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raging-guanche · 10 months
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for the boys who are girlfriends and the girls that are boyfriends
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bi-sapphics · 2 years
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i think one of the things that helped me realize i was “allowed” to be butch was that it’s more like an identity and its own gender rather than a role in relationships - which can be a key aspect in a lot of cases and has always been for me whenever i dated girls without realizing it (seriously, looking back, all the girls i had a thing with but especially one were very femme in presentation and very timid and i remember being the strong confident one who just wanted to make her feel special), but as of right now i’m single and despite being butch4femme respectfully (i always crush on the more gender-conforming girls <3), it’s my identity. it’s what makes me transmasc. it’s what the tomboy side of me has led up to. it’s why i prefer the masculine, free-spirited, ambitious version of my deadname that i connected it to. it helps me feel stronger and more resilient, like i could be a leader with my confidence for myself even if no one else ever follows for any number of reasons (unpopular opinions, irrelevancy, whatever). it’s so much easier to not worry about how i look or appease to others and frankly as an autistic individual it’s so much better to just wear loose clothing that makes me feel more comfortable and is more of a simple style for me - similarly, i look so much more me with shorter (but wider across iykwim) hair and it’s so much more efficient to wash, comb, and otherwise take care of. i can’t even pull it back anymore, which is kind of a good thing tbh since i never could master that skill lmao. i love being butch, i really do, and i’ll always be grateful to the positivity blogs and flag creators that led to the idea that maybe it really was for me after all!! :>
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frogsforthefrogwar · 2 years
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honeybee563 · 2 years
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I walk around everywhere now going “omg they are so pretty” “wow they are so gorgeous” “holy crap, I wanna date them” in my head to pretty much every non man. Jesus Christ, I want a girlfriend/partner soooooo bad, when is it my turn 😭
But alas, I live in Arizona
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doingthisforrocky · 2 years
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Happy Lesbian Day! It is I, your local shaved head dyke
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thesunflowerdyke · 25 days
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I know that the majority of the posts on this blog have a sexual connotation to them, but ultimately the thing I’m yearning for most is connection.
Of course I’d love to find somebody who’s into all the same fun kinky stuff as I am! But what I truly want more than anything is somebody who understands me. Somebody who wants to learn me. Physically, sure, but also emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
I want somebody who won’t just be a lover, but also a friend, a confidant, and a partner.
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minxinq · 7 months
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self indulgent lesbian kzscr bc estrogen could save them
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stormysapphic · 2 months
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even dykes in dresses can hold up the world. photograph of louise rafkin in common lives/lesbian lives no. 15/16, june 1985
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asunnycoffee · 4 months
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I’m actually so tired of the way twitter gays will be like “you’re bi and date nonbinary people? You’re gay and go both ways?? Youre aromantic but date people? That doesn’t make ANY sense.”
Like seriously do you not know what this community is about. The literal definition of queer means peculiar. Sometimes queer people are fucking weird and messy and don’t make sense and sometimes and it’s both confusing and beautiful. Some of you will literally be like “um there’s no such thing as bi lesbians” yet you still have the sheer and utter fucking audacity to be like “I love weird gays!”.
Yeah, you sure love your sanitized version of what it means to be queer. You don’t actually know what it means, you just think “lesbian means girls who like girls, gay means boys who like boys, bi means people who like girls and boys, and-“ when the entire fucking point of it is that not everyone fits into the boxes you assign them. Exclusionists can go eat a dick.
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d1rtdyk3 · 1 month
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everytime someone invalidates a gnc lesbian I‘m closer to committing a crime like leave my dyke ass with an unexplainable gender ALONE
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lesbianb · 4 months
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disabled butches who aren't physically strong, who need help from caretakers, who use mobility aids, wear medical braces, etc... you're wonderful butches just as you are, and don't need to prove yourself to anyone
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thehealingsystem · 9 months
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happy masculine lesbian awareness week!!! i don't plan on doing much and im not on twitter anymore but reminder it's for all masc lesbians, including trans, nonbinary, multigender, genderfluid, transmasc, gnc and pnc, butch, aspec, mspec, and all other wonderful lesbians in our community ❤️🧡🤍💗💜
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genderqueerdykes · 1 year
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being butch really isn't a choice for most of us (if any). it's not something that you like, wake up one day and decide yea, i wanna be a cool tough dyke or that you wanna be fit and rugged or something. we're just kinda born a little different. we're just Like That. other people tend to notice way before we do, and by the time we do, we have a lot of work in undoing society's hatred of masculine women & queer people. we were the he-she, the it, the thing, the That, the "not a real girl" but "not a boy" either, the "what is that?", the "ma'am? sir? i can't tell." not a woman, not a man, just a sight to behold, a question poised waiting at the tip of a tongue.
all of these things are something to be proud of, but we have to fight for that pride. when you see a tough butch who struggles to get close to people and acts tough to protect themself, just know that it's because being butch is a hard life. it's like having a target on your back that you can never remove. we aren't tough because we want to look cool, be suave, or seduce women. we walk a dangerous place in life. we have to protect ourselves first and foremost. this is the source of butch toughness. we're gender outlaws.
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gay-impressionist · 2 years
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AN ODE TO QUEER JOY
Part 1 : Joy in each other (Community)
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@artbyeloquent / lil nas x and elton john wearing a rendition of each other's iconic costumes. photographer unknown / @ghostcauliflower / alison bechdel / @android-boy / heartstopper : scene where nick, a bisexual boy, sees his two lesbian friends kiss. gif by @nicks-nelson / @canaryomenharbinger / shatzi weisberger with three unknown people / anonymous / new york city 2021 pride parade. photographer unknown
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bi-radiance · 2 years
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I love you gnc women I love you girls who don’t shave I love you gals who never wear make up I love you women in suits I love you muscular women I love androgynous gals and masculine girls I love you tomboys I love you gender non conformity in women
[this includes all women, cis or trans]
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thesunflowerdyke · 28 days
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I’ve seen so many posts on here lately with people referring to their partner as “my butch” and my heart is literally fluttering from the mere thought of being referred to like that one day.
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