#you’ve got this

[aimseytv]

alt stream tomorrow, not feeling the greatest tonight! goodnight gamers. be kind to yourselves okay?

#<3 #you’ve got this

[bornanoldsoul]

!!! 🤎

#dark academia #light academia #mental health #future #self help #quotes #beautiful words #you’ve got this

[leclerc-s]

on the bright side, at least lewis won’t struggle to remember his team name…

#f1 #formula one #mercedes #ferrari #lewis hamilton #it’s two words lewis #you’ve got this #we believe in you #i make jokes to cope with sadness

[csuitebitches]

Hi! You're amazing and your page is amazing. I'm a girl who's really interested in growing and building my life. My mental illness has taken so much from me, so I feel I am starting life over this year like a little baby while everyone else is an adult. I often feel VERY insecure around friends who are normal and have achieved so much and have not made the many mistakes that I have.

I now have been isolating myself because I usually feel so ashamed of myself when I'm with them. I barely have any cooking skills as a female, I've never held a real job, I never network or connect with anyone, I have felt so miserable with a scowl on my face everyday, and I barely know what I'm doing with my life now in college.

As I am now working on my character flaws, how do I still feel I am loveable to my friends, stop pushing everyone away, and stop feeling like hiding when I'm with them?

everyone was once in your shoes. Were your friends born with their job? Were they born accomplished? Was Gordon Ramsey born with a knife in his hands? Have you seen the video of him crying because of his mentor Marco Pierre White?

Ive lightly burned my fingers, my food, set off the university dorm fire alarm because of my initial cooking skills. I’ve melted a spatula. I’ve burned countless toasts, broken glass bottles, had a whole bug infestation because I forgot to close the fridge tightly when I left uni for summer. Then I learned. I watched more YouTube videos. I practiced cooking. I can objectively say I cook better than my mom today because I made the effort to learn.

A master was also an amateur once.

“I never network with anyone” it’s good that you can admit the things you need to work on. The way you address problems like this is:

a) are there networking opportunities near you?

b) can you look up conferences and opportunities near you?

you assume that your friends have not made as many mistakes as you have. Do you go on a radio show and tell the whole world about every mistake you’ve made in your life? Even with close friends, one does not always reveal every single thing or sometimes, doesn’t feel the need to.

your journey is your own. The exam paper of your life does not have the same answers that your friends have written.

you’re not going to magically wake up accomplished, you’re going have to work towards it. And the best part is, you’re in college! That’s such a great stepping stone because you’re in an environment that’s programmed to help you grow if you can use your cards right.

can you join any extra curricular clubs or activities? Or ask your professors or the counsellor for internship opportunities? Can you organise an event like a bake sale or something for the local charity? Can you take up volunteering opportunities?

your insecurities are holding you back. You’re not any less lovable than the friends and family in your life. You have control over your own life. When you choose to actively put yourself out there, start socialising, engaging with people - which can be difficult for some people but always rewarding - you’ll start seeing change.

unfortunately the world doesn’t revolve around us. If you’re unhappy with how things are, the remote control of your life is in your hands.

you’re already working on yourself which is great. That means you have the intrinsic motivation to do something. It’s time to stop moaning and whining and start creating a plan of action.

tackle things one thing at a time. Don’t start with 10 things.

From your message it seems like:

You need help with adulting - cooking.

job - ask your college counsellor/ professor of your favourite subject for internship opportunity, on campus or off campus.

purpose -find a hobby, sport, volunteering cause, something that you like that you actually enjoy.

look at these three problems in the best positive light. It means you get to learn all these things you didn’t know! It means you’ll be able to meet new people who could become really good connections!

make your life simple. Progress doesn’t mean going from burning the kitchen down to cooking a three course meal. It means taking one week to learn how to fry an egg. It makes taking a week to learn how to make a decent pancake or some rice. It means screwing up 10 times and then finally getting it right on the 11th.

allow yourself to make mistakes. Acknowledge to yourself about them and move on.

Do not let your shame hold you back from living your life. We torture ourselves in imagination more than we actually suffer in real life.

I’ve felt embarrassed countless times in my life. I’ve slipped up, messed up, forgotten things, done what I wasn’t supposed to, held my tears back, been scolded, full blown cried, scribbled aggressively in my diary, ranted to my mom, had dramatic fights with my imaginary boss in the shower, woken up late, screwed up royally in important meetings. These are not original experiences. These are universal experiences. Anyone who is telling you that they have never felt this is a dirty liar.

I wouldn’t exchange those mistakes for the world.

How do you think I’m able to give you advice on this if I didn’t go through those similar experiences?

If you want to make changes in your life that badly, start today. Set three simple goals that are achievable. Set deadlines. Be your own parent. Get your life together.

#Q/a #you’ve got this

[rosebloom431]

Hi.

I had a hard day, like really hard. I won’t go into details but it sucked. a lot.

So for anyone else having a hard day today, Just know..

It’s just a day.

There will be others.

Some good, some bad.

But the bad will pass.

Maybe good will come from it.

Maybe it won’t.

It’s ok.

It’ll be ok.

You’re gonna get through it.

It’s just a day.

It will end.

Even if it feels like it won’t.

It’s just a day.

You’re stronger than you realize.

Get through today.

I know you can.

You got through yesterday.

❤️

#not my usual post but i feel like people may need to hear that #positivity #hope #you’ve got this #i’m proud of you #❤️ #it’s just a day

[johnlennonofficial]

someone should design a. bunch of motivational posters for the bathroom for when your tummy rly hurts and u need help getting through it

#my tummy hurts btw #i need to hear things like #you’ve got this #this will pass! #you can do this!

[happydayssuggestions]

if you’re struggling to go about your day, even get out of bed, I want you to know that that is ok. it is ok. do what you need to do to survive.

#as long as it’s not harming anyone including yourself #you’ve got this #you’re a toughass bitch #slay girlie #happydayssuggestions #suggestion blog #suggestion #positive suggestions #happy suggestions #positive suggestion #positivity suggestions #happy suggestion #positivity #feel free to submit

[malbecmusings]

The Devil In The Details? That better life is going to require you to do the things you’re not currently doing but know need to be done. Go do it!

#I don’t know who needs to hear it #that’s not true #looking at you clt #you’ve got this #I believe in you #unearned trust #gimme a little #believe in yourself half as much as I believe in you #have the talk #RIAA

[soulinkpoetry]

Patience is the key to healing. The poison doesn’t leave your body all at once. It takes time for your nervous system to recover from narcissistic abuse. One day at a time. It could even take years. Don’t let anyone shame you for not healing fast enough.

.

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#healing is personal #patience #narcissistic abuse #soulinkpoetry #poetry #she writes #thoughts #feelings #poets on tumblr #you’ve got this

[4everbrookemarie]

Good things are coming, keep going! ❣️ Incase anyone needed the reassurance! 🫶🏾

#Good things #coming #On the way #keep going #don’t give up #you’ve got this #motivating quotes #motivation #reassurance #this is for you #keep your head up #head up buttercup

[artbyace]

not to vent on main but i srsly hate depression and to any other artists or writers out there who experience it, i feel for u

wanting to create but not having the motivation or energy to do anything is so frustrating. feels like im constantly fighting with my own head

#txt #marauders fanart #my art #ace is dying #anyone out there who’s goin through it too #you’ve got this #<3 #i feel like i have so much potential #that i’ll just never be able to achieve #because of how i am #and i hate that

[aimseytv]

always remember, time heals

#you’ve got this

[nellysview]

i am so proud of you 🫶 i have trouble staying clean atm but im almost at 9 months…

That’s great! I am prod of you!

If you ever feel like you want to do it-text me<3

I am here for you! Always!

#mental heath support #mental heath tw #talk about it #i am proud of you #be proud of yourself #you’ve got this

[resiliencewithin]

Can everyone please send me healing vibes? If I get another knock out cold again right now I might lose my goddamned mind (literal).

🤧

#working in a cesspool #school #school is the cesspool #please please please immune system #you’ve got this #my last cold fucked with my mental health so bad #😭 #and was only two weeks ago

[timetravelsong]

𝐍𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬, 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝. 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐠𝐨𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮.

excerpts from a book I’ll never write

#aesthetic #poetry #poets corner #poets on tumblr #quotes #writing #art #life #poem #poetscommunity #my poem #original poety #original poem #original quote #you’ve got this #in another universe #short poem #strength #the world ends with you #hurt/comfort #the world is yours #be the change #be the light

[cherry-pop-elf]

“Take a rest, it’s ok to breathe now and again. Come and sit in the tent for a while, and enjoy the rain. Just listen to nature, and savor.”

“What am I doing? I’m watching my boyfriend do some Quidditch training. What more could I want? Rain, nature, and his laughter.”

#harry potter #harry potter magic awakened #hpma #magic awakened #hpma oc #hp oc #hpma mc #harry potter oc #roleplay #hp magic awakened #checkpoint #stop scrolling #breathe #relaxing #take a moment #relax #you’ve got this #please remember that #enjoy the rain #rain #quidditch #quidditch pitch #hp #hp fandom #Harry Potter fandom #digital detox #detox #sharing a moment with you #deep breaths #time to rest