchildx
bartender!jungkook, smut
4.4k
let’s play: dirty (M) : jungxkook
roommate!au, youtuber!jungkook, E2L, fluff, smut
10.1k
˖ ࣪⭑ love to hate (M) : kpopfanfictrash
fwb!au, E2L, smut, angst
ongoing
lowkey (M) : joonbird
nudeartmodel!jungkook, smut
6.2k
˖ ࣪⭑ may 31st (M) : jeonjeonggukenergy
college!au, roommate!au, [sharing a bed] trope, fluff, smut
5k
˖ ࣪⭑ mind in the gutter (M) : kpopfanfictrash
bowling!au, workplace!au, F2L, humor, smut
18k
night changes (M) : neonlights92
college!au, fuckboy!jungkook, E2L?, F2L?, smut, angst
part I, part II, part III, part IV, part V
˖ ࣪⭑ on the road (to you) : cupofteaguk
roadtrip!au, weddingguest!jungkook, weddingguest!reader, S2L, fluff, angst
27k
one night (M) : whatifyoulivelikethat
onenightstand!au, S2L, smut
12k+
other half (M) : whatifyoulivelikethat
fwb!au, roommate!au, fwb2L, F2L, fluff, smut
popular-ish (M) : hansolmates
college!au, popular!jungkook, shy!reader, fwb2L, humor, fluff, smut
16.1k
˖ ࣪⭑ rattled (M) : gukslut
neighbor!au, singledad!jungkook, F2L, E2L?, healing, fluff, smut, [a lot of] angst
remote learning (M) : hansolmates
neighbor!au, humor, fluff, smut
5.7k
part II - distance learning
   ↳ distance learning (M)
neighbor!au, humor, fluff, smut
6.1k
right here (M) : ppersonna
cruise!au, fwb!au, smut
1.6k
right now (M) : bratkook
F2L, idiots2L, fluff, smut
14.8k
rough hands (M) : bratkook
tattooed!jk, fuckboy!jungkook?, tattooed!reader, E2L?, F2L?, smut
12k
˖ ࣪⭑ ruin the friendship (M) : kpopfanfictrash
bestfriends2L, fluff, smut
8k
part II - over the edge
  ↳ over the edge (M)
est.rel, smut, slight angst
9.1k
set on you (M) : bymoonchild
college!au, volleyball!au, setter!jungkook, manager!reader, light smut
18.1k
stay quiet (M) : hobidreams
college!au, boyfriend!jungkook, est.rel, slight fluff, smut
2.7k
˖ ࣪⭑ sugarplum elegy (M) : bymoonchild
college!au, fwb!au, soundcloudsinger!jungkook, fwb2L, idiots2L, fluff, smut, angst
17.9k
swipe right (M) : ppersonna
tinder!au, bestfriends2L, idiots2L, fluff, smut, angst
9k
˖ ࣪⭑ tteokbokki (M) : taetaesbaebaepsae
restaurant!au, repeatcustomer!jungkook, virgin!jungkook, waitress!reader, plussize/chubby!reader, fluff, smut
3.4k
˖ ࣪⭑ the proposal (M) : hansolmates
theproposal!au, fakemarriage!au, holiday!au, editor!jungkook, assistant!reader, E2L?, F2L?, fluff, smut, angst
20.1k
the quest to bedding the lead singer of frontman (M) : kpopfanfictrash
band!au, punk!jk, smut
9.5k
the virgin volume (M) : kpopfanfictrash
college!au, virgin!jungkook, F2L, fluff, smut, angst
6.8k
part II - the monogamy monologues
   ↳ ˖ ࣪⭑ the monogamy monologues (M)
weddingplanner!reader, romcom, smut
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