#tomcat bi

[femmebis]

💖 My proposal for the stag, tomcat and doe bisexual flags 💖

At the request of an anon, and with help from a tomcat and stag bisexual (with myself identifying as a doe), I have worked to create some designs for the sapphic bisexual identifiers of “stag,” “tomcat,” and “doe.” These terms are for bisexual sapphics who embody queer masculinity, androgyny and femininity respectively!

The meanings of the flags can be seen in the images, and in the alt text!

These are all free to use! Credit is NOT required (but it is appreciated)!

#doe bisexual #doe bi #stag bi #stag bisexual #tomcat bi #tomcat bisexual #flag creation #my posts

[androgynousboyfriend]

!!! NO DISCOURSE ON THIS POST PLEASE, I'M JUST TRYING TO COLLECT DATA !!!

#androgynous #gender neutral #futch #stemme #chapstick lesbian #tomcat bi #gender presentation #words

[bi-sapphics]

i think one of the things that helped me realize i was “allowed” to be butch was that it’s more like an identity and its own gender rather than a role in relationships - which can be a key aspect in a lot of cases and has always been for me whenever i dated girls without realizing it (seriously, looking back, all the girls i had a thing with but especially one were very femme in presentation and very timid and i remember being the strong confident one who just wanted to make her feel special), but as of right now i’m single and despite being butch4femme respectfully (i always crush on the more gender-conforming girls <3), it’s my identity. it’s what makes me transmasc. it’s what the tomboy side of me has led up to. it’s why i prefer the masculine, free-spirited, ambitious version of my deadname that i connected it to. it helps me feel stronger and more resilient, like i could be a leader with my confidence for myself even if no one else ever follows for any number of reasons (unpopular opinions, irrelevancy, whatever). it’s so much easier to not worry about how i look or appease to others and frankly as an autistic individual it’s so much better to just wear loose clothing that makes me feel more comfortable and is more of a simple style for me - similarly, i look so much more me with shorter (but wider across iykwim) hair and it’s so much more efficient to wash, comb, and otherwise take care of. i can’t even pull it back anymore, which is kind of a good thing tbh since i never could master that skill lmao. i love being butch, i really do, and i’ll always be grateful to the positivity blogs and flag creators that led to the idea that maybe it really was for me after all!! :>

#chase.txt #butch positivity #butch bi #butch bisexual #butch lesbian #butch sapphic #butch wlw #butch/femme dynamic #butch4femme #butch tag #tomboy #tomcat #tomcat bi #gnc girls #gnc wlw #transmasc #butchgender #transneu

[luigis-mogai-mansion]

Lazy flag combos pt.51

Ft. Aloeian/nullic/x loving none with...

Tomcat bi × lemon bi × xeno4xeno

Gay × fraysexual × aspec

Nb guy × questioning × doe bi

No credit needed

#mogai community #mogai friendly #pro mogai #mogaireal #mogai term #clover speaks #aloeian #xlnone #flag combo #lazy flag combos #nullic #x loving none #tomcat bi #lemon bi #xeno4xeno #xenogender4xenogender #gay #fraysexual #aspec #nb guy #nonbinary guy #questioning #doe bi

[sanguinaryrot]

androgynous bisexuals you put stars in my eyes you make this world go round you make my heart flutter you shine brighter than the sun when im having a bad day and i think i can’t go on i open my heart locket with the words androgynous bisexuals written inside and i gain the fortitude strength and courage to keep going i am currently kissing you on the lips mwaaah 🩷💜💙

#bisexuality #bisexual #androgyny #androgynous #androgynous bisexual #tomcat bi

[binchontherun]

Found out about the term butchcat and I have been obsessed ever since. 😭

Made by @bi-sapphics I believe??

#butch bi #bi butch #bisexual #tomcat #butch #lgbt #queer

[doki-doki-imagines]

Hey I like your writing! I’d like to request headcanons if you are still taking them? I follow you on a separate account, so that’s why I had the courage to ask this with anonymous off.

I was thinking of the men competing for the reader? It would be like: Raiden/Kung Lao, Kenshi/Johnny, Lin Kuei brothers are each other’s rivals and they do their own things to one up each other or to gain the reader’s favor more 😆

author note: Don't worry! Anyway you don't need to follow me to request something!🫡

Raiden vs Kung Lao: -Ohhh the sparks. No way Raiden will back down, and Lao knows it. -The fight for your heart starts now. -Their approaches are different. Raiden is all soft words and quiet dates (masked as friendly outing). Raiden bets everything on his sweet personality because he thinks he doesn't look good enough for you. -Lao is all for showing off his physique. Biceps always exposed, smiling more than usual to show off the dimples you seem to like so much (and also because Lao is just happier when next to you). -He has no doubt you can fall just for his amazing personality too, but you know, since he has such a great physique, it would be stupid not to use it. -Lao is like a peacock showing off his round tail, hoping to impress you. -Raiden doesn't show off, but he'll always pay when he takes you out to eat or will make you win bets on purpose. -His proud smile makes your knees go jello. -They won't play dirty tricks to each other because, after all, they are friends! -The choice is yours!

Johnny vs Kenshi: -Master rizzer vs Secret rizzer. -Johnny knows about his friend's crush on you, but doesn't mind. No way his introvert friend can woo you! -What he doesn't count is that his friend is an ex-yakuza, and as one, had to seduce people and get into their pants to steal information more than once. -And Kenshi was always successful. -Johnny doesn't mind fighting for your love; he fully believes you'll reciprocate his crush! -He is all sweet smiles and warm eyes gazing into yours. Johnny tries to show off every time you are near him. -Johnny asks you out daily, and sometimes you accept. His smile on those occasions could light up an entire mansion. -He acts like a big lazy cat. If you compliment him back, you can hear a purr blossoming from Johnny's chest. -Everyone can tell that he is wrapped around your fingers. -Kenshi is way more subtle but much more intense. -He'd share a meal with you under a blossoming tree in complete silence. -"I love spring. The flowers on the trees are beautiful." Kenshi would chuckle at your words. Then he'll grip your chin, his hand going so smoothly on it you almost forgot he is blind. "I'm sure it's a way to thank you for blessing them with your beauty every day." Kenshi says it so naturally that you believe him. No comeback goes through your brain. -He is gonna use all his knowledge to woo you. -He is there for you, but never clingy. Kenshi is all subtle touches that leave you hanging. You need to miss him. -Also more prone to talk down Johnny. Kenshi is a man with a mission and needs to brush away all the obstacles to reach his goal. -The tomcat or the sneaky ninja? Okay, maybe the comparison doesn't sound fair… -Welp! It's your choice!

Bi-Han vs Kuai Liang vs Tomas Vrbada: -Mortal Kombat begins now! With the difference that, this is really mortal. -Every day is a brawl. They try to bring the other down all the time. -When Liang thought he had to win just against Tomas, he was quieter. He still wants to conquer your heart, but he doesn't try to bring his brother down. -The same could be said of Tomas. He wants to win your heart fair and square, not spreading lies about his rival and brother. Simply making you fall for him. -But when they noticed how Bi-Han looks at you… -They both look at each other in the eyes, and realisation hit them both like a brick. -Bi-Han really doesn't care about them and will also try to brush his crush for you off. He is grandmaster he doesn't have time for foolish stuff like love. -But when Bi-Han noticed his brothers crush for you… now he absolutely wants you. -Oh, Liang stood you up? "Damn, I'm so sorry. Come with me! I'll pay for everything you want at Madame Bo!" Tomas replies, voice thrilling full of happiness. -If only you knew that Liang didn't arrive because somebody trapped him in the woods. -Tomas forgot about your birthday. "That fool only cares for himself. Take this. My gift for you." Bi-Han pushes it toward your chest, fake indifference dripping from his gestures. The "By Tomas" note carefully replaced with "By Bi-Han". -That ass of Bi-Han froze the walls of your house? Don't worry, dear Liang will help you out warming the house up. And if you don't mind, he'll embrace you "So at least you can warm up." His handsome face dangerously close to yours. -If only you knew Bi-Han and Liang bickered before and the pyromancer made sure for Bi-Han's attack to hit exactly your house… -They are like beasts always going at each other thorats. Sadly, this make them all grumpier. -If they keep going like this, you won't end up with either of them. -But if you are interested, move fast! Or the world will have fewer ninjas soon…

#mk x reader #mk1 x reader #mortal kombat x reader #mk headcanons #mk1 headcanons #mortal kombat headcanons #johnny cage #johnny cage x reader #kenshi takahashi #kenshi x reader #mk1 raiden #raiden x reader #kung lao #kung lao x reader #bi han #bi han x reader #kuai liang #kuai liang x reader #tomas vrbada #mk1 smoke #tomas x reader #smoke x reader

[webginz]

i saw that one post about how the term "masc" for women sucks but like.. as a bi woman what im i meant to say

>im masc

"way to conform to gender roles... just call urself butch"

>okay, im butch

"only lesbians can use that term, it has a long history behind it"

>okay, im a tomcat

"quit making up terms, no one knows what you mean"

>okay, im a tomboy

"thats a term for children, its creepy to use it as an adult"

>okay, im gnc

"oh so youre nonbinary?"

#im just me

[farmerlesbian]

poll - read all options before answering!

for lesbians, sapphics, wlw, gay laydies, bi and pan goils, enbies and androgynes and bois and queer dykes.

i'm curious again so here's a lil poll. i find we focus a lot on the term butch but there are a lot of terms and identities that are similar so i'm curious how folks identify. while some of these can be genders in themselves i'm not so much looking for like what your gender is, but more describing how you look and what your presentation is, which is why i'm not listing nonbinary. if you feel that's the best way to describe it and is how you describe yourself then go ahead and say that! if the term that resonates most for you also is your gender, that's fine select that term. also there are a lot more terms i would've included if i had more space so if the word you'd pick isn't here please choose other and list it in the tags or comments! i understand there are a lot of regional, subcultural, ethnic, and non-english language terms that you might use. so again, please feel free to use the 'other' and say what your term for yourself is.

some english language terms that i didn't include are: diesel dyke, bulldagger / BD / bulldyke, AG / aggressive, futch, stem, transmasc, dyke, boi, fuckboy/fuckboi, kiki, tomboy, drag king, stag, tomcat. and the subsets of butch: soft, hard, stone, LHB (long hair butch)

plus there are sooo many more non-english language terms out there that i'm not familiar with but you might identify with! please share 'em!

as always, talk about it in the comments n tags! i

#lesbian #identity #labels #polls #wlw #sapphic #butch #stud #masc #masc of center #queer #queer women #masculinity #gender nonconformity #gnc #gender nonconforming

[lesbianmarrow]

i know its kind of silly and cringe but i still think tomcat is a cute word for a butch bi woman i dont CARE if it sounds like a furry its cute!!!!!!!!

#syl posts

[imoga-pride]

are there any alt terms like butch that aren't lesbian exclsuive ?

not all butches are lesbian or sapphic at all. but it's still heavily associated with lesbians, so I see why people might want alternatives. some handy terms exist, such as tomboy and masc (not necessarily masculine), but they aren't quite there yet.

azurgirl and azurenby exist as an alternative to tomboy. stag and tomcat are bi-specific versions of butch and futch. butchcat derived from tomcat and butch. dragon and drake for ace-spec people. flags for bi/pan butch. mech for pan. enbutch was coined for non-binary butches.

see also: fruit list; damme/tomme; knight (masc bi man); crow (bi n-by masc); jackhound.

notice that it's rare to reference unfemininity without the word masculine. there are always synonyms. macho is nonspecific in English.

#butch #anon #masc #tomboy #tomgirl #dragon #drake #enbutch #bi/pan #mspec #bisexual #damme #tomme #knight #crow #jackhound #macho #azurenby #azurgirl #sapphic #wlw #lesbian

[mspecpolls]

#mspec #bi #omni #pan #pansexual #queer #abro #mspec polls #poly #polysexual #abrosexual

[melpomeneprose]

CHARACTER QUESTIONNAIRE !!

Tagged by: myself.

Tagging: @general-lafayette, @honorhearted, @lauraroleplayss, @the-summer-of-73, @pagetreader, and @washingtonsxalphaxwolf. 💙

✧･ﾟ   𝐃𝐀𝐒𝐇 𝐆𝐀𝐌𝐄.

► ELIZABETH SCHUYLER-HAMILTON.

Name: Elizabeth Schuyler-Hamilton.

Alias(es): Betsey & Eliza.

Gender: female (she/her).

Orientation: bi (male lean) (Protestant and quiet about it). 
Age: I have her at 24-26 during the American Revolution, after that, 30+, or timeline/verse dependent.

Date of birth: August 9th, 1757

Place of birth: Albany, NYC

Spoken language(s): English, French, Dutch & German.

Occupation(s): socialite, Dutch old money, philanthropist, advocate, wife and mother. Sometimes nurse during the American Revolution -> aiding her father General Phillip Schuyler.

★  ⸻   APPEARANCE

Eye colour: green-brown.

Hair colour: brunette.

Height: 5’2”

Other: values modesty as well as strength and dressing well. She pretty much always is wearing a fichu.

18th century ladies fashion.

18th century fashion glossary.

★  ⸻   FAVORITE

Colour: blue, cream, light pink and white.

Song: Eliza playlist.

Hamliza playlist.

Food: Apple turnover.

Drink: wine.

★  ⸻   HAVE THEY...

Passed university: by 18th century standards.

Had sex: yes.

Had sex in public: no.

Gotten pregnant/someone else pregnant: yes.

Kissed a boy: yes.

Kissed a girl: yes.

Gotten tattoos: no.

Gotten piercings: yes, ears.

Been in love: yes.

Stayed up 24+ hours: yes.

★  ⸻   ARE THEY...

A virgin: no.

A cuddler: yes.

A kisser: yes.

Scared easily: subjective.

Jealous easily: yes.

Submissive: yes.

Dominant: no.

In love: verse/thread dependant.

Relationship status: verse/thread dependant.

★  ⸻   RANDOM QUESTIONS

TW for self-harm/suicide mention.

Have they harmed themselves: no.

Thought of suicide/ideated: once, as a teenager.

Attempted suicide: no.

Wanted to kill someone: Briefly, in a moment of rage and betrayal. (Alexander following The Reynold’s Pamphlet).

Have/had a job: she wants to, but her father won’t let her.

Fears: not being enough.

Sibling(s): Angelica Schuyler-Church, Margarita “Peggy” Schuyler, all of Philip Schuyler’s sons.

Parent(s): Catherine “Kitty” Van Rensselaer/Phillip Schuyler.

Children:

Philip Hamilton

Angelica Hamilton

Alexander Hamilton Jr.

James Alexander Hamilton

John Church Hamilton

William S. Hamilton

Eliza Hamilton Holly

Philip Hamilton II

Significant other: Alexander Hamilton (1780 to 1804).

Or: thread/verse dependant.

Pet(s): the feral tomcat. (affectionate) /j

Eliza’s Wikipedia.

The Dutch in NYC.

Hot take: why Eliza deserves a musical.

The Orphanage Eliza founded.

#muse: Eliza Schuyler-Hamilton #about / to confide or confess #visage / merely aiding nature #style / it’s beyond my control #headcanon #headcanons #meta #history #historical references #historical context #18th century #american revolution

[bi-sapphics]

HELLO !! i've been working hard tonight and now i'd like to propose a term & flag using the style of this post. (please reblog instead of just liking, btw!!)

may i present to you.......

BUTCHCAT.

what is "butchcat"? well, it's essentially a combination of the terms "butch" and "tomcat" and it's exclusive to bisexual sapphics.

it can be used a few different ways:

to mean both masculine and androgynous, whether that be presentation-wise, for relationship dynamics & roles, gender identity, or 2-3 together

same as above, but in-between masculine and androgynous rather than both at the same time

same as above, but to be fluid between the two

to be two different but separate identity labels that one identifies with

next, i'd like to explain my flag design.

to start, the brown stripes are supposed to resemble cat fur. the blue inclusion was inspired by this butch bi flag in particular, and the mint colors are supposed to spice up androgyny, like a breath of fresh air (y'know, how mint tastes like even though i don't actually like it irl lmao).

the stripe meanings are as stated here (the ones in the bi format are essentially just simplified), but i'd also like to expand on what i mean with them:

"freedom of gender expression" is supposed to refer to both butch and tomcat separately, but the latter two meanings are each designated to one or the other. i found it difficult to assign something that would refer to tomcat particularly, so i just took inspiration from @doetomcatstag's answered asks on their blog and went with how other bi women have described its significance to them: "fluidity in performance, authenticity in (nby) womanhood and sapphicism." the existence of tomcat is there to help us define the experience of being both bisexual and sapphic in our own way, which in this case as opposed to doe/stag, is combining femininity and masculinity into androgyny for ourselves and other women, or being fluid between them. and of course i made sure to be nonbinary-inclusive. the wording is still a bit strict but as long as you consider yourself sapphic it is designed to resonate with you. "butch chivalry" is a common phrase within our community that honors our code and sworn role as butches. including this acknowledges that we are no less butch, neither for being bi nor for also simultaneously being tomcats.

androgyny & masculinity are self-explanatory.

the middle stripe describes the intersection, which is basically just the already-stated definition of the term, as well as what i said above about the first stripe from the top.

"bisexuality, biromanticism, and recognition that bisexuals are also sometimes gnc and can experience complex relationships with their gender" is deeply important to me personally. this kind of bi erasure is so common, both intentionally and unintentionally. unfortunately we are usually subconsciously dismissed as always being feminine for the availabilty of men, which isn't just biphobic but misogynistic. there are also many lesbians out there who think that only they can be gnc because they're "real" gay women, neither of these statements are true. to be butch and/or tomcat is to inherently bc gnc, which is why this stripe is so important.

expanding on the bottom stripe of the bi-formatted flag - "bisexual sapphic culture; allowing bisexuals the usage of butch/femme from their own history while also honoring the new bi-exclusive terms." this ties in pretty similarly to my point about bimisogyny, except it's slightly different in that it originally neglected the mention that we also have to fight hard to be able to use butch/femme and other "lesbian" culture without backlash. you may have noticed a huge part of this blog is dedicated to fighting that fight, so i thought this would be necessary to include.

moving on, i'd also like to add that i do, in fact, have assigned meaning for the little minty cat symbol as well:

there is no butch bi or tomcat bi or butchcat bi community without bi solidarity. we have to be there for each other, and stand up for each other when our non-harmful identities are challenged. what does it mean to put on a performance for other (bi) women if you won't even play your part?

i hope you like it. and please tag me if you use either of these flags for whatever!!

don't forget that this term is exclusive to bi sapphics!! (why?)

also please let me know if this flag design is too similar to another, please & thank you!!

#bi flags #butch flags #bi tag #butch tag #tomcat flags #tomcat tag #tomcat butch #butch tomcat #butchcat #butch bi #tomcat bi #my flags #biphobia #bimisogyny #bi sapphic #bi women #bi solidarity #butch chivalry #masculine #androgynous

[luigis-mogai-mansion]

Lazy flag combos pt.65

Ft. Aloeian/nullic/x loving none with...

Transnull × (amab) transnull × mercurygenos

Allogender × apothiromantic × uranusgenos

Nonenyo × tomcat bi × nomenyo

No credit needed

#mogai community #mogai friendly #pro mogai #mogaireal #mogai term #clover speaks #aloeian #xlnone #flag combo #lazy flag combos #nullic #x loving none #transnull #amab transnull #mercurygenos #allogender #apothiromantic #uranusgenos #nomenyo #tomcat bi #nonenyo

[ocean-sapphics]

what are ocean sapphics? & flags!

'ocean' is the umbrella grouping term for presentation labels that lesbian & bi/pan sapphics can use regarding femininity, masculinity, and androgyny.

these terms were initially coined by strwbryfemme on twitter, using their gimmick account sapphicimagines back in january of 2022. both accounts have since been deactivated and therefore this thread is long gone. i found them in an old flag hoard album on my camera roll recently and decided to respectfully reupload them in case anyone else would enjoy.

NOTE #1: i will not be putting the rest of this, admittedly quite long, post under a ‘read more’ cut due to the fact that all the information would be lost if someone decided to reblog it and the original post ended up gone sometime in the future. you would not be able to view anything under it, since whatever is there can only be seen on the original page. i apologize if you have to scroll a lot because of this, but that’s unfortunately one of the many inconvenient ways tumblr works.

NOTE #2 (MUST READ): i felt it would be best to swap their usage of 'pearl' to mean masc, not androgyne. this is because these chosen words feel unbalanced in their meanings to me. 'ocean' feels too broad and vague to cover just one category (hence why i made it overarching instead), and doesn't fit its place in the hierarchy of the theme. it'd be like saying, for example: 'cat' is fem, 'animal' is masc, and 'dog' is androgynous; instead of saying 'cat' is fem, 'dog' is masc, and 'furry' (lmao idk ok? bear with me) is androgynous. i then turned what was previously 'pearl' into 'coral' as a replacement, since that made more sense from my perspective. if this confuses you while reading the tweets below, i have put my corrections for the labels/flags in alt text, which you can click on each image to access. if that doesn't help, feel free to ask questions. i tried to make this as easy and least complex as possible, so i apologize if that didn't work.

NOTE #3: if cat (strwbryfemme) and/or atlas (ilikegaycookies, who designed the bi flags btw) finds this and would like me to take it down, i will do so upon request, directly or indirectly, and also delete this blog. i intend no disrespect to either of you and i'm posting this because i like your ideas and don't want them to rot and be forgotten anymore than they already have. i edited the words themselves because i thought they would fit better, but i can also revert them back to their original versions if need be.

with that out of the way, let’s get onto the flags first!

sapphic:

lesbian:

bisexual:

information (REMINDER THAT I HAVE RE-COINED A COUPLE OF TERMS. READ ALT TEXT TO KNOW WHICH WORDS TO SWAP OUT WHEN READING THE SCREENSHOTS!):

any and all help with IDs/PTs are appreciated! i do not have the spoons to write them out as of now due to the rest of the work i'm putting into this post, but if someone wants to volunteer then i can put all the text into a rentry (or multiple) and edit it here to make the images more accessible to disabled readers. thank you!

here is some more stuff i would like to add (please also read these too if you are interested in claiming, or even if you are not on board with all this):

you should keep in mind that i am a white tme bi sapphic who knows my history and claims 'butch', so i will not argue about butch/femme discourse because i strongly support the terms not being lesbian-exclusive. however, it should be understood that i still know my place and privilege regarding other applicable aspects and do not wish to offend anyone or start discourse here. this post is simply a reupload and attempt at re-suggesting cute terms for personal use only, entirely by choice. they are not designed to be forced on anyone or become mainstream, especially not to replace femme/butch/futch or even the infamous doe/stag/tomcat. you do not have to like these or agree with them. you are allowed to dismiss the idea and move on as it wasn't made to erase or hurt anyone. please hold anyone who does spread these in bad faith accountable, thanks.

with that being said, it is my opinion that we should grant their wishes for wanting to keep this series exclusive to the sapphic community. i do not personally consider either of these individuals to be overall 'bad people', even if we disagree on some things heavily. they still deserve respect for the positive contributions they have made to our community, which is why, again, i will remove all of the above without hesitation if asked by a credible messenger.

one last thing to be reminded of ─ if anyone else ends up playing around with the theme of these terms + flags, for any given reason (such as designing pan/trans/enby/etc. versions), please do not use the word 'fish', especially if you are also white, as that already exists within a Black-exclusive context to be a cultural identity adjacent to 'femme'! i will not speak or give an opinion about what to do or not if you are Black, as i'm sure you will be able to take it from there.

this is not necessary to read, so you can stop now lol ─ anyway, thank you for your attention, and enjoy! reblogs are appreciated, and comments will be listened to. if you have any complaints directed towards the content itself, then i unfortunately cannot help you with that as said content is not really mine. however, i will try to respond to stuff related to my act of reuploading and/or adjusting the terminology. remember that i self-identify as butch and am critical of coining ideas with a similar purpose to doe/stag, but obviously i am not against it. as long as you can understand my point of view, your opinions will matter, even if they (respectfully!) dissent. have a lovely rest of your day/night!

#sapphic #wlw #nblw #lesbian #lesbian sapphic #bisexual #bi sapphic #sapphic flags #lesbian flags #bi flags #ocean sapphic #shell sapphic #pearl sapphic #coral sapphic #fem #femme #masc #butch #androgynous #long post