#im so stupid for gays/lesbians

[hello-its-j10]

favorite ship from each of my top 5 shows!! [1st to 5th, no hate<3]

yeah im unmotivated and have no motivation to draw and stuff so..

#WOO MULTIFANDOM #shipping #gravity falls #total drama #she ra and the princesses of power #amphibia #the owl house #dipcifica #scottitoba #scorfuma #yulivia #gustholomule #im so stupid for gays/lesbians #yes i know dipcifica may not look like it.. but dipper is trans aint he? <3 #or should i say.. she?? :O #lgbtq #lgbtqia

[gxlden-angels]

Nothing angers me more right now than the Christianization of gender

#like I know christians aren't the only group with men and women #but rn that's the group that's trying to erase literally every other culture's gender identity and expression #and also the drag—I mean community partner performance I helped with last night went incredibly #and I also Im so bisexual and I will never recover from being called cute by a beautiful lesbian standing over me in my wheelchair #I'm still blushing about it holy shit I love women #I almost cried #but I'm so pissed because even fully grown adults in adult spaces aren't allowed to express their gender #which is so stupid like how are you protecting the children by regulating adult spaces #The performance was amazing tho and I think we changed so many baby gay's lives #ex christian #religious trauma

[franken-shits]

Me and my 3-4 mutuals who've always hated James Somerton watching his downfall

#james somerton #e-celeb down!!!! #plagirsm and staright up lying about random shit aside #we always found his takes insane #we liked him for his horror videos until his horrendous take about the brother's from the lost boys like wtf #but the last straw for me was his black swan video #those takes where too hurrendous #and his blatent misogyny weve been on to him for that for a while too #and also a bit more petty but he comes across as so pretentious and mighier then dow #and he really wasnt equipt to talk about any other lgbt group besides cis gay men #he had said some stupid shit about lesbians before i remeber that pissing me off #and apparently he plagirised trans writers and just replaced “trans” with “gay” which checks out with his track record #im ranting but u dont understand i was a hater for years and everyone loved him

[dykeinthedark]

venting in tags about gender n shit (long as hell) (u can comment and talk 2 me as always :3)

#okay so i got a really masc haircut about a month ago and i know it's just a haircut but holy shit has it changed EVERYTHING for me #like.... i've always leaned masc except 1) before i came out 2) when i was actively in love with someone who i knew liked femmes #and they always described me as a fem. because that's what i showed her. because i wanted to be with her. #but lowkey whenever i'm in a not-impressing-anyone raw-dogging-life-no-crush era i always resort to a very masc style #like masc being my default and i'd only lean fem to impress people whether it's for love or peer pressure in a specific setting #like ''dressing up'' has always been a form of drag to me. like something i HAD to do to fit in or impress my parents (scott favor core) #but ever since this haircut i've realized... i could just BE masc innately like i really don't have to be womanly if i don't want to #which i usually don't. again i have only ever dressed fem for other people. but it's not even being masc that attracts me on its own #it's like. being masc in a distinctly lesbian way. as in whenever i look in the mirror i don't wanna be like a Guy i wanna be a dyke. #like lesbian as a gender identity too sort of thing honestly. okay i've been waffling but basically i sort of want to call myself butch #but i don't know if i like... can?? if i'm allowed to??? #everyone always says it's MORE than just wearing boy clothes and not wearing makeup and having short hair (which i already do all those) #i mean i've always id'd as genderqueer because it literally just means gender weird and i experience gender in a queer way #what's probably the most telling is that my friends (all queer) CALL me a butch lesbian #like every time they do i feel really internally validated. it's not just my clothes but my personality too ig is what people tell me #i have a higher pitched voice relatively speaking but apparently the way i talk is quote ''very clockably into women'' #which?? gender euphoria asf. my best friend specifically he (gay trans guy) always uses butch to describe me very intuitively #people have also noticed that i ''transitioned'' in all aspects except hormonally. like ppl have commented and noticed my masculinzation #but at the same time i always feel rly haunted by my ex relationships because one wanted me to be more masc #(she's the one who came out as straight and would treat me like a man) which i didn't like and i didn't like playing up being fem either #bc now it feels like she (butch) won't believe me if i called myself butch too bc she remembers me being femme #idk i feel like there's her voice in my head all the time that sees everything i do through her eyes (i'm lowkey still in love) #i feel like even though this comes so naturally to me i must be putting on a performance #even though i've actually read stone butch blues and done research into the history and i truly love and id with the culture like i rly do #that im still just a sad imitation of a butch lesbian and can never really be a part of it because i used to enjoy dressing up sometimes #like it's so stupid but can i still be butch if i wore a dress to prom and i think i looked good in it?? #even though i was envious of my friends who wore suits?? that i used to try goth makeup?? that i liked long dresses?? #that i enjoyed stacked necklaces and rings on every finger??? #and tbh ALL OF THAT CAME FROM A CONCIOUS EFFORT TO FEMINIZE MYSELF IN JUNIOR YEAR OF HIGHSCHOOL WHEN I WAS 16 #because omfg it was 2 months before junior prom and i was worried that i was too masc and wanted to get comfortable with being fem

[gontagokuhara]

thinkign about……..transfem nagito………..collapses to the floor

#dr #Oh tbe converssations we could have about gender…….baby i can fix yuo youre Literally just austistic and transgender…… #she/he gay boygirlthing not a man not a woman but a secret 3rd thign…….. #related. currrntly entrenched in ‘lesbian is a gender’ discourse on twt becuz so many non lesbians r STUPID…….and thinking ❤️ #nagito’s gender is ‘pretty’ the girls that get it GET IT ‼️‼️‼️ #im going to take my meds now DODNDICNDIXJWJAHS

[romainlettusdinnerparty]

i cannot find a single fucking play about queer community surrounding the specific experiences of lesbians and other queer women actually gonna sob. why is it i can find like a million and one plays about gay men that dont just center on romance and not one (1!!!) about gay women. the patriarchy is alive and well i see

#sorry if im being stupid but i cant find anything #my favorite play of all time is the inheritance by matthew lopez and i just want some sort of equivalent for queer women #ik that play is very much about aids but it is also about different generations of queer experiences #but it is so men focused #like in a way that makes sense and is important i think #but i just wanna like a being a lesbian LOL #i want there to be content to froth at the mouth over!!! #is that so much to ask!!!!! #gay people #lesbians #theatre #theater #mine

[pomfiores]

the nice thing about living at work being offline for chunks at a time is the people u used to really dislike seeing on the dash (by no one's fault, promise), it doesn't really bother you anymore when you see them pop up as recs or smth. like. neat. lol. it's nice! it's comforting. i feel like I've def moved on from things, its liberating.

#◟ ⋆ㅤㅤif my hair's a mess﹐my mind's a mess.ㅤ( ooc ) #to delete * #still on brainrot about this crush or whatever it is #decided to be upfront with her lol donnnnt have the highest hopes but #as someone who likes transparency and directness -- i feel its right. #and if not! im 100% ok with it too like its not my first time #i am v clumsy w this tho bc i don't usually tell people lol if im even Remotely interested. so. #she's branching out for'shore. #also confided in my brow girl who's also a lesbian and she was like 'girl ask her. that'd make it clear like whenever ur in the area' #she's absolutely right. so. there's that. thank god i have one lesbian person irl who i can talk to about this shit #she wanted to have me do gay clubs that she knows of. women only. sounds fun! but. nah. work keeps me :') #she's a teacher :') a professor technically. i feel so stupid LFKASJFA #i dont think im dumb! by any stretch! but. the fact she teaches (art) and is tech a teacher im like god akjfsha #how do i talk wtf akjfsa i can sound Smart totally oh def (help)

[lenaluthcr]

The Studio Dance Scene - Valentina & Luíza (Stupid Wife) via producers livestream

#stupid wife #valentina x luiza #luiza x valentina #valu #stupid wife scenes #wlw #wlwsource #wlwdaily #sapphic #oHMYFUCKINGOD #THE WAY THEY LOOK AT EACH OTHER #THE CHEMISTRY #IMDEADOHMY #THEY LOOK SO GOOD IM- #THESE LESBIANS I SWEAR TO GOD #THE ENDINGOHMY #ya welcome gays

[demadogs]

it really hits different when someone, whether its a celebrity or just someone you work with, is a happily out lesbian. obviously im happy for any queer person that comes out but the majority of those who do, at least who i have encountered, are either gay men or bi women. and even tho we’re a part of the same community i still always feel a little isolated and different from them. the majority of my friends are queer but i have zero lesbian friends and it actually really upsets me. when i find out someone is queer im obviously happy but when i find out theyre lesbian i get so happy i wanna cry. its just different.

#im actually full on crying now after i just wrote that goddamnit i just washed my face #this is literally just about a hair stylist on tiktok i love that i knew was queer but i assumed she was bi but just learned shes a lesbian #and she dyed her hair pink and orange and wore a pink and orange dress and earrings today for pride and now im crying #this post is for lesbians #do not reply or rb and tag something related to being bi or a gay man or something itll piss me off this is for LESBIANS #i mean you can rb if youre not lesbian but just dont make it about yourself #i rbd a post that just said ‘lesbians 🩷🧡’ and someone rbd it and said ‘bisexual 💜💙’ and i know #they meant well but it made me unreasonbaly upset #i just sometimes feel like there are a million gays and bis and like 10 lesbians including me #lesbian #pride month #lgbt #it actually makes me cry that i have no lesbian friends #i mentioned it to my bi friend once and granted we were kinda drunk but she just said ‘are we not good enough for you’ and we laughed #but fuck it really makes me sad like im fully crying rn thinking about it #this is so stupid

[munamania]

right can i just. okay. lesbian is not a genre so im not looking to lump all these shows together. got that out of the way. im also not looking to pit queer people against each other so ok checking that off the list. i am however going to go ahead and throw the misogyny card out here because it’s fucking annoying how shows that center women, especially when theyre woc and/or queer, still just don’t take off even in progressive online spaces the way any shows with our darling young gay male couples will. i’m not saying that’s, like, the Cause of them being cancelled either because we’ve been shown numbers don’t matter. and many of the “”lesbian”” shows that have been cancelled were popular otherwise. just complaining xo!

#because well maybe many of these lesbian shows are not that good. and it's hard for people to care #but also sometimes they like are. or they're not 'good' but they're still fun and if the dynamics in play were primarily #attractive young guys i personally think they'd take off. but there's no way to like prove that so im just talking out of my ass #and ALSO. regardless of the lesbian aspect of it. many of you will watch such ass shows that have like no women or one woman in it #and hype it up to all hell cause that's your babygirl #I SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO HAVE A GOOFY STUPID ASS DYKE TRAPPED IN A SHOW THAT ISNT THAT GOOD AND HAVE FUN!!! #i deserve pathetic women!!!!! #and also. largely upset with the most recent cancellations because of the butches/masc lesbians involved #because that you know has a special place in my heart. okay whatever #anyway. let me also add that plenty of the people who hype up mediocre gay shows are some of the most annoying people on the planet #so yk maybe it's a gift in a way to just have the illusion that the relationship begins and ends with me and my tv and one friend #but. like. the thing is is some of the tropes/dynamics/etc i see on these shows would make people go ferallllll if u know...... #circumstances were different. but they just dont care. and also like. i think it's fair to be sad that ur just not getting more time #with characters u enjoy #that none of the money these streaming services get goes to even shitty quality stuff #honestly it's so smart of them to be like Ooo look gay people i have smth for u! and then get everyone online going #omg stream it so it doesnt get cancelled!!!!!! to maximize off it anyway. and then cancel before it can threaten their image or anything #and get too big. or be smth they invest in

[entityredacted]

I promise I'm not dead I've just been going through some shit irl + lost all motivation to do fanart so here's some ocs

#my art <3 #oc artwork #dragon oc #the trans prideflag colour palette for the first guy was completely accidental but yk what its a complete and utter win win #the second one is the embodiment of death and eternal rest herself #she is also a trans lesbian and her wife is the goddess of life bc im extra #the dragons are from the same universe as Death Lesbian and its stupid dumbass (ace edition) vs stupid dumbass (pansexual edition) #gay on gay violence pretty much #and the last one is just a miscellaneous thing since i randomly went down a selkie lore rabbithole #so its just some selkie lady helping out a lost silly little guy

[dandyshucks]

experiencing my bimonthly (every two months) morality spiral of "it's bad that i like men, why am i not as attracted to women, i must be a misogynist if I personally am not as often attracted to women as i am men"

i would say i need to go touch grass to get over it but unfortunately I do that at least once a day and it does not seem to help 😔 (this second paragraph is half joke)

#the ocd is OCD'ing !!!!!! get me OUTTA here !!!! #what actually would help is getting out and being around real life ppl more but. i am so tired fsdjkl that is so difficult #also i am afraid bc my immune system is so fucked up and i really cannot afford physically or mentally to get sick #if i was a man or man-adjacent i wouldn't feel bad about being attracted to men i think #bc then i'd ''at least be gay'' #but when i am nonbinary and transneutral then i feel like everyone is just going to see me as girl-lite in a straight relationship #and if i am not attracted to women then surely i MUST be a misogynist! because women are wonderful so why am i not as attracted to them! #its funny bc we have a lesbian in the system and also a gay man and then a few other ppl across the span of sexualities #and im just over here being the only one having mental breakdowns about my sexuality HFDSJGKL #everyone else is like. it literally does not matter the way u seem to think it does. ur fine. wtf are u on about. #and im over here spiralling out into crying breakdowns bc i convince myself i must be a terrible person for not being as attracted to women #i need to figure out how to stop going through this spiral every couple of months bc it is exhausting and so so so stupid oh my god #vent // #dandy.cmd

[robotpussy]

"you can't be bisexual if you date a man" ok big brain what the fuck does bisexuality mean then

#like.... you lot see bisexuality as lesbian lite or gay man lite like i hate to break it to you but #even when i am fucking a man i am still bisexual im not suddenly straight cause i am #we've been saying this for like so long and ppl still say this stupid shit 😭 like be fr

[whatcanido]

fucking loved mean girls (2024) no complaints

#the obc #1. renee rapp 2. auli’i cravalho 3. musical 4. gay #i will say they hurt my baby stupid with love but thats ok. nobody’s perfect #it was just so fun and i think a wonderful remake and adaptation #and im a lesbian. so L+ratio+i dont care if you think it was bad #mwah

[femmeterypolka]

i shouldn’t feel sad in a place like this

#but i am. for some reason #no creative juice. not even enough to sing #and ever since ive taken lessons i'm so much more self-conscious of my voice anyway #i want to write i want to but writing down any words feels like scraping the back of my head again #i shouldnt be worrying about this. im on vacation. aren't i here to relax? aren't i? #but i'm here and i feel sad and gay #ugh. being gay is so stupid #especially a lesbian! even in the gay capital of the world everything still is more geared towards gay men. i love seeing bear flags i do #but i wish lesbians had something like that too

[sleepiest-banuffin]

the ✨girlies✨

#I have no idea what im doing someone help #Art #digital art #oc #ocs #original character #original characters #idk theyre just slaying in suits bc i felt like it #so gay #theyre in love your honour #And also a little stupid #How they kept their relationship a secret this long i have no idea #Is this a normal amount of tags #idk #from now on all lore will be hidden in the tags #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer couple #maybe throuple #lesbians #sapphic #Well more #Wlw #ok bye