#syscord

[the-habitat-sysblog]

the state of syscord is almost ridiculous at this point. i honestly just want a space to make friends, talk about recovery, & be open about myself, but most of these servers seem more preoccupied with what experiences are ALLOWED or what your alters are SUPPOSED to look like/think like/be named. don't get me wrong, many of these topics are important, but it feels very judgemental & strict as a system that sometimes falls outside of the bounds of what is considered the """normal""" CDD experience online.

#finn🍄.txt #mrcollins🎣.txt #; #💬 #[ #syscourse #<- sort of? #syscord #did system #traumagenic system #actually traumagenic #cdd community #sysblr #system #cdd #system stuff #endos dni #]

[sophieinwonderland]

It's almost like exclusionist spaces are exclusionist...

That moment when the leopards eat your face...

#syscourse #syscord #pro endo #pro endogenic #sysblr #multiplicity

[prose-among-the-trees]

I feel the need finally to bring up introjects in a way that’s going to be a hot take, because good god am I sick of having things that I have experienced physically be told to me by those who haven’t.

I respect whatever an introject remembers or identifies with from their source, and I’d like to say this straight off because this is important. I know of alters and parts for whom source is integral to their identity, specifically the way it relates to day to day trauma and how that intermingles.

That being said, please, as an introject who has had something happen or occur or has some sort of disability from source, do not try to tell me what it is like because I have already experienced it physically.

You got scars in whatever media you were sourced from? Lovely, but as someone who is forced to bear that burden of looking deformed when those scars can be visible every single day, do not try to tell me what that is like.

You have physical disabilities that were gained or you were born with in whatever media you introjected from? Perfect, but as someone who cannot function without my heart being assisted by pacemaker, do not tell me what it’s like to struggle as though I’ve not gone through it and as though I do not continue to bear that weight.

You as an introject are of a certain race in source and remember knowing about the food you consumed of that culture? Do not try to correct me, as someone of that culture, on what I identify with and hold.

You have memories of sexual assault from the media you were sourced from? Do not dare presume you can speak over those who have experienced that bodily.

Source memories, pseudo memories, exo memories, whatever you’d like to call them, are individual to your trauma and your struggle as someone with osdd or did. I understand that.

However, your source does not give you the right to talk over, to one up, or God forbid to “educate” those who have dealt with or experienced those issues on how to live with them.

I spoke to an introject today who had scars in their source and identifies with them as an alter. When I spoke up about my own, I was told that I needed to speak someplace where I would not upset others. Because my scars are not desirable or battle caused, I cannot discuss my own experiences.

This in essence is a lot of the issue I have with fictive heavy online systems on places like discord or even tumblr. These memories, these source associations, which I know are indicative of their own trauma in some way, somehow surpass the validity of someone who has actually experienced the struggle physically because it’s more presentable and more desirable.

It’s not all of them, but it’s enough of them that the fictive heavy/introject heavy syscord systems now have that reputation, and it makes interacting so frustrating.

I should not have to explain why claiming an experience you haven’t physically gone through as though you have because you’re an introject is bad. I shouldn’t have to explain that speaking over individuals who deal with these things physically is actively silencing minority groups.

Again let me note that I have full respect for introjects who identify with memories that did not happen to their body. The only thing I ask is that I’m not spoken over in favor of more desirable or digestible experiences that they claim are just as impactful as me living with the things I do.

I know systems who have these memories and respect others who have experienced them physically. For those of you who fall into this category, thank you. You know who you are.

For those of you who believe in things like alter race, separate disabilities being just as valid as experiencing them physically (to the point that you’re trying to educate bodily disabled people/systems)- please listen to those who are frustrated and angry. Please understand why trying to speak over and educate that group of people or any group of people as though you’ve gone through it physically is damaging.

I understand your memories reflect your trauma, likely indirectly for some of you, and I empathize with that.

Please take the time to be respectful to the voices of the groups that have been silenced and spoken over in favor of an introject’s take on something purely source related.

The people of color with osdd or did that have been speaking up about others claiming their races as alters have been laughed off or told that they’re overreacting. They are not. Keep fighting the good fight guys. You’re fantastic in every way. As someone who isn’t in that position, I want to uplift your voices and the things that need to be said. You’ve got my support all the way.

In the past I’ve let other systems try to explain why alter race exists and why their ‘alters of color’ are just as valid as actual people of color. I believed them.

An alter who has the memory or individual source created experience of being oppressed but has not been that way bodily cannot claim to struggle in the same way.

If you got this far reading, thanks. I’m glad I was able to share this with someone.

Be safe.

-🧠 🌲 🔭 🫀 (group effort for this post)

#syscourse #dissociative identity disorder #did osdd #did #actually did #actually dissociative #dissociative system #syscord #system discourse #traumagenic system #sysblr

[tales-from-syscord]

that one time in a rather popular syscord, the latest rule was that everyone HAS to have a working PK or they will be booted out. im new to pk so it's a lot on my plate, setting this and that for each headmate. unhappy with the rule, i dropped out of the server. pk should NOT be a requirement.

That's.. so odd?? Why would you *need* pk lmao. What about OSDD-1A systems or polyfrag systems or systems who are often blurry?? What about systems who aren't comfortable with that?? That's so very odd.

#syscord #pk #pluralkit #plural #actually plural #plural community #plural system #traumagenic did #actually traumagenic #endos dni #anti endo #dni endos #did #osdd #discord #community #endo dni #tales from syscord #tales from the queue #tales from anon

[itsallforgottennowtoo]

btw

if u tell fictives how to exist or identify ur the problem. they dont owe u anything ur just manipulative.

#actually dissociative #endos dni #did system #anti endo #dissociative identity disorder #sysblr #actually traumagenic #actually did #syscourse #syscord #traumagenic system #fictives

[butterednuttered]

🌈SYSTEM EDUCATION DISCORD SERVER!⭐

🌀HELLO! DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT COMPLEX DISSOCIATIVE DISORDERS SUCH AS DID, OSDD, OR PARTIAL DID? WE HAVE A WONDERFUL SERVER FOR YOU! 🌌WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS SERVER

a diverse group of people with different experiences

research papers, case studies, dsm-5 pages, books, etc on dissociation

a silly funny community

an application system for gaining access to channels that discuss personal experiences, questions, and general chat

a screenreader and dyslexic friendly environment!

a syskid safe environment

we accept tons of people into our server!

🪐SOME BASIC RULES

endos and their supportters are heavily encouraged not to join, as we don't support endos in this server, however, people who are neutral on the topic are fine

if you are found to have been actively fakeclaiming people, especially on r/SystemsCringe, you are still welcome to stay, but you will be perma-banned from social and discussions channels! (we have had to do this before.)

13+ server!! meaning NO NSFW. INVITE: https://discord.com/invite/E2raRCk6QR

#system #anti endo #actually traumagenic #actually a system #did osdd #didosdd #did system #dissociative identity disorder #osdd #system education #syscord #system discord #discord server #discord stuff #discord chat #education #educate yourself #educational discord server #cdds #cdd #cdd system #c did #polyfragmented #actually osdd #actually polyfrag #ramcoa #programmed system #informative #information #dissociation

[ram-like]

hi osddiders of tumblr. i'm remaking a system server I had a long time ago that's intended to be a safe chat server for child parts (NOT an agere server / server for parts who can't be on the internet unsupervised). the server would be primarily for child parts who want a space away from other sides of syscord where they're banned / supervised / infantilised / etc. and generally just cater to child parts who don't fit the traditional mould of a "syskid".

is there anything in particular you guys would want in a server like that? like, channels, roles, etc etc, any suggestions welcome !!!!

#trauma survivor #did system #programmed system #programming survivor #actually did #syskid #traumagenic did #did #did alter #osddid #traumagenic system #syscord

[klqe]

Detailed Ocean

Discord server - f2u layout

⟡❕🌬・bans꙳₊·

͎۪۫⋆🌊︲welcome⤸

⟡🐋・goodbye꙳₊·

⩨🐟︲rules⿻

𖡼🦀・verify⤸

͎۪۫⋆🌊︲announce⤸

⟡𓆜・announce ࣪resp꙳₊·

⩨🐠︲suggest⿻

𖡼𓆟・twt ࣪suggest⤸ ͎۪۫⋆🦭︲ndl꙳₊·

⟡𓆛・links⿻

⩨🌴︲boundaries⤸

𖡼𓆡・Blacklist꙳₊· ͎۪۫⋆🫧︲qotd⿻

⟡𓆢・aotd⤸

⩨🐋︲advert꙳₊·

𖡼𓈰・starboard⿻ ͎۪۫⋆🐟︲tickets⤸

͎۪۫⋆🦞︲roles⤸

⟡🌊・intros꙳₊·

⩨🎣︲mod ࣪intro⿻

𖡼🐋 ・Sys ࣪intro⤸ ͎۪۫⋆🦈︲alter ࣪intro꙳₊·

⟡🐠・colors⿻

͎۪۫⋆🐚︲gen⤸

⟡𓆜・gen ࣪2꙳₊·

⩨🌊︲spam⿻

𖡼𓆟・rant⤸ ͎۪۫⋆🔱︲pos ࣪rant꙳₊·

⟡𓆢・rambling⿻

⩨🫧︲spin ࣪hyperfix⤸

𖡼𓆛・confessions꙳₊· ͎۪۫⋆🪸︲pda⿻

⟡𓈰・pda ࣪2⤸

⩨🐋︲mediacall꙳₊·

͎۪۫⋆🐠︲vent⤸

⟡🦀・vent ࣪2꙳₊·

⩨🐚︲trging ࣪vent⿻

𖡼🌊 ・no ࣪reply⤸ ͎۪۫⋆🦞︲advice꙳₊·

͎۪۫⋆🫧︲selfies⤸

⟡🦈・images꙳₊·

⩨🐋︲cosplay⿻

𖡼🌊 ・videos⤸ ͎۪۫⋆🔱︲art꙳₊·

⟡🌬・pets⿻

⩨🐚︲school⤸

𖡼🎣・music꙳₊·

͎۪۫⋆🌴︲mudae⤸

⟡🌊・mudae ࣪2꙳₊·

⩨🐋︲disboard⿻

𖡼🦀・yggdrasil⤸ ͎۪۫⋆🐟︲bots꙳₊·

⟡🪸・bday⿻

͎۪۫⋆🎣︲poc⤸

⟡🦈・irls ࣪otherkin꙳₊·

⩨🐠︲neurodivergent⿻

𖡼🌊・system⤸

#carrd layouts #carrd stuff #rentry #discord decor #discord layouts #discord stuff #syscord

[noodles-in-the-sink]

The struggle of finding decent system friendly Discord servers to be in…

The majority of the ones I’ve seen either allow endos, use TONS of fonts & closed symbols (and usually also allow individuals to use closed names from cultures they are not from), have an insanely restrictive blacklist, or believe the R slur is reclaimable (and thus allow their members to throw it around however they please)

Then of course, there is the heavenly mix of all of the above

#Not a vent nor rant #It’s just me rambling about syscord!! #Anyways if anyone know any decent servers FEEL FREE TO LET ME KNOW!! #I really need to be more social… #syscord #sysblr #endos dni #system host #actually did #did #system #cdid system #did osdd #did system #osdd system #osddid #actually osdd #osdd #traumagenic did #traumagenic system #system things #system stuff

[anti-endo-safe-space]

im anti endo and I hate that i gotta pretend I'm unaligned so I don't get attacked when in reality endos make me so mad

being a system fucking sucks for the most part. seeing the majority of system spaces infiltrated by "uwu friends in my head!!1!" endos is just so insulting. and then if I call out the romanticization of a debilitating disorder, I am called a "sysmed". it's so infuriating

sorry for the mini rant. I can't express my dislike of endos on my blog so I kind of just said what was on my mind here 😅

No sorries for mini rants, we're here for those!

That's why we created this, we get the frustration since we've had friends before we had to hide the fact we were anti-endo because they would've sent a wave of people after us to harass us

Being a system isn't a super fun thing. Is it SOMETIMES nice to have others here? Sure, there have been times I've felt so utterly alone that hearing one of the others reminded me that no matter what I'm not alone. But all the time? Hell to the no. But like you said, mention that and your a sysmed or, which we don't get, a giant bigot.

#anti endo #endos dni #anti endo supporter #endos aren't real #endos fuck off #actually system #actually dissociative #plural system #actually plural #traumagenic system #traumagenic #actually traumagenic #hate using endo terms but in this case it gets attention #sysblr #syscource #sysconversation #syscord #syscourse

[sophieinwonderland]

r/systemscringe Server Officially Declares Open Season On Systems

I say "officially" because moderators allowed not only screenshots, but links directly to my blog in their server as far back as December. Basically, since the server was created.

And again...

By the way, who wants to watch r/systemscringe freak out some more over the Holy Trinity's plurality? That's always fun!

And then you all already saw the link to my blog a few days ago:

So after multiple times linking directly to my blog, they finally decided that they can mention my name uncensored??? 🤣

And don't think it's just me either. DissociaDID's name has been mentioned 63 times on their server.

Not sure if they actually needed a formal announcement for backing down on rules they never followed to begin with.

It's funny to see them be like "hey, Sophie made us do this," when they've been doing this since the beginning. This isn't a change. They're just codifying how they've always behaved.

But being so transparent, it does make me feel like I don't need to censor the names of anyone I screenshot in the server from now on, if they're going to stop even pretending to care about posting the information of their victims. (Not that they were ever good at pretending to begin with.)

Speaking of which, this member of a discord server for a subreddit notorious for infiltrating other servers to mine for "cringe" content is angry about spies and moles in this really disgusting post:

Naturally, with zero self-awareness.

Now, I could address the fakeclaiming here.

But can I focus instead on the weird mention of alters in the system being "queer"?

Because for a group that repeatedly claims to totally not be a hate group, they always seem to really zero in on systems being queer.

Oh hey, would you like that with a side of misgendering!

Totally not a hate group! 🙄

Believe it!

Remember when r/systemscringe was post on r/AgainstHateSubreddits?

Aside from the OP, I want to highlight this comment in particular:

This reflects my own experience with the subreddit pretty well, and is especially apparent in the above posts in the server that I screenshotted.

Anyone who has spent any amount of time in that subreddit knows that bigotry in r/systemscringe goes far beyond the pluralphobia.

This is not a secret.

This is who they are and who they've always been.

#queerphobia #syscourse #pro endo #pro endogenic #sysblr #multiplicity #systemscringe #syscord #r/systemscringe #systems cringe #discord #actually plural #actually a system #transphobes #sanism #ableism #hate groups #hate group

[doggboyy]

just a reminder that if you use a typing quirk you're inherently ableist. Yes, you can control it be for real. there is no reason for you to use one. If you acknowledge that typing quirks are harmful and still use one you're ableist and a fucking cunt. okay, you do that but you translate it. woo hoo. That means you know that they suck and you decide to use it anyways cause you can't bear to type actual words. translations still make it harder for visually impaired people. translations have to come before the quirk. it adds an extra step of having to figure out where the quirk is and stopping the screenreader before it reaches that. but none of you care about that cause you don't actually want to listen to disabled people you can type normally. i can't see normally.

#typing quirk #system #syscord

[the-habitat-sysblog]

me when i see a system i recognise from tumblr on discord:

(in a very joyful way)

#no energy to do an image ID #hopefully someone can help? #blurry❔.txt #; #💬 #[ #syscord #did system #endos dni #tulpas dni #traumagenic system #actually traumagenic #cdd community #sysblr #cdd #system #system stuff #]

[tales-from-syscord]

We were in a server where if a user had a certain discomfort towards a media (ex: DSMP, Genshin Impact, MCYT to name a few), the staff would inform any alters whose source was one of those media that they were not allowed to talk in the server. Like at all. Not even in bot channels. I’m happy the server got nuked.

Introjects 👏 aren't 👏 source 👏

I'm so tired of syscords being like "we accept all!" and then being assholes to introjects 😭 I'm glad that server got nuked too anon

#tales from syscord #tales from anon #tales from the queue #dsmp #genshin impact #mcyt #alters #introjects aren't source #source seperation #source #discord server #discord community #discord #syscord server #syscord #introjects #introject #fictives #factives

[deakwithit]

just saw someones ban reason as "said littles can consent" when will syscord learn that littles arent real children...and its dissociating your parts from yourself further by refusing to accept that every single alter is the body age...lol

like atp its roleplaying yall cannot seriously think that one day a little will front while ur at work and u will jsut be a stupid helpless baby who cant do anything. :sob:

please realize that littles are not real children. if a little wants to be treated like a child, awesome! some of ours do too!!! but if a little doesn't, do not treat them like one. a little can be just as mature as an "older" alter. alter age isnt real. you can say you have an age, we do too, but realize it affects genuinely next to nothing

the day people realize this is a serious debilitating disorder and not some weird fantasy roleplay will b the day i rest easy

i hate syscord so much

#syscourse #system discourse #syscord #anti endo #endos dni #mike posting #sung tongs 🐯

[thecouncilofidiots]

Meet The System!

Hello hello, we're a traumagenic DID (likely polyfrgamented) system named The Council.

We use plural they/it pronouns (unless individual ones are known), and are legally/bodily 21+.

We currently have 80+ alters, most of whom are not active here. Those who are typically use our main account/blog @thecouncilofidiots

Do not involve us in syscourse/system discourse.

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Chances are, if we seemingly randomly liked/followed you, it was for one of our alters using their side blog.

Side Blogs Include

@thecouncilsinsideblog -> Sin - NSFW (kink themes, sexual themes, no actual images) - MINORS DNI

@thecouncilacesideblog -> Ace - No Warnings

@thecouncilofsmols -> Littles - SFW ONLY - NSFW DNI

@thecouncilofcreatures -> Nonhumans - No Warnings

@thecouncillollisideblog -> Lolli - NSFW (gore imagery, horror themes, no actual human death images) - MINORS DNI

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Check out our carrd :

#did system #did community #dissociative system #did #actually did #dissociative identity disorder #plurality #plural system #actually plural #plural community #did alter #pluralgang #system things #system stuff #system #did alters #alters #system intro #system info #sysblr #syscord #system discord #traumagenic system