#good listener

[pillofmoonlight]

I really want someone to ask what my favourite things are and then I want them to ask me the why and then I want them to listen to me eagerly instead of making me look dumb. And then I want to do the same for them. Is it too much to ask?

#is it too much to ask #too much to ask #dark academia #dark academic aesthetic #i want love #love #need love #good listener #writing #desi tumblr #thoughts

[everythinkaloud]

Genuinely listening to other people is a practice and every conversation presents you with an opportunity to practice. Remember, people want to feel heard

#listening #attention #kindness #compassion #good listener #spirituality #buddhism #zen #meditation #mindfulness #yoga #qigong

[magpies-gold]

A funny thing is that for all that I love him to bits, I still feel entirely unsatisfied with 90% of the drawings I've done of Heinrich. I know what he looks like in my head, and I get close most of the time, but not quite there. His facial features are particular and if they're slightly off it's just not him. This took far too long considering it was just a sketch, but I think I figured out a few key details that I can repeat to make sure he looks like himself? Maybe? This is good because I'm itching to do mini-comics about him and Elliot's early days as a way to help my own brain establish their relationship, and to get my head around the bizarre creature that is Heinrich. It promises to be weirdly cute.

#alpha base #Heinrich #my antagonist is an extremely borderline antagonist #mostly on technicalities #but his buddy is a villain for sure #he's such a disarming bundle of quirks #chill quiet and helpful #loves to read #good listener #also though: #works very very hard to maintain that chill #loses his cool in 0.2 seconds when stressed and will kill you #he's also not a fan of people in general #he's ace/aro #has exactly two friends #no family #very happy on his own #and yet: #a quirk #he loves kids #not in an enthusiastic omg-they's-so-cute kind of way #but like Rosa and the puppy in Brooklyn 99 #he will go extremely out of his way for kids #afraid of monsters? #afraid of the dark? #no I don't think so because this fellow is scarier but on your side #that kind of thing #anyway I have things I want to draw

[cissy-side-thoughts]

Quality of Being a Good Listener

I am a Good Listener.

As soon as I see another person, I want to know how they are. Especially if I care about them. I will listen to people talk for hours. I’ll interact with them, I’ll relate with them.

I love listening, taking in information, and processing things. It helps me really understand things, topics, and people. And I have the strongest drive to understand it all.

But sometimes I listen too much and don’t talk enough. It’s something that I’m working on…

I am a Good Listener.

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Discussing Strengths Challenge

#listen #good listener #i listen to everything #my qualities #qualitylife #cissy side thoughts writes #cissy side thoughts talks #writing #my writing #i write

[howifeltabouthim]

He had always been so kind that she had failed to really see him. He had focused so ardently on her, and erased himself so skillfully, that he had effectively disappeared.

Anna Biller, from Bluebeard's Castle

#loss of self #unassuming #kind #kindness #good listener #characterization #identity #relationship dynamics #how i felt about him #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #anna biller #bluebeard's castle

[lovailee]

He’s really the first guy I’ve ever just authentically been myself with. Well, the second, but I feel a little more free with him. ​Not gonna form an unhealthy attachment to him tho. I don’t wanna ruin this. Ima just let the relationship flow into whatever it flows into and if it never even becomes anything, that’s coo too. I’m just glad I got to experience him

#and that’s what makes me so attracted to him #that and he’s very smart #good listener #handsome #y’all I’m crushing on him like a highschool girl lmaoo omg #and WHY tf did he call me as I was typing out this post and just cashapped me some money?? GOOD LORD I love this man jkfkgkfkdk #and he funny af idk how I forgot

[mushiemoonqueen]

Hey all!, Just wanted to share this. I believe the link is on my profile as well. If you guys ever need anything or anyone whatever I’m able to do, I will do you always have my open ear and what said here stays here I will do my best to keep my page, as safe as I can keep it via Internet!

#safe zone #good listener #content creator #artists on tumblr #available #send messages

[mitnex112]

#findingyourself #self healing #advisor #talk to someone #good listener #self care #loveyourself

[breelynnxoxoxo]

LET’S DISCUSS SOME THINGS……. 🖤🖤🖤

#sitting pretty #sit around #good listener #now listening #talk to me #have my heart #always in my heart #real talk #beautiful breasts #absolutely beautiful #breathtakingly beautiful

[riaspeace]

If no one is willing to listen to what you have to say, I will be here to listen to you😊

#im here #good listener

[dysphoresque]

Girls who are good listeners, girls who always know the right words to comfort someone, girls who always know when or when not to talk if someone's sharing a story, girls who are there but don't really exist, girls who are always there in a conversation but you realize (or you don't) that you don't really hear them talk about anything personal, girls who are good at making you feel comfortable, girls who are bad at talking about themselves, girls who want to be heard but always gets talked over, girls who don't even try to talk about themselves anymore, girls who laugh at all your jokes, girls who wait for you when you tie your shoelaces, girls who ask 'what were you saying?' when someone talked over you, so you could finish what you were saying, girls who always ask if something's wrong because no one does that for them. No one does any of that for them.

Girls who know the coldness of the world but radiate the warmth they never received. I love you with all my heart.

#i will listen to you #with your shaky voice and your jumping stories #i love it when you finally talk and say inarticulate things no one gets because they've been so buried it becomes jumbled #your stories are a circle #they are non linear and it's beautiful and i love you and your messy ramblings pls talk more #your presence matter #girls #good listener #mirrorball #quotes #spilled ink #writing #books #words

[bluesgator]

Many's the time I wish it would all end right here.

She said,

"I swear, I know what I heard. They were talking about us."

#youtube #montreal #quebec #ajo tomasso #bluesrock #bandcamp #trauma #paranoia #depression #good listener #greatguitar

[crabussy]

hey. don’t cry. crush four cloves of garlic into a pot with a dollop of olive oil and stir until golden then add one can of crushed tomatoes a bit of balsamic vinegar half a tablespoon of brown sugar and stir for a few minutes adding a handful of fresh spinach until wilted and mix in half a cup of grated parmesan cheese and pasta of your choice ok?

#ITS MY FAVOURITE PASTA RECIPE #tastes so so good and delicious and hearty and warm #doesn’t require many ingredients or effort and is so yummy #I have sensory issues and digestive disorders and this recipe brings me so much joy #barely anything to remember!!! rich while still easy on the stomach!!!! #listen to my gibberish boy #you can add any amount of sugar and vinegar and cheese it works regardless #I UPPED THE GARLIC BECAUSE OF FEEDBACK BTW #AND PUT THE CHEESE AT THE END TO AVOID IT STICKING TO THE POT

[howifeltabouthim]

Her voice was plaintive and soft, and there was a look of real sympathy in her eyes. Phineas almost felt that if they two had been quite alone he could have told her everything, and have wept at her feet.

Anthony Trollope, from Phineas Finn

#a shoulder to cry on #sympathy #opening up #you've got a friend in me #sympathetic #let it all out #breaking down #crying #evocative #good listener #confidante #emotional intimacy #alone with you #alone together #romance novel inspo #fanfic inspo #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #classics #anthony trollope #phineas finn

[drops-of-universe]

I need several hours of Quiet Time each day or i become the worst person alive

#its so good to be home after almost two days going here and there and interacting and talking and listening and and and