#therapy is overrated

[franciya]

Impuslsive buying shit I shouldn't be able to afford, hoping it will improve my life somehow

#Therapy is overrated #im joking im jokinnnng

[aroace-hoe]

i need more friends who have had sex and just think that shit is horrible

up until this point i was legit convinced that everyone was in on a funny little bit that sex felt good, cuz theres no way that's true

i've had sex before (more than once, with both penises and vaginas, so i don't think it was a "the other person sucked at it" situation) and thought it was, at best, boring af

bUT NOW my friends are losing their virginity too and thinking its the most amazing experience in the world and im just-

i feel like i lost allies in a war i didn't even know i was fighting

#sex is overrated #i probably need therapy #sex repulsed #am i just ace #sex is bad anyway #dont have sex #it could lead to children #and no one likes that #asexual #aroace #acespec #vent post #vent

[fazcinatingblog]

Had a really nice sleep, it was like 30 minutes sleep dreaming that I was going to the grand final, wake up, check bank balance hmm no I'm not, sleep for 30 minutes dreaming I got a ticket, wake up check bank balance yeah no sorry, sleep for 30 minutes RINSE AND REPEAT THE ENTIRE NIGHT

#i don't even care that much!!!!! #i don't need to go to some stupid combustible stadium with overpriced food and drink and climb 500 stairs to watch some silly sportsball #NO I DON'T CARE #also it's so expensive like please don't take $200 from me that's like four weeks of myki money #I'm so happy to be in the grand final that I'll watch the game anywhere #Collingwood always do a live site i think in 2018 it was $20 to watch at the AIA centre #with inflation it'll be a billion dollars but look it doesn't matter there are pubs there is home there is so many places to watch the game #i don't know why i have to depress myself waking up every 30 minutes to check my bank balance #also how is that depressing 'oh look i have money i can afford the next week's myki travel' THAT'S A GOOD THING #also grand finals are overrated #The record is $15 #they show off the mark knight posters a day before the game and your mouth salivates and you're like I NEED ONE I'LL BUY IT AFTERWARDS #but then Maynard gets blocked and you're going home in tears on the train and you forget all about the poster and #and you just clutch your chemist warehouse cushion filled with random little goodies and cry for the next five weeks #in 2011 i didn't go - watched from home - and my mum came home with a chocolate footy and told me it was from Daisy #just cry and clutch Daisy's chocolate footy and cry and eat chocolate soaked with tears so it's all salty and #wait #no guys I'm fine #please don't make me go to therapy i don't have time i have to study for this CPA exam #i really am fine

[the--deliriant]

feel your feelings, my friends!

#tweets #therapy #anger is only frowned upon by people who want to do you wrong with no consequences #compliance is overrated

[asleepyb0i]

I should be working on my books, but then I saw Micky getting his shit wrecked big time and made a crusty sketch. @the-lord-of-the-things here you go lol. I’d make a complete piece with color and shading, but I completely forgor how to draw humans and this is the best I could do lmao.

#anatomy? What’s that??? #hands are dumb #we should all collectively agree that hands are overrated and evolve tentacles instead #would be a lot easier to draw #nasty sketch #lupus singulara #i just love Micky so much #I want to get him a ticket to free therapy #Lupus needs it at least #ive been drawing nothing but rabbits for the past 2 weeks #now i have no idea how tf humans work #how do you draw so quickly??? #and perfectly??? #I call witchcraft

[fillejondrette]

some people my age are so focused on like a pop tiktok version of mental health and ~self care~ that they think it’s wrong for a person to depend on their friends for emotional support. bc you should take that to your therapist. the alienation of it all!!!

#therapy is overrated imo but maybe i only think that bc ive gone from a young age

[lichdolly]

I still think it’s funny that there’s no actual treatment for oppositional-defiant disorder besides therapy, which I am too cool for (ie one of my therapists ghosted me, the other most recent was rude and religious), so I will just always be Like This and it will sometimes Piss People Off

#it’s better than it used to be but it’s not gone!!! #therapy is overrated anyway. I already talk like I’m trying to get an A+ in it #the only therapy that ever helped was like CHILDHOOD therapy #like WAAAAY back #eden speak

[fragglez]

why don't you bake a cake and maybe you'll calm down

#therapy or meds or anything is overrated agaist suicidal thoughts #a chocolate cake however #works wonders #well i still wanna kms but at least i got a chocolate cake #so i cant do that right now

[3pccombo]

#literally my therapist and the therapist i was cheating on her w abandoned me 💀 #(went on a long vacation) #therapy overrated tho im getting immune

[sensitiveandhungry]

men are overrated

#this has nothing to do #with our lovely homeless children #with men #in kpop #or kdramas #real men #are overrated #somebody sedate me #i should go to bed #i also need therapy #ive been sitting #in a booth #in an empty cafe #for the past two hours #doing nothing #except #mindlessly scrolling #what am i doing #with my life #shouldn't have left uni #to visit home for thanksgiving #im helpless #i have nothing to do #stan stray kids

[pocket-size-cthulhu]

Realized today that the biggest barrier to me connecting with someone who's important to me isn't the hurt i feel over some stuff they did, but actually it's the guilt they carry about that event, because every time we try to reconnect, this person retraumatizes themself thinking about what a "terrible person" they are for what they did, which leads them to distance themself from me again.

So in case nobody has ever told you, the reason you don't want to be beating yourself up inside about things is not just that it hurts you, it's that it keeps you from getting what you need in life, taking necessary risks, and especially building relationships that make life beautiful and meaningful.

If you believe you deserve the pain you're in, if you believe you deserve to be alone, you'll deflect and push away people's attempts to connect with you and you'll resist people's attempts to know and love the REAL you, warts and all--even if you desperately want those things. (And that doesn't just hurt you; it also makes the people trying to connect with you feel sad.)

Accepting love you don't feel you deserve is terrifying but it's also one of the most healing, beautiful experiences you can have.

Nobody "deserves" to be in constant self-inflicted emotional pain, though many live like that (I'm working through it, myself).

Everyone deserves the chance to be known and loved for who they are, however undeserving they may feel.

Anyway therapy is great and has helped me learn to stop beating myself up as much, 11/10 can't recommend a good therapist enough

#therapy #oof #angst is so overrated #go to therapy #submit to the mortifying ordeal of being known

[bbqsauceonmytiddiez]

#therapy is overrated ill make a meme about it #ruby rambles #mental health #ig

[stuckinapril]

what advice would you give to a 19 year old?

just bc you find someone hot or funny doesn’t mean you should immediately date them, just because someone gives you attention doesn’t mean they’re the right person for you, being 19 is not “old” and you should embrace it rather than dread it, work out now so your future self can thank u later, use your planner, network w your professors because you’ll never know when you’ll need their connections in the future, stop fucking comparing, everyone’s secretly struggling, no one is worth putting on a pedestal, decentralize dating in general tbh, having a crush is fine but don’t obsess, interrogate yourself on what you truly want, explore new things (stop sticking so religiously to your comfort zone), nothing on your phone is that deep, have a plan for the future (it’s okay if it changes), put effort into friendships but don’t chase people, put yourself out there because it really does amount to something, decentralize luxury brands bc that shit is overrated as fuck, journal more, experiment w fashion and perfume and your general style, having social media is ok but spend less time on your phone in general, not everyone will like you and that is okay, you won’t like everyone and that is okay, don’t take people’s reactions so personally, don’t take yourself so seriously, invest in therapy

#These can apply just as easily to me now at 22 tbh #But I needed to hear them more at 19 lol

[shyjusticewarrior]

DC Comics Incorrect Quotes Pt 148

Damian: You're wasting your time, staring all day at that vision board.

Tim: Well that's not true. It's helped me to achieve my first life goal. *points at words on board* To "stare all day at a vision board."

Jason: Schrödinger’s cat is overrated. If you wanna see something that’s both dead and alive you can talk to me any time of the day.

Harley: I went out on these dates and I would just basically do therapy sessions. I'm like "did your father ever love you?"

#dc incorrect quotes #mighty med #tumblr #funny incorrect quotes #liz gillies #elizabeth gillies #dc #dc comics #damian wayne #robin #tim drake #red robin #jason todd #red hood #harley quinn #dr harleen quinzel #funny #comics #batfam #batkids #batboys #batfamily #comic books #batman comics #batman characters #damian al ghul wayne #timothy jackson drake #jason peter todd #harleen frances quinzel #batbros

[misssmeat]

30 Things I Learned Before Turning 30

In celebration of my next decade, I took some time to document some of the obvious and not-so-obvious pieces of wisdom I've collected in my life. I wrote this as an exercise to celebrate my own growth, but I thought I would share it.

I spent over half of my 20s with all of you, here on tumblr. It was a messy decade spent figuring out who I am, what I want, and how to create the life I dream of. I'm ending my 20s happier, more sure of myself, and excited for the future. Thanks for joining me on the journey.

Here's to the next decade of being older. Wiser. Sexier. Here's to 30.

Love and Relationships

Give it three dates if you’re on the fence about someone. Love at first sight (or first date) is rare.

If he’s significantly older and makes you feel special for being “mature for your age”… there is something very wrong. He’s gross, and I promise you’ll see it one day and be furious for your past self.

Co-dependency is not love. 

Your partner is not your therapist. Do not treat them as such. 

Holding hands is a superior form of intimacy. 

Sometimes love isn’t enough. 

As annoying and cliche as it is, self-love is the most important love you’ll discover. 

Be intentional in your relationships - intentionally make time, intentionally show care, intentionally respect your partner, intentionally adore. (This applies to friendships too.)

Strong relationships are built on strong foundations. Communication, trust, kindness.

Life is made of millions of tiny moments. The tiny moments make the difference more than the grand gestures. 

Sex and Kink

Sex is supposed to be fun. Too many people forget this. It’s adult playtime. Don’t take yourself too seriously. 

Your limits are sacred. Never let anyone convince you otherwise. 

There is no such thing as a “true” sub/Dom/etc. Do what makes you happy. It’s really that simple. 

Confidence is 75% of success in the bedroom. I never truly know what I’m doing, but if I act like I’m the hottest girl on earth… my partner goes nuts for me regardless.

Keep water near at all times.  

Bondage is much more physically taxing than you might imagine. A rope buddy taught me to keep chocolate near for the sugar boost after physically taxing positions. 

Sometimes things get messy. Don’t worry, it’s normal. 

Give feedback and be open to feedback. We are all different, so there should be a learning curve with each partner.

Butt stuff hurts a lot less if you train your muscles slowly over time. 

If you’re not in the mood, don’t feel pressure to force it. Respect what your body is telling you. Likewise, respect your partner if they aren’t in the mood. 

Everything Else 

Ladies - unlearn creating yourself for the male gaze. It’s overrated.

Western cooking isn’t always superior. See the fried egg in France vs. Hong Kong. I’ll die on this hill.

Your worth and value are not tied to anything you’re offering or producing. Existing is the most radical thing we can do. 

Find a hobby that doesn’t require the internet. I found painting and reading. 

Your energy is valuable. Be selective in where and how you invest it.

When washing your hair, go through your shampoo routine twice before conditioning.

Go on walks. Touch grass. Feel the sun on your skin.

When in doubt, adopt a cat. 

Go to therapy. No matter where you are on your mental health journey, therapy will probably be a game changer.

Do not underestimate the power of forgiveness. Holding onto anger is not as empowering as I once believed it was.

And one last bonus thought: no matter what, always make space for joy.

❤️.

#my writing #thoughts #not to toot my own horn #but I think some of these are pretty solid!!!

[mangofanarts]

Tina said she doesn't want therapy from Bad because he needs therapy more then anybody and then Bad said that he thinks therapy was overrated and he was doing terapia (the word is still therapy)

#qsmp #badboyhalo #qsmp tinakitten #liveblogging