#(Learned the hard way)

[thecrazyphantom]

PLEASE READ ALL OF THE CUT

I plan on posting on my

@/futurefoundationisalie

@/ask-fuyuhiko-bleh

And @/ask-the-maizonos

Blogs only once or twice a week. I have horrible art burnout and all I've been drawing has been korekiyo lol. So one week I'll draw For the future foundation, another week I'll draw for Fuyuhiko, another I'll draw for the Maizonos.

My other two blogs @/theultimatecruiseship and @/garnett-and-friends will be posting whenever I feel like.

AND FINALLY

I made a blog for Natsumi called @/ask-the-ultimate-baby-sitter !

I will post on that on the same schedule as my Fuyuhiko blog (or whenever I get asks... -cough cough-)

Thank you :)

#please read #not an art #signal post #art burnout #rome wasn't built in a day #meaning art shouldnt be managed all at once.. :') #learned the hard way #please take a break #drink water #all that jazz #phantoms textposts

[bellaxisworld]

i got silly and mass privated all of my posts two days ago... and now i want my microfics back up again. so those will hopefully be back up in the next couple hours <3

#you cannot mass UNprivate posts #learned the hard way #bella's silly rambles

[tattoorue]

#ass beatings #learned the hard way #rioting #truth #word #funny #funny post #lol #life #funny meme #funny memes #lmao #too funny #for real #preach #funny relatable #so relatable #haha memes

[sp4rk-p1ug]

DO NOT FOLLOW THE AESTHETIC BREAD MAKING TUTORIALS!!!’ YOUR DOUGH WILL NOT RISE IF YOU DONT HAVE AN AIRTIGHT SEAL!!!! STOP THROWING A DISH TOWEL OVER A BOWL AND KEEPING IT LIKE THAT!!!!!!

#learned the hard way #baking bread #h

[ms-all-sunday]

do you know how much fanfiction has a vice grip on my mental health. if i stop doing that shit for a day im done

#modposts #learned the hard way

[tokwattoge]

Just be you.

Ito yung PINAKA-importanteng ituturo ko sa anak ko. PINAKA. Tatlong salita pero mama bakit hindi naman inexplain sa akin nakakainis. Napakapretentious ko nung elem, talagang trying to fit in. Tipong babaguhin ko sarili ko para makasabay sa uso at magkaroon ng set of friends. Nakakapagod. MALING MALI. Nadala ko to hanggang high school. Hindi ako nakabago ng maayos na circle of friends kasi kahit ako hindi ko kilala sarili ko. Ngayong 25 na ako, naiisip ko na nung mga panahon na yun, natakot ako. Natakot akong mag-isa kasi sa bahay lagi akong mag-isa. Wala akong kapatid at laging wala ang parents ko. Wala rin nagtatama ng mali ko at walang nakakapansin na hindi na pala tama ang ginagawa ko.

Siguro marami akong pagkakamali na naiwasan kung sinundan ko lang tong payo na ito. Pero pag iniisip ko yung tipo ng ugali na meron ako, yung klase ng kapaligiran na meron ako nung mga panahon na yun, at mga taong nakapaligid sakin, eto talaga yung mangyayari. Kung iisipin, hindi naman siguro sila nagkulang sa pagpayo, pero ang kaso hindi ko kasi naintindihan yung sinasabing JUST BE YOU. Ngayong naiintindihan ko na, I'll do my part na kahit papaano maexplain ko kay baby ito. Pero sa totoo lang, ang hirap mahalin ng sarili kung hindi ko alam kung pano ba mahalin ng tama. Hirap din talaga pag galing sa broken family, at lalong mahirap pag ang magulang ay galing din sa broken family. Nangangapa maging magulang, pero hindi ko sila masisisi. Pinilit nila gawin ang parte nila sa abot ng makakaya nila.

Anyway, kung halimbawa lang na makakausap ko yung younger self ko, sasabihin ko lang na take your time to get to know yourself, kasi pag hindi mo yan gagawin ngayon gagawin mo pa rin yan sa future. Para hindi ka na magpaulit ulit, at para maiwasan mo yung mga mali na pwede mong iwasan kung tinanggap mo lang agad at kinilala ang sarili mo. Knowing yourself can allow you to attract people with similar interests and mindset. Hindi kailangan mabigat ang relationship, mapafriendship man yan, jowa, or family. I guess ito rin ang sasabihin ko sa anak ko, and so much more. I'm here anak to help you, pero pwede rin naman learning the hard way. Your choice anak haha!

#just be you #kung maibabalik ko lang #learned the hard way

[violentdevotion]

can't spam rb from someone who just spam rbed from you bc you end up just spam rbing your own posts again

#ameera speaks #learned the hard way #sorry h will have to wait a week before i can spam rb u

[ididoktoday]

Mental illness is never our fault.

It’s nothing we did wrong in any way.

We may or may not feel like we have what it takes to navigate it.

And, it’s still our responsibility to find a way through it, no matter how slapdash or making-do we have to get.

It’s the same as life.

We start by cobbling together a solution that we know isn’t the best, but is the best we can do with the resources we have. A first coping skill.

This rudimentary solution is just the initial step; it’s a toehold that allows us to get our heads above water enough to gather our thoughts and decide what we would like to do differently moving forward.

Maybe we can’t afford/don’t desire help at this point.

We can still find a way to journal and figure out what our needs are, so that if the opportunity comes to receive help, we’ll know what we need to share with the people who would assist us.

#self care #self love #mental health #therapyworks #recovery #positive mental attitude #kindness #spread kindness #kind notes to self #recovering people pleaser #therapy things #therapy thoughts #therapy #growth #personal growth #life lessons #learned the hard way #mental illness #mental illness recovery #mental wellbeing #mentalwellness #mentalhealth

[birf]

ya know your living in a house run by a slumlord when you vacuum and it’s just constant floor chunks comin up

#I don’t walk in the house without shoes #learned the hard way

[mothheart]

My annual time of remembering the year Ella climbed the Christmas tree and got herself tangled in the lights by her waist and we had to cut her free. Anyway she stopped climbing the tree like a few years ago or so and upgraded to trying to eat it (its fake) so that's better I guess

#she was screaming absolute bloody murder but her life was not in danger #and shes fine obviously #learned the hard way #ella posting #miles rambles

[howifeltabouthim]

It wasn't that they were afraid, exactly. But they had learned that bad things could happen to you. At night. Alone. In the dark.

Katherine Arden, from Dead Voices

#not afraid #cautious #trauma #experience #harsh reality #loss of innocence #once bitten twice shy #learned the hard way #on edge #ready for anything #in the dark #night #alone #vulnerable #bad things #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #horror #after dark #scary #katherine arden #dead voices

[stuckinapril]

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but please don’t break promises you make to yourself just because it’s you the promise is being made to. You told yourself you’d go on a walk tomorrow morning? Do it. You said you’d get more consistent with your skincare routine? Make it happen. You promised yourself you would work on establishing boundaries regardless of who’s on the other side of them? Follow through with that. Don’t wake up the next day and go “well I don’t HAVE to do this” “it wouldn’t hurt to postpone this” “this isn’t a big deal” because it literally is. Every promise broken is another nail in the coffin of your self-actualization. It’s another major roadblock to developing healthy self-love and self-respect. Weigh promises you’ve made to yourself the same way you would weigh promises you’ve made to others.

#learned this in very hard ways this year but breaking your own promises is so deterimental

[cremealacreme]

Never tell someone you struggle with anxiety because they will immediately start infantilizing you

#learned the hard way #mental health

[question-marked]

@twcfaces cont. from this ask

Edward held one of his legs as he limped over to the couch. He didn’t want to admit that he let his guard down and got beat up, but he decided to confess this time.

“Thanks…fine, what actually happened is that I got my ass beat by some people from the mob. More specifically from the Falcone gang, I guess they didn’t like that I was working with some of their rivals.” 

He then grimaced and held his right leg. “Fuck...they hit both of my legs with metal pipes. My right leg hurts more, since they hit that one harder…” Edward groaned as he looked up at the ceiling, breathing heavily. “You were right, I shouldn’t have got myself caught up with them. But the money I was getting from my sales was too good to just give it up.”

#twcfaces #dramatis personae: ic #learned the hard way

[nerdpoe]

Danny is about to be kidnapped in Gotham This is not a good time.

He's studying for the SAT, he's already been kidnapped by Vlad like, four times that week and it was a fucking Tuesday, he forgot his wallet at his new apartment, locked himself out of said new apartment (he could phase through the door but that wasn't the point), he's just been informed that the grant he applied for was denied so he needs to ask his mom and dad for college funds when he'd already told them he had it covered, and just...it was shit.

It had been shit. The entire week had been awful and annoying and he was ready to either murder everyone on the planet or go find a corner to cry in for the next three days.

So when the band of wild goons working for whatever villain of the week pulled up and tried to kidnap him, he snapped.

He used them to vent.

Shouted about how terrible his day had been, how terrible his week had been, how he'd already been kidnapped by his creepy godfather who was way too into him, how college funding was shit and the grant system was rigged, and how he'd have to call a locksmith or break down the door to his own apartment if he wanted to go to bed-all of it. He unloaded all of his frustration.

The goons actually backed off.

One of them gave him an awkward side hug and told him it'd get better.

Danny wasn't paying attention to his surrounding. He doesn't realize that the whole thing was livestreamed.

So when he gets home to his apartment later that day, his door is opened for him by the vigilante Spoiler before he can even turn intangible.

She brought over BatBurger and kidnapped Bruce Wayne, Gotham's bumbling Prince, to talk about college grants.

#dpxdc #dcxdp #dp x dc #dc x dp #phanfic #story prompt #steph watched the livestream and felt GREAT SYMPATHY #so she actually did trick bruce into coming with her and breaking into an apartment as bruce wayne instead of batman #told him it was an important job #he clued in that it wasn't crime related after she told him to stay put so she could get food #sure fuck it he'll give this rando kid a grant #he'll pay for the whole thing education is important #literally no one looks into the whole “i've already been kidnapped four times this week” thing #cuz everyone gets kidnapped in gotham #well almost no one looks into it #jack and maddie fenton do when they see the clip #vlad learns the hard way not to piss off the people who design weapons specifically meant for you

[ghooulishh]

Pay close attention to how effortlessly people lie to others, they will lie to you the same way.

#helpful advice #learned the hard way