#narcisissm

[rhetthammersmithhorror]

The Astrologer | 1976

#The Astrologer #Craig Denney #cult movie #narcissus #narcisissm #watching tv #chillin #television #Hammersmith Horror #Netflix and Chill

[cutenervousyoungthing]

i know i have a problem

#girlblogging #lana del rey #female hysteria #aesthetic #lana del ray aesthetic #cinnamon girl #90s aesthetic #coquette #sadgirl #light academia #dark acamedia #books and reading #queer books #this is what makes us girls #narcisissm #whisper girl

[liberatingreality]

For the youth of today that have not responded by becoming incredibly pissed off, they have responded by becoming incredibly despondent - birthing the kind of philosophical narcissism and ironic distance that is so perfectly embodied by the modern 'hipster.'

Tim Hjersted, People Are Waking Up

#Psychology #Philosophy #Politics #Narcisissm #Culture

[mordcore]

narcisissm is the new boogieman, and boy can i boogie

#my stuff #narcisissm #fighting the war on narcisissm on the side of the narcisissm #shitpost #madpunk

[notesfromthebirghtside]

Growing up in chaos, your nervous system got used to very intense feelings. That became the standard. When you first fell in love, the relationship was so full of intense trauma-drama that it was matching your pattern completely. Now you’re in a different relationship with a different person… and sometimes you feel bored because it is not as intense as the first one was and maybe you even ‘miss’ that because that felt more familiar. It is safe now. You’re safe now.This is good now. And you have to be very mindful about the choices you make when you feel ‘bored’ of it. You must not choose the path you escaped and healed from just because that feels familiar.

#breakup #trauma #narcisissm #abuse survivor #narcissistic abuse #healing #trauma healing #i love you #safe space #trauma survivor

[razzleberryjam]

What's it like being fucking stupid and abelist? :)

-S2

What's it like being unable to admit that you need help

#narcs be like you are ableist because narcisissm isnt a mental disorder caused by trauma and needs treatment to learn healthy skills #also fuck you you pos die #and then im like yeah dude youre totally fine you dont need therapy #lmfao dude so un self aware #narcissistic abuse #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse #narc abuse is real #and you all know it

[thaumantic]

I really wish i could make really quick meme art like i’ve seen others do because I get so many ideas that arent funny described but, visually, would be very funny in my opinion. sigh

anyways tldr listeining to antihero by ts  is really funny when u imagine the lines being read by the red prince

#dos2 #divinity original sin 2 #divinity 2 original sin #bro wait which is it #did you hear my covert narcisissm i disguise as altruism like some kind of congressman? #I beg your pardon

[vizthedatum]

I remember seeing the flyers for domestic violence in the bathroom whenever I’d go to urgent care.

I usually would be getting in to check if I had a UTI

It was the easiest way to get antibiotics on short notice

Or to be validated in my IC diagnosis!

Anyway

I’d think to myself -

Well I’d dissociate first -

And I’d think

That’s not my situation

They’re not physically abusive

I’m not scared of my best friend

They would never hurt me

And my body would plunge into more pain as I left my urine sample for the nurse

#healing #trauma #neurodivergence #harm #queer #heartbreak #prose #poetry #domestic violence #leaving domestic violence #it was hard to leave #controlling behavior #emotional abuse #narcissistic supply #covert narcisissm #abuse #relationship abuse #interstitial cystitis #autoimmune flare ups #flares #more prone to infections #UTIs #urgent care #immune system #stress #abuse makes you physically weak

[zeldasnotes]

MASTERLIST 2🌙MASTERLIST 1

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1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13

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Astro Observations 20

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HOW TO ATTRACT THE VENUS SIGNS

Guide: How to guess your rising sign

Different kinds of beauty in the chart

The Sun Signs: Based on people Ive met

Placements that make people addicted to you

In the charts of lookalikes: What do their charts have in common?

The most followed male and female on instagram: Cristiano Ronaldo & Kylie Jenner

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The Power of Pluto: What makes you powerful?

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Pluto Aspects: The first things people notice about you

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Birth Chart Analysis: Traci Lords

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Sociopathy & Narcisissm in the chart

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The most addictive synastry aspects

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The chart of a master manipulator

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Nessus(7066)

Nemesis(128) in the signs: Your enemies

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Lilith:

LILITH IN THE HOUSES

Lilith in the houses: pros&cons

Men with a prominent Lilith

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CHIRON IN THE HOUSES

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Venus conjunct Chiron

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#astro notes #astrology #astro observations #astronotes #lilith #masterlist #ascendant #lilith aspects

[actuallymarzzz]

My theory on the orange side: HE'S NOT LOGAN'S OPPOSITE?

WOW PLOT TWIST I KNOW

so basically I was watching through sanders sides the other day (as you do) and I was making a couple of theories on the orange side, yk average TSS enjoyer activities, WHEN SUDDENLY I WAS STRUCK WITH SOMETHING GLORIOUS

THE SVS REDUX

This is the first hints we see about the orange side (see from the cover screen showing a 7th side and the famous 01134 on the street fighter game sequence) BUT HAVE WE EVER STOPPED TO CONSIDER WHAT ELSE IS IN THIS EPISODE?

At 40:06 of the SVS redux, there is a MUSIC CHANGE (to a track that in my personal opinion sound WAY too funky to be "just for instrumental") and furthermore, Roman says at 40:12, "how long must we act selfishly until Thomas is ready to start putting more... good into the world?". Janus then responds, "A good question, for another time."

Now one might take that as Janus avoiding the question, but I think its strange that it is ONLY IN THIS PART OF THE VIDEO THAT THIS MUSIC PLAYS, when they are talking about being TOO selfish, to the embodiment of LIES. So what does it mean? I believe it symbolises Thomas lying to himself about the existence of the orange side.

SO THE QUESTION YOU'VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR THE ANSWER TO - WHO THE FRICKLE FRACK IS THE ORANGE SIDE? In my opinion, I believe it is Narcisissm. Or at least, that's what Thomas VIEWS it to be.

LET ME EXPLAIN-

The first time orange appears in the series is in the episode about SELFISHNESS, and how it shouldn't be mistaken for self care. This is extremely similar to how society treats self-love as a narcisisstic, hence why Thomas would believe this is what the orange side represents.

Now let's look at my favourite thing: COLOURS. WHAT DO THEY MEAN? • Red - This colour mainly represents Passion and Courage (like Roman, the passion is for creativity and the courage is the whole "ill always be your hero" thing) • Yellow - Many people respond to this colour in different ways, some find it cheery, others find it grating (Much like many people have different views on lying and Deceit) • Green - it is sometimes associated with sickness, and too much of it can evoke isolation (much like how intrusive thoughts make people feel sick and that they are alone with these thoughts) • Blue - light shades of blue often represent confidence, peace, honesty and reliability (literally aligning with Patton's existence in a whole) • Indigo - This colour can be seen as knowledgeable, representing integrity and intuition (Do I even have to say anymore, it literally is knowledge, aka Logan) • Purple - Shades of this colour have been used in the care of mental of nervous disorders (Maybe this is why Virgil started wearing purple, to symbolise thomas's better management of his anxiety?)

And now, what about orange? One of the negative connotations of this colour is self-indulgence, which is characterized by doing or tending to do exactly what one wants (much like BEING SELFISH). This would explain the appearance of the orange side in the SVS redux.

"But what about the colour wheel? WHAT IS ORANGE THE OPPOSITE OF?" Before I continue, I'm leaving virgil out of this because thats a whole other can of worms I DONT WANT TO DIVE INTO TODAY, BUT LEMME EXPLAIN

Red and Green are opposites, much like Remus and Roman. They represent both sides of Thomas' creativity - dark and light - so it makes sense.

Heres where things get tricky. LEAVING VIRGIL OUT OF THIS (bcus he's more of a... neutral side I guess? I feel like he doesn't really have a clear opposite anyways) The colour closest to this is actually yellow. This kinda makes sense, as Logan is based on truths while Janus is based on lies.

SO THAT LEAVES PATTON, THE EMBODIMENT OF MORALITY AND SELFLESSNESS. AND THE ORANGE SIDE, WHO I'VE JUST THEORISED TO BE A FIGURE REPRESENTING NARCISISSM AND SELFISHNESS, much like the entire plot of the svs redux.

You might be thinking, "BUT WORKING THROUGH INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS !!! LOGAN WAS ORANGE !!! HOW DOES THAT WORK????" That's because Logan had a selfish goal behind Thomas's schedule, which was being listened to for once. Many people who have narcisisstic tendancies tend to crave attention, much like logan. This part where the "orange side took over" wasn't the orange side himself, it was a representation of Logan's need to be listened to.

Am I saying Thomas Sanders is a narcisisst? No, not in the slightest. Earlier I said that this is how Thomas percieves the orange side, because they're HIS SIDES. He views his self love and desire to be listened to as narcisissm because that's what he's been brought up to believe. It can even be reflected through Patton's behaviour in the SVS redux.

Again, this is JUST A THEORY. I'm not saying any of this is fact. Also special note for these guys:

Colour theory experts (I can't art so my colour wheel analogy is probably so off

People who have NPD/actually know more about it (I want to clarify that this is how I think Thomas PERCIEVES the orange side, not what it is. I'm not diagnosing)

Virgil lovers (HE DOESNT MAKE SENSE IM SO SORRY)

PEOPLE WHO KNOW THE SERIES BETTER THAN ME (Yes I know that the line seperating "opposite sides" is a little blurry)

Thank you and goodnight (you should totally repost this)

#thomas sanders #sanders sides #virgil sanders #roman sanders #logan sanders #patton sanders #janus sanders #remus sanders #sanders sides theory #logan is really hot #logan sanders hmu #prinxiety #intrulogical

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd culture is leon kennedy from og re2 specifically

idk he just reeks of narcisissm to me

.

#npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #media

[narcvampp]

I genuinely cannot stand you, everytime you type it feels like a "ohh heheh erm!!" ☝️🤓 moment. Like you are NOT that smart if you can't even spell HELP right when trying to call something funny. It's not quirky! Or silly! It's just fucking sad and pathetic

And the way you over decorate everything, I know it's just to hide how miserable and how little of an actual personality you have. Freaky fonts or silly ass little overlays for your photos to try and create some sense of having your life together

And you don't need to make your narcissism into your whole personality with your dumb themes. Once again grasping for a semblance of originality when there's hundreds of people just like you on tumblr

Like bless! I wish you good luck with being an actual normal person instead of a mad mishmosh of stupidity and aesthetics and mental illness

The fact you took time to send me this shows you're fucking OBSESSED with me. How'd you even know I "over decorate" everything when my only over decorated profile is my tiktok you freak!

"You dont need to make your narcisissm into your whole personality🤓☝️" As if it isnt a PERSONALITY disorder fagget

I'm a very normal person and many people love me actually <3 You're just another one of the haters who kisses the ground I walk on hoping I'll give you the desperate attention you want

You act as if you arent in my dms sending me shit and chuckling with me, you just want a little kiss!

#vamp sillies #enemies to lovers? JOKE

[tomasorban]

10 Things To Do When You Don't Know What To Do

It's easy to focus when you know exactly what needs to be done.

When you have a project with clear steps, a clear goal drawing you in from a distance.

But after finally achieving a milestone, or accomplishing something, we often say "... OK, now what do I do next?"

Then we're staring at a mountain of 'could dos', each one with its own argument for completion.

I've often faced this kind of issue, so I decided (like I often do) to solve my own problem in hopes that it helps someone else with their own struggles.

What follows are all of the ideas I have about how to choose what to focus on once your top priority becomes a completed project. So you can spend less time analyzing and hesitating, and more time making progress that actually improves your life.

While the truth is: you're never going to be satisfied and completely fulfilled no matter what you accomplish, because every milestone is important, it can still better our lives to accomplish a thing or two.

Let's begin:

1) Don't Chase Perfect, Just Act And Adjust

There's no perfect project, and perfect time to execute it.

You'll do what you do and accomplish what you accomplish when you do what you do and accomplish what you accomplish.

If you're motivated by fear of wasting your time, you'll waste time trying to determine the *best* thing to work on.

As the saying(s) go: 'perfect is the enemy of good/done'.

And while 'measure twice, cut once' is also a popular saying, it's important to remember that the saying *isn't*: 'measure for three hours, and then cut once'.

Make a decision, and use the feedback you're given to decide where to go next.

2) Identify Where You're Currently Stuck or Ineffective

If you want to know what to focus on, figure out where you're currently stuck, or what isn't working.

Ex: You find yourself struggling with public speaking/a specific exercise in the gym/you can't remember the steps to an important process at work

The bigger the pain point, the more likely it is that you should spend your available time addressing it.

3) Assess Your Priorities

The Eisenhower Matrix isn't flashy, but it's tried and true.

What's urgent and important

What's urgent and unimportant

What's non-urgent and important

What's non-urgent and unimportant

It's pretty self-explanatory what might be a good idea to work on there. We can see fires pretty well.

Another way of assessing priorities that I use: Asking what is this dependent on?

If you have a to-do list, ask "what is this dependent on" to figure out what should be your first step.

Ex: You have to write a blog post and it's dependent on an outline, which is dependent on research, which is dependent on generating ideas for a post topic

4) Choose Your Uncertainty And Take What You Get

If you aren't sure where to begin, choose the uncertainty or confusion you're feeling, and take whatever you get.

This might sound airy, or bullshit-ty, but I find that simply choosing and accepting the current circumstances allows the problem some wiggle room to get un-stuck.

Then some ideas begin to trickle in. Your results may vary.

5) Change The Context

I've written about some of this before but try asking yourself "in what context would not knowing what to do be welcome/a benefit/enjoyable" and then see where that taks you.

Like "choosing," it can help get the problem unstuck, partly by making the problem no longer a problem.

6) Use Selective Narcisissm (And Being A Best Friend)

"Illeism" refers to the trick of talking through things in the third-person to think a little more clearly.

Ex: '(Name) has a deadline that they need to meet, so that should be their priority'

While you may not want to do this out loud, or in the presence of others, I've found it to be helpful at times to create a little distance between the us and the confused thought processes that's eating up our time.

Talking about yourself in the third person is more accurate anyway if you subscribe to the idea of anatta, but that's another story.

Another thing that might help is thinking about who your best friend is and then asking what you would tell them to do if they were in your current shoes.

Both of these techniques work to free us from the web of self-talk that lacks perspective in the moments when you really need it.

7) Create Something New To Satisfy Your Craving For Completion

Sometimes when I'm feeling a desire to 'accomplish' something during a stretch of restlessness or confusion, or when I'm running low on time, I try to execute a single creative act.

For me, that's sometimes thinking of and writing just one sentence. For you, it may be something different: maybe drawing, painting, singing, etc.

But when I can say 'at least I accomplished that' it makes it easier to go to sleep knowing something other than work got done that day.

8) Do The Tiniest Step To Solve Your Current Problem

If you're unsure of where to begin a bigger project, figure out what the tiniest step is that you could currently do, and do *that*.

Sometimes that's all that's required to get some momentum behind you, and it could lead you to taking more ambitious action to get done what you need to get done.

9) Create Structure or an Outline

Sometimes, especially when I'm beginning the process of writing something for this website, I get analysis paralysis.

I have a bunch of singular ideas for a piece, and the threads blending into each other lulls me into an inactive sleep.

What helps me escape is when I organize 'like with like' and create an outline so I know which order the different groups of things go in.

Similarly, going to work is sometimes easier for us than spending our free time on our weekends.

At work, we often know exactly what we need to do because there's a guillotine hanging over our heads if we pretend that we don't.

At home, with no Capitalist Grim Reaper casting his shadow over our idle hands, we think 'maybe I should do that ... no, maybe this' etc.

So, one piece of advice is: create habits, routines, or rituals for your home time. Know the essentials you always want to get done.

If you're doing something (or need to do something) at least five out of seven days a week, it's a habitual activity, and it should likely be prioritized. That should be scheduled into your days as if it's coming from the boss that cuts your checks.

Another piece of advice is number 10 on this list:

10) Reverse Engineer It

Ask yourself 'what would need to be true to fail to accomplish the top three things I need to do today'?

Limit yourself to three (because our eyes are bigger than our productivity stomachs) and do nothing else until you've completed those three things.

It's better to go to sleep with no regrets over un-done work than to try to get *everything* done.

Wrapping It Up

Hopefully those aforementioned ten things will help you take action instead of drowning in possibility.

But I have to emphasize a potentially not so inspiring reminder that: no matter what you choose, it's never going to be enough for you.

A checked off to-do will become buried with other inconsequential memories as the new burning priority comes down the pipeline.

That doesn't mean these things aren't worth doing.

We have to do what we have to do when we have to do it. And when we don't, we don't.

It doesn't make it important or unimportant, it just *is*, and we're obligated to execute.

Rather than telling yourself that everything you do is pointless, let yourself have some perspective that, in the end, impermanence will win. And those mountains are really just hills belonging to moles.

#philosophy #self help #inspiration #consciousness #psychology

[exploding-fountain]

Top 10 kpop songs of February

有吗炒面 (ALGTR) - Lexie Liu. Mandopop lmao. What can I say? It's a beautiful synthpop masterpiece.

Crown On My Head (Yeji) - Itzy. At #17 is the best solo of Itzy.

Love wins all - IU. All the way at #21 is another gorgeous piano ballad from IU. Still sad I can't sing the actual love wins all part.

Abittipsy - Youha. It's the top song of 2023, best synth pop masterpiece of all time, still here at #22!

Shopper - IU. Still on the fence about this one but it's on the list at #33. It's nice enough I suppose but not an IU classic.

Narcisissm - Sunmi. At #35 is my fave Sunmi song! Beautiful, dreamy, love the chorus and the instrumentation.

Chill Kill - Red Velvet. Was torn about this when it first came out but popped into my head one day and now I like it enough to land it a #37 spot on this list.

Welcome To MY World (feat. naevis) - aespa. Def only ended up here cause I put it on my synthpunk playlist. But it is nice and synth-y, so I guess it's nice.

HWAA - (G)I-DLE. At #44 is a beautiful dreamy song by them girls which they ought to get back to making.

I GOT YOU - Twice. Continuing a trend of English pre-releases that a re better than the title track. Classic Twice banger. But a bit too similar to their other songs to stand out, so it's at #46.

Actual top songs are exactly what I'd expected. Heartbeat Highway - Cannons, Runaway - Aurora, Amour censure - Hoshi, two Lorde songs, Hayley Kiyoko, Fall Out Boy and Imagine Dragons. As it should be. Top artists were Taylor Swift, Lorde, Itzy, Halsey, Twice, (G)I-DLE, Imagine Dragons, Aurora, Olivia Rodrigo and IU. Exactly what I'd expect. Except for Olivia Rodrigo. Not sure how she made it there.

#kpop #february recap

[turtle-paced]

What do you think about jaime pushing bran out of a window to his death because he saw him and Cersei intimately, then the next day wears matching colours with Cersei? As in what do you think that tells us about his and Cersei’s physc?

Here's what anon is referring to:

Tyrion turned back to his siblings. Twins, male and female. They looked very much the part this morning. Both had chosen a deep green that matched their eyes. Their blond curls were all a fashionable tumble, and gold ornaments shone at wrists and fingers and throats.

Tyrion I, AGoT

Visual indicator that the two are united. I don't think we see them doing the matching outfits later - let me know if I'm wrong.

In the context of what was just revealed about their relationship, it also emphasises the physical similarity between the two. They're not just a couple, they're an incestuous couple. The relationship isn't selfless love, but murderous narcisissm.

#asoiaf #valyrianscrolls #jaime lannister #cersei lannister #a game of thrones

[ttaibhse]

llama moment. ok thats it for the narcisissm posting